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Hyborean

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I know many guys avoid seeing WGs more than once for various reasons and would never have a regular so this is not aimed at them.

In my search to find a new regular I have seen a few likely ladies more than once but am usually disappointed as by the third punt most of them do not seem to be trying as hard. Now I am more than willing to accept that it may be just me that they are bored with  :D but I can't help thinking that some of them drop their level of service the moment they feel they have me 'hooked'!

Anyone else experience this?

Offline Steve2

It happens but sometimes you find one that gets better with each subsequent visit. When that stops happening it's time to move on

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Offline Jimmyredcab

Regulars can be great but as soon as they get complacent you should dump them.    :hi:

Hyborean

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Agreed! Which is why it makes it so difficult to find a good regular!

squeezebox

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I fall into the category of trying not to see a WG more than once, however, recently that has changed.

I've so far seen her twice and it was better than the first. Maybe the third time could be like your experience, hope not! Because she was my type, and her services were good and varied, there seems to scope to do more.

It also depends on what else you take from a punt. Light conversation, role play ideas help plan ahead for the next one.

When you find a WG that you click with, you'll know about it!  :cool:

Offline Steve2

Agreed! Which is why it makes it so difficult to find a good regular!

They are out there but few and far between


Joe Blob

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I posted about Third Punt Syndrome a while ago, they either think "l've got a regular, l'd better look after him" and they get better, or else "l've got a regular, l don't have to try anymore" Sadly, there are too many of the latter, but the former are great when you do find them


Offline AnthG

I posted about Third Punt Syndrome a while ago, they either think "l've got a regular, l'd better look after him" and they get better, or else "l've got a regular, l don't have to try anymore" Sadly, there are too many of the latter, but the former are great when you do find them
There is a third category - those with clear mental health issues who take offence at the most absurdest and stupidest of things and don't show it until after they have taken your money for the subsequent booking.

I would go out on a limb and say many prostitutes have mental health issues but are able to disguise it until its regular booking time.
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Offline CoolTiger

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It can work both ways...

If I find a gem that I like, by 2nd or 3rd, quite often I may have negotiated a good, lower rate for a 2hr appt.

These future visits man easily be "cancelled" by the girl, at the last minute sometimes,  cos she may have a higher paying punter, although the reason given is quite often different (surprise visit from a friend/family member, time of the month, etc.

If you are happy with this, which I usually am, provided appt is not cancelled that often, then it can be a good arrangement.

Agree with all the others that if service begins to fail, it's time to move on. I once had a regular who was not too happy with a cum twice request on my 3rd visit (in a f*****g 2hr appt!!). When reminded although she did provide it, that was my last visit to her and I did let her know that she would normally provide this to ANY punter in a 1hr appt, let alone a 2hr one.

 

potato

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Regulars can be good or bad as outlined already.  A sensible girl knows that she is on to a good thing - regular client, safe, non timewaster etc., and will put herself out a little more to keep him.  I also find that as you get comfortable with each other and know each others likes and dislikes then the service gets better. There is also the ability to experiment a bit more and take a few more safe liberties as some trust is built.

If you are the typical - "you give me a blowjob, then I give you RO and then fuck you" routine type person then you would probably get bored.  If you are like me and swap the routines around, come up with something new each time and explore the boundaries, then you don't.  A lot depends on the level of trust built up between you.

Unfortunately some girls see a regular job as an easy time for them and the chat creeps in and the action creeps out - definitely time to move on.  If I find a gem of a girl then I will stick to them. I find it more fun. Its nice to have a safe bet in the bag.  Not for everyone I suppose especially if you enjoy the thrill of a new girl each time. I would rather go for a sure thing and make the thrill by adding something new to each meet.

Persie

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There is a third category - those with clear mental health issues who take offence at the most absurdest and stupidest of things and don't show it until after they have taken your money for the subsequent booking.

I would go out on a limb and say many prostitutes have mental health issues but are able to disguise it until its regular booking time.

Do you know what?

I think I agree that they tend to have psychological issues (self-esteem or other) or just baggage

Even if they don't and they do this job they have to totally disengage their brain from the body as they have to do things they don't always like, with guys they don't always like and they probably have constant worries about health / security


ulander

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Really good regulars are scarce as hen's teeth.  In more than 30 years punting I've found no more than three or four.  Which is why my general rule is not to go back for a second round, even if the first meeting has been pretty good.  But if you do find a good regular, she's worth her weight in gold.  Well, perhaps not gold.  But you know what I mean.

hollysbeenabadgirl

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They have to do things they don't always like, with guys they don't always like


No we do not.

