youre already paying her upwards of £100 per hour.How many of us earn that much.
So why should anyone also buy a gift. This is not a relationship.
Very unlikely the prossie will buy any of us a gift - she has too many punters and she is only doing it for the money.
Th OP seems bit of a fluffy to me.
A logical reason to buy a gift could be if you really believe it to be a sound business investment. In other words, if you believe the gift will result in better service, and you also believe the level of service provided goes up a level acceptable to how much you are prepared to spend on the gift to make that happen.
I agree about how "fluffy" reasons are all bad ones... 2 main ones off the top of my head is that if someone is thinking about this, they are probably too close. Why would anyone want to be in a position where they feel bad that she didn't get them a present back, or worry that she wont? Maybe there could potentially be some scenario where someone was totally happy with this weird kind of friendship/relationship, but personally I think this unhealthy psychologically for the punter. The 2nd reason is that perhaps your WG may feel like you are trying to subtly bribe a better service out of her (like free extras or get her to do something she doesnt normally
) and may feel awkward about it and not want to see you or ironically lead to a worse service. Or she may feel like you're getting too close, with the same result.
There's also another reason, that I dont think it should be something that becomes normal. If every WG expected gifts because more and more men kept doing it, then punters would start to feel obliged to start doing it or else they will think they won't get treated well. I mean, if these girls didnt have to provide all these different services to earn the same money, or could charge more, they would. So its us the ones paying them that need to keep making sure we vote with our cash. Sure there are some guys who have no problem with no kissing, but if loads of guys that do really like that start making exceptions and a significant amount went to see girls that did not allow kissing, I think more and more WG's would stop offering it. Im preaching the choir I'm sure so I won't belabour the point.
If any girls are reading this... I do see these girls as real people, with thoughts and feelings, and I treat them with respect (unless they give me reason not to
) but that doesn't change the reality of the situation. PS:
Oh and I will also say as an aside thats kind of related, I am the kind of guy that generally dislikes serious romantic relationships with women due to what is almost always expected of me as a man to be the "protector provider". When I judge a girl in terms of serious "girlfriend" potential, I pay particlar attention to how much she really wants to be an equal partner in the relationship and then behaviours that indicate she is or is not this way. So if I believe that she expects me to pay for things "because thats what men do", to "carry" her, to act like she deserves special treatment just because she is a woman, there is no way the relationship will ever work out long term. The reason I am saying this, is that if I am trying to pull a girl I immediately know I don't want a long term thing with and I only want a short term casual sex relationship, I have no problem with buying all the drinks, paying for "dates", and trying to act like the "protector provider" in as many ways as I can. But I see this very similar to how I see treating escorts (see the start of my post), its really a business interaction and thats what I'm paying for.