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Author Topic: Is it rude to not give a regular a discount?  (Read 17610 times)

Offline Juankerr

I think it is more a case of the novelty wearing off after 3 punts ------------ nothing to do with a drop in standards.
Ah yes , that comfortable place you get to with a regular , that's when I start to get bored.

Offline Trenlover



But when you do find a girl you fancy, the invariable wishful thinking starts to happen and you start hoping and trying your best to read stuff into things that are likely not there.



Aye exactly right im glad you understand my plight so well :D

Offline smiths

This will happen. There are three certainties; death, taxes and booking a prostitute this above happens sooner or later.

This girl will get tired of you before you get tired of her. And I don't mean tired of you per say. I mean tired of anyone she see's regular. They are not good businesswomen. I know that sounds awful to say. But this is what happens.

Your generalising here, sure some will behave like this, some others wont that are good WGs though in my experiences.

Offline AnthG

Your generalising here, sure some will behave like this, some others wont that are good WGs though in my experiences.
I don't know if its generalising in the truest sense. As I am basing it on all of the four girls I have multibooked this happened. Thought it was odd, strange, and possible me causing it.

And I seen that above topic where many people were explaining the exact same scanario and came up with a pretty believable explanation as to why they do it so I figured it was the girls not me.

Aye exactly right im glad you understand my plight so well :D

I think every punter sometime in their career has fancied a girl they booked. Its not a nice feeling at all. You are paying £100 per hour to have a good feeling not to feel like shit.

So as another bit of advice given the above I would say go to your local regions section of the forum and see the girl in your region everyone raves about - there will always be one, in newcastle its Gabi for example. And just try a few bookings with her.

Offline wristjob

He should never see her again whether or not she gives him a discount for the sake of his sanity.

Totally. Discount is the least of your problems here.

I've had a couple of girls that really made me feel special. One thing I noticed - they had glowing feedback and everyone else felt the same too. it's who they are - nice people who are good at their job.

Dani's right she should have binned you a long time ago. I'd think the last thing she needs is someone getting stalkerish.

As for discounts - same as any business really. If a customer is still going to keep paying then don't do a discount - but maybe do a better service like an extra as a freebie or an extra 10 mins. If it's marginal for them but you want them to become a loyal customer cos they are easy to deal with 9in punting prob translates to clean, punctual, not likely to smack you about or rob you) then maybe a little discount if they see you regular. Saying you love her is the worst attempt at a discount - asking if she could recommend someone else would be a much better way.

Offline Trenlover

Totally. Discount is the least of your problems here.

I've had a couple of girls that really made me feel special. One thing I noticed - they had glowing feedback and everyone else felt the same too. it's who they are - nice people who are good at their job.

Dani's right she should have binned you a long time ago. I'd think the last thing she needs is someone getting stalkerish.

As for discounts - same as any business really. If a customer is still going to keep paying then don't do a discount - but maybe do a better service like an extra as a freebie or an extra 10 mins. If it's marginal for them but you want them to become a loyal customer cos they are easy to deal with 9in punting prob translates to clean, punctual, not likely to smack you about or rob you) then maybe a little discount if they see you regular. Saying you love her is the worst attempt at a discount - asking if she could recommend someone else would be a much better way.

I had seen her about 20 times before I told her the "love" word, would it really come across as creepy/stalkish after sleeping with someone for 20 times over 6 month period?

Anyway, I asked for a discount because I felt the vibe was right and ive now seen her in excess of 30 times. And they aint all been just 1 hour bookings.....


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I had seen her about 20 times before I told her the "love" word, would it really come across as creepy/stalkish after sleeping with someone for 20 times over 6 month period?

Oh Dear, but you didn't sleep with her, you just fucked her ---------------- she slept with her boyfriend.   :thumbsdown:

I do honestly feel sorry for you.    :(

Offline Persie

I had seen her about 20 times before I told her the "love" word, would it really come across as creepy/stalkish after sleeping with someone for 20 times over 6 month period?

Anyway, I asked for a discount because I felt the vibe was right and ive now seen her in excess of 30 times. And they aint all been just 1 hour bookings.....

