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What is your experience of WG's asking about your other halves? In mine, the ones that ask, do so before or after the punt. I find when they do, they're usually lookin at me in a lusty way.. Whether that means she's interested in me in a way more than than her work or its a tactic to insure return business!

Again in my experience those that do, have given me alittle more time, haven't felt rushed. No issues with them, yours might be different.

Firstly do u admit u have one? or do you play the single game? All the time I've been honest which means mostly I say I have a girlfriend! Upon which the reply I usually get is I knew you did...

Anyway ur opinions please, plus is there any benifit for or against admitting you have or haven't got a partner? 

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What is your experience of WG's asking about your other halves? In mine, the ones that ask, do so before or after the punt. I find when they do, they're usually lookin at me in a lusty way.. Whether that means she's interested in me in a way more than than her work or its a tactic to insure return business!

Again in my experience those that do, have given me alittle more time, haven't felt rushed. No issues with them, yours might be different.

Firstly do u admit u have one? or do you play the single game? All the time I've been honest which means mostly I say I have a girlfriend! Upon which the reply I usually get is I knew you did...

Anyway ur opinions please, plus is there any benifit for or against admitting you have or haven't got a partner?


When prossies ask me if I have a wife I tell them being a Mormon I have many wives, and the biatches can't satisfy me enough - that soon removes their lusty looks off me  :cool:


Offline Corus Boy

Like punters I feel WGs vary and will ask and react in different ways.

I do remember an escort that I visited regularly and after my divorce it was like being with a different girl!  When I raised this with her she explained that she felt more comfortable with me when I was single.

cjkanye02

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I hate this question. It would go down like a lead balloon if we asked most girls their relationship status...

JB1969

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I would feel uncomfortable, honestly.  Unless it is something I raised it is none of her business.

Roland D Hay

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I find that they mostly assume that I am and I'm never quite sure they believe me when I say that I'm not. It would never cross my mind to ask a girl her relationship status, I'm not remotely interested.

James999

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Just tell them you are Gay, confuses the fuck out of them  :sarcastic:

Offline Trenlover

From reading the SAAFE forums I get the impression WG's prefer older or married men already in relationships. The reasons ranging from,  these men "easier", not as much work for them, to these men being less likely to become attached.

I even read one thread where the WG complained about young guys usually having too much sex in various positions and trying to "get their moneys worth".

Young AND single guys are apparently quite a turn off for the majority of WG's.

I got this question quite alot from WG's though usually it was after we had done the business.
« Last Edit: November 22, 2013, 07:11:02 pm by Trenlover »

Offline smiths

What is your experience of WG's asking about your other halves? In mine, the ones that ask, do so before or after the punt. I find when they do, they're usually lookin at me in a lusty way.. Whether that means she's interested in me in a way more than than her work or its a tactic to insure return business!

Again in my experience those that do, have given me alittle more time, haven't felt rushed. No issues with them, yours might be different.

Firstly do u admit u have one? or do you play the single game? All the time I've been honest which means mostly I say I have a girlfriend! Upon which the reply I usually get is I knew you did...

Anyway ur opinions please, plus is there any benifit for or against admitting you have or haven't got a partner?

As with everything i say to WGs i make it all up, its none of a WGs business whether i have a partner or not anymore than its the business of anyone i do business with. I dont ask WGs such questions although its amazing how many talk about their personal lifes anyway.

Offline akauya

Just tell them you are Gay, confuses the fuck out of them  :sarcastic:

Fucking brilliant  :D - deserves to be in the best line of the week thread 

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I have two experiences.

A WG coming round my flat and seeing a pair of high heels and asking if they were my GFs. I said I don't class as my GF, but she might say otherwise. She did not look too impressed

THe second time was when I was talking to a WG post-event and showed her a picture of a girl sucking my cock......and she actually looked jealous that another sucked my cock AND i was not paying..hahaha

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From reading the SAAFE forums I get the impression WG's prefer older or married men already in relationships. The reasons ranging from,  these men "easier", not as much work for them, to these men being less likely to become attached.

I even read one thread where the WG complained about young guys usually having too much sex in various positions and trying to "get their moneys worth".

Young AND single guys are apparently quite a turn off for the majority of WG's.

I got this question quite alot from WG's though usually it was after we had done the business.
I've read this as well, I don't think it represent all prossies though. Some would baulk at having to shag a man who might be 20 years older than themselves or married men as it is cheating. I always thought the idea was to perform multiple positions and have some good sex, not drink cups of tea and listen to the prossie spout pretentious twaddle.

