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Author Topic: Girls not having outfits,lingerie, hair, make-up as per photos during punts.Boo!  (Read 6982 times)

Offline RedAlertTourist

Hello people

You know how it goes. You see a profile of a girl you like on Adultwork.com and in all her Gallery and Private Gallery photos you see her modelling elegant silk dresses and high heels, expensive sexy lingerie (basques, corsets, fishnet body suits, stockings and hold ups), wearing gorgeous make up, hair looking straight, fabulous and done up.

However when you actually arrive she's wearing tatty mismatching colour Bra Knickers and the same Primark dress everytime you meet, her hairs flat and she's not wearing make up.

One of my favourite Escorts is naturally pretty anyways- BUT I cannot get over how Hot she looks in her Private Gallery Pictures in various Lingerie Sets, Silky Cocktail Dresses, and she looks that ever so much fuckable wearing make up.

Is there anyway of saying "a little more effort" on your appearence without causing offence?

I suppose the most simple way is to ask her to dress up like she does in whatever pic you like.

Offline RedAlertTourist

I suppose the most simple way is to ask her to dress up like she does in whatever pic you like.

I already tried that with my regular (asking for a black lingerie set- complete with pink make up and her hair straightened beforehand) but upon arrival she was back in her usual black dress and mistmatching undies/bra, mascara running down her face and her hair was unstraigtened.

I think with girls who leave more time between punters (1 hour to freshen up) usually are better at Lingerie requests and re-applying make up etc.

Its "production line" Escorts who literally leave less than 5 minutes between clients who tend to be the messiest.
« Last Edit: March 03, 2011, 07:46:17 PM by RedAlertTourist »

Offline James999

Generally I've found most girls to be very accomodating with regard to lingerie requests etc, in particular girls who I;ve seen before and repeat bookings.

If I turned up and the girl wasn't wearing what we'd agreed I'd be tempted to say, "ok, ill wait here while you go and get ready" and in the unlikely event that the excuse (not got outfit with her) then consider saying, ok well when will you have it and Ill come back then.

If you agree with a girl how she will dress then she should (within reason) dress as agreed, how would she feel if you changed the terms and paid her £80 instead of £120 ?

Offline RedAlertTourist

Generally I've found most girls to be very accomodating with regard to lingerie requests etc, in particular girls who I;ve seen before and repeat bookings.

If I turned up and the girl wasn't wearing what we'd agreed I'd be tempted to say, "ok, ill wait here while you go and get ready" and in the unlikely event that the excuse (not got outfit with her) then consider saying, ok well when will you have it and Ill come back then.

If you agree with a girl how she will dress then she should (within reason) dress as agreed, how would she feel if you changed the terms and paid her £80 instead of £120 ?

Ok but what if she is a "production line" Escort who literally jumps from one client to another and you're your booking is sandwiched between two other Men?

That's the exact problem; "on whose time" is it to get ready into an outfit with said make up and what would you say if she made the 1 hour booking only 40 minutes because she spent the first 20 minutes getting ready?

Offline James999

Ok but what if she is a "production line" Escort who literally jumps from one client to another and you're your booking is sandwiched between two other Men?

That's the exact problem; "on whose time" is it to get ready into an outfit with said make up and what would you say if she made the 1 hour booking only 40 minutes because she spent the first 20 minutes getting ready?

Get another Sim and book her in a seperate name for an hour before your booking, then 10 mins after that booking was supposed to start Text her and cancel that booking. Then bin the Sim.

Half an hour later from your own phone (Punting phone) text her and say you are on your way and looking forward to seeing her in XYZ outfit.

She will be pissed that she had a cancellation (but not pissed with you) in fact she will be glad you have confirmed you are on your way.... and she will have will have 50 mins to get ready for you (and 30 mons after you reminded her) , she will be glad to see you and of course she will be fresher as she's not just been banged senseless the hour before your booking.

She can moan and whinge and put the "other guy" and his number all over the internet as a no show and it doesn't matter as the Sim has gone and not connected to you.

The above of course will be unpopular with the girls on here who read it, but well it's "putting the punter first"

Offline Lurtz

I already tried that with my regular (asking for a black lingerie set- complete with pink make up and her hair straightened beforehand) but upon arrival she was back in her usual black dress and mistmatching undies/bra, mascara running down her face and her hair was unstraigtened.

