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Author Topic: Will my WG buy me a Xmas present....  (Read 3319 times)

Offline 8a8ylon

During my last punt yesterday I popped into Boots to use the tester perfumes before my meet and as you know supermarkets, major stores are gearing up for Xmas.  As I was not familiar with the layout of the store I asked the assistant where the men's perfume counter was and she took me to the wall and spent the next few minutes trying to sell me one.

As I was given the hard sell, she told me that if you buy the gift sets you get better valve etc and I said 'I'm just looking now for ideas etc'.  As she left I got thinking as a guy I should buy my FAV WG (who's on a break :cry:) a gift as a thank you :kiss:, if she ever pops in for any Xmas money and hopefully make a regular return  :kiss:

It was just a thought and I don't think I will be but it got me thinking since I read many of us have regulars who you visit and im sure just as many of us will be getting gifts for them  :kiss:(even thou its not needed/asked for but as guy's I sure we will be spend money on them hoping we will get a smile or something) but I was wondering would a WG buy any gifts for their  "proper" regulars who visit them often.  I guessing NOT but are any of you expecting anything for Xmas from them?  :drinks:

I guess this doesn't apply to those who just visit WG just the once and ride into the sunset  :sarcastic:

Offline rpg

The fact you arrive freshly perfumed is surely enough.

Offline DaveMugabe

youre already paying her upwards of £100 per hour.How many of us earn that much.

So why should anyone also buy a gift.  This is not a relationship.

Very unlikely the prossie will buy any of us a gift - she has too many punters and she is only doing it for the money.

Th OP seems bit of a fluffy to me.

Wiltsboy01

During my last punt yesterday I popped into Boots to use the tester perfumes before my meet and as you know supermarkets, major stores are gearing up for Xmas.  As I was not familiar with the layout of the store I asked the assistant where the men's perfume counter was and she took me to the wall and spent the next few minutes trying to sell me one.

As I was given the hard sell, she told me that if you buy the gift sets you get better valve etc and I said 'I'm just looking now for ideas etc'.  As she left I got thinking as a guy I should buy my FAV WG (who's on a break :cry:) a gift as a thank you :kiss:, if she ever pops in for any Xmas money and hopefully make a regular return  :kiss:

It was just a thought and I don't think I will be but it got me thinking since I read many of us have regulars who you visit and im sure just as many of us will be getting gifts for them  :kiss:(even thou its not needed/asked for but as guy's I sure we will be spend money on them hoping we will get a smile or something) but I was wondering would a WG buy any gifts for their  "proper" regulars who visit them often.  I guessing NOT but are any of you expecting anything for Xmas from them?  :drinks:

I guess this doesn't apply to those who just visit WG just the once and ride into the sunset  :sarcastic:

Dude are you Whore of Babylon come back???

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Offline Dani

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The past couple of years I have bought a couple of my very best regulars presents at xmas. They are the ones I spend more time with than most and as I know them really well and we have become friends who also chat outside of work.

It is also a way to express my thanks for them coming to see me as often and for as long as they do.

It is hard though as it has to be something they can take home without too many questions and be something that I know they will like.

I wont do it for everyone who is a regular as I don't know them well enough to buy a gift I know they would appreciate and I find it a waste if you cannot buy someone a gift that would appeal to them.

As for buying a gift for a prossie, fine if you know her well and know what she would like or find amusing. Otherwise it would have to be a generic gift that would probably sit in a drawer until it got given to a raffle or someone else next xmas


Offline DaveMugabe

Aren't we all whores..... :dancegirl:
Then why are you pretending to be a punter?

Offline DaveMugabe

The past couple of years I have bought a couple of my very best regulars presents at xmas. They are the ones I spend more time with than most and as I know them really well and we have become friends who also chat outside of work.

It is also a way to express my thanks for them coming to see me as often and for as long as they do.

It is hard though as it has to be something they can take home without too many questions and be something that I know they will like.

I wont do it for everyone who is a regular as I don't know them well enough to buy a gift I know they would appreciate and I find it a waste if you cannot buy someone a gift that would appeal to them.

As for buying a gift for a prossie, fine if you know her well and know what she would like or find amusing. Otherwise it would have to be a generic gift that would probably sit in a drawer until it got given to a raffle or someone else next xmas
This sounds like how it works  the regulars you buy a gift for - they are really friends now arent they?