The best Q & A was:
- Do you have a girlfriend?
me: No
- You should have.

Rochdull lad

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The best Q & A was:
- Do you have a girlfriend?
me: No
- You should have.

Well; I'd be bad news for them, then.  I've neither wife nor girlfriend.

Which is, of course, why I punt!

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As with everything i say to WGs i make it all up, its none of a WGs business whether i have a partner or not anymore than its the business of anyone i do business with. I dont ask WGs such questions although its amazing how many talk about their personal lifes anyway.
Agreed. I can second guess the questions they will ask. I'm sure there must be some manual somewhere: Do you want a shower? Where do you work? Are you going out tonight? Who have you seen before?

I think it's more a case of the girl trying to make conversation, but I make a habit of avoiding questions about my private life. After all WGs claim to be all about discretion.

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Agreed. I can second guess the questions they will ask. I'm sure there must be some manual somewhere: Do you want a shower? Where do you work? Are you going out tonight? Who have you seen before?

I think it's more a case of the girl trying to make conversation, but I make a habit of avoiding questions about my private life. After all WGs claim to be all about discretion.

I agree its 9 times out of 10 going to be a WG just making conversation but as the Panel999 sad matter showed being honest about your personal circumstances and giving a WG too much info can cause problems. IMO best to avoid any risk. :hi:

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I am actually shocked reading this thread.  You are paying the prossie for a fantasy so why the hell would she even think to ask if you are married?  Its none of her business and bringing it up will surely ruin the fantasy she is supposed to have helped build for you.  I can honestly say I have never asked a client if he was married/single/had a GF or if he had kids or what job he did. 
It is none of my business and I feel it would be rude to ask.  Obviously if he brings it up then he wants to discuss it so that is different but it is not for me to bring into the conversation at any point of the booking.  I am being paid so he can for a short period of time forget about any responsibilities or stress he may have in his life and just relax and enjoy himself.  Reminding a client they have a wife/GF by asking this will just bring those responsibilities into the booking which I imagine could then instil feelings of guilt for many guys.

We all bitch and moan an Saafe if a client asks us this (some go as far as to assume he is going to become a stalker for asking) as again it is none of his business so why would any of us ask a client.  Totally puzzled by this as it seems from this thread to not just be a one off

**walks away scratching her head in puzzlement**

Persie

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I agree its 9 times out of 10 going to be a WG just making conversation but as the Panel999 sad matter showed being honest about your personal circumstances and giving a WG too much info can cause problems. IMO best to avoid any risk. :hi:
How would this cause a problem?
Or am I being naive? What stuff has occured - being in mind I live in London whcih is pretty anonymous. I don't even know my neighbours

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TBH Dani even if a prossie has a partner, I can pretty much guarantee he will get mentioned at some time. As you say it is a fantasy, to an extent, but I know from experience some don't seem to realise this, whether it is through a lack of self-awareness or the girl is just being rude is anyone's guess.

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Had a couple and as you say its an innuendo for more but the forget kids mean far more than to risk that other than a 'secret' life

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How would this cause a problem?
Or am I being naive? What stuff has occured - being in mind I live in London whcih is pretty anonymous. I don't even know my neighbours

Because the punter Panel999 gave a WG too much personal info about himself and when she objected to him mentioning the price he paid her for a reverse booking on a review on here he did on her she threatened him. There are some really nasty people about of course and who knows if a newbie WG to you is one or not, as i dont know i make everything up as thats the smart thing to do in my view.

Wiltsboy01

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TBH Dani even if a prossie has a partner, I can pretty much guarantee he will get mentioned at some time. As you say it is a fantasy, to an extent, but I know from experience some don't seem to realise this, whether it is through a lack of self-awareness or the girl is just being rude is anyone's guess.

The WG I just saw talked about her husband a lot and there were pictures of them around the bedroom too. 
And it was definitely their room - if that makes sense?

Persie

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Because the punter Panel999 gave a WG too much personal info about himself and when she objected to him mentioning the price he paid her for a reverse booking on a review on here he did on her she threatened him. There are some really nasty people about of course and who knows if a newbie WG to you is one or not, as i dont know i make everything up as thats the smart thing to do in my view.

I agree with making it up....I am a Londoner so its second nature. But if a WG threatened me, I would tell her to piss off and to go ahead and do what she thinks she can do.  I think they have a lot more to lose than me if outed
But I don't have a g/f or wife and I guess that would change the dynamic
 

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..........  Totally puzzled by this as it seems from this thread to not just be a one off ............

