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Author Topic: Once a punter..  (Read 1799 times)

Offline Hyborean

I think (and please feel free to shoot me down) that once a punter, always a punter.
A punter may need to stop for a period or even 'retire' but they are always punters and would return to punting if the situation was right.

By situation I mean 3 things need to be right:
1. Financial ability
2. Physical ability / Health
3. Opportunity / Availability (Being single or otherwise)

I believe that once a punter has found a taste for punting and can still fulfil the three requirements above, they will continue to punt until the apocalypse or they fall down on one of those pillars!  :yahoo:

I guess that the same might be said for WGs plying their trade but not entirely sure they would continue regardless if they didn't need the money!

So here is to all my fellow punters (even those who haven't punted in years)!  :drinks:

I'd agree with pretty well every word of that, Hyborean.

I can't imagine life without being able to go for a regular [if not frequent enough since retiring from work] appointment with a WG.  These days, I only see my Regulars, so it isn't "punting" in the sense of seeing new girls and enjoying the different experiences that they can offer; but there's nothing like savouring the enjoyment of being able to shag an attractive younger woman.

I've posted previously that, if my health deteriorates and I have to go into Residential Care, at least one of my Regulars is up for the idea of visiting me once a month in the role play of my favourite "niece", who will very definitely lock the door of my room behind her on arrival! :P

Offline Nimrod

The only thing I disagree with is that you omit to mention enjoyment, and while it is probably close to 100% certain that a male will always continue to enjoy sex (physical ailment notwithstanding), it is not -- I think -- 100% certain that he will continue to enjoy sex with prostitutes. There are a lot of reasons why this point might be reached; I won't go into them (most of us can guess). Anyway, I would say that it IS possible to reach a point where your desire to have PAID sex either disappears completely or dwindles to near zero. I have gone from a multi-punts a week situation maybe five years ago to perhaps a one punt a quarter situation now with no change in my economic or personal circumstances simply because paid sex gives me virtually no pleasure any more. And I can easily foresee that once a quarter punt becoming twice a year, or less. These days, I can have 200 quid in my pocket, a night with no obligations and all the opportunity in the world to punt. But I just don't. That NEVER used to be the case. So no, not once a punter always a punter, at least for me.

I find myself getting that way, since I have difficulty now finding a regular that I am happy with and there are just too many pitfalls in trying to find even a reasonable pro$$ie by trial and error. It is not worth me risking high fees when I know I am quite sensitive to the vibe I get from the woman as to how I enjoy the experience, mores than looks and the playacting you get. So although East London based I feel myself to be in a punting wasteland and like Superman staring at a lump of Kryptonite I can feel my desire to punt fading away by the day.   :unknown:

Offline Knick

The excitement of a punt that I used to feel a couple of years ago isn't there anymore, that's for sure. I may get to the same point as Nirmod pretty soon I think. There have been times when I'd rather just keep the money and that wasn't the case at the start that's for sure. But I don't think I'll ever stop enjoying a damb good BJ, from an enthusiastic WG. That's the kind of thing that fades away in civvie relationships usually.
« Last Edit: November 15, 2013, 01:52:47 PM by Knick »

Offline Trenlover

I think all men are punter's by default. You dont become a punter.

While its true that men are always receptive to "fresh" meat, thanks to the coolidge effect, emotions can seriously complicate things. I fell madly in love with a WG some months ago and have been utterly obsessed with her ever since. I didnt intend for this to happen, it just did.

However what surprised me is that during this time I have been in love I have had almost no motivation to visit any other WG, and the one time I did I couldnt even get an erection ( it felt like I was cheating and I wasnt attracted to this new WG ) . Also most of the girls I see in everyday life appear to be severely unattractive compared to the WG I love.

I often wonder how the psychology of the WG is affected as well, they may develope an acquired taste that sexual acitivty with a man is always accompanied by financial reward, and this may make them unreceptive to relationships in the future where sexual acitvity would obviously not be accompanied by an immediate financial incentive.

Sort of like how once you get used to drinking water flavored with sugar and flavorings  ( like pepsi ), plain water can be become quite distasteful


« Last Edit: November 15, 2013, 02:58:49 PM by Trenlover »

Sort of like how once you get used to drinking water flavored with sugar and flavorings  ( like pepsi ), plain water can be become quite distasteful
...and yet we all know which one is better for you in the long run!

Offline Stiffy

I think lots of these post are right.  I recon with me I am put off when I have a couple of bad punts, that makes me think 'is it worth it!'  Find a good girl though and your fixed and happy for a while.  I prefer to stick to the same girls, maybe 2 or 3 and see each once or twice a month.  When its good its good and I spend my 'hard earnt' happily, when its bad I just can not be arsed and take tome out.  Currently its time out sadly.

Offline Persie

I think all men are punter's by default. You dont become a punter.

While its true that men are always receptive to "fresh" meat, thanks to the coolidge effect, emotions can seriously complicate things. I fell madly in love with a WG some months ago and have been utterly obsessed with her ever since. I didnt intend for this to happen, it just did.

