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Author Topic: Full sex on a punt part 2  (Read 7488 times)

Offline NIK

Further to the thread I began somewhere down the board about the frustrations of not being capable of having intercourse on a punt, despite taking Viagra the intercourse wasn't that successful on my punt with Nicoletta yesterday.
 First time we tried I was pretty much useless and it was cim. Did manage to get hard enough later for a bit of doggy, but eventually flopped out again and couldn't manage a second pop which I used to do quite often  a few years ago.
I blame the bloody condoms. I'm sure if it wasn't for them dissipating the feeling I'd be as rampant as a stallion!  :cool:
Why did God have to invent sex, then spoil it all by throwing in diseases!  :angry:

Offline dave123

It doesn't matter what make of condom you use it's never as sensitive as without a condom and I always lose a bit of hardness when it's put on, but you can only do this with a woman who is free of STDs which means getting into a relationship. To be honest sex with the wife when it's good is the best. But there just isn't enough of it on offer and the appeal of shagging a variety of girls is enough to get me hard. As I get older I may just have to settle for sex with the wife if Viagra doesn't work. That is if we're still together.

Offline Stukey

NIK,

I had this problem and this year after discovering I had a low testosterone level (now on med for this). Suggest you use a cock ring, experiment with plumbers 'O' rings (rubber, cheap available B&Q etc) til you get the right size. not too tight, but certainly not loose.
Then troll the internet for stainless rings of the same size (not too thick as I have ladies complain). Usually end up coming from Yacht chandlers. I even get referred to as 'a big boy' occassionally when wearing one of these with levitra.

Good luck

Offline rpg

NIK,

I had this problem and this year after discovering I had a low testosterone level (now on med for this). Suggest you use a cock ring, experiment with plumbers 'O' rings (rubber, cheap available B&Q etc) til you get the right size. not too tight, but certainly not loose.
Then troll the internet for stainless rings of the same size (not too thick as I have ladies complain). Usually end up coming from Yacht chandlers. I even get referred to as 'a big boy' occassionally when wearing one of these with levitra.

Good luck

Question about cock rings if you don't mind. I've experimented with them but always take it off fairly soon as I read somewhere they stop you ejaculating ( you orgasm but don't spurt) is this right or can you have a satisfying COF?

If I was you, I would stick to the non penetrative sex. I can't stay hard very long, so I keep penetration short and sweet in mish/cowgirl (not even 5 mins). The rest of the time is foreplay, RO, rimming, fingering, foot fetish, OWO the list goes on. Speak to Nicolletta about ideas to mix it up. Have you thought about food sex? Something I would love to do when I find a good regular. Licking cream and chocolate sauce off a wet juicy pussy, must be heaven.

Try not to think about it too much and just enjoy the sessions.


Offline Tailpipe

Further to the thread I began somewhere down the board about the frustrations of not being capable of having intercourse on a punt, despite taking Viagra the intercourse wasn't that successful on my punt with Nicoletta yesterday.
 First time we tried I was pretty much useless and it was cim. Did manage to get hard enough later for a bit of doggy, but eventually flopped out again and couldn't manage a second pop which I used to do quite often  a few years ago.
I blame the bloody condoms. I'm sure if it wasn't for them dissipating the feeling I'd be as rampant as a stallion!  :cool:
Why did God have to invent sex, then spoil it all by throwing in diseases!  :angry:

I have been off the piss that seems to help , I came inside with a condom this morning made me so happy however I really like this
one I am seeing , and in good old TP fashion crossing lines and a big fucking mess awaits I suppose.

Do not tell smiths as I will be in for a bollocking  :scare:

 

Offline rpg

If I was you, I would stick to the non penetrative sex. I can't stay hard very long, so I keep penetration short and sweet in mish/cowgirl (not even 5 mins). The rest of the time is foreplay, RO, rimming, fingering, foot fetish, OWO the list goes on. Speak to Nicolletta about ideas to mix it up. Have you thought about food sex? Something I would love to do when I find a good regular. Licking cream and chocolate sauce off a wet juicy pussy, must be heaven.

Try not to think about it too much and just enjoy the sessions.

I agree, that's kind of where I am just now.

Offline potato

Some of these problems are medical as suggested but a large majority of them are purely physiological - and its easy to escalate the problem by thinking about it.  Once you fail to perform as you want, you start blaming things - bloody condoms etc., then every time you put a condom on at the back of your mind you expect the worse - and oh look, it happens again...  It can be hard (no pun intended) to get out of this. Some suggest you do some training by getting hard and then wanking with a condom on just to prove to yourself that you can stay hard.  If you can get hard from oral then there is no reason at all why you shouldn't be able to perform penetration with a condom.  The biggest sex organ is the brain of course.  A half hour brisk walk each day will help as will pelvic floor exercises which you can anywhere..

