In a perfect world of punting every single working girl would provide a fantastic service. In this world we wouldn't need forums describing our experiences and persuading others to stay clear of the scammers, timewasters and tricksters. The level of service can definitely vary between girl. Some women are just innocently inexperienced at sex, some women follow a mechanical routine due to too much practice and others would rather stab you with a crusifix than give you the service that you paid for with your hard earned cash.
When we buy a service we have a set a mount of expectations on what we expect from this service. When you pay for a hair cut you expect that the hair dresser will neatly trim your hair and make you look better than you did before. When you pay for your car to be washed you expect your car to look stunning and clean when it is finished. You simply pay for a service and you recieve it. The service is a simple action. What about sex then? Is this a simple action? For men most definitely but for women sex can be a lot more complex and some of its causes is deeply rooted in evolutionary psychology.
Men and womens minds are very much different. We as men are more logical and to the point while women are a lot more complicated and emotional with many layers of hormones that dictate sometimes their often diabolical decision making processes that often times they do not understand within the moment. A book can be written about the differences between men and womens minds but for now lets just focus on the basics.
Women want to be having sex with the male who can provide her offspring with the strongest genes. Women seek men for their survival value and their strength. Back in the cave man era this meant the male who was able to protect her and look after their offspring. This is how the attraction process works in women. Women seek men with high value. In essence attraction in itself is a value judging circuit.
Nowadays we are in a era where we are not walking around fighting with weapons and showing the women that we can protect her and are high value. Women have had to adapt and look for characteristics that may indicate our survival value. In modern terms this is called confidence. A women will often test you in your interactions to see if you can confidence within yourself. This can come in many shapes or forms. Anything from 'Will you buy me a drink' in a bar to 'Should we go on a break' in a 5 year relationship. As we can tell relationships and sex is definitely a lot more complex for women then it is for men.
This is why in my opinion no matter how much it hurts sometimes that sex cannot be treated as a simple action and service by the girl. Some girls really struggle with balancing their concious mind and their subconcious psychological processes. Let me give you an example....
''Kathlyn has decided that she is going to become an escort. She needs the money for christmas and loves sex so thinks that joining this industry will provide her with more wealth and more time to have fun and pleasure. Her first meeting is with a guy named 'BigBob' she is both extremely nervous and excited about her first meeting.
Bob enters her hotel room and compliments her on her looks. Kathlyn went to big trouble with making sure her looks were perfect as she wanted bob to find her attractive. She takes the compliment well but wants to get the money out of the way soon as possible. Bob then goes in to kiss her but she backs off and asks bob to give her the money so they can enjoy themselves. Kathlyn wants to get the money out of the way as soon as possible so she doesn't feel like she has been 'bought' - which if we remember from womens psychology conflicts with why women have sex. They don't have sex for money they have sex with high value men. Bob gets a bad feeling and thinks Kathlyn is going to be a bad punt but gives her the money and hopes it will get better.
During the initial stages Kathlyn is getting increasingly nervous. Her concious mind is saying 'Provide a service and her subconcious mind is saying 'I do not want sex this man hasn't displayed the criteria i need in order to get horny and have sex. Kathlyn then says to Bob lets talk for a bit and begins chatting to him. Bob just wants to get down to business but Kathlyn tries to engage him in conversation. This annoys bob as he interprets this as delaying tactics and begins to get increasingly aggitated. Bob paid for a service and expects it but Kathlyn is finding it difficult to battle her subconcious mind. She goes along with it and allows bob to penetrate her despite getting a bit of an attitude which she tries to control.
Bob then begins penetrating kathlyn for the next hour non stop. Kathlyn begins to hurt and turns to bob and says 'I am not a sex machine!' Bob then says I PAID FOR A SERVICE. You give me what I paid for!' Bob does not understand the comment that Kathlyn gave her. He thinks he paid for a service so he should get it but forgets that this is a person and not a machine.
Bob and Kathlyn begin to build some tension and the punt which started off so well seems to be plummeting in positive atmosphere. He thinks right I have had enough of her attitude so I am going to finish quickly and get it over with. Bob then leaves Kathlyns house and wishes he found a better service provider.
As you can tell for some women providing a sex service can be difficult. Not all women are geared towards this line of work as some find it more difficult to balance their internal processes with the ones at hand. These women should quit but with the current decrease in economy some women need this line of work in order to live the lifestyle they want. Some women however find it easy to balance their internal processes and more often than not are regarded as fantastic service providers. Which they definitely are.
Turning a bad punt into a good punt: I think it is just recognising that you are going a bit too fast for the girl. She is providing you a service but she is not a machine. This is why I never have expectations while going into a punt but let things develop exactly how they would be as if i was with a girl I wasn't paying for. Would you do things the same way if you were with a girl you wasn't paying for? You are being both unnatural to her as she is being unnatural to you.
Here is an example of a recent punt I had with an Italian girl:
One of the reasons why I booked this girl is because I wanted to dominate her and after a 1 week hiatus of no release I was ready for some good dirty sex.
She entered my hotel room and seemed quite nervous and aloof. I knew that I would need to work a little bit slower with this girl or risk the punt going bad. Maybe I should just send her away? Nah this girl is extremely gorgeous and I want us to have amazing pleasure together. I got the money out of the way as soon as possible. I handed it to her and then left the room for a moment. I then came back in and sat on the bed and began texting on my phone. This warped what shes used to and took her a little off guard. 'Is everything ok?' she said to me. I said yes everything is fantastic. The lack of attention caused her to jump on top of me. Ok so now we are getting somewhere. Even though I paid her for a service I just got to help her battle her inner demons so we can open the venutian flood gates.
She then during this moment hit her head on the lamp shade.
I smiled at her and said 'Oh dear not the best of starts is it?
' She laughed and began initiating me in playful banter. As the banter increased I began touching her body and kissing her and getting her aroused. She then started to look nervous again and I quickly jumped off her smiling and said 'hold up and began texting on my phone. I think at this point she started to work for my attention and I could tell something changed within her. We began kissing and I teased her body for 15 minutes until she couldn't take it anymore. Now she was ready for sex. Now she was ready to be dominated.
I then quickly pinned her to the bed and began demonstrating how dominating I was. If I had gone too fast with her from the start I just think her attitude would have increased due to her subconcious processes. All in all we had the most fantastic dominating sex. Its details locked away in the vault of time.
In conclusion I believe there are some bad service providers out there. There are people who truely do not want to be in the job or forced and others who just find it difficult to balance their internal processes and we interpret it as they are bad service providers. Maybe it would be good for some girl wg's here to chip in and let me know if I have nailed it but I think I have done pretty well.
I think you just need to be slower and engage the girl in banter and let her act on her attraction for you despite her internal processes going hay wire. To be chill and just like you would be with a girl you werent paying. Obviously we are paying for a service and we expect what we pay for but sometimes we just have to realise that
women are not machines.