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Author Topic: Giving up Punting  (Read 5448 times)

Been punting for 10 - 12 years, always when I've not got a girlfriend.  I have been a few years without seeing an escort but after getting out of my last relationship I've been seeing different escorts for about 10 months, usually 3 or 4 a month.  I found the regular sex difficult to give up after coming out of the relationship so hence the higher number of escorts.  I am though seriously considering quitting for good or at least for a good few years. 

I've had a lot of fun, some very good and some really bad punts over the past few months.  Now though I'm feeling a bit jaded and not enjoying seeing new women as much as I did.
The only real enjoyment I get is from my 2 regulars - I know what I'm getting and we get along well.  One regular is finishing soon and have been chatting with her about future plans etc  I have built up a good friendship with her so at least I'm going out on a high and can look back with good memories.

Though, I do worry I will return to punting sometime in the future.   I think both escorts and punters doing this for so long have real problems in quitting forever.

What made my mind up was the worst punt ever last week, where the women I went to see, (who has good reviews on AW) had let's just say some issues about the number of times I've seen one of my regulars.  Looking back it was stupid of me to mention my regular to her, but she did ask if I see many women, so I did mention I see my regular for x times a month and that we both staying in contact after we finish.

She though just totally went for me, saying that my regular was actually 'my girlfriend' then during oral kept saying 'your thinking about her aren't you'  Which to say the least is off putting.  Then she was saying 'you're not hard enough' 'bet you get hard with her'.  I did inflame the situation by saying I'm paying her for sex and not for her opinion.  Bad move though as we just ended up arguing and I left - so a totally unexpected experience and a complete waste of money.

So no idea what happened, but it just made me realise I'm not enjoying it anymore. So I'm done. (for now)

Hahaha bloody hell... Great anecdote! Think that girl has issues for sure...

I've also been thinking of winding down my punting. I probably overfaced myself in September/October  by fucking everything I could and got jaded, to such an extent (a) I couldn't cum on a few occasions including with a regular which was embarrassing and she got annoyed (b) I've practically run out of girls on my hotlist I really want to fuck. None of this is helped by my steadfast refusal to do anything other than outcall to my flat which in turn means I frequently get no shows having waiting in all night for them to arrive. Dispiriting.

Like TP I've done the sugardaddy thing before, and I'm having dinner on Sunday with an Italian girl with a view to forming an arrangement. She was a bit unlucky - her profile kept on getting deleted on AW despite being genuine so she got hacked off with it and gave up. I was one of the few who saw her before she quit and we've remained friends.

On the flip side, there's tomorrow night. May try and see this one. https://www.adultwork.com/2206425 Who knows? She may just help me rediscover my mojo so I can cancel Sunday.

Offline ulander

I love punting.  There's the exciting anticipation if you're seeing someone for the first time.  If you pick and choose carefully, there's some brilliant and varied sex to be had.  And for the most part it comes without tiresome strings attached.  I will only stop when forced to do so by old age.  I've never been able to afford frequent punts.  I punt once every three or four weeks.  But when I do, I enjoy it far too much to think of quitting.

Ha, yeah I gave up for a while as well and did save a bit of cash

But lets face it if you date a girl you pay, if you marry one you pay

Sometimes it's just better to pay a WG and take all the stress away.

You've just got to be picky on who you choose that's important so not to get ripped off and not to feel like you've thrown all the cash in the bog

One quality punt every now and then is great  :thumbsup:

That's why we need to share all the good info on those who are good and those who fuck it up.  :diablo:

But lets face it if you date a girl you pay, if you marry one you pay

Sometimes it's just better to pay a WG and take all the stress away.

