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Offline GrumpyoldGit

Yes I have.

In fact I am very close to my regular. She is the only one I see at the moment.

We have forged a close friendship and know a lot about each other including private lives.

We regularly meet up for a chat and coffee.

I do give her lifts quite regularly, even making the offer when I think she may want one.

I have even sorted out her computer problems for her and met some of her family and friends.

We both know where the boundaries lie in relation to a working meet or just a chat.

I do not get free pussy, but do get "special" rates and always extra time including shared bathing.

I works for me and can do for others if you gain the mutual respect that we have for each other.

Offline Persie

It's no secret I got too close to a WG (too close for her ex BF) see FR...

Passport details to book flights....can still picture us now in the bar at Liverpool Airport laughing at our passport photos....

Shame, I lost a damned good shag and she's lost about £5000 since  :dash:

Sounds like a story here...where the link to the FR
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Offline kong

I would imagine that such an encounter would be without any sexual element at all; but I can't imagine it happening to me, as any women I've known have always seemed to (conveniently) reject my friendship on the basis that there was "a sexual element" to it (whether there was or not), as being a justifiable excuse.  Or who knows, maybe women can reduce EVERYTHING to a sexual element if they want to, thus they are never in the wrong ...

haha i think most guys have the opposite problem so consider yourself lucky

Offline dj3k

This is my last post for a while as found a nice civilian girlfriend.  Yes you can get close to a WG and attached.  But there are always complications.  First the work, can you handle that long term ? All good saying oh yes I have an escort as a girlfriend. I don't have to pay.  But that will wear off fast.  Can you handle her fucking 50 men a month ?  When you only want her to yourself ?  Difficult answers.  Is the feeling one sided ? - a lot have boyfriends, so kind of a honey trap, to get you hooked for your money.

I say if you ever feel your close or attached to a WG, open your eyes again and reevaluate everything before it all goes wrong.

It's not all bad, some escorts / clients do find love.  But I think you would both need to finish the selling/buying of sex at the start of the relationship for it to work.  Be a real couple, at least you both know your past and don't need to lie.

Adios!

Offline Jvosta

I think I might be attached...I'm  in my twenties and haven't punted too long  but  have a regular who I feel very comfortable and "click " ...a genuine rapport with (or she's a good actress :( ) whereas other punts great as they may be, there's no "click" and sort of mechanical - fuck like this and this and this ...ok bye. Hmm I think I like the friends with benefits (the friend is a wg lol) situation more than just a simple shag. Will try not to be too attached by seeing other wgs but there's no click/rapport like with my reg! Do I sound like a fluffy kunt?

Offline finn5555

I think I might be attached...I'm  in my twenties and haven't punted too long  but  have a regular who I feel very comfortable and "click " ...a genuine rapport with (or she's a good actress :( ) whereas other punts great as they may be, there's no "click" and sort of mechanical - fuck like this and this and this ...ok bye. Hmm I think I like the friends with benefits (the friend is a wg lol) situation more than just a simple shag. Will try not to be too attached by seeing other wgs but there's no click/rapport like with my reg! Do I sound like a fluffy kunt?

In a word yes your a cunt  :sarcastic: just don't let her take advantage of you

Offline Persie

I think I might be attached...I'm  in my twenties and haven't punted too long  but  have a regular who I feel very comfortable and "click " ...a genuine rapport with (or she's a good actress :( ) whereas other punts great as they may be, there's no "click" and sort of mechanical - fuck like this and this and this ...ok bye. Hmm I think I like the friends with benefits (the friend is a wg lol) situation more than just a simple shag. Will try not to be too attached by seeing other wgs but there's no click/rapport like with my reg! Do I sound like a fluffy kunt?

If you are paying her, she is not a friends with benefits - she is a WG.
Don't even bother thinking about 'rapport'. she is just being the girl you want her to be and likely to be different in real life.


