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Offline NaturalMystique

I am really curious about something and I would love the WGs on this forum to answer this too...

Ok how do I word this?

Why when SOME clients make initial contact they are so rude or abrupt?

I think to myself you called me because you want to **** me, so why the "where are you?" or "You free?" No hello , hi, no real-pretend name, nothing. They actually sounds as if they are upset/angry or like I owe them something. Honestly, do you think that attitude would put me in the mood to leave what I am doing and travel to see you.

I never go and see guys like these, but I am wondering if other girls might???

and I really want to know what is your (client) etiquette is when you make initial contact? If you have any... If not... why?

Offline Daffodil

What's this, another bitch about punters post/thread? I don't understand, wouldn't you be happier on saafe or auto-censored? Perhaps you already are  :rolleyes:

These guys are willing to pay whatever your rate is (£100+ per hour probably) and you're going to get your knickers in a twist because they don't formally introduce themselves or say pretty please when they make initial enquiries?  :dash:

Offline NaturalMystique

What's this, another bitch about punters post/thread? I don't understand, wouldn't you be happier on saafe or auto-censored? Perhaps you already are  :rolleyes:

These guys are willing to pay whatever your rate is (£100+ per hour probably) and you're going to get your knickers in a twist because they don't formally introduce themselves or say pretty please when they make initial enquiries?  :dash:

Yes. That's my prerogative. However, I am curious about it. No point in me asking on SAAFE as there is no "punters" there.

Offline Daffodil

This is just you bitching about punters. Again. They don't have to explain themselves to you.

This thread strikes me as one that would be perfect on saafe so that you can all complain and whinge about how 'rude' punters are because they don't include a name with their text or a little kiss at the end.

You just want to air your little grievance  :music:

Offline smiths

I am really curious about something and I would love the WGs on this forum to answer this too...

Ok how do I word this?

Why when SOME clients make initial contact they are so rude or abrupt?

I think to myself you called me because you want to **** me, so why the "where are you?" or "You free?" No hello , hi, no real-pretend name, nothing. They actually sounds as if they are upset/angry or like I owe them something. Honestly, do you think that attitude would put me in the mood to leave what I am doing and travel to see you.

I never go and see guys like these, but I am wondering if other girls might???

and I really want to know what is your (client) etiquette is when you make initial contact? If you have any... If not... why?

I only contact WGs by phone and am polite and friendly but i require answers to my questions which are confirmation of where the WG is based, sadly on A/W some WGs locations are wrong and it might say they are near me but in fact they arent so getting that information is essential asap to save both of us wasting our time.

I then ask about the services i require and are they still available, sadly some WGs likes list are a work of fiction, the best i can do is seek verbal confirmation as then i have done all i can to ensure what i require i actually available, if it turns out it isnt then thats because the WG lied to me which i couldnt of predicted for definite of course. I then ask her if her fee is inclusive of these services with no extras.

I then ask whether her photos are a good likeness of her, sadly some WGs use old photos and the real her looks worse which means i walk nowadays if i dont fancy the real her. Thats 100% down to the WG if i do, dont lie, simple. After all i ALWAYS keep to my end of the deal, arriving as agreed, clean and with the right cash, all i ask is for the same courtesy back.

If i detect any coldness or a monotone voice then i go elsewhere, my logic on this is a WG if she wants my business will be friendly and polite, if she cant manage this before i have paid her how bad could she be after i have paid her. If i miss out on a gem by doing this then my bad luck. Its a modus that works for me. Sadly there are a fair number of WGs that arent friendly or polite on the phone but i would rather find this out before wasting anymore of my time on them so i can go elsewhere.

If a WG doesnt wish to discuss her services on the phone which with an Indie is rare in my experiences thats entirely her business but she wont get my business. So for me its polite but to the point. I have it down pat now after 30 years punting.

Online James999

If you have any... If not... why?

If you have problems with communication why don't you go and stack shelves or be a cleaner, as you could do both at night and reduce interacting with people  :hi:

This sort of moaning shite is better suited to SAFE  :sarcastic:

« Last Edit: October 12, 2013, 12:10:11 PM by James999 »

Offline NaturalMystique

I only contact WGs by phone and am polite and friendly but i require answers to my questions which are confirmation of where the WG is based, sadly on A/W some WGs locations are wrong and it might say they are near me but in fact they arent so getting that information is essential asap to save both of us wasting our time.

I then ask about the services i require and are they still available, sadly some WGs likes list are a work of fiction, the best i can do is seek verbal confirmation as then i have done all i can to ensure what i require i actually available, if it turns out it isnt then thats because the WG lied to me which i couldnt of predicted for definite of course. I then ask her if her fee is inclusive of these services with no extras.