A long way from being a one off. But it doesn’t bother me.

I would be more bother by being asked where I work.

Rochdull lad

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Before booking a WG and meeting her for the first time, I usually e-mail her so that she knows a bit about me, including, in passing that Mrs R L is no longer with us.

I also add the fact that I'm physically disabled which means I need to take Viagra or some substitute [not that Juan Kerr'd understand that! ;)] so that, when we we meet, she knows as much about me as I'd want her to.

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TBH Dani even if a prossie has a partner, I can pretty much guarantee he will get mentioned at some time. As you say it is a fantasy, to an extent, but I know from experience some don't seem to realise this, whether it is through a lack of self-awareness or the girl is just being rude is anyone's guess.

Indeed, especially Brit WGs in my experiences, many talk about their partners and families without me asking.

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Well; I'd be bad news for them, then.  I've neither wife nor girlfriend.

Which is, of course, why I punt!

Same here.

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The first time I had seen one wg she was showing me pics of one of her sons.He had been fighting at school got a black eye and she had taken a pic.

csmith

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i got shown a picture of the family dog once who happened to be playing with the son who was apparently 14, bearing in mind the lady in question had an advertised age of 23 my brain nearly melted. had a great time with her but all that was enough to put me off, well, that and she told me she wanted to get out of escorting which made me feel even more uneasy.

TheDoctor

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Don't think I've ever been asked! I guess a cursory glance at my flat would prove to the most short-sighted it's a bachelor pad.

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Why are they even asking. Its got nothing to do with them. I always feel a pang of awkwardness when they ask if I have a bf and wouldn't want to do that to someone. If they want to talk about it it's up to them.

SteveNova

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I've never been asked - as yet !  Maybe after seeing a regular a number of times it could crop up, but I wouldn't expect it initially.

Offline skittish

Can't say I've ever been asked such questions or been shown the family album. I suppose it helps when they can only just muster a few words like hi,baby,eighty,hundred,twenty,extra,don't do and no!

Offline blackburnian

Been asked a few times if I have a gf/wife/ kids , I tell them the truth, kids - yes,  gf- yes, wife - no. The next question is usually"why are you punting then"
The answer is - I love the kids , the missus is a good mother but a shit lover - hence I go elsewhere rather than split up , shuts up all but the most moralistic :D

Blackburnian

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Its weird. I always thought WGs would like younger, single, fitter guys than married, older guys. But this doesn't seem to be case in my experience, as most encounters I've had the girls have been indifferent and not even slightly interested in knowing anything about me. Think I've dodged a bullet there :cool:

Wiltsboy01

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Indeed, especially Brit WGs in my experiences, many talk about their partners and families without me asking.

Yeah its weird, real names all that malarkey. 

I also have a couple of EEs as Facebook friends now too.  One posted pictures of herself at a wedding now she is back in Poland.  She was the most unlikely pro$$ie ever and only lasted 3 days on AW.  Love looking at her life on FB knowing I've done her.

Haha ever the romantic :)

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Yeah its weird, real names all that malarkey. 

I also have a couple of EEs as Facebook friends now too.  One posted pictures of herself at a wedding now she is back in Poland.  She was the most unlikely pro$$ie ever and only lasted 3 days on AW.  Love looking at her life on FB knowing I've done her.

Haha ever the romantic :)

If I ever show that sort of attachment please shoot me  :music:

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Its weird. I always thought WGs would like younger, single, fitter guys than married, older guys. But this doesn't seem to be case in my experience, as most encounters I've had the girls have been indifferent and not even slightly interested in knowing anything about me. Think I've dodged a bullet there :cool:

Not all women find themselves attracted to 'young'  men, then as clients some young men can be more scatty, more of a handful than those with a few years behind them. Ever come across youngsters who think or act as if the world owes them something?Add in sex,lack of life experience and reasonable quantities of cash and that attitude is suddenly exaggerated several times.

Many younger men however are absolutely fine, and some older men maintain the same attitudes so definitely a good idea to try and treat every person as an individual.

Sometimes young men will send 'I'm young, big cock, will give you a good hard shagging, can I have a discount' texts or emails thinking these 'attributes' are something a service provider is going to enjoy,and give him priority over someone older/smaller cock/who won't give them a hard energetic pounding.
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I've read this as well, I don't think it represent all prossies though. Some would baulk at having to shag a man who might be 20 years older than themselves or married men as it is cheating. I always thought the idea was to perform multiple positions and have some good sex, not drink cups of tea and listen to the prossie spout pretentious twaddle.