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Offline SirPhilipXX

This is my last post for a while as found a nice civilian girlfriend.  Yes you can get close to a WG and attached.  But there are always complications.  First the work, can you handle that long term ? All good saying oh yes I have an escort as a girlfriend. I don't have to pay.  But that will wear off fast.  Can you handle her fucking 50 men a month ?  When you only want her to yourself ?  Difficult answers.  Is the feeling one sided ? - a lot have boyfriends, so kind of a honey trap, to get you hooked for your money.

I say if you ever feel your close or attached to a WG, open your eyes again and reevaluate everything before it all goes wrong.

It's not all bad, some escorts / clients do find love.  But I think you would both need to finish the selling/buying of sex at the start of the relationship for it to work.  Be a real couple, at least you both know your past and don't need to lie.

Adios!
Adios dj3k and thanks for some great posts.

I agree with your advice to jonumrin 100%. I know two WGs who won't see guys in their early 20s, because so often they cause complications by getting too attached, 'falling in love', and then become an absolute pain as they won't leave the girl alone.

Offline Clanger

For me I guess there were one or two who after my second visits started talking to me about their private lives but I think any WG who seems to open up like that is probably just working an angle for favours and cash. I try to be as cynical as the WG's, better safe than sorry.

Offline Clanger

If you are paying her, she is not a friends with benefits - she is a WG.
Don't even bother thinking about 'rapport'. she is just being the girl you want her to be and likely to be different in real life.

I think of WG's as being like hairdressers, I can have a friendly conversation with the girl who cuts my hair but I know I'm just a customer, we're not going to be getting engaged any time soon.

..along these lines, do many here have a WG, particularly a regular who says that you are here best client and even her best sex partner...and if so, do you believe her? What does it do for you to hear her say that to you? Do you see that as a good reason to allow yourself to get close to her in the hope of something developing further between you that skates along or oversteps the border between outer and puntee? I am inclined to believe that it is always a commercially based come-on, but then again you cannot blame her for embellishing a fantasy, it is after all part of delivering a good service/illusion.

Offline Pace10

I had a regular before that said those kind of things and I think its easy to get carried away if you do really like her. I never really believed I was the greatest in the sack but I was starting to believe she thought of me as one of her best clients as I used to pay for 2 hours and then we spent the evening together, typically from 7-8pm to 3-4 am during weekends.

The reason I stopped seeing her was due to the fact that it made me soft and our connection was a bit too good. I was getting close to a point to where I could have fallen for her. I think this may happen to a lot of punters, but my lesson at least is that if I meet a WG where I feel the connection is so good that I could see her as something more than just sex I won't see her anymore.

Offline Jvosta

..along these lines, do many here have a WG, particularly a regular who says that you are here best client and even her best sex partner...and if so, do you believe her?

Best 4 minutes of my life she said to me.  :thumbsup:

...I wish I was joking

Offline Jvosta

On a serious note.

I am split between wanting to the best she (the wg) has ever had (lol as if that's ever going to happen (even variables beyond my control I.e her mood....but most probably my lack of skill) but that is just my ego... )

On the other hand I feel "who gives a fuck" she's not my gf/wife and I'll be the best she's ever had ...the wg forgets me straight away

Is it a competition to who fucks the wg best? .. That turns the punt into a chore in my opinion....have I gone off topic?

Interesting questions, imo, Rick.

No WG is ever likely to tell me I'm her "best sex partner"; and if she did, I'd probably burst out laughing!  When a Regular and I "blurred the boundaries", it felt like [although I accept that she may be better at delivering "a commercially based come-on" than I wanted to think at the time] much more a matter of personalities, rather due to than any prowess I may have in the bedroom.

Offline dj3k

Adios dj3k and thanks for some great posts.

I agree with your advice to jonumrin 100%. I know two WGs who won't see guys in their early 20s, because so often they cause complications by getting too attached, 'falling in love', and then become an absolute pain as they won't leave the girl alone.