This is a real 'no no'. You can't be jealous of a prossie for seeing other clients. Its totally different to her seeing bloke she likes shagging or hanging out with

If you really like her, you need to reframe the debate into a social relationship. that means stop paying her for sex. If you manage to get out with her, you will soon find out if you are like the person behind the veneer because most prossies pretend to be the girl you want rather than the girl they are

In any case, even if you like her, you have to ask whether you really want a prossie for a girlfriend. Most prossies find unpaid sex a bit weird and probably the last thing after a days work they wanna do is have another shag. 

By all means become friends tho


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Offline smiths

I had seen her about 20 times before I told her the "love" word, would it really come across as creepy/stalkish after sleeping with someone for 20 times over 6 month period?

Anyway, I asked for a discount because I felt the vibe was right and ive now seen her in excess of 30 times. And they aint all been just 1 hour bookings.....

As an experienced punter you should know you are merely paying to shag her, its very likely to be nothing more to her than that. If it is more than that she would of told you so when you discussed the discount with her in my view.

I have been where you are and i stopped punting with the WG as it wasnt healthy for me.

Offline Persie

As an experienced punter you should know you are merely paying to shag her, its very likely to be nothing more to her than that. If it is more than that she would of told you so when you discussed the discount with her in my view.

I have been where you are and i stopped punting with the WG as it wasnt healthy for me.

I can't imagine how you would fall in love with a WG that you met punting. You never get to know her and she never you

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Offline Trenlover

This is a real 'no no'. You can't be jealous of a prossie for seeing other clients. Its totally different to her seeing bloke she likes shagging or hanging out with

If you really like her, you need to reframe the debate into a social relationship. that means stop paying her for sex. If you manage to get out with her, you will soon find out if you are like the person behind the veneer because most prossies pretend to be the girl you want rather than the girl they are

In any case, even if you like her, you have to ask whether you really want a prossie for a girlfriend. Most prossies find unpaid sex a bit weird and probably the last thing after a days work they wanna do is have another shag. 

By all means become friends tho

Thanks that helps alot. some great advice here im happy I brought this up.

Another problem  I have though is If I stopped seeing her I know I would end up going back to random punting, and the average service you get these days is so bad. Atleast with this WG I like I know im guaranteed a good service.

Offline wristjob

I had seen her about 20 times before I told her the "love" word, would it really come across as creepy/stalkish after sleeping with someone for 20 times over 6 month period?

Dunno about others but that freaks me out. I'd say it wouldn't come as a surprise after 20 times, but the 20 visits come across as creepy.

I have a "golden rule" - never see the same girl twice in a row. It's not a rule I need to work very hard to stick to but might serve you well.

Offline smiths

I can't imagine how you would fall in love with a WG that you met punting. You never get to know her and she never you

Dani said it perfectly in my view, its lust not love. I feel in lust with a WG, it wasnt love.

Offline Persie

Thanks that helps alot. some great advice here im happy I brought this up.

Another problem  I have though is If I stopped seeing her I know I would end up going back to random punting, and the average service you get these days is so bad. Atleast with this WG I like I know im guaranteed a good service.



You have become infatuated because she is focused on you and places you at the centre of attention

Prossies are indispensible just as you are as a client

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Offline AnthG

At least with this WG I like I know im guaranteed a good service.

From this phrase I get the feeling you don't really fancy her. Its just not the type of sentence someone would say if they fancied a girl.

You have three options.

1. Keep booking her and that's it
2. Take her on social escorting, no sex, and see how you feel it and she does. And try and see the vibe there.
3. Find out something she is really into and try and make her an offer she can't refuse - e.g she is into a particular musci group, buy two tickets to see them thus making it an offer she wont refuse. - and thus if she does refuse, then you know its definitely a not in a million years thing with you.

My advice from the tone of your post I quoted, do number 1.
« Last Edit: November 17, 2013, 10:23:11 PM by AnthG »

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Thanks that helps alot. some great advice here im happy I brought this up.

Another problem  I have though is If I stopped seeing her I know I would end up going back to random punting, and the average service you get these days is so bad. Atleast with this WG I like I know im guaranteed a good service.

