I am really curious about something and I would love the WGs on this forum to answer this too...
Ok how do I word this?
Why when SOME clients make initial contact they are so rude or abrupt?
I think to myself you called me because you want to **** me, so why the "where are you?" or "You free?" No hello , hi, no real-pretend name, nothing. They actually sounds as if they are upset/angry or like I owe them something. Honestly, do you think that attitude would put me in the mood to leave what I am doing and travel to see you.
I never go and see guys like these, but I am wondering if other girls might???
and I really want to know what is your (client) etiquette is when you make initial contact? If you have any... If not... why?
I only contact WGs by phone and am polite and friendly but i require answers to my questions which are confirmation of where the WG is based, sadly on A/W some WGs locations are wrong and it might say they are near me but in fact they arent so getting that information is essential asap to save both of us wasting our time.
I then ask about the services i require and are they still available, sadly some WGs likes list are a work of fiction, the best i can do is seek verbal confirmation as then i have done all i can to ensure what i require i actually available, if it turns out it isnt then thats because the WG lied to me which i couldnt of predicted for definite of course. I then ask her if her fee is inclusive of these services with no extras.
I then ask whether her photos are a good likeness of her, sadly some WGs use old photos and the real her looks worse which means i walk nowadays if i dont fancy the real her. Thats 100% down to the WG if i do, dont lie, simple. After all i ALWAYS keep to my end of the deal, arriving as agreed, clean and with the right cash, all i ask is for the same courtesy back.
If i detect any coldness or a monotone voice then i go elsewhere, my logic on this is a WG if she wants my business will be friendly and polite, if she cant manage this before i have paid her how bad could she be after i have paid her. If i miss out on a gem by doing this then my bad luck. Its a modus that works for me. Sadly there are a fair number of WGs that arent friendly or polite on the phone but i would rather find this out before wasting anymore of my time on them so i can go elsewhere.
If a WG doesnt wish to discuss her services on the phone which with an Indie is rare in my experiences thats entirely her business but she wont get my business. So for me its polite but to the point. I have it down pat now after 30 years punting.