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Author Topic: WG's asking wether you have a girlfriend or wife.  (Read 10247 times)

Offline explicitencounters

What is your experience of WG's asking about your other halves? In mine, the ones that ask, do so before or after the punt. I find when they do, they're usually lookin at me in a lusty way.. Whether that means she's interested in me in a way more than than her work or its a tactic to insure return business!

Again in my experience those that do, have given me alittle more time, haven't felt rushed. No issues with them, yours might be different.

Firstly do u admit u have one? or do you play the single game? All the time I've been honest which means mostly I say I have a girlfriend! Upon which the reply I usually get is I knew you did...

Anyway ur opinions please, plus is there any benifit for or against admitting you have or haven't got a partner? 

Offline akauya

What is your experience of WG's asking about your other halves? In mine, the ones that ask, do so before or after the punt. I find when they do, they're usually lookin at me in a lusty way.. Whether that means she's interested in me in a way more than than her work or its a tactic to insure return business!

Again in my experience those that do, have given me alittle more time, haven't felt rushed. No issues with them, yours might be different.

Firstly do u admit u have one? or do you play the single game? All the time I've been honest which means mostly I say I have a girlfriend! Upon which the reply I usually get is I knew you did...

Anyway ur opinions please, plus is there any benifit for or against admitting you have or haven't got a partner?


When prossies ask me if I have a wife I tell them being a Mormon I have many wives, and the biatches can't satisfy me enough - that soon removes their lusty looks off me  :cool:


Online Corus Boy

Like punters I feel WGs vary and will ask and react in different ways.

I do remember an escort that I visited regularly and after my divorce it was like being with a different girl!  When I raised this with her she explained that she felt more comfortable with me when I was single.

cjkanye02

I hate this question. It would go down like a lead balloon if we asked most girls their relationship status...

Offline JB1969

I would feel uncomfortable, honestly.  Unless it is something I raised it is none of her business.
Banning reason: Accused and highly suspected of being "DeliciousMsDee" prossie posing as punter

Roland D Hay

I find that they mostly assume that I am and I'm never quite sure they believe me when I say that I'm not. It would never cross my mind to ask a girl her relationship status, I'm not remotely interested.

Offline James999

Just tell them you are Gay, confuses the fuck out of them  :sarcastic:

Online Trenlover

From reading the SAAFE forums I get the impression WG's prefer older or married men already in relationships. The reasons ranging from,  these men "easier", not as much work for them, to these men being less likely to become attached.

I even read one thread where the WG complained about young guys usually having too much sex in various positions and trying to "get their moneys worth".

Young AND single guys are apparently quite a turn off for the majority of WG's.

I got this question quite alot from WG's though usually it was after we had done the business.
« Last Edit: November 22, 2013, 07:11:02 PM by Trenlover »

Offline smiths

What is your experience of WG's asking about your other halves? In mine, the ones that ask, do so before or after the punt. I find when they do, they're usually lookin at me in a lusty way.. Whether that means she's interested in me in a way more than than her work or its a tactic to insure return business!

Again in my experience those that do, have given me alittle more time, haven't felt rushed. No issues with them, yours might be different.

Firstly do u admit u have one? or do you play the single game? All the time I've been honest which means mostly I say I have a girlfriend! Upon which the reply I usually get is I knew you did...

Anyway ur opinions please, plus is there any benifit for or against admitting you have or haven't got a partner?

As with everything i say to WGs i make it all up, its none of a WGs business whether i have a partner or not anymore than its the business of anyone i do business with. I dont ask WGs such questions although its amazing how many talk about their personal lifes anyway.

Offline akauya

Just tell them you are Gay, confuses the fuck out of them  :sarcastic:

Fucking brilliant  :D - deserves to be in the best line of the week thread 

Offline Persie

I have two experiences.

A WG coming round my flat and seeing a pair of high heels and asking if they were my GFs. I said I don't class as my GF, but she might say otherwise. She did not look too impressed

THe second time was when I was talking to a WG post-event and showed her a picture of a girl sucking my cock......and she actually looked jealous that another sucked my cock AND i was not paying..hahaha
Banning reason: Stalking prossies on Facebook and threatening to out them

Offline Ali Katt

From reading the SAAFE forums I get the impression WG's prefer older or married men already in relationships. The reasons ranging from,  these men "easier", not as much work for them, to these men being less likely to become attached.

I even read one thread where the WG complained about young guys usually having too much sex in various positions and trying to "get their moneys worth".

Young AND single guys are apparently quite a turn off for the majority of WG's.

I got this question quite alot from WG's though usually it was after we had done the business.
I've read this as well, I don't think it represent all prossies though. Some would baulk at having to shag a man who might be 20 years older than themselves or married men as it is cheating. I always thought the idea was to perform multiple positions and have some good sex, not drink cups of tea and listen to the prossie spout pretentious twaddle.

The best Q & A was:
- Do you have a girlfriend?
me: No
- You should have.


The best Q & A was:
- Do you have a girlfriend?
me: No
- You should have.

Well; I'd be bad news for them, then.  I've neither wife nor girlfriend.

Which is, of course, why I punt!