I understand that 500% ------------- but how can you have the same feelings for her now, she has made her feelings crystal clear when she refused to give you a discount, sorry my friend but you are a wallet and nothing more.   :thumbsdown:

Offline SirPhilipXX

I had seen her about 20 times before I told her the "love" word, would it really come across as creepy/stalkish after sleeping with someone for 20 times over 6 month period?

Anyway, I asked for a discount because I felt the vibe was right and ive now seen her in excess of 30 times. And they aint all been just 1 hour bookings.....

30 times? And only now you've asked for a discount? I would have asked after 3. She knows you are going to keep booking her anyway, why should she lower her rate?

If you've told her you love her I'm surprised she hasn't doubled her rate TBH   :lol:

Offline Trenlover

From this phrase I get the feeling you don't really fancy her. Its just not the type of sentence someone would say if they fancied a girl.

You have three options.

1. Keep booking her and that's it
2. Take her on social escorting, no sex, and see how you feel it and she does. And try and see the vibe there.
3. Find out something she is really into and try and make her an offer she can't refuse - e.g she is into a particular musci group, buy two tickets to see them thus making it an offer she wont refuse. - and thus if she does refuse, then you know its definitely a not in a million years thing with you.

My advice from the tone of your post I quoted, do number 1.

I do love her but I have kind of accepted it aint going to happen. However I cant let go because I love her and also because I dont want to go back to getting shit services from random WG's

Curious6705

I think every punter sometime in their career has fancied a girl they booked. Its not a nice feeling at all. You are paying £100 per hour to have a good feeling not to feel like shit.

Well I wouldn't punt with a WG if I didn't fancy shagging her - but that's as far as it goes. I think you are generalising once more. I compartmentalise feelings - the time I'm with a WG, paying for her time, is make believe. I'll enjoy the pretence for the hour or whatever, and then it's over. It's a bit like enjoying a movie and identifying with the hero, however unlikely the plot. I don't confuse a movie with my real life, and the two don't cross over in any significant way, except that I'm happier for having had the experience and remember it with pleasure.

I think my approach is sensible, maybe the OP can take something from it - I don't know.
« Last Edit: November 17, 2013, 10:32:06 PM by Curious6705 »

Offline Riot Doll

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When I was new (a while back), I had the displeasure of going through a similar scenario, a few times in fact. It's not a nice situation to be in. I believe it was my fault to some extent, because I was always extremely friendly towards every punter, often allowing the meets to run over the booked time, sharing things about myself and my personal life, offering discounted sessions, the list goes on... So I guess one could say that the boundaries became blurred, the guys thought they were my "friends", and "special".

While the vast majority simply appreciated my friendliness for what it was (some even warned me about giving away too much personal info to strangers), there happened to be a few who simply couldn't get their heads round the fact that I was just trying to do my job i.e. give them the GFE they had asked for. And yes, sometimes they even managed to make me orgasm, but isn't that just one one of the perks of this job? I was well and truly mortified when one day a regular client told me he loved me, I was so shocked I didn't actually say anything, but knew that I wouldn't and couldn't see him ever again. He became obsessed, wouldn't stop calling (often from different numbers) despite me telling him that I didn't want to be contacted by him any more, turned up in the middle of the night buzzing my flat number, texting things like "I am so devastated, I thought we had a connection" each and every time I got new feedback and so on. It went on for about a month, until I decided enough was enough, told one of my close friends (male) about my escorting. I asked him to call the guy, to perhaps try and talk some sense into him. Thank god it worked!

Since then, it's happened a handful of times, but never so extreme. There really isn't a nice way to tell another person that you're not into them at all, but it has to be done. I learned the hard way that one must never overstep the boundaries in this game.

So OP, the bottom line is, if an escort ever felt that you were special, or she loved you, or even thought you deserved a discount, she'd let you know, I'm sure. If she doesn't... well, enjoy it for what it is: great sex without the drama that comes with a relationship. In the future, before you tell a WG you love her, you might want to consider that if the feeling isn't mutual, you're putting her in a very uncomfortable position. I can only speak for myself, but I think it's always safe to assume that the persona she adapts during your 1h or 2h meet does not resemble her real (normal if you like) self. Make the most of it but don't get attached!