Offline Daffodil

I've only ever bought one prossie gifts and that was a girl who would do pics and anal for extra £20 or for a bottle or two of wine. £3 well spent in Tesco me thinks  :drinks:

And that is the only situation I would get a prossie a gift, if I thought the return I would get would be more than the cost of the gift  :cool:

I wouldnt buy any xmas or birthday presents as once the session is over that should be it. Ive been tempted to of course but I think it could confuse things for the worse esp if the man has started developing feelings towards the Wg. Or even worse if the wife or partner finds the present and wants to know where it came from?

Some things are best left as they are.

Offline Dani

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This sounds like how it works  the regulars you buy a gift for - they are really friends now arent they?

Yes they are.  I am human and sometimes if you spend a large amount of time with someone you do become friends if you have more than a few  things in common.  The boundaries don't get crossed as they are happily married and don't have any feelings more than friendship and of course lust towards me.

Becoming friends is a natural progression sometimes.  I know we are always told it is wrong and it is not professional and you cant be friends without someone getting hurt but that's all bollocks in my book.
If both are aware of the boundaries and don't cross them then why on earth can you not be friends with someone who just happens to be a client but who you have so much in common with and whos company you enjoy.  I am not heartless and do have emotions so it would be impossible for me to not become friends with some clients.

It is no different than me becoming friends with my hairdresser as we go to concerts together as we have a different taste in music to most people we know so became friends over a few haircuts a lot of chatting and decided to go to them together


No I tell a lie I did buy a regular a present once when I was on holiday as most of the money for the tickect came from him. Was nothing big and I have never seen it on display in his house. Its probably hidden in a never used drawer.

Never heard a man call aftershave perfume before


Offline dilettante

Maybe they could start a reward scheme for punters similar to Green Shield Stamps, redeemable at participatory outlets throughout the country - "Good morning, Sir, ANOTHER 1000 points to redeem I see, we have been putting it about a bit, haven't we, Sir?"

password02

I have had a couple of WG that have given me a few gifts from their recent holiday trips - A limited edition 35cl bottle of Vodka from Poland. Another got me a nice pair of cuff links . so it does happen

Offline Timo

If l had a regular prossie (which l dont) then for Xmas l would want a nice watch, a Rolex or Tag. In return to prove l am a nice guy l would give her a packet of wetwipes :lol:

Offline Tjkooker

If I had  a regular prossie the only present I would want would be free shot   :D
Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

Offline baltar

youre already paying her upwards of £100 per hour.How many of us earn that much.

So why should anyone also buy a gift.  This is not a relationship.

Very unlikely the prossie will buy any of us a gift - she has too many punters and she is only doing it for the money.

Th OP seems bit of a fluffy to me.

A logical reason to buy a gift could be if you really believe it to be a sound business investment. In other words, if you believe the gift will result in better service, and you also believe the level of service provided goes up a level acceptable to how much you are prepared to spend on the gift to make that happen.

I agree about how "fluffy" reasons are all bad ones... 2 main ones off the top of my head is that if someone is thinking about this, they are probably too close. Why would anyone want to be in a position where they feel bad that she didn't get them a present back, or worry that she wont? Maybe there could potentially be some scenario where someone was totally happy with this weird kind of friendship/relationship, but personally I think this unhealthy psychologically for the punter. The 2nd reason is that perhaps your WG may feel like you are trying to subtly bribe a better service out of her (like free extras or get her to do something she doesnt normally) and may feel awkward about it and not want to see you or ironically lead to a worse service. Or she may feel like you're getting too close, with the same result.
 
There's also another reason, that I dont think it should be something that becomes normal. If every WG expected gifts because more and more men kept doing it, then punters would start to feel obliged to start doing it or else they will think they won't get treated well. I mean, if these girls didnt have to provide all these different services to earn the same money, or could charge more, they would. So its us the ones paying them that need to keep making sure we vote with our cash. Sure there are some guys who have no problem with no kissing, but if loads of guys that do really like that start making exceptions and a significant amount went to see girls that did not allow kissing, I think more and more WG's would stop offering it. Im preaching the choir I'm sure so I won't belabour the point.

If any girls are reading this... I do see these girls as real people, with thoughts and feelings, and I treat them with respect (unless they give me reason not to) but that doesn't change the reality of the situation.

