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Author Topic: How important is intercourse to you on a punt?  (Read 6223 times)

Offline Hyborean

Although I don't really feel like I have had a proper punt if I don't have penetrative sex it is far from the most important thing to me. I just feel like I have missed something without it or paid for something without getting what I paid for.

The most important part for me is the suspension of disbelief and the human intimate interaction with a beautiful woman. The kissing, cuddling and oral are all part of that theatre and my endorphins rely on that even though my rational mind knows it is all fake.

Offline Curious

Sorry, and applying this to anal as mentioned above, this might be thought of a particular example of squeezing, depending on the circumstances of course.

Offline akauya

Pretty much essential, having said that I have two punts were it was oral only. It seems unsatisfying, sort of like going to an all you can eat buffet and only having rice.

Yep, that's exactly how I feel... OWO and CIM are a nice bonus but in order to feel satisfied penetration is essential to me.

Offline jackdaw

My cock nowadays is about as reliable as British weather.

Yes it will get hard at some point of punt, but it may or not stay that way long enough for prolonged intercourse. Doesn't bother me enough to take slight health risks associated with Viagra.

Not a major part of the punt for me, anyhow.... I prefer a full on snog to full intercourse. Can be an issue with some WG's, some seem to equate soft cock with lack of sexual arousal, and ease back on effort they are putting in.

Good thread.

Intercourse is no longer the be all n end all for me.  As long as i come i'm not arsed.

I blame this on 20 years of serious drug/prossie abuse.

Never taken viagra.

Curious6705

I can relate to that.   :thumbsup:

Some guys accept pro$$ies who refuse to kiss and even give them positive reviews --------------- I find that bizarre.    :crazy:

I'm the reverse. To me kissing often seems too intimate for a paid-for encounter, and I can take it or leave it.

Offline Ben4454


I used to have this problem with not staying hard enough during sex and the punt.

My problem was that I masturbated too much and watched way too much porn. When you get off with porn using the 'death grip' your mind becomes acustomed to the tight sensation feeling and you end up only being  able  to get off using this. When you also use the 'death grip' you lose sensitive sensations in the penis and you can't feel as much so sex can become boring.

The trick to getting over it and curing the problem is to stop masturbating completely and only get release during sex. Also cut out porn completely and get used to getting aroused and solid with a woman in the same room.

Nowadays I do not masturbate or watch porn. I might go for a punt every couple of weeks - it feels so much better when you have been abstaining and getting that release after a few weeks. I also love the feeling of being 'full up' and feeling like a minotaur with the injection of confidence you recieve.

To answer your question not all of my punts involve penetration. I never put pressure on myself that every punt will involve penetration. I stick with oral and if i feel super horny for it - we'll do it.
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Offline Ali Katt

I'm the reverse. To me kissing often seems too intimate for a paid-for encounter, and I can take it or leave it.
I used to feel the same. Having had a good snog off a few girls it enhanced the experience. Kissing isn't essential for me, but a good messy DFK is always welcome, a peck on the lips does nothing for me.

Because I went so long "without" before becoming a punter, intercourse is pretty important to me, although I don't often cum during intercourse.  I'm not sure whether that's due to the medication, my age, some of my hang-ups or any combination of the three.  My Regulars know about this problem and do their best to accommodate me; and as others have implied, it's the full experience of the time together that's most important to me - if I can get her to come via RO, that's the icing on the cake for me, although I appreciate it wouldn't do for others.

I qualify for tablets on prescription because of the side-effects of my disability and used to be okay on Viagra.    Since it came off patent, I've been getting Sildenafil which doesn't seem to be as effective so later this month when my repeat prescription is due, I'm going to see my GP [rather than ring up the Health Centre for a repeat prescription] and ask to be put back on Viagra.

It's become more obvious to me lately that I don't really enjoy intercourse on a punt that much.  Like you I don't find I feel very much with a condom on, and I've come to realise that what I do like about it is the intimacy of it, but that only works if it's someone you genuinely like and have chemistry with, and if the girl seems to be enjoying it too; not something you get when the WG obviously wants you out the door.

I've decided to stick to 30 minute OWO punts these days, and if I find I click with the girl I'll just ask to extend the booking and have sex. Have yet to put it into practice however as Glasgow is a desert and I'm absolutely skint.

Offline KentAde

Normal intercourse is NIL for me in bookings - prefer oral- however as anal sex is a bit naughty and a taboo subject for some, I do like to participate with that now and again! Although never for a long time as I prefer a nice mouth round my cock as long as possible! :D

Offline willbred

The only plus point about having been diagnosed Type 2 diabetic nearly 9 years ago was getting Cialis free. The medication had been doing my erection no favours at all. I would say that I probably only have penetrative sex 1 in 3 or 1 in 4 punts, except with a couple of regulars with whom its 3 in 4??
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Offline Hyborean

I bet there are WGs reading this going "Oh no, not more punters that don't want to shag, shoot and fuck off!"  :D

Offline manc36

Ah, but some of us are not that interested in kissing, and the same is more true for me for ro. I could have a perfectly positive punt that did not involve kissing. Each to their own.