 

Offline Trenlover

I see a few people here are surprised you can fall in love with a WG. It shouldnt be surprising, see psychiatric therapy for example.

It is well known most patients fall in love with their therapists, a phenomenon known as transference.

So I dont see why it would be so shocking to fall in love with someone your having sex with, when it has been documented to happen so often with people your just talking with ( therapist ).

when you spend alot of intimate 1 on 1 time with someone, feelings can develop. as I said before, ive seen alot of very attractive WG's. But only once have I fallen for one.
« Last Edit: November 17, 2013, 10:39:43 PM by Trenlover »

Offline SirPhilipXX

When I was new (a while back), I had the displeasure of going through a similar scenario, a few times in fact. It's not a nice situation to be in. I believe it was my fault to some extent, because I was always extremely friendly towards every punter, often allowing the meets to run over the booked time, sharing things about myself and my personal life, offering discounted sessions, the list goes on... So I guess one could say that the boundaries became blurred, the guys thought they were my "friends", and "special".

While the vast majority simply appreciated my friendliness for what it was (some even warned me about giving away too much personal info to strangers), there happened to be a few who simply couldn't get their heads round the fact that I was just trying to do my job i.e. give them the GFE they had asked for. And yes, sometimes they even managed to make me orgasm, but isn't that just one one of the perks of this job? I was well and truly mortified when one day a regular client told me he loved me, I was so shocked I didn't actually say anything, but knew that I wouldn't and couldn't see him ever again. He became obsessed, wouldn't stop calling (often from different numbers) despite me telling him that I didn't want to be contacted by him any more, turned up in the middle of the night buzzing my flat number, texting things like "I am so devastated, I thought we had a connection" each and every time I got new feedback and so on. It went on for about a month, until I decided enough was enough, told one of my close friends (male) about my escorting. I asked him to call the guy, to perhaps try and talk some sense into him. Thank god it worked!

Since then, it's happened a handful of times, but never so extreme. There really isn't a nice way to tell another person that you're not into them at all, but it has to be done. I learned the hard way that one must never overstep the boundaries in this game.

So OP, the bottom line is, if an escort ever felt that you were special, or she loved you, or even thought you deserved a discount, she'd let you know, I'm sure. If she doesn't... well, enjoy it for what it is: great sex without the drama that comes with a relationship. In the future, before you tell a WG you love her, you might want to consider that if the feeling isn't mutual, you're putting her in a very uncomfortable position. I can only speak for myself, but I think it's always safe to assume that the persona she adapts during your 1h or 2h meet does not resemble her real (normal if you like) self. Make the most of it but don't get attached!

Really good advice Riot Doll, let's hope OP takes it on board

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I see a few people here are surprised you can fall in love with a WG.

Over the last 30 years I have "had feelings" for a number of pro$$ies ---------------- but no way could it be described as "falling in love".

Offline AnthG

you only see the pretend person. The actress. You don't know her as people in civvie life know her.  You cannot be in love with someone you don't really know.  What you are in love with is the fantasy she has made for you.
I am sorry for taking this topic on a tangent, but it seems the OPs question has been answered from all different angles anyway. Its up to him how he wants to take those answers.

But anyway the thing that is curious to me is these comments which have been repeated a few times in this thread, summed up best by Dani. And that has left me confused as I am thinking what the hell is going on with other peoples punts.

I see a girl, the makup is usually identical. I say hi, she says hi, we both lie down and she starts giving oral. And then we switch to either me giving her oral or sex and then chat a bit. The chat is usually very trivial small talk. Somehow it usually gets onto jobs and I suggest she goes to the Open University to further her career. And then booking over.

It just seems odd how there is any fantasy or acting which many are saying is taking place in their booking. I can be safe to say the only acting going on is the girl putting up with me being in the room. But that is not acting that is just grim and bearing.

I have never had a girl tell me I am a sex machine. I normally get the "most guys are the same" response and then usually a comment about a much worse guy than me.
« Last Edit: November 17, 2013, 10:54:11 PM by AnthG »

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I have never had a girl tell me I am a sex machine.

Me and NIK get that all the time, it gets boring in the end.     :music:


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