I am as mad as belly buttons, but my MH is fine and dandy.

Offline smiths

I know many guys avoid seeing WGs more than once for various reasons and would never have a regular so this is not aimed at them.

In my search to find a new regular I have seen a few likely ladies more than once but am usually disappointed as by the third punt most of them do not seem to be trying as hard. Now I am more than willing to accept that it may be just me that they are bored with  :D but I can't help thinking that some of them drop their level of service the moment they feel they have me 'hooked'!

Anyone else experience this?

In the main my punts get better as the WG gets to know what i like and exactly how i like it. For me i always get bored of a regular sooner or later though might return again after a break.

If they didnt get better i go elsewhere.

Offline smiths

Do you know what?

I think I agree that they tend to have psychological issues (self-esteem or other) or just baggage

Even if they don't and they do this job they have to totally disengage their brain from the body as they have to do things they don't always like, with guys they don't always like and they probably have constant worries about health / security

Unless being forced against their will a WG doesnt "have" to do anything she doesnt want to do, she chooses to do so, a massive difference of course. As an adult she is 100% responsible for the decisions she makes.

Offline skittish

I've only seen one prossie more than 3 times and the last time she was a complete nightmare. She wanted to talk shit throughout the whole booking and even stopped midway through a BJ to ask 'do you have a big bank account'

She greeted me with the words 'what have you bought for me?' implying I was supposed to bring her a gift. I should have walked then but she has a reputation for acting up so thought she was joking. I think 2 or 3 times with the same girl from now on tops for me and then dump them.

Offline Daffodil

Outside of punting, we meet and fall in love with a girl and have a mutual sexual attraction. Lots of good sex ensues. What then happens with time? The amount and quality of sex reduces.

Surely the same should be expected of a punter/prossie relationship, but moreso?

theotherside

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There is a third category - those with clear mental health issues who take offence at the most absurdest and stupidest of things and don't show it until after they have taken your money for the subsequent booking.

I would go out on a limb and say many prostitutes have mental health issues but are able to disguise it until its regular booking time.

1 in 3 people have suffered or are suffering from mental health problems so this would make sense. Perhaps you are right that alot of them are drawn into this job but in my experience to quote c.s lewis "we're all mad here"  :wackogirl:
I've only seen one prossie more than 3 times and the last time she was a complete nightmare. She wanted to talk shit throughout the whole booking and even stopped midway through a BJ to ask 'do you have a big bank account'

She greeted me with the words 'what have you bought for me?' implying I was supposed to bring her a gift. I should have walked then but she has a reputation for acting up so thought she was joking. I think 2 or 3 times with the same girl from now on tops for me and then dump them.


Are you kidding me? How bloody rude. Whats your bank account got to do with her. And mid blowjob too? Terrible

Offline cunnyhunt

Are you kidding me? How bloody rude. Whats your bank account got to do with her. And mid blowjob too? Terrible

Yes, good manners she should have asked at the end, or on the last strokes  :cool:

theotherside

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Yes, good manners she should have asked at the end, or on the last strokes  :cool:


 :lol: I just have visions of her with a mouthful of cock asking questions.

Offline Corus Boy

I  usually find that meets get better as you get to know each other, but at any sign of complacency;

Make a booking through AW with someone you fancy, agreeing that Feedback will be left for each other.
When your reg. sees that you have "strayed" service usually takes a sharp upturn.

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KingCharming

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For some reason, on the few occasions I've found a WG is worth seeing again, she ignores my PM or text.

It's probably because I'm TOO handsome/charming/good in bed. Yes, that must definitely be it.

aerofan5

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It's a simple reason - the male DNA.

Males have the subconscious urgency to spread their genes widely to ensure that most of their offspring survive. Getting bored with individual partners is just the way it manifests itself.

Females sense this and lose interest themselves when they realise that the partner is about to seek fresh relationships.

It's the way we (all) are and why our species has multiplied.

BristolP

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In a single meeting both parties play a row. As you see a WG more often as a regular, you gradually get to know each other better.

You either find you like her and she is comfortable with you, or you find the she is someone you don’t really like once the mask has slipped a little.

Persie

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No we do not.

I am as mad as belly buttons, but my MH is fine and dandy.
Denial is the first stage towards acceptance  :dance:

Persie

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Unless being forced against their will a WG doesnt "have" to do anything she doesnt want to do, she chooses to do so, a massive difference of course. As an adult she is 100% responsible for the decisions she makes.

