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Author Topic: WG's asking wether you have a girlfriend or wife.  (Read 10230 times)

Offline kenw1

Well; I'd be bad news for them, then.  I've neither wife nor girlfriend.

Which is, of course, why I punt!

Same here.

Offline toon972

The first time I had seen one wg she was showing me pics of one of her sons.He had been fighting at school got a black eye and she had taken a pic.

Offline csmith

i got shown a picture of the family dog once who happened to be playing with the son who was apparently 14, bearing in mind the lady in question had an advertised age of 23 my brain nearly melted. had a great time with her but all that was enough to put me off, well, that and she told me she wanted to get out of escorting which made me feel even more uneasy.

Don't think I've ever been asked! I guess a cursory glance at my flat would prove to the most short-sighted it's a bachelor pad.

Offline theotherside

Why are they even asking. Its got nothing to do with them. I always feel a pang of awkwardness when they ask if I have a bf and wouldn't want to do that to someone. If they want to talk about it it's up to them.

Offline SteveNova

I've never been asked - as yet !  Maybe after seeing a regular a number of times it could crop up, but I wouldn't expect it initially.

Offline skittish

Can't say I've ever been asked such questions or been shown the family album. I suppose it helps when they can only just muster a few words like hi,baby,eighty,hundred,twenty,extra,don't do and no!

Been asked a few times if I have a gf/wife/ kids , I tell them the truth, kids - yes,  gf- yes, wife - no. The next question is usually"why are you punting then"
The answer is - I love the kids , the missus is a good mother but a shit lover - hence I go elsewhere rather than split up , shuts up all but the most moralistic :D

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Offline mystery7

Its weird. I always thought WGs would like younger, single, fitter guys than married, older guys. But this doesn't seem to be case in my experience, as most encounters I've had the girls have been indifferent and not even slightly interested in knowing anything about me. Think I've dodged a bullet there :cool:
Banning reason: Abusive + Obsessing over prossie

Wiltsboy01

Indeed, especially Brit WGs in my experiences, many talk about their partners and families without me asking.

Yeah its weird, real names all that malarkey. 

I also have a couple of EEs as Facebook friends now too.  One posted pictures of herself at a wedding now she is back in Poland.  She was the most unlikely pro$$ie ever and only lasted 3 days on AW.  Love looking at her life on FB knowing I've done her.

Haha ever the romantic :)

Offline skittish

Yeah its weird, real names all that malarkey. 

I also have a couple of EEs as Facebook friends now too.  One posted pictures of herself at a wedding now she is back in Poland.  She was the most unlikely pro$$ie ever and only lasted 3 days on AW.  Love looking at her life on FB knowing I've done her.

Haha ever the romantic :)

If I ever show that sort of attachment please shoot me  :music:

Offline Strawberry

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Its weird. I always thought WGs would like younger, single, fitter guys than married, older guys. But this doesn't seem to be case in my experience, as most encounters I've had the girls have been indifferent and not even slightly interested in knowing anything about me. Think I've dodged a bullet there :cool:

Not all women find themselves attracted to 'young'  men, then as clients some young men can be more scatty, more of a handful than those with a few years behind them. Ever come across youngsters who think or act as if the world owes them something?Add in sex,lack of life experience and reasonable quantities of cash and that attitude is suddenly exaggerated several times.

Many younger men however are absolutely fine, and some older men maintain the same attitudes so definitely a good idea to try and treat every person as an individual.

Sometimes young men will send 'I'm young, big cock, will give you a good hard shagging, can I have a discount' texts or emails thinking these 'attributes' are something a service provider is going to enjoy,and give him priority over someone older/smaller cock/who won't give them a hard energetic pounding.
« Last Edit: November 23, 2013, 06:54:11 AM by Strawberry »

Offline daviemac

I've read this as well, I don't think it represent all prossies though. Some would baulk at having to shag a man who might be 20 years older than themselves or married men as it is cheating. I always thought the idea was to perform multiple positions and have some good sex, not drink cups of tea and listen to the prossie spout pretentious twaddle.

The best Q & A was:
- Do you have a girlfriend?
me: No
- You should have.

It might be that type of attitude that makes girls prefer older men, I don't mind having a conversation with any WG I'm with if she asks if I'm married or got kids I'll tell her, why not?