PS: Oh and I will also say as an aside thats kind of related, I am the kind of guy that generally dislikes serious romantic relationships with women due to what is almost always expected of me as a man to be the "protector provider". When I judge a girl in terms of serious "girlfriend" potential, I pay particlar attention to how much she really wants to be an equal partner in the relationship and then behaviours that indicate she is or is not this way. So if I believe that she expects me to pay for things "because thats what men do", to "carry" her, to act like she deserves special treatment just because she is a woman, there is no way the relationship will ever work out long term. The reason I am saying this, is that if I am trying to pull a girl I immediately know I don't want a long term thing with and I only want a short term casual sex relationship, I have no problem with buying all the drinks, paying for "dates", and trying to act like the "protector provider" in as many ways as I can. But I see this very similar to how I see treating escorts (see the start of my post), its really a business interaction and thats what I'm paying for.
« Last Edit: October 28, 2013, 12:02:28 AM by baltar »

Offline Jerboa

During my last punt yesterday I popped into Boots to use the tester perfumes before my meet and as you know supermarkets, major stores are gearing up for Xmas.  As I was not familiar with the layout of the store I asked the assistant where the men's perfume counter was and she took me to the wall and spent the next few minutes trying to sell me one.

As I was given the hard sell, she told me that if you buy the gift sets you get better valve etc and I said 'I'm just looking now for ideas etc'.  As she left I got thinking as a guy I should buy my FAV WG (who's on a break :cry:) a gift as a thank you :kiss:, if she ever pops in for any Xmas money and hopefully make a regular return  :kiss:

It was just a thought and I don't think I will be but it got me thinking since I read many of us have regulars who you visit and im sure just as many of us will be getting gifts for them  :kiss:(even thou its not needed/asked for but as guy's I sure we will be spend money on them hoping we will get a smile or something) but I was wondering would a WG buy any gifts for their  "proper" regulars who visit them often.  I guessing NOT but are any of you expecting anything for Xmas from them?  :drinks:

I guess this doesn't apply to those who just visit WG just the once and ride into the sunset  :sarcastic:

So your fav WG is on a break, so then how would you contact her and why then would she pop by for xmas money, has she got a second job as a milkman?   :rolleyes:

Offline baltar

It is no different than me becoming friends with my hairdresser as we go to concerts together as we have a different taste in music to most people we know so became friends over a few haircuts a lot of chatting and decided to go to them together

I find this interesting Dani.
Most escorts require full payment regardless of what you get up to in the time you spend with them, occasionally there being some that offer a discount if you want go do something non-sexual.
 
Do you mean to say that the clients that become close enough to be considered "friends" to you in the way you describe above, that you do or do not charge them to spend time together in a non-sexual context? And that you only charge them for sex, or something?

Because if you still charge them to spend time together that is non-sexual, it seems its not really like that of making friends with your hairdresser who you'd only pay if they were going to cut your hair. I dont think someone is really a proper "friend" if I have to pay to hang out with them.
« Last Edit: October 28, 2013, 12:16:44 AM by baltar »

Offline 8a8ylon

Some very serious/funny posts, makes me laugh.  The only reason I posted as I was in boots using the testers and Xmas is round the corner and was wondering if punters who visit specfic WG regularly expected some sort of gift to say thank you.

If u punted for the year for a hour @120 that's 1440 of her income from u.  A 40 gift of perfume or something as a thank you would b nice.

Anyway guess some will /most won't :drinks:

Offline baltar

If u punted for the year for a hour @120 that's 1440 of her income from u.  A 40 gift of perfume or something as a thank you would b nice.

Personally, depending on if I saw her enough and depending on how well we got on, I would only hope for MAYBE a card and if she really wanted to splash out some token gift like a box of Cadburys Roses or something. Or maybe just a freebie or discount/s or something, which is really easy and frankly I think a good idea for them to offer even when its not Christmas. edit: Or just a "happy christmas!" text message LOL

I think I'd only expect what I see as a serious present like a £40 aftershave/perfume if she was one of the super expensive girls charging silly money per hour and I was a rich business man that was a regular of her. Basically, the extent that I expect a gift is not just how classy I think she is as an individual (and lets face it many girls are not) but also based on only a tiny tiny tiny tiny fraction of what I had paid her. So to get this gift you're thinking of, I'd think it make sense if she charged something like £500 or more an hour and I'd  maybe seen her for several hours a few times a month or even overnight, so maybe in a year I'd spend around £10,000.  :)

That said, offering a discount of £40 or more doesnt sound so serious. I think the act of buying something as a "present" however is different.
« Last Edit: October 28, 2013, 12:39:19 AM by baltar »

Offline Jerboa

Some very serious/funny posts, makes me laugh.  The only reason I posted as I was in boots using the testers and Xmas is round the corner and was wondering if punters who visit specfic WG regularly expected some sort of gift to say thank you.

If u punted for the year for a hour @120 that's 1440 of her income from u.  A 40 gift of perfume or something as a thank you would b nice.

Anyway guess some will /most won't :drinks:

Me thinks you are a lady! That's the second time you said perfume.  :P


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