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interesting idea on the other site re relationships with working girls ,if they can work or not .
What do you all think ?

Well my limited experience is as follows.

Working girl gets swept off her feet by a regular who takes her away from the whole industry and they go and live happilly ever after.He hates the fact she was once working .
3 years down the line with 2 kids in tow he looses his very well paid job through no fault of his ,her part self employed job is not enough,
also she is bored with the fact that he resents her luxuries like a hairdo once a month etc .
She goes back to the job in secret (cant believe he hasnt realised) and suddenly her job is bringing in £600-£700 once a month from a hotel day plus a few outcalls a month so maybe as much as £2000 a month .
Well does he realise , does he care , and how long before it all ends in tears ?


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Most client / Prostitute relationships are founded on the desire of the punter to get free shags, if he loves the girl he will get her to give up as no guy would want his partner whoring themselves out.

On the flip side some guys simply want the free shags and letting her whore herself out simply brigs in additional income to the house, thus allowing him to spend (if he wants) on other prostitutes, that way he gets the best of both worlds, free shags and she pays for him to shag other girls as well.

Often prostitutes are very lonely people and as such are craving for a relationship,  but the industry tends to make a relationship difficult as years in th eindustry will make the girl "damaged goods"

There will always be the exception and some years ago there was a high profile punter & W G who tied the knot.

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Oh get a grip with your ridiculous generalisations James999  :rolleyes:

People are different. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. I started a relationship with someone (didn't meet him through the industry) 6 months after starting work as a prostitute. After a few months and before getting intimate I told him. At the time I was in no financial position to give up. He accepted it. We broke up years later for completely unrelated reasons.

2 friends of mine have relationships with ex-clients. One married with 2 kids, the other just dating.

One friend of mine states that she could not have a boyfriend at the same time as being a WG, just doesn't sit well with her.

I could, however I could not ever date a client (although many people can)

Point is, we are all different.

You guys seem to think prostitutes are aliens from another planet - we are just normal women with a slightly unconventional job.

Offline Lurