Ideally im looking for a normal personal with an ordinary job but just likes to earn a wee bit extra but cause they like sex.
Yeah, nothing at all wrong with that. There's a definite market for it; both supply and demand. As someone said SA's your best bet. In the last year, without making a career of it, I've met 4 or 5 women in that category. I might modify "they like sex" to "they don't mind having sex with you".
There's lots of ordinary girls, with ordinary jobs and lives who are willing to have no strings attached sex, including a few drinks and a meal. A down side for some, but not for me, is that it costs more. Not only the SA sub but "allowance", the wining, dining and hotel expenses. But it's a completely different experience to a straight punt. It's not always better but it often is. The fact they're "ordinary" and their family, work colleagues etc. are usually none the wiser makes it sexier, somehow.
The debate as to whether they're WGs or not is age old. I know some here (maybe with a bit of WG or woman resentment) say they're all whores. If they take money they're prostitutes.
Well maybe.... but there's a very wide spectrum, ranging from the (very) old fashioned girl who wants to have lots of kids and needs a reliable, solvent man to do it with, to trophy wives (the current FLOTUS e.g.) to SA girls (of differing kinds), to girls on the street in Leith. Arguably they're all selling their bodies and are therefore all whores to some.
Classically, Mrs Merton to Debbie McGee- "And what first attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?"
The thing about SA is that (most of) the girls there want to have a choice and the mantra "there needs to be a connection" is true to some extent. In short, unlike Leith or AW, I've found the girl won't fuck you (or even go out with you) if she finds you repulsive. Despite the 4 or 5, I've had my share of "ghosting" on SA; I'm no Brad Pitt.
Incidentally, this selling their bodies thing-I worked with a young girl about ten years ago that was just about the most intelligent person I've ever met. She committed fully to the company and effectively sold them her mind. I wonder if doing that is giving more of "yourself" than just selling your body? Discuss!