Now that's something I 100% agree with. I probably pay a lot less now I'm divorced and have a lot more fun that's for sure  :yahoo:

Offline potato

I have half given up punting in respect that I haven't seen anyone new appear that appeals to me that is within range.  I get the new profile email alerts and if someone did appear that meets my criteria then I would, it hasn't happened this year so far....  I would punt further a field but my problem, like other people I expect, is the limited time available without raising suspicion at home.   Granted, I am cushioned by having a regular girl that is "below the radar"  She has not been on AW for 18 months, has a proper full time job which she loves (she gave up escorting for it) and although she moved well away from the area with job promotion, she comes back at least once a month to visit her mother. Its almost "friends with benefits" and I get her company for an afternoon at an hourly rate similar to what I pay an engineer.   Its helps that she is kinky and usually gagging for it as well and can't see me getting bored any time soon.  Still looking for that period in the month when she is not around though!

Offline unclepokey

The day I give up punting will be close to if not identical to the day I either become totally unable to maintain a stiffy, Auntie chops my stiffy off, or I become a stiff. The latter two could be the same date but you never know!

Uncle Pokey

Ah mate your situation could be better.

I know the feeling - you can get a regular thing and have your 'friend with benefits' thing going on and that would all seem good ont he surface

You're looking around either for adventure that excites you - and lets face it the thought of new pussy is always exciting to us - but that only last until you cum, or

I think you're looking for someone that's just a little bit special and you're trying to find it on a site like AW

Good luck my friend and I hope you find what you're looking for

I think if I was truly happy with one women then I'd give up AW but until then...... :diablo:


Offline Tailpipe

I've also been thinking of winding down my punting. I probably overfaced myself in September/October  by fucking everything I could and got jaded, to such an extent (a) I couldn't cum on a few occasions including with a regular which was embarrassing and she got annoyed (b) I've practically run out of girls on my hotlist I really want to fuck. None of this is helped by my steadfast refusal to do anything other than outcall to my flat which in turn means I frequently get no shows having waiting in all night for them to arrive. Dispiriting.

Like TP I've done the sugardaddy thing before, and I'm having dinner on Sunday with an Italian girl with a view to forming an arrangement. She was a bit unlucky - her profile kept on getting deleted on AW despite being genuine so she got hacked off with it and gave up. I was one of the few who saw her before she quit and we've remained friends.

On the flip side, there's tomorrow night. May try and see this one. https://www.adultwork.com/2206425 Who knows? She may just help me rediscover my mojo so I can cancel Sunday.

I have looked at that profile she is pretty just think she may be a bit of a unit. Good luck .

As for the SD could be good mine ended in a mess as I should have control it better.
I believe if you find the wright girl could be perfect.

Online fredpunter

sorry to resurrect an old thread and probably repeat what others have said but I'm wondering if my punting days are coming to an end. I'm never going to say I'll never do it again but ....

when I started I used to book hotels 2 or 3 months in advance (very cheaply) and look forward to seeing either a regular dancer friend, or putting up an RB for a 3 hour meeting and sifting through the bidders planning scenarios and determining what little itches could be scratched with which wg, but it's now months since my last RB, I just started to find it all a bit time consuming and long-winded, so switched to incalls for an hour or so, but I think maybe my itches have all been scratched. I was feeling a little bit frisky last Friday, and found a likely looking lass but when I contacted her and got her location, I worked out it was a 24 minute train journey with 5 minute walk at each end and I just though "I can't be arsed". So I've gone from planning it for weeks to can't be bothered to travel for 34 minutes.

If there were a brothel next door to work I could pop in to before heading home on a Friday night once a month I'd be tempted, but much more than that just seems too much bother now.

I'm changing jobs in the new year so maybe I'll look for something suitable .... not sure I can ask about the location of the nearest knocking shop at an interview though.           

Offline tazz

As crazy as it sounds i just love screwing a women whose after money and is screwing other guys. This isnt something i used to be into when i first started. I now have a gf and she thinks that due to my high sex drive and ability i must have been screwing escorts, so i cant even hide this. I even get my gf to say stuff like me buying her lots of presents and taking her shopping.

Although i dont enjoy it if the girl has attitude or is just providing a bad service.

Offline cunnyhunt

As crazy as it sounds        . I now have a gf and she thinks that due to my high sex drive and ability i must have been screwing escorts,

Why is that ?

It has to be the last conclusion a GF comes to about high sex drive.

Offline Knick

I wonder too, she could also assume you were starved of sex and are making up for it now...


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