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Offline AnthG

Never understood this rule about not seeing a WG more than once. If she rocks your world / floats your boat, then a repeat performance is a duty. 

So out of curiosity. Have you seen many girls more than once - or as jimbobwood warns more than twice (so had 3 bookings). Were they all perfect?

Offline dilettante

This is a storm in a teacup.    :crazy: :crazy:

If you have received a terrific service from a girl I see no harm in sending her a short text to say thanks, of course she might think you are a tosser ------------ but she might also think it was a nice gesture.    :hi:

That's the whole point - who the hell would want to expose themselves to negative feedback like that because they went out of their way to send a text they didn't need to?  If you pay to fuck her, get what you want, end of story, you don't care whether she thinks you're a tosser or not!

Offline Jedi Apprentice

So out of curiosity. Have you seen many girls more than once - or as jimbobwood warns more than twice (so had 3 bookings). Were they all perfect?

If a WG were perfect, I'd marry her  :D  Yes, cos I liked what was on offer, there's a couple of girls I've seen more 3 times. Most others have been a one stop only Pop and Go service.  I'm guessing your an advocate of the One Pop and Go school of thought?

Offline Daffodil

Never understood this rule about not seeing a WG more than once. If she rocks your world / floats your boat, then a repeat performance is a duty. 

Its not like there's a limitless pool of quality WG's out there - unless it's just me!   If you're fortunate to find a good one then it makes sense to savor the moment while it lasts.  The phrase make "make hay while the sun shines" comes to mind. Here is another one, It's not always greener on the other side..

We all punt for different reasons. I punt for variety. I don't have a rule as such not to return, just very rarely feel inclined to.

Offline AnthG

I'm guessing your an advocate of the One Pop and Go school of thought?

I am an advocate of regulars as the notion of them is good. But from experience we cannot have what we want as there are two people involved with this transaction and the other side starts taking you for a ride it seems if you rebook (and I know before people say its not the case for them and their regular, I am simply posting from my experience).

I am guessing escorts who are more in the older bracket maybe don't do this as they are sensible and have a long term goal. But girls in their early 20s have no long distance thoughts. They are simply the here and now people. This is the exact reason probably why they are doing that very job they are.

Offline Cactus

If and only if I've had a good time, then I'll send a text as I'm leaving to say so, if the girl in question thinks I'm an arse for doing it then so be it.  9 times out of 10 however I have had a favourable response.  It's nice to be nice and all that. 

It has yielded a couple results however, with one girl now doing me a book one hour, get one hour free deal and another dropping her rates to £75ph from £100, although the second one I wouldn't see again as service started to drop in quality due to over familiarity and she was becoming a bit of a liability.  Don't know how much getting deals is due to a text message thank you, but I'm sure it couldn't have hurt.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I am an advocate of regulars as the notion of them is good. But from experience we cannot have what we want as there are two people involved with this transaction and the other side starts taking you for a ride it seems if you rebook (and I know before people say its not the case for them and their regular, I am simply posting from my experience).

I saw Seductive Scarlett quite a number of times, the service was always first class, maybe you have been unlucky.   :unknown:

Online James999

Anth does seem to be one of those guys who gets taken advantage of, I can imagine him going out with seven mates and finding that every other round was his  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

That's the whole point - who the hell would want to expose themselves to negative feedback like that because they went out of their way to send a text they didn't need to?  If you pay to fuck her, get what you want, end of story, you don't care whether she thinks you're a tosser or not!

That would never be a problem for me, I book by phone, I am the buyer not the seller --------------- I don't need references to book a prostitute, when I do it will be time to find another hobby.

The feedback system is total bollocks, many punters are scared to leave negative feedback in case the girl does the same ------ how can that be right.    :crazy: :crazy:

I wouldn't say that as a throwaway comment. If a girl has you down as a soft touch and you suddenly comment that things are not as good or she is deliberately messing about. She will react way harshly to you over someone she would not consider as a soft touch. And try stuff like this to you she wouldn't to those others. Its unfortunately the way of the world.

Good point AnthG

Does it matter if she reacts harshly towards you, it's game over anyway. It might shake her up and make her think she shouldn't judge people as a softy because they don't know people. Everyone has a push button and has a nasty side to them. A guy at work grass me up and I went absolutely mad towards him. He then told the manager he was lying and now he is sweet as pie towards me. He grass me up because he thought I was the pushover in the group and wouldn't fight back (Guess what, he was fucking wrong!).