You say its free choice if they are not forced but I am sure some of the girls have shagged or done things with guys that would rather not

They are running a business so if they turn someone down, that is lost revenue. i am not saying that they are not 100% responsible or its against their will but they can't be happy every time they fuck a client


TheDoctor

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On the whole it's the law of diminishing returns with repeat bookings. Too many girls have a script they go through with every client. If you see them twice you'll get exactly the same experience minus the initial thrill.

There are occasional exceptions. One girl I saw told me how she tried doubly hard with her regs knowing they pay her bills. Any other bookings are a bonus, I would have seen her again but I gave her negative feedback for cheating the thankfully departed booking raffle system AW used to have. She took that badly so I never became a reg.

Offline smiths

You say its free choice if they are not forced but I am sure some of the girls have shagged or done things with guys that would rather not

They are running a business so if they turn someone down, that is lost revenue. i am not saying that they are not 100% responsible or its against their will but they can't be happy every time they fuck a client

As i said thats up to them as adults. You have now brought being happy into the equation, many people are not happy in the job they do, if that bothered do something else instead is the option they have.

mystery7

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There's one girl I've seen 4 times this year. First time she was a bit off, second time she was friendly and recognised me from months before, third time she was awesome, but I saw her a week ago and she was back to how she was the first time.
Its the fact she's just my type that keeps me going back, but I must admit I felt like shit after the last punt with her. Its a shame because she's the only WG I actually find attractive :(
It always ends well, but I can't be bothered anymore to be the one making her comfortable when it should be the other way around.
I normally punt a new girl then see the above WG in-between each new punt, and it was working great until the other week.
After acting up for 20 mins or so she got into it, and we left on good terms with her asking me to come back soon. But I think this will be my last visit. A real shame  :thumbsdown:

Persie

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As i said thats up to them as adults. You have now brought being happy into the equation, many people are not happy in the job they do, if that bothered do something else instead is the option they have.

thats exactly the point...most of them get addicted to the cash because otherwise they would be on minimum wage

Offline wristjob

I know many guys avoid seeing WGs more than once for various reasons and would never have a regular so this is not aimed at them.

In my search to find a new regular I have seen a few likely ladies more than once but am usually disappointed as by the third punt most of them do not seem to be trying as hard. Now I am more than willing to accept that it may be just me that they are bored with  :D but I can't help thinking that some of them drop their level of service the moment they feel they have me 'hooked'!

Anyone else experience this?

I'm not your demographic but might add something.

I've only ever seen 3 girls 3 times.

1st girl was great the 1st time and the 3rd time was once too many.
2nd girl was great each time, then retired :(
3rd girl - first 2 times were both brilliant. Last time was good but whereas the first 2 times she was kind of seeking out what worked for me the last time was a bit familiar and a bit of autopilot. I got treated to the fake orgasm crap that I hadn't had the first 2 times. She's a current girl and to be honest I think it would be nice to have a regular but maybe nothing can really replace that spontaneous, unknown you have the first couple of times. Definitely becomes a proper GFE - in the bad ways.

Offline hendrix

I have a few regulars that I see a lot. No problems with service level otherwise they'd get dropped pretty sharpish.

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For some reason, on the few occasions I've found a WG is worth seeing again, she ignores my PM or text.

It's probably because I'm TOO handsome/charming/good in bed. Yes, that must definitely be it.

Your name said it all   :lol: :lol: :lol:

dj3k

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I  usually find that meets get better as you get to know each other, but at any sign of complacency;

Make a booking through AW with someone you fancy, agreeing that Feedback will be left for each other.
When your reg. sees that you have "strayed" service usually takes a sharp upturn.

 :cool:
I think we been seeing the same women.  I did that, normal service resumed  :D
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dj3k

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There's one girl I've seen 4 times this year. First time she was a bit off, second time she was friendly and recognised me from months before, third time she was awesome, but I saw her a week ago and she was back to how she was the first time.
Its the fact she's just my type that keeps me going back, but I must admit I felt like shit after the last punt with her. Its a shame because she's the only WG I actually find attractive :(
It always ends well, but I can't be bothered anymore to be the one making her comfortable when it should be the other way around.
I normally punt a new girl then see the above WG in-between each new punt, and it was working great until the other week.
After acting up for 20 mins or so she got into it, and we left on good terms with her asking me to come back soon. But I think this will be my last visit. A real shame  :thumbsdown:

You in South Wales ? Can I ask who it is ? Message me if you don't want to be public as one of my regulars was off this week and been seeing her for months and out of character.

mystery7

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Hey there. No not a welsh girl but a Londoner, don't really want to out her. She' been doing a decent job of that herself recently! I'll only expose bad punts if there absolutely awful, but this one wasn't, just a bit below par. Think she's on her way out anyway.