However what surprised me is that during this time I have been in love I have had almost no motivation to visit any other WG, and the one time I did I couldnt even get an erection ( it felt like I was cheating and I wasnt attracted to this new WG ) . Also most of the girls I see in everyday life appear to be severely unattractive compared to the WG I love.

I often wonder how the psychology of the WG is affected as well, they may develope an acquired taste that sexual acitivty with a man is always accompanied by financial reward, and this may make them unreceptive to relationships in the future where sexual acitvity would obviously not be accompanied by an immediate financial incentive.

Sort of like how once you get used to drinking water flavored with sugar and flavorings  ( like pepsi ), plain water can be become quite distasteful

I think WGs look at sex as an inventory. They think I am giving a 'free shag' so thing there is some disengagement between the physical and mental. They also have to 'lock' off their feelings because when you are being fucked a lot, I think there is a psychological tendency to fall in love or couple up.

My experience of WGs  is that they tend to become a little bit fucked up in the head and a bit jaundiced towards men to the point where relationships can be difficult. Could you really imagine being with the WG and her coming home and telling you about her day in the office (or should that be a day in her orifice)?


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Offline Toshiba

The fact i can pick the phone up and fuck a 19 year old blonde hottie with a perfect body and is willing to let me cum in her mouth and have her ride me silly is the biggest reason to keep going

The punt is full of excitement and its only money after all

Offline the_exile

Sex with a stranger is something Ive always found exciting & sometimes the sex has been very good!

Offline baltar

I often wonder how the psychology of the WG is affected as well, they may develope an acquired taste that sexual acitivty with a man is always accompanied by financial reward, and this may make them unreceptive to relationships in the future where sexual acitvity would obviously not be accompanied by an immediate financial incentive.

Yea the psychology must be fascinating

Offline LL

The fact i can pick the phone up and fuck a 19 year old blonde hottie with a perfect body and is willing to let me cum in her mouth and have her ride me silly is the biggest reason to keep going
link?  ;)
There's no shortage of perfect-bodied 19-year-old Romanians but they're never blonde.

Offline LL

I often wonder how the psychology of the WG is affected as well, they may develope an acquired taste that sexual acitivty with a man is always accompanied by financial reward, and this may make them unreceptive to relationships in the future where sexual acitvity would obviously not be accompanied by an immediate financial incentive.
Come on, I think that would be the least of their psychological problems given the work that they have been doing!
How many of them would hate all men after having worked as a WG for a fair while?
I would imagine that many WGs (most perhaps) would need counselling just to live a "normal" life in which she feels able to trust a man again, after retiring.

My response to the OP's question.  I think that once you've had your first punt, you're a punter for life in the sense that you've crossed a boundary and there's no turning back.  However, that doesn't mean that you have to actively punt your whole life.
« Last Edit: November 16, 2013, 08:23:39 AM by LL »

have tried to stop and cant or maybe just dont want to :)

Offline Knick

The effect on the minds of a WG? Who knows perhaps only an ex WG is the only person who can answer. I tend to fall into the "you pay for it anyway" wrt girlfriends, wives etc. Men have the labour/utility and therefore money & resources, and women have the bodies and therefore are the gateway to reproduction. The last 50 years or so of feminism has changed some of that but the psychology of men and women took humans a couple of hundred thousand of years to develop.

I've always felt men objectify women sexually and women objectify men based on their utility and wealth. So paying for sex as about as honest a transaction you could make. So maybe it doesn't have as much of a negative effect on a girl any more than it does on the punter. Or it could all be bollocks and were all going to hell anyway if the Christians turn out to be right all along.

Offline wristjob


While its true that men are always receptive to "fresh" meat, thanks to the coolidge effect, emotions can seriously complicate things. I fell madly in love with a WG some months ago and have been utterly obsessed with her ever since. I didnt intend for this to happen, it just did.

However what surprised me is that during this time I have been in love I have had almost no motivation to visit any other WG, and the one time I did I couldnt even get an erection ( it felt like I was cheating and I wasnt attracted to this new WG ) . Also most of the girls I see in everyday life appear to be severely unattractive compared to the WG I love.


I've punted on and off for close to 20 years. There were less early days due to cash but recently more cash and the internet have helped make it more frequent.

In that time I've never had a regular. I've seen 3 different girls a total of 3 times. One was about the only girl I knew, quite cheap and quite good (1st time anyway). The 2nd was amazing but quit. 3rd is brilliant. Despite that I never saw them on back to back punts. I'd have the choice between a brilliant girl or a less attractive girl, same price, often as not give a crap service and I just can't help myself going to new girls and being disappointed.

To be fair I've always been faithful inside of any relationships, but outside it's more the desire to try new girls than even the sex side of things. I think once you've gone past any taboos WRT punting then you'll probably always be back eventually.


Offline Persie

I was watching a program about monkeys or apes or something in the wildlife where the male would bring the female some food and she would shag him!

In the end, when you strip away our culture, englightenment and civilisation, we are just animals  :thumbsup:
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