I think with girls who leave more time between punters (1 hour to freshen up) usually are better at Lingerie requests and re-applying make up etc.

Its "production line" Escorts who literally leave less than 5 minutes between clients who tend to be the messiest.

You could try saying:

"I don't want to seem as if I'm making unreasonable requests or anything, but would it be possible for you to wear a plain black dress over some mismatching bra & pants, and perhaps go sparingly on the make-up this week, thereby creating an impression that you haven't made much effort to doll yourself up prior to my arrival?"



Offline Matium



However when you actually arrive she's wearing tatty mismatching colour Bra Knickers and the same Primark dress everytime you meet, her hairs flat and she's not wearing make up.


everytime you meet ?

You don't meet her at all!

Goodness, if. when you arrive, you see that the girl hasn't bothered to wear the costume you asked for and she hasn't made an effort to doll herself up for you - then you don't proceed with the punt - you just look at her, say "No" and walk away.

If you carry on then you have only yourself to blame for a bad punt.

Offline Marmalade

Get another Sim and book her in a seperate name for an hour before your booking, then 10 mins after that booking was supposed to start Text her and cancel that booking. Then bin the Sim.
The above of course will be unpopular with the girls on here who read it, but well it's "putting the punter first"

I suppose it depends on your personal levels and how far you are prepared to push deception.

I've been happy to book half hours, partly cos that's my preference and preferred price, yet knowing that a girl will often let half hours run into 3/4 hr. Whereas 1hr punts can easily be finished and out the door in 55mins unless you include a 'full schedule' beforehand.

My problem with downright deceptive methods, such as James often suggests, is that they contribute to an atmosphere of suspicion that eventually downgrades the punting experience. This is particularly noticeable when travelling - even to England. When SPs get used to punters trying to mess them about, they become harder work, put up more barriers, and tend to give less good value overall. For this reason also, there are circles where info about good SPs is circulated privately, and people such as James screened out.

Of course, it works the other way too. WGs who routinely chisel the punter create such an atmosphere of suspicion over punting that the punter has to spend 9/10th of his time keeping his wits about him and 1/10th of the time enjoying the punt. Buying multiple SIM cards just to deceive a WG is not the way I particularly want to enjoy my leisure hour. :rolleyes:

Offline Marmalade

"on whose time" is it to get ready into an outfit with said make up and what would you say if she made the 1 hour booking only 40 minutes because she spent the first 20 minutes getting ready?

I have not had this problem. One reason is that the younger woman needs less time to look 'perfect' (needs less make-up) and the classier or more intelligent woman has the skill to choose outfits that minimize on time and effort.

With a regular WG where a degree of trust has developed, I will openly negotiate. If I am paying top whack, I will point this out and say I think it is not unreasonable to expect so-and-so - whether it is anal or particular outfits. I am also very fussy on her arriving on time and make a point of this. A good negotiator will sometimes negotiate up to an hour (from my half hour) but give me a reduced rate or include anal and outfits at no extra charge. For an outcall, I don't include the time for her to get changed, and make this clear before the booking is confirmed.

Just expecting her to do what you expect without making it clear is a formula for disaster. Why should she pull out all the stops if you do not insist? But insisting firmly and politely before concluding the deal gets better results than complaining at the start of the booking, or even applying deception (She may simply decide she has time to eat pizza/phone friends. The smartass approach sounds impressive, but I am more concerned with reliable results.)

Offline Marmalade

Goodness, if. when you arrive, you see that the girl hasn't bothered to wear the costume you asked for and she hasn't made an effort to doll herself up for you - then you don't proceed with the punt - you just look at her, say "No" and walk away.

If you carry on then you have only yourself to blame for a bad punt.
No-one gets it perfect all the time. But I'd say you have yourself to blame for getting into that position and not making 100% certain at the time of the booking that she will deliver. I've been caught out more than once like this and so developed a habit of giving specific instructions on clothing and getting her agreement.

It is annoying that her photos took her three hours in prep to look glamorous and then she turns up looking rough. But if I'm paying a low price for a half hour then there is only so much that she is going to do ad lib. It's pretty dumb to expect otherwise IMO. So get it sorted out at the time of booking. Just "walking away" when she hasn't done as you expected might be a good thing to do - but it means no ball-sack-emptied - or time (ie my time, my money) to find an alternative or go to Plan B. Far smarter not to be disappointed in the first place.