Offline Ali Katt

As with everything i say to WGs i make it all up, its none of a WGs business whether i have a partner or not anymore than its the business of anyone i do business with. I dont ask WGs such questions although its amazing how many talk about their personal lifes anyway.
Agreed. I can second guess the questions they will ask. I'm sure there must be some manual somewhere: Do you want a shower? Where do you work? Are you going out tonight? Who have you seen before?

I think it's more a case of the girl trying to make conversation, but I make a habit of avoiding questions about my private life. After all WGs claim to be all about discretion.

Offline smiths

Agreed. I can second guess the questions they will ask. I'm sure there must be some manual somewhere: Do you want a shower? Where do you work? Are you going out tonight? Who have you seen before?

I think it's more a case of the girl trying to make conversation, but I make a habit of avoiding questions about my private life. After all WGs claim to be all about discretion.

I agree its 9 times out of 10 going to be a WG just making conversation but as the Panel999 sad matter showed being honest about your personal circumstances and giving a WG too much info can cause problems. IMO best to avoid any risk. :hi:

Offline Dani

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I am actually shocked reading this thread.  You are paying the prossie for a fantasy so why the hell would she even think to ask if you are married?  Its none of her business and bringing it up will surely ruin the fantasy she is supposed to have helped build for you.  I can honestly say I have never asked a client if he was married/single/had a GF or if he had kids or what job he did. 
It is none of my business and I feel it would be rude to ask.  Obviously if he brings it up then he wants to discuss it so that is different but it is not for me to bring into the conversation at any point of the booking.  I am being paid so he can for a short period of time forget about any responsibilities or stress he may have in his life and just relax and enjoy himself.  Reminding a client they have a wife/GF by asking this will just bring those responsibilities into the booking which I imagine could then instil feelings of guilt for many guys.

We all bitch and moan an Saafe if a client asks us this (some go as far as to assume he is going to become a stalker for asking) as again it is none of his business so why would any of us ask a client.  Totally puzzled by this as it seems from this thread to not just be a one off

**walks away scratching her head in puzzlement**

Offline Persie

I agree its 9 times out of 10 going to be a WG just making conversation but as the Panel999 sad matter showed being honest about your personal circumstances and giving a WG too much info can cause problems. IMO best to avoid any risk. :hi:
How would this cause a problem?
Or am I being naive? What stuff has occured - being in mind I live in London whcih is pretty anonymous. I don't even know my neighbours
Banning reason: Stalking prossies on Facebook and threatening to out them

Offline Ali Katt

TBH Dani even if a prossie has a partner, I can pretty much guarantee he will get mentioned at some time. As you say it is a fantasy, to an extent, but I know from experience some don't seem to realise this, whether it is through a lack of self-awareness or the girl is just being rude is anyone's guess.

Had a couple and as you say its an innuendo for more but the forget kids mean far more than to risk that other than a 'secret' life

Offline smiths

How would this cause a problem?
Or am I being naive? What stuff has occured - being in mind I live in London whcih is pretty anonymous. I don't even know my neighbours

Because the punter Panel999 gave a WG too much personal info about himself and when she objected to him mentioning the price he paid her for a reverse booking on a review on here he did on her she threatened him. There are some really nasty people about of course and who knows if a newbie WG to you is one or not, as i dont know i make everything up as thats the smart thing to do in my view.

Wiltsboy01

TBH Dani even if a prossie has a partner, I can pretty much guarantee he will get mentioned at some time. As you say it is a fantasy, to an extent, but I know from experience some don't seem to realise this, whether it is through a lack of self-awareness or the girl is just being rude is anyone's guess.

The WG I just saw talked about her husband a lot and there were pictures of them around the bedroom too. 
And it was definitely their room - if that makes sense?

Offline Persie

Because the punter Panel999 gave a WG too much personal info about himself and when she objected to him mentioning the price he paid her for a reverse booking on a review on here he did on her she threatened him. There are some really nasty people about of course and who knows if a newbie WG to you is one or not, as i dont know i make everything up as thats the smart thing to do in my view.

I agree with making it up....I am a Londoner so its second nature. But if a WG threatened me, I would tell her to piss off and to go ahead and do what she thinks she can do.  I think they have a lot more to lose than me if outed
But I don't have a g/f or wife and I guess that would change the dynamic
 
Banning reason: Stalking prossies on Facebook and threatening to out them

Offline BristolP

..........  Totally puzzled by this as it seems from this thread to not just be a one off ............

A long way from being a one off. But it doesn’t bother me.

I would be more bother by being asked where I work.

Before booking a WG and meeting her for the first time, I usually e-mail her so that she knows a bit about me, including, in passing that Mrs R L is no longer with us.

I also add the fact that I'm physically disabled which means I need to take Viagra or some substitute [not that Juan Kerr'd understand that! ;)] so that, when we we meet, she knows as much about me as I'd want her to.

Offline smiths

TBH Dani even if a prossie has a partner, I can pretty much guarantee he will get mentioned at some time. As you say it is a fantasy, to an extent, but I know from experience some don't seem to realise this, whether it is through a lack of self-awareness or the girl is just being rude is anyone's guess.

Indeed, especially Brit WGs in my experiences, many talk about their partners and families without me asking.


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