Thank you! I think I might stick around for a little while longer but finished seeing WG for a bit. (If I can, it's difficult committing to one women for sex)

I have had some messages on here and on the purple site from 'clients' of various escorts wanting to know if I am involved or dating this escort or that escort.  They refer to my posts on here so I will write from my own experience regarding getting close to a WG.

I have had 3 regular WG over the past year, two of them I have become friendly with,  but I knew from early on that they were either single and staying single whilst escorting or had a boyfriend. 

I have a simple rule, 3 times and out.  If I feel any type of attachment emotionally, I will never visit her again.

Remember every WG is 'single' so they say or a 'student'.  They are selling a fantasy along with a sexual service and this 'fantasy' is whatever YOU want that fantasy to be.  They then provide that fantasy and service to you.

For me, if I see a WG more than 3 times, the sex has to be good, she has to have a nice personality or have a genuine need to make money for me to return.  I am a big spender and what clients don't realise is that, like the chat on this forum, WG also talk to each other about clients, who treats and pays well etc.

As said above, the relationship is like with a hairdresser.  They do a good job and you build trust.  My regular WG's always give 100%, good service and dedicated to me during the time together and the sex was good.  If she was having an off day, I would say and then she apologise and say she had problem a client or feel unwell etc.

It's a two way thing, mutual respect for each other, and with that the rewards are good.  Some men have no respect for a WG, or see her as a sex toy or to act out a porn fantasy with them.

I view WG differently.  Everyone have their own reasons for paying for sex, or selling sex. Some good, some bad.  I won't go in to that now though.

What is important from the start, both buying and selling sex, you have to know what you want from paying/selling for sex.  If your new to punting, and your paying for sex, but really you want a real girlfriend, then I doubt you will find love with a WG.  Usually a WG only wants your money.  They are good actresses to get you to return.

If you visit a WG many times, and then you feel attached or close to her, to protect yourself emotionally you have to have a talk with her about it - even if it means you can no longer be a client of hers.

A WG will usually never give up a good client, unless of a problem.  I did feel close to one of my regulars but I found out early on it was simply paid for sex. I had a chat with her and it was cleared up.  The next day she called me and asked me to visit and said she didn't want to loose me as a client as I paid well, so she gave me a freebie as a way to say, no hard feelings, your a good client, come back for more.

From that point on, it was a lot more fun.

Going back to the messages I have received.  I have recently started a new relationship, some people think it's one of my regular WG's but sorry to say it's not.

I am however with a former escort, but we did not build our relationship via being a client.

I did book and visit her once earlier in the year and to be honest and I told her this, I simply did not like her.  So I only visited once and never gave her another thought.

Recently I went to the GUM clinic for my routine checkup, and she was there in the waiting room.  I did know who she was, but she didn't know who I was. 
I simply said HI, your xxxx right ? and said I think we met once before.  Then we started chatting, went for a coffee and then over a number of weeks became inseparable. 

We have talked a lot about how to deal with our relationship, and the only way we can see it working is if we both finish escorting/punting.  I did say to her, if she wanted to continue escorting then we could just be friends, but she decided she wanted more than that and a new life away from being an escort.  I have been wanting to finish punting for a while, so have for now.

So, good news for me, bad news for you guys who use to see her. And you will probably figure out who she is now as we recently lost one of the good escorts in wales.

Sorry, but it's my turn to have fun with her now ;)

Offline CoolTiger

Great post. Hope it works out for you guys.

My only remark would be when asked how or where you met????
GUM Clinic  :lol:

Offline dj3k

Great post. Hope it works out for you guys.

My only remark would be when asked how or where you met????
GUM Clinic  :lol:

Oh I know!, the official version is through friends!

Oh I know!, the official version is through friends!

A good old favourite! ;)

I used the phrase "through mutual friends" when blurring the boundaries earlier this year.  The WG in question was worried, lest the people to whom we spun that line would then ask, "Which mutual friends?"