I'm only expressing my opinions and methods - if you have worked out other means that work for you, great.

Offline smiths

If my simple request to dress as suits me didnt happen i would go elsewhere. This has very rarely been an issue in my experience.

If the WG took too long to get ready in my paid for time or i didnt get the time agreed and paid for i wouldnt punt with her again as it would of shown me she hasnt the kind of attitude that i require.

Offline ladyofthemansion

Get another Sim and book her in a seperate name for an hour before your booking, then 10 mins after that booking was supposed to start Text her and cancel that booking. Then bin the Sim.

Half an hour later from your own phone (Punting phone) text her and say you are on your way and looking forward to seeing her in XYZ outfit.

She will be pissed that she had a cancellation (but not pissed with you) in fact she will be glad you have confirmed you are on your way.... and she will have will have 50 mins to get ready for you (and 30 mons after you reminded her) , she will be glad to see you and of course she will be fresher as she's not just been banged senseless the hour before your booking.

She can moan and whinge and put the "other guy" and his number all over the internet as a no show and it doesn't matter as the Sim has gone and not connected to you.

The above of course will be unpopular with the girls on here who read it, but well it's "putting the punter first"

Girls who double book will feel justified after reading this.

Offline James999

Girls who double book will feel justified after reading this.

If you wish to double book clients thats up to you.

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Offline ladyofthemansion

If you wish to double book clients thats up to you.

.

I never said I would do that. I simply dont do an appointment system at all when in areas that guys are known to fuck about. However, girls can read. There could well be some that will be tempted to start double booking after reading what you have said. So you are actually technically speaking, potentially affecting other punters. Your idea could so easily backfire on you too. The lady may not necessarily be very happy and fresh when you arrive. She could be stressed out because she's lost money. There is a possibility she may have had a standby close by anyway to replace the no show, then could end up texting you to say she is running late. Am not saying it is right for her to do back to back, but if guys didn't fuck about so much there would be no need.

Offline James999

The chances of a girl reading and reading this board are small, add to that the chance of her changing her working way are even smaller, but if the guy wants to overcome the remote possibility then put in Two fake bookings, after all he has nothing to lose as the girl is doing back to back bookings and is not ready anyway.

Offline ladyofthemansion

The chances of a girl reading and reading this board are small, add to that the chance of her changing her working way are even smaller, but if the guy wants to overcome the remote possibility then put in Two fake bookings, after all he has nothing to lose as the girl is doing back to back bookings and is not ready anyway.

I will be publishing what you wrote on the girly boards.

Offline James999

I will be publishing what you wrote on the girly boards.

Is that supposed to bother me?

Offline softlad

I will be publishing what you wrote on the girly boards.

Not a good idea, things will escalate, what's said here should stay here. imo.  ;)

Offline James999

Not a good idea, things will escalate, what's said here should stay here. imo.  ;)

The amount of Active Prostitutes that read the boards is minute as a percentage of the girls working, it is mostly the older / paranoid ones with few / no bookings who have nothing else to do, the younger / fitter girls and the few older more attractive ones tend to have better things to do (such as bookings) to waste their time on forums.

It does make a case for their being a punters only section though.

Offline ladyofthemansion

Not a good idea, things will escalate, what's said here should stay here. imo.  ;)

Wont mention UKP and its only going in a place where only ladies can read it.

Offline softlad

Wont mention UKP and its only going in a place where only ladies can read it.

Why bother ?
You've had this before have you not ?

Offline ladyofthemansion


Offline softlad

Had what?

You have been in trouble here for quoting posts elsewhere, or am I wrong ?

at first i thought 999's double sim/2hour booking idea was possibly a piss take to wind up the girls.

now im not so sure.  I personally think this is a cruel trick and not only affects the girls pocket but probably fucks her head up too.

I have always used the treat people as i expect to be treated approach to everything including punting and i reckon any one this devious is just gonna fuck it up for everyone else in the long run.

call me naive or whatever but i have never had to use underhand methods when punting. 
Maybe a lack of communication skills and social confidence affect the odd punter in such ways they have to be nasty little cnuts to get there kicks? :blush:


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