There was a trick that one of the TV doctors suggested sometime back Dr Christian whatever his name is for those people that couldn't get a hard on at all  ( or didn't think they could). His suggestion was that last thing of a night you did the postage stamp trick.  On the old sheets of stamps - the ones you had to lick -  you take the thin strip of the outer margin. lick it and then stick it tightly around the base of your cock so you have a tight paper ring. In the morning, you check the ring and if its broken then you must have had the "morning hard on" at some time in the early morning proving that you could get an erection - thus the problem was psychological. Best not try it with cheese wire....
« Last Edit: November 30, 2013, 12:58:27 PM by ellwoodpdowd »

Offline smiths

I have been off the piss that seems to help , I came inside with a condom this morning made me so happy however I really like this
one I am seeing , and in good old TP fashion crossing lines and a big fucking mess awaits I suppose.

Do not tell smiths as I will be in for a bollocking  :scare:

 :D ;)

My issue seemed to be lack of a thrill with full sex. I can get hard but work to stay interested and hard. Sometimes I lose erection because the effort becomes more obvious than the thrill I am getting in return. I always manage to get hard again and cum, but I tend to cum when I decide to and of late on a 1hour punt I have lost interest around 25 minutes and decided to cum....just to end it and get to of there. The thrill is gone...maybe time to give up punting. I get more thrill leading up to the punt than during the punt itself in more recent times and the uncertainty sweeping across current AW profiles is turning even that thrill to one of apprehension and uncertainty about the actual service one will get.

Offline NIK

If I was you, I would stick to the non penetrative sex. I can't stay hard very long, so I keep penetration short and sweet in mish/cowgirl (not even 5 mins). The rest of the time is foreplay, RO, rimming, fingering, foot fetish, OWO the list goes on. Speak to Nicolletta about ideas to mix it up. Have you thought about food sex? Something I would love to do when I find a good regular. Licking cream and chocolate sauce off a wet juicy pussy, must be heaven.

Try not to think about it too much and just enjoy the sessions.

Yes I am into and have tried most of the above. She used a toy both on herself and me for the first time in all our meetings. Also a 'cock ring' - we'll she tied something round it (again for the first time) but it helped.
I am into and have tried most things but food sex which I haven't tried, but seen in films I'm afraid I find a turn off  - it just seems messy!

Offline potata72

My dick definitely doesn't respond well to Condoms, I do manage intercourse most of the time but there's always a bit of a rush to get it in before it loses sufficient hard-ness.

Nerves definitely play a significant part for me too.  For example for most WGs I've seen more than once, on the first visit we've usually not done intercourse because I'm just automatically more nervous (even if relatively comfortable overall).  But when I see them more than once I get more comfortable with them and usually don't struggle at all for intercourse on repeat visits.

Offline SirPhilipXX

My issue seemed to be lack of a thrill with full sex. I can get hard but work to stay interested and hard. Sometimes I lose erection because the effort becomes more obvious than the thrill I am getting in return. I always manage to get hard again and cum, but I tend to cum when I decide to and of late on a 1hour punt I have lost interest around 25 minutes and decided to cum....just to end it and get to of there. The thrill is gone...maybe time to give up punting. I get more thrill leading up to the punt than during the punt itself in more recent times and the uncertainty sweeping across current AW profiles is turning even that thrill to one of apprehension and uncertainty about the actual service one will get.
My dick definitely doesn't respond well to Condoms, I do manage intercourse most of the time but there's always a bit of a rush to get it in before it loses sufficient hard-ness.

Nerves definitely play a significant part for me too.  For example for most WGs I've seen more than once, on the first visit we've usually not done intercourse because I'm just automatically more nervous (even if relatively comfortable overall).  But when I see them more than once I get more comfortable with them and usually don't struggle at all for intercourse on repeat visits.

Guys, it's clear to me that whilst you enjoy punting, you don't enjoy protected penetrative sex; so why not try seeing a WG who keeps things simple, doesn't offer penetrative sex but just concentrates on giving her clients a really good old-fashioned blow job? Cheap, quick and very satisfying!
We have one such WG in Cardiff who has been getting good reviews lately, on this site and on AW:
https://www.adultwork.com/1390124 or https://www.adultwork.com/Jodie+loves+cock+x



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Offline potata72

Guys, it's clear to me that whilst you enjoy punting, you don't enjoy protected penetrative sex; so why not try seeing a WG who keeps things simple, doesn't offer penetrative sex but just concentrates on giving her clients a really good old-fashioned blow job? Cheap, quick and very satisfying!
We have one such WG in Cardiff who has been getting good reviews lately, on this site and on AW:
https://www.adultwork.com/1390124 or https://www.adultwork.com/Jodie+loves+cock+x

Wrong.  Once I'm in, I enjoy penetrative sex and there's no problems.


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Offline SirPhilipXX

Wrong.  Once I'm in, I enjoy penetrative sex and there's no problems.
Sorry if I misunderstood you; I thought that the need to use condoms was the problem. I find that if done well, owo is sometimes better than penetrative sex.