I said they wouldn't be bothered and was proved right - people aren't that interested about how others get together.

Offline G-Raw

Had a session Monday just gone, this was the third time I've seen her and she started showing me pictures of her on Facebook when we were resting and chatting for the 5-10 minutes remaining after going pretty hard for almost an hour. At first she covered her facebook name but then she removed her hand and made a joke saying don't look at my name and stopped covering it. I was merely confused and thought, lets get this out of the way instead of hint hint now and there and asked if she wanted to be friends on facebook, luckily she said maybe next time when she visit the area as that probably wouldn't have gone well.  :vomit:

Offline daviemac

Over the years I've become quite close to a few WGs, but you have to understand it's only ever going to be a client provider relationship.

I have been a regular and got to know some quite well, I have known real names, phone numbers and quite a few personal details, none of which I would ever divulge.

I have found if you have a bit of rapport with a girl the whole experience is so much better. I have no interest at all in being 'friends on facebook' or having any contact outside of a business arrangement. The only time I would contact them would be a quick txt to see if they're working  if I wanted an appointment and at times I have had an appointment on there day off.

I basically go to the appointment pay the going rate, have a bit of chat, have loads of fun and have a bit more chat, sometimes time runs over but the whole situation is far more relaxed.

I am mature enough to know that just because she's happy to sit and chat about things in her life and listen to things in mine, it's not leading to anything else.

When i leave whatever has gone on stays there and my life goes on until the next punt.   




Offline CoolTiger

Over the past 5 years or so, I have got to know approx 10~12 WGs Facebook profiles. Non eof them have tried to hide this info when discussing, as I already knew their real names. Only one of them is an EE girl.

I would never give WGs my real name or my FB details.

cjkanye02

This is a tough one.

I have no interest in anything more with a WG but you meet some cracking girls in this hobby, have some great sex and really let the barriers down on both sides sometimes.

It's hard to completely switch off the old emotions even if you are quite hardened to it all!
« Last Edit: December 17, 2013, 04:44:58 PM by clarion »

Over the years I've become quite close to a few WGs, but you have to understand it's almost only ever going to be a client provider relationship.

I have been a regular and got to know some quite well, I have known real names, phone numbers and quite a few personal details, none of which I would ever divulge.

I have found if you have a bit of rapport with a girl the whole experience is so much better. I have no interest at all in being 'friends on facebook' or having any contact outside of a business arrangement. The only time I would contact them would be a quick txt to see if they're working  if I wanted an appointment and at times I have had an appointment on there day off.

I basically go to the appointment pay the going rate, have a bit of chat, have loads of fun and have a bit more chat, sometimes time runs over but the whole situation is far more relaxed.

I am mature enough to know that just because she's happy to sit and chat about things in her life and listen to things in mine, it's not leading to anything else.

When i leave whatever has gone on stays there and my life goes on until the next punt.

I've taken the liberty of editing your first sentence, davie, simply because, before this year, I'd have agreed with it completely, even I though I have two friends who've lived together for 6 years and got married a year ago, despite/because* having met as WG/client.  Again I'd totally have agreed with the rest of your post, until earlier this year.

However, as I've posted on other threads, I've "blurred boundaries"/suffered Emotional Attachment Syndrome *.  And once that's happened, it's difficult to return to the first rules of Punting Club, despite your big brain telling you to do so!

* Delete as appropriate.

Troyb

happened to me few times . even I have asked to be friend with them with few those in facebook ( I have 2nd account in FB and one only for this staff ,  :lol: ) and mostly those girls wanted to finish the work and back home for good and they wanted to keep in touch  , I never asked them any private question and they opened the conversation about their private life.

some of these girls are very friendly and they just come and work for short time and they want to make friend ,  :rolleyes:

If you want enjoy sex with different girls you have to cut any emotional staff and keep punting  :drinks:

« Last Edit: December 17, 2013, 08:26:33 PM by Troyb »


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