Offline Trenlover

In my experience its highly variable. Only a few girls have I seen more than once. There are so many factors really, maybe the girl has already seen 3 guys that day? Maybe she didnt get a good nights sleep? It does really depend on the personality of the girl aswell. A girl that would be honest and hard working in a normal job would likely also be hard working in escorting.

One thing I have learnt as a punter is that quality of service is WAY more important than the attractiveness of the girl.

Iblisuk

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I've had varying degrees of this, I like seeing a WG more Han once and have usually had good experiences, but do find it starts to decline in quality after about the 4th or 5th meeting in my experience.

But to throw into the mix this, it could be the punter that gets complacent we expect more from a regular WG a little bit extra at no extra charge, a little bit of a discount.

It was definitely me on one occasion but the other 3 WG's I've seen as regulars they started to think I was falling for them and I would come back no matter what.

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I've only ever seen 3 girls 3 times.

3rd girl - first 2 times were both brilliant. Last time was good but whereas the first 2 times she was kind of seeking out what worked for me the last time was a bit familiar and a bit of autopilot. I got treated to the fake orgasm crap that I hadn't had the first 2 times. She's a current girl and to be honest I think it would be nice to have a regular but maybe nothing can really replace that spontaneous, unknown you have the first couple of times. Definitely becomes a proper GFE - in the bad ways.

Saw this girl again today. First girl I ever saw 4 times. She didn't seem overly keen on kissing at all really. Apart from that I guess she was spot on but somehow there weren't sparks like the first time. I guess however you wrap it up it will never have the anticipation and excitement of the first time again.

Offline the_exile

I think maybe if you find someone you do have a bit of a connection with - perhaps you just get on & have a laugh - then repeat visits can be just as good. Maybe the first time a girl makes a special effort for a new punter? Have had several regulars in the past & some of the repeat visits have been very good!

Offline Thepegmeister

Just for balance; I've actually had 3 girls that I've seen who offered more services after a couple of meets. All three were insistent that they didn't do cim and stated this in their profile and when we met. However, after seeing them a few times they all then subsequently offered cim, although still didn't advertise it.

One of them use to be adamant that she didn't do cim and on our first meet told me that if I came in her mouth she would 'bite your cock off.' 4th time I saw her she was giving me owo near the end of the punt and suddenly looked at me and came out with 'I want you to come in my mouth.' Honestly, I think I exploded and flooded the street.

Offline smiths

Just for balance; I've actually had 3 girls that I've seen who offered more services after a couple of meets. All three were insistent that they didn't do cim and stated this in their profile and when we met. However, after seeing them a few times they all then subsequently offered cim, although still didn't advertise it.

One of them use to be adamant that she didn't do cim and on our first meet told me that if I came in her mouth she would 'bite your cock off.' 4th time I saw her she was giving me owo near the end of the punt and suddenly looked at me and came out with 'I want you to come in my mouth.' Honestly, I think I exploded and flooded the street.

Yes i have had similar with regulars, Rimming being offered as well as Cim or a Facial on ocassion which the WGs didnt advertise they offered.

aerofan5

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You are right there TPM.

When a girl says 'Come in my mouth' that just gives you the best orgasm ever!

Online itk

I try to find a regular as I find the service gets better. Less awkward moments and I find I can relax more around them. One I had did tend to put less into the appointments as time went on so it was a case to move on.

richie

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I really miss my old reg Miss Morgan. She was awesome, great service, very friendly and welcoming, bang tidy body and arse and a really good personality too boot!

Unfortunately she lost her incall place when the girl she worked with quit escorting so now only dose out calls which I can't accommodate  :cry:

I'd recommend her 100% to anyone around the Banbury/oxfordshire area who can though!

Offline Dogfather

You are right there TPM.

When a girl says 'Come in my mouth' that just gives you the best orgasm ever!

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Is there a "tips for working girls" section of UKP yet?  :D

Offline threechilliman

Seen one girl twice. Second time was better than the first. Making plans for a third visit....

pleasure

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  :lol: I just have visions of her with a mouthful of cock asking questions.

Mffgh gmph mff guur gggank uggount?

willbred

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After many years of "playing the field", I'm lucky to have found a regular who:
Offers everything I need
Delivers enthusiastically every time
Has feedback and reports across the board which attest to this

Service hasn't declined in 200 odd visits going back almost 5 years

pierrot

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Ive never had one, till now.
The only minor problem Ive got is not wanting to turn in to footyfan.