If I can I always tell them in advance that I'm an older guy and I'm not 20 years older I'm quite often 40 + years older and I've yet to find one who's "baulked", every one I've met have said they enjoy spending time with more mature men.

I know WG's are providing a service but I have always found if you put a little bit of effort into the meeting the rewards by far out-way my being sociable and treating them as humans.

There's no need to get onto exchanging life stories but a bit of communication between two people works wonders, if I know what a girl likes and she knows what I like equals better sex, not like shagging a blowup doll!!     

Not all women find themselves attracted to 'young'  men, then as clients some young men can be more scatty, more of a handful than those with a few years behind them. Ever come across youngsters who think or act as if the world owes them something?Add in sex,lack of life experience and reasonable quantities of cash and that attitude is suddenly exaggerated several times.

Many younger men however are absolutely fine, and some older men maintain the same attitudes so definitely a good idea to try and treat every person as an individual.

Sometimes young men will send 'I'm young, big cock, will give you a good hard shagging, can I have a discount' texts or emails thinking these 'attributes' are something a service provider is going to enjoy,and give him priority over someone older/smaller cock/who won't give them a hard energetic pounding.

brilliant, funny post :D

Offline LL

They usually don't need to ask me as I wear a wedding ring.  It's when they start asking about your kids.  That's sometimes a headfuck (depends whether I've "connected" with the girl enough to feel comfortable about it).  Sometimes that topic will make me feel guilty about being there and I'll want to finish up quickly (maybe that's their aim?)  :)

Offline ceedee

I tell them the truth:-

"I've had a lot of wives but only 2 were mine"

Offline Jimmyredcab

I have never been asked that question, I always assumed they couldn't give a fuck.     :unknown:

Offline yantob27

I've been asked a couple of times back in the old parlour days. At the time I could legitimately say no.

Wiltsboy01

If I ever show that sort of attachment please shoot me  :music:

Knowing the real life of a pro$$ie isn't attachment - it just makes it a bit more tingly (if you like) in the gentleman's area for me.

When I see her on FB looking happy with her partner at a wedding, or with her friends in a bar, it makes me remember fondly when she was on my face :)

Online Ali Katt

It might be that type of attitude that makes girls prefer older men, I don't mind having a conversation with any WG I'm with if she asks if I'm married or got kids I'll tell her, why not?

If I can I always tell them in advance that I'm an older guy and I'm not 20 years older I'm quite often 40 + years older and I've yet to find one who's "baulked", every one I've met have said they enjoy spending time with more mature men.

I know WG's are providing a service but I have always found if you put a little bit of effort into the meeting the rewards by far out-way my being sociable and treating them as humans.

There's no need to get onto exchanging life stories but a bit of communication between two people works wonders, if I know what a girl likes and she knows what I like equals better sex, not like shagging a blowup doll!!   
Fair point. I was referring to some profiles I've read that say they only see men under 50 etc, but as you say there are many that prefer older men. I don't mind a bit of chat, but not so much so that I talk half my time away and yes it has happened before.

Offline CBPaul

I'm asked pretty much every time I see a new girl now and it has happened more often as I get older.

I generally say an outright no as I found that the truth (i.e. yes) leads on to more questions regarding why I'm visiting a wg, do I have kids and then them volunteering shit loads of information about their family and kids. I don't feel that I should hide my martial status but I'm not paying for a prolonged chat about by family, better to talk about mundane brain rot whilst awaiting stiffness for round 2. 

Offline aerofan5

I do most of my punting in USA and I constantly get a gabfest after the first pop.

It's like life history time, so I have to make up stuff somewhat in order to keep them amused.

Then I say "OK, that's me, now what about you?"

I then have to listen to her tales for a while until it's time for the next pop!

I have heard some really interesting stories.

Offline baltar

Just tell them you are Gay, confuses the fuck out of them  :sarcastic:

Oh I only have sex with men!

Offline Andre 3000

It's a question usually asked post or mid break in a punt. A trip to the bathroom usually get them asking questions. As they see my missus hairbrush and makeup stuff.

I do remember when on a break during a punt, asking a polish girl if she had a BF. She told me she did and he was back in Poland and thought that she was over in the UK doing a reception job. I must admit that turned me on that here she was in my bed and we'd just had an absolutely filthy shag.

Had to give her a big facial in our second round.

I bet a lot of guys take their wedding rings off before going for some fun


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