Offline baltar

I had this problem recently. But its also the first time I had been taking Modafinil and this other medication, both of which are known to potentially give you sexual disfunction. What was especially irritating is that in addition to it being much harder to cum, it also made it harder to main a very hard erection (lol pun).

I've usually always found that I am more likely to have problems cumming with a WG. In fact I remember having a problem my first time in about 2002, with some escort from BestEscort4U. At a certain point she says 'ok I give you 10 mins', or something. I had seen her for an hour and still not cum. I swear looking back it was still the most athletic sex I've had with a WG, maybe Im just really weak now.... anyway getting off topic ..... Im not certain if that was extra time or she was saying I had 10 mins left on the clock. At any rate maybe a year layer I got into a relationship that lasted a couple of years, I had premature ejaculation so bad with this girl at the start that it wasn't uncommon for me to cum pretty much straight away, or with just her rubbing herself on me.

From what I can determine from all my experiences, its really about the buildup and tension. With that girl above there was a lot of buildup, and she really turned me on. With a WG there is no build up, my brain has no time to get into it and get super turned on by them. I just have to immediately go into it because, you know, I just see pound coins and notes falling in front of my eyes as my time tickets down.  They arent wrong when they say the brain is the most important erogenous zone. I thought that was more or less hippy crap for a long time.

Offline G-Raw

Bringing really thin condoms might help, probably been mentioned before. I find that I really hard when I am with a WG girl who I am comfortable with and have seen before, and that they are smoking hot of course, tried seeing someone else?

Offline baltar

Sorry if I misunderstood you; I thought that the need to use condoms was the problem. I find that if done well, owo is sometimes better than penetrative sex.

I've found that I actually enjoy 69 the most, for me the excitement of sex wears off quickly. Im so ADD I get bored quickly hahaha. For me sex is great at first, then its great for the views, then good for kissing at the same time, but quickly starts becoming a chore. lol .  I've had to try and find the excitement in doggy because that seems to be the most popular position for women, because normally I find this the most boring.
« Last Edit: December 01, 2013, 02:27:58 AM by baltar »

Offline G-Raw

I've found that I actually enjoy 69 the most, for me the excitement of sex wears off quickly. Im so ADD I get bored quickly hahaha. For me sex is great at first, then its great for the views, but quickly starts becoming a chore. lol

I got to say, the foreplay and kissing/FK I enjoy more if not equally compared to penetration.

Offline baltar

I got to say, the foreplay and kissing/FK I enjoy more if not equally compared to penetration.

To be fair foreplay is like my favourite part.
Its why i cant understand someone who will see a girl that doesnt do any of that, and they'll just have sex with her. I'd rather stay home and watch porn frankly... well... maybe if she was really hot.

Offline G-Raw

To be fair foreplay is like my favourite part.
Its why i cant understand someone who will see a girl that doesnt do any of that, and they'll just have sex with her. I'd rather stay home and watch porn frankly... well... maybe if she was really hot.

 :hi: Those WGs annoy me, I don't mean to disrespect any WGs here that doesn't provide foreplay and kissing for health concerns but I've seen WGs with ridiculous rates that doesn't provide it and I am pretty certain that is the "selling-point" to some people.

Offline Trenlover

Again this highlights the advantages of finding a regular prossie your comfortable with, there you can use an ultra thin condoms or go bareback if you trust each other.

Having a steady regular is 10x better than random punting. Both for you and the prossie. Just be careful not to develop intimate feelings for her :)

Best to stick to prossie;s whom you are only moderately attracted to. If you find her REALLY attractive more chance youll fall in love.

Offline PuntingPete

NIK,

I had this problem and this year after discovering I had a low testosterone level (now on med for this). Suggest you use a cock ring, experiment with plumbers 'O' rings (rubber, cheap available B&Q etc) til you get the right size. not too tight, but certainly not loose.
Then troll the internet for stainless rings of the same size (not too thick as I have ladies complain). Usually end up coming from Yacht chandlers. I even get referred to as 'a big boy' occassionally when wearing one of these with levitra.

Good luck

I wouldn't recommend trying them on in B&Q, buy a couple of different sizes & try them at home  ;)

Offline G-Raw

Best to stick to prossie;s whom you are only moderately attracted to. If you find her REALLY attractive more chance youll fall in love.

This. I need to drill this into my head, been seeing this 1 WG, damn she is hot, polite, cute and the perfect match for "my type". When we shag, I sometimes think "shame we met under these circumstances".  :cry:

Offline Trenlover

This. I need to drill this into my head, been seeing this 1 WG, damn she is hot, polite, cute and the perfect match for "my type". When we shag, I sometimes think "shame we met under these circumstances".  :cry:

Aye you need to be really careful, strong feelings can come on really quickly. And they can last for years. Take it from me falling for a WG is only pure agony.


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