The same principle could work with a prossie. You are clean, polite and paid her - she in return should give you a good service. She is the one in the wrong if she gives you a poor service. If you go to a regular restaurant and they give you luke warm food, keep you waiting ages - You are going to say something and demand discount/refund/free meal next time/or don't return again. Again, the same should apply to a prossie. It shouldn't matter if they don't like you, they should still give you a good service. If they don't like you, why don't they just ban you from seeing them. Well, you know why because they are greedy and want your money.

Don't get me wrong, I would love to find a good local regular for decent rate. Eventually I get bored with them (unless they are really interesting!), and I like variety.



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It might shake her up and make her think she shouldn't judge people as a softy because they don't know people.
In my own experiences, and something that seems to be reflected on SAAFE/pro$$ienet, a WG is absolutely always in the right, and would absolutely never think twice about her own behavior or actions.
Thankfully we seem to have a couple on here who have their head screwed on, but unfortunately they seem to be in the overwhelming minority, and none of them are anywhere near me!  :angry:

Offline potato

I usually send a text or email after a meeting to say thanks if it has been a good meet and someone that I am likely to see again. I don't bother otherwise.  Does it do any good? I find it does with my favourite regular but we interchange texts before and after quite regularly anyway.

Offline Dani

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I love to get a response after a booking be it feedback, a review or just a text to say thank you.  To me it actually means a lot that someone enjoyed their time with me enough to say thank you.  I cant see anyone getting upset or thinking you are doing something wrong for sending a text to say it.  I always respond to those texts if I see them straight away.
For me its the feel good factor of knowing I did my job right and that person left thinking they enjoyed themselves enough to tell me so.

Online toon972

I never text a wg after a meet in case she thinks I am going to be some kind of nutter.Different case if she texts first and then I will reply.

Offline Lz-129

I never text a wg after a meet in case she thinks I am going to be some kind of nutter


I guess that depends on what you write in your texts

If you say "thanks for a great time" she won't think your a nutter but if you say so something like "I am gonna bang you harder next time" then perhaps she will

Offline Dani

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I never text a wg after a meet in case she thinks I am going to be some kind of nutter.Different case if she texts first and then I will reply.

She should never text you first.  We get paid so much money for complete discretion which means never contacting the client unless asked to do so at an agreed time.

Online toon972

I never text a wg after a meet in case she thinks I am going to be some kind of nutter.Different case if she texts first and then I will reply.
Good point,but I would never text anything like that unless I knew her very well ie been texting each other for a while

Online toon972

Dani, I have had texts straight after a meet while I am driving home.They will probably know this and assume it would be ok.I do get your point and agree it could be dangerous.

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Sorry my first post was in reply to LZ

Offline spz1234

Dani, I have had texts straight after a meet while I am driving home.They will probably know this and assume it would be ok.I do get your point and agree it could be dangerous.

Yep, I've had a text or two shortly after a punt whilst on my way home. I'm fine with this and I'll reply if I get one.

I always make sure I thank her before leaving so don't really see the need to send a text or an email after the fact thanking her again when I've already said it in person.

password02

If the service has been exceptional then I always send a text on my way home saying ''thanks for a great session'' never did any harm and on a couple of visits after i have had extra time 15-30 mins without having to leave = so in my case it pays to be nice with a Thank You

Offline haystacks79

I think I've sent an email or text to say thanks after every one of my visits, usually sent once I get back home, and have received several thank you messages from the wgs I've seen before I've had chance to send mine. My phone is safe, so timing doesn't matter to me at all. To me it's just common courtesy to thank individuals that you've interacted with in this way.

Offline Frankie

I have never sent a text, email or called a WG to say thank you.

I have however had texts FROM them, thanking me.

Not sure where this rule about never seeing a WG more than once, comes from, its fine to see a WG regularly if you hit it off, but if it goes a past the working relationship, then run!!!!!!!!! I had a girl who decided to tell me her real name, she asked mine, I told her a lie and never saw her again. Mind you I never heard from again either.

Offline smiths

Never understood this rule about not seeing a WG more than once. If she rocks your world / floats your boat, then a repeat performance is a duty. 

Its not like there's a limitless pool of quality WG's out there - unless it's just me!   If you're fortunate to find a good one then it makes sense to savor the moment while it lasts.  The phrase make "make hay while the sun shines" comes to mind. Here is another one, It's not always greener on the other side..

Indeed. There is NO rule obviously, its all about punters personal opinions. After punting for 30 years i know finding a good regular isnt an every punt occurence so when i meet one i will punt with her as much as i feel like doing. In my experience my punts have got better more often than not as the WG gets to know what i like and exactly how i like it, until i inevitably get bored sooner or later. I still punt with newbie WGs to me so its the best of both worlds for me, what other punters think or do is of course their business. :hi:

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