I`ve been on Fabswingers for a while, had a few meets, but unless you are young and good looking, it`s like the clubs, basically got no chance, in fact i`ve given up on the clubs as I think most people are doing their own thing on Fabswingers.
Probably works out cheaper on Adultwork, think of how much you would spend in visits to clubs before you have some fun
The ladies, and couples get tons of emails from single guys.
It`s mainly geared towards couples .
The only way I can think of is to find a female companion and set up a couples profile and just meet couples so you both get your fun with strangers .