Adios dj3k and thanks for some great posts.
I agree with your advice to jonumrin 100%. I know two WGs who won't see guys in their early 20s, because so often they cause complications by getting too attached, 'falling in love', and then become an absolute pain as they won't leave the girl alone.
Thank you! I think I might stick around for a little while longer but finished seeing WG for a bit. (If I can, it's difficult committing to one women for sex)
I have had some messages on here and on the purple site from 'clients' of various escorts wanting to know if I am involved or dating this escort or that escort. They refer to my posts on here so I will write from my own experience regarding getting close to a WG.
I have had 3 regular WG over the past year, two of them I have become friendly with, but I knew from early on that they were either single and staying single whilst escorting or had a boyfriend.
I have a simple rule, 3 times and out. If I feel any type of attachment emotionally, I will never visit her again.
Remember every WG is 'single' so they say or a 'student'. They are selling a fantasy along with a sexual service and this 'fantasy' is whatever YOU want that fantasy to be. They then provide that fantasy and service to you.
For me, if I see a WG more than 3 times, the sex has to be good, she has to have a nice personality or have a genuine need to make money for me to return. I am a big spender and what clients don't realise is that, like the chat on this forum, WG also talk to each other about clients, who treats and pays well etc.
As said above, the relationship is like with a hairdresser. They do a good job and you build trust. My regular WG's always give 100%, good service and dedicated to me during the time together and the sex was good. If she was having an off day, I would say and then she apologise and say she had problem a client or feel unwell etc.
It's a two way thing, mutual respect for each other, and with that the rewards are good. Some men have no respect for a WG, or see her as a sex toy or to act out a porn fantasy with them.
I view WG differently. Everyone have their own reasons for paying for sex, or selling sex. Some good, some bad. I won't go in to that now though.
What is important from the start, both buying and selling sex, you have to know what you want from paying/selling for sex. If your new to punting, and your paying for sex, but really you want a real girlfriend, then I doubt you will find love with a WG. Usually a WG only wants your money. They are good actresses to get you to return.
If you visit a WG many times, and then you feel attached or close to her, to protect yourself emotionally you have to have a talk with her about it - even if it means you can no longer be a client of hers.
A WG will usually never give up a good client, unless of a problem. I did feel close to one of my regulars but I found out early on it was simply paid for sex. I had a chat with her and it was cleared up. The next day she called me and asked me to visit and said she didn't want to loose me as a client as I paid well, so she gave me a freebie as a way to say, no hard feelings, your a good client, come back for more.
From that point on, it was a lot more fun.
Going back to the messages I have received. I have recently started a new relationship, some people think it's one of my regular WG's but sorry to say it's not.
I am however with a former escort, but we did not build our relationship via being a client.
I did book and visit her once earlier in the year and to be honest and I told her this, I simply did not like her. So I only visited once and never gave her another thought.
Recently I went to the GUM clinic for my routine checkup, and she was there in the waiting room. I did know who she was, but she didn't know who I was.
I simply said HI, your xxxx right ? and said I think we met once before. Then we started chatting, went for a coffee and then over a number of weeks became inseparable.
We have talked a lot about how to deal with our relationship, and the only way we can see it working is if we both finish escorting/punting. I did say to her, if she wanted to continue escorting then we could just be friends, but she decided she wanted more than that and a new life away from being an escort. I have been wanting to finish punting for a while, so have for now.
So, good news for me, bad news for you guys who use to see her. And you will probably figure out who she is now as we recently lost one of the good escorts in wales.
Sorry, but it's my turn to have fun with her now