Ahhh I had no idea!! Only joined today so no idea on how it all works! 😩🥺 sorry!!
Welcome to the fray!
Please do contribute to discussions and present an SP point of view within the bounds of the Site Rules (linked at bottom of each page), more specifically:
2 Service Providers
This site allows service providers to be members, but zero tolerance for touting, flirting, attention-seeking and negative attitude toward punters. Service providers must respect the ethos of the site. This site is neither a chat platform between clients and service providers nor a support site for service providers. All service providers / non-punters must reveal their working identities - no 'anonymous WGs'.
You are of course free to defend yourself from punters being insulting or unkind, though best to not let any baiting get the best of you and get you banned too. There are mysogynists here (surprise!) so whilst some tussling is allowed if things get nasty and aren't checked by other punters intervening then better to report anything too unseemly.
To get a sense of things browse around and back through threads a month or more and see what other SPs have said.