I would, however, try and mention in any review whether kissing seemed to be on offer or not as I know it's important to many.

I am the same. I didn't even know what DFK meant before I joined this site. Surprised me a little at how popular kissing is. Not for me, a mouth is for skull fucking only :).

In regards to the op. Even though a condom and slack fanny are passion killers, I always want sex.

Offline SteveNova

DFK is really important to me and the more tongue use the better.  If I spend time kissing, cuddling, fingering, having OWO, and spanking the girl if on her likes list, then intercourse is not always essential.  I do take kamagra or silagra and it works well as long as I have an empty stomach - it also helps me in lengthening the time to cum.  Generic viagra is available at Asda I gather, after completing a medical questionnaire, but I used http://www.cheap-kamagra-supplier.com

Offline Steve2

A punt without intercourse would be like having roast beef without the yorkshire pudding and roast potatoes

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Offline Jamiee92

A punt without intercourse would be like having roast beef without the yorkshire pudding and roast potatoes

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Offline wristjob

Probably around 1/4 of my punts were purely OWO/CIM. It would have been more if the girls all did the services that were advertised. Anyway most girls I had sex with outside of punting weren't keen on a BJ after you'd been wearing a condom so I kind of carried that over - if I put a rubber on I didn't really expect them to rip it off and have them suck me again.

Recently that's changed because I found out they don't much care so nowadays the preference is start off with oral, a bit of penetration then finish in their mouth. If Im honest the pen doesn't even need to be that much, almost like ticking a box to say I've done it. If I could find a girl who was happy to suck me for a solid hour I think that would do really.



Offline dilettante

Funnily enough I've been the other way round - when I started having sex in mid-30s (don't laugh, please!) I was only semipotent to start with, then something just clicked and no trouble since - though I can't pop more than once per hour.  My biggest worry is cumming in the first 5 mins from oral so I have to pace myself so I can last 15! ;-)  But I'll easily go a month without any sexual activity in between - or until I found a girl up the road who does 30 mins for £40 that is.

There's a good book called "The Tao of health, sex and longevity" by Daniel Someone that may have all the answers to these problems, it's got a whole section on sex, how to do it, ejaculation control etc, there might be something there that can help?  It talks about Chinese sages in bygone centuries who lived to incredible ages through their practices (200 years + in one case), they would live up in the hills growing herbs, when they brought then to market they would hire a couple of WGs with the proceeds, bring each to orgasm a couple of times - but without allowing themselves to cum as that would have depleted their internal energies! ;-)

Offline Hyborean

Funnily enough I've been the other way round - when I started having sex in mid-30s (don't laugh, please!) I was only semipotent to start with, then something just clicked and no trouble since - though I can't pop more than once per hour.  My biggest worry is cumming in the first 5 mins from oral so I have to pace myself so I can last 15! ;-)  But I'll easily go a month without any sexual activity in between - or until I found a girl up the road who does 30 mins for £40 that is.

There's a good book called "The Tao of health, sex and longevity" by Daniel Someone that may have all the answers to these problems, it's got a whole section on sex, how to do it, ejaculation control etc, there might be something there that can help?  It talks about Chinese sages in bygone centuries who lived to incredible ages through their practices (200 years + in one case), they would live up in the hills growing herbs, when they brought then to market they would hire a couple of WGs with the proceeds, bring each to orgasm a couple of times - but without allowing themselves to cum as that would have depleted their internal energies! ;-)

Think I would rather cum and not live so long..  :hi:

Offline berksboy

  Well punting without intercourse is like steak and chips without the steak ! why would you ?

  As for the pill i can get it at £1.75 to £1.00 per pill and if thats to much to pay how can you pay for the punt ?

Offline Knick

It wouldnt quite feel I got my moneys worth if I didn't get in a few strokes even if I had to finish of with hands. But at times I really much rather 69.

Not at all important to me.
I detest condoms because I often fail to get them on fast enough to stop the inevitable collapse of my errection and once this has happened, it's very difficult for me to get hard again

Offline bestbefore


 I believe Viagra may now be cheaper.

Is it worth buying Viagra again? 


Since this summer, Viagra is out of patent in the UK and therefore the generic versions are freely available and much cheaper. You can now get generic sildenafil prescribed, which is the same stuff. I am paying about £2 a 50mg tablet (on private prescription from my gp) - I can only imagine it will get cheaper as more companies produce it.

Worth getting in my view - the cost is minimal compared to a punt!

Offline ManInBlack

When I started punting 5/6 months ago I figured sex would be the be all and end all.  Inadvertantly however, I've found this isn't the case. 

During my first few punts I found that I came pretty much as soon as I got inside the girl, I was fine throughout foreplay etc it was just as soon as sex began.  I've had non punting sex in between times where this has not happened so I know it's not a major problem as such.  I figure it's either my mind telling me I shouldn't be doing this so not letting me have pleasure, or it's the thrill of sex with a new girl.  Either way I seem to have developed a case of the punting yips!  Anybody else experienced this?

Anyway, I found I was stressing about it ahead of a punt so decided I would not bother about sex and just have a relaxed time with oral or a handjob, which I've found satisfies me. 


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