I then ask whether her photos are a good likeness of her, sadly some WGs use old photos and the real her looks worse which means i walk nowadays if i dont fancy the real her. Thats 100% down to the WG if i do, dont lie, simple. After all i ALWAYS keep to my end of the deal, arriving as agreed, clean and with the right cash, all i ask is for the same courtesy back.

If i detect any coldness or a monotone voice then i go elsewhere, my logic on this is a WG if she wants my business will be friendly and polite, if she cant manage this before i have paid her how bad could she be after i have paid her. If i miss out on a gem by doing this then my bad luck. Its a modus that works for me. Sadly there are a fair number of WGs that arent friendly or polite on the phone but i would rather find this out before wasting anymore of my time on them so i can go elsewhere.

If a WG doesnt wish to discuss her services on the phone which with an Indie is rare in my experiences thats entirely her business but she wont get my business. So for me its polite but to the point. I have it down pat now after 30 years punting.

Yes us WGs have to watch our attitude as well. I find that sometimes I might thrown off track but the abrupt questions when there is no hi, hello which like you just explained you want to make sure you are going to get what you paid for. I guess maybe some do not really mean anything by it.

Offline Festisio

It's a fair point.  They must just be idiots.  It's pretty obvious that coming across as rude or aggressive is likely to get a prossie's hackles up and is more likely to result in them ignoring you.

Offline NaturalMystique

It's a fair point.  They must just be idiots.  It's pretty obvious that coming across as rude or aggressive is likely to get a prossie's hackles up and is more likely to result in them ignoring you.

 :thumbsup: That's what I am wondering. Maybe they still get seen and I am the one who is over-analysing. I wouldn't change that though. My attitude is if you can't be nice to me over the phone then I can't see how you going to be nice to me in person.
However, it's a catch 22 because men can be nice and polite on the phone and still turn out to be ****s. I am just wondering why some feel they do not even need to try, is it because someone will still see them irregardless?

Offline potato

Maybe its because some men are so pissed off of texting girls for them to get no response all the time so the manners go out of the window on their 14 attempt...    I am always polite on mails / txts despite getting half of them unread or deleted without being read.

Offline lovelysofia92

Whenever someone contacts me that I don't like the sound of i.e seems rude, rushed, illiterate or writes in txt spk I simply don't bother.
My schedule doesn't allow me to see half of the people that contact me and why would I choose the ones with the IQ of a preschooler and the manners of a goat?

I prefer it when punters introduce themselves and tell me a bit about themselves or what they would want etc not just ' yo when u free so i can fuck u'?
Of course it's different over email, I never display my phone number. But the guys that find that their emails constantly get ignored by wg's might want to consider rephrasing their emails.
« Last Edit: October 12, 2013, 11:22:20 AM by lovelysofia92 »

Offline Goofy85

I am always polite and courteous. My reasoning is that if you are going to spend an hour minimum hour (for me) then it will help if the WG doesn't think you are an idiot. I tend not to ask questions besides asking when they might be available that particular day as WGs that I have seen have usually been well received, with well-detailed profiles. And therefore provide all I need to know.

However... And here's a major criticism of WGs.

Many tend to get seriously stroppy in emails, texts or phone calls when you do ask a simple question. Or they don't reply at all. Do they even want business? They treat it as men should be grateful they have a chance of seeing them in the first place. That should NOT be. It's not a date. Punters pay big money to see WGs. Punters are clients. Treat them as clients. Some of the attitudes I've come across, and read about on here would have most WGs sacked from a regular job.

If a WG is rudely curt, has a bad text,phone, email manner then I won't see them, no matter how nice people say they are when you meet them.

Offline skittish

I am really curious about something and I would love the WGs on this forum to answer this too...

Ok how do I word this?

Why when SOME clients make initial contact they are so rude or abrupt?

I think to myself you called me because you want to **** me, so why the "where are you?" or "You free?" No hello , hi, no real-pretend name, nothing. They actually sounds as if they are upset/angry or like I owe them something. Honestly, do you think that attitude would put me in the mood to leave what I am doing and travel to see you.

I never go and see guys like these, but I am wondering if other girls might???

and I really want to know what is your (client) etiquette is when you make initial contact? If you have any... If not... why?

It's called being succinct a concept some prossies can't grasp. How asking straight forward questions can be construed as angry or why you need a made up name is beyond me.

If anything you strike me as the angry one maybe you're a broken prossie who needs comforting fluffy emails as some sort of feel good affirmation?  :rose:

In this type of work your going to have to accept there will be time wasters & if it really gets to you , change your job  :hi:

Offline skittish

In this type of work your going to have to accept there will be time wasters & if it really gets to you , change your job  :hi:

Why do everyone who write short succinct emails get considered as timewasters. The only time I send an AW message is if the prossie is too tight to display her phone number. I've asked questions in well constructed emails before and the usual reply is

'yes baby call me [phone number]x'

So now I just send a message asking for a phone number.