The best Q & A was:
- Do you have a girlfriend?
me: No
- You should have.

It might be that type of attitude that makes girls prefer older men, I don't mind having a conversation with any WG I'm with if she asks if I'm married or got kids I'll tell her, why not?

If I can I always tell them in advance that I'm an older guy and I'm not 20 years older I'm quite often 40 + years older and I've yet to find one who's "baulked", every one I've met have said they enjoy spending time with more mature men.

I know WG's are providing a service but I have always found if you put a little bit of effort into the meeting the rewards by far out-way my being sociable and treating them as humans.

There's no need to get onto exchanging life stories but a bit of communication between two people works wonders, if I know what a girl likes and she knows what I like equals better sex, not like shagging a blowup doll!!     

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Not all women find themselves attracted to 'young'  men, then as clients some young men can be more scatty, more of a handful than those with a few years behind them. Ever come across youngsters who think or act as if the world owes them something?Add in sex,lack of life experience and reasonable quantities of cash and that attitude is suddenly exaggerated several times.

Many younger men however are absolutely fine, and some older men maintain the same attitudes so definitely a good idea to try and treat every person as an individual.

Sometimes young men will send 'I'm young, big cock, will give you a good hard shagging, can I have a discount' texts or emails thinking these 'attributes' are something a service provider is going to enjoy,and give him priority over someone older/smaller cock/who won't give them a hard energetic pounding.

brilliant, funny post :D

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They usually don't need to ask me as I wear a wedding ring.  It's when they start asking about your kids.  That's sometimes a headfuck (depends whether I've "connected" with the girl enough to feel comfortable about it).  Sometimes that topic will make me feel guilty about being there and I'll want to finish up quickly (maybe that's their aim?)  :)

Offline ceedee

I tell them the truth:-

"I've had a lot of wives but only 2 were mine"

Offline Jimmyredcab

I have never been asked that question, I always assumed they couldn't give a fuck.     :unknown:

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I've been asked a couple of times back in the old parlour days. At the time I could legitimately say no.

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If I ever show that sort of attachment please shoot me  :music:

Knowing the real life of a pro$$ie isn't attachment - it just makes it a bit more tingly (if you like) in the gentleman's area for me.

When I see her on FB looking happy with her partner at a wedding, or with her friends in a bar, it makes me remember fondly when she was on my face :)

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It might be that type of attitude that makes girls prefer older men, I don't mind having a conversation with any WG I'm with if she asks if I'm married or got kids I'll tell her, why not?

If I can I always tell them in advance that I'm an older guy and I'm not 20 years older I'm quite often 40 + years older and I've yet to find one who's "baulked", every one I've met have said they enjoy spending time with more mature men.

I know WG's are providing a service but I have always found if you put a little bit of effort into the meeting the rewards by far out-way my being sociable and treating them as humans.

There's no need to get onto exchanging life stories but a bit of communication between two people works wonders, if I know what a girl likes and she knows what I like equals better sex, not like shagging a blowup doll!!   
Fair point. I was referring to some profiles I've read that say they only see men under 50 etc, but as you say there are many that prefer older men. I don't mind a bit of chat, but not so much so that I talk half my time away and yes it has happened before.

Offline CBPaul

I'm asked pretty much every time I see a new girl now and it has happened more often as I get older.

I generally say an outright no as I found that the truth (i.e. yes) leads on to more questions regarding why I'm visiting a wg, do I have kids and then them volunteering shit loads of information about their family and kids. I don't feel that I should hide my martial status but I'm not paying for a prolonged chat about by family, better to talk about mundane brain rot whilst awaiting stiffness for round 2. 

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I do most of my punting in USA and I constantly get a gabfest after the first pop.

It's like life history time, so I have to make up stuff somewhat in order to keep them amused.

Then I say "OK, that's me, now what about you?"

I then have to listen to her tales for a while until it's time for the next pop!

I have heard some really interesting stories.

baltar

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Just tell them you are Gay, confuses the fuck out of them  :sarcastic:

Oh I only have sex with men!

Andre 3000

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It's a question usually asked post or mid break in a punt. A trip to the bathroom usually get them asking questions. As they see my missus hairbrush and makeup stuff.

I do remember when on a break during a punt, asking a polish girl if she had a BF. She told me she did and he was back in Poland and thought that she was over in the UK doing a reception job. I must admit that turned me on that here she was in my bed and we'd just had an absolutely filthy shag.

Had to give her a big facial in our second round.

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I bet a lot of guys take their wedding rings off before going for some fun