Offline lovelysofia92


Offline Daffodil

And she got banned for...?

All the posts I have seen from her involve bitching/whinging about punters.

It's not really in the ethos of this site.

This thread is clearly just her venting and would be better suited to saafe.

Offline wristjob

I'm pretty much along the lines of smiths/cupnoodle.

"hi, are you working/available on xyz date/time/"
"can I just check you offer xyz services - are they included or extras ..... if so how much"
and occasionally
"just checking you are the actual girl in the pictures"

It's polite, save the real interaction for the meeting.

I run my own business and people often call me to check information or whatever - so it's a similar situation. Sometimes I do get the life story before the client gets to the point and I just hate that.

I don't think it's a punting thing, I think it's just people, courtesy and manners in general. Also some people are better on the phone than others and I've spoken to many a WG who didn't sparkle on the phone.

Offline Daffodil

I run my own business and people often call me to check information or whatever - so it's a similar situation. Sometimes I do get the life story before the client gets to the point and I just hate that.

I don't think it's a punting thing, I think it's just people, courtesy and manners in general. Also some people are better on the phone than others and I've spoken to many a WG who didn't sparkle on the phone.

Quite. Some people/Sps/prossies want sharp and to the point, some like long-winded, some like somewhere in between.

If I offered a service, particularly one that earned me upwards of £100ph, I'd be more accommodating of different people's communication style.

The prossie who started this thread is clearly a bit bitter, washed up, and angry with the world  :rolleyes:

Offline overhead

All the posts I have seen from her involve bitching/whinging about punters.

It's not really in the ethos of this site.

This thread is clearly just her venting and would be better suited to saafe.

I don't know about that. There must be some other reason. I could see where she was coming from on this, because I'm sick and tired of all the crap that gets thrown back and forth as well.


Offline Kriss


I prefer it when punters introduce themselves and tell me a bit about themselves or what they would want etc not just ' yo when u free so i can fuck u'?



I see that you only have on photo on your AW profile:

https://www.adultwork.com/1969443 or https://www.adultwork.com/LovelySofia92

It, and the one you have here, shows an attractive young girl who would certainly get my attention (if I was in the London area). Before I decided to pay you rather high rates, however, I would want more pictures and more info, so my first email would be about that.


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Offline Dani

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It really is a very simple answer.  Those that normally just grunt 'where are you' or 'you free' don't say hi is this Dani or Hi are you free at such and such because they have no intention of booking and also I have found normally do not even know who they are calling as just wrote down a load of phone numbers that morning to ring around and make fake bookings.  These guys I normally ask do you know who I am or how much I charge or what I even offer (normally after they have made a booking) and they admit they have no idea so I then ask how can you  turn up for a booking if you don't know who you are seeing what services they offer or even how much they charge and they normally hang up quick.

Thankfully these are quite rare and not the norm but although it is not part of our job to deal with idiots it will always happen so we have to learn very quickly who is and isn't a TW and just say sorry I am not for you.  No point moaning about it as it wont help and I found very early on if you moan in public about it then it tends to suddenly happen a lot more as every TW around knows it winds you up. 

Offline dilettante

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... why would I choose the ones with the IQ of a preschooler and the manners of a goat? ...

 :lol:  Hey, no need to insult goats! ;-)

Offline lovelysofia92


I see that you only have on photo on your AW profile:

https://www.adultwork.com/1969443 or https://www.adultwork.com/LovelySofia92

It, and the one you have here, shows an attractive young girl who would certainly get my attention (if I was in the London area). Before I decided to pay you rather high rates, however, I would want more pictures and more info, so my first email would be about that.

Not currently seeking new clients hence why just one photo. But yes, that would be reasonable as a first email and it certainly wouldn't piss me off if you put in a nice manner.


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Offline ParisB

Some texts that i have received over the past few days

sniff flake ,coke gram start of from 50 knw any 1 dats on its fiends of friends holla  ( if anyone actually knows what this is meant to be please let me know  )

Ring me Ive got an unbeatable price for you xx

I would like to book an escort

Are you busy  ( this from a known time waster to me )

Do you do threesomes  ( from same person above )

Send me address & price

My luv u all right my luv r u free today 

Good morning when you in Plymouth I am really hard for you

You Free

Unsure if you qualify for PPI Call today to see if you can reclaim 00000s  ( not sure how a PPI Company got my number )

HI
would you consider doing a dominant face sitting appointment after you have used the toilet

If i see you one day do you do breast relief to finnish and whats your bust size can you wear just a thong and black stockings for me looking for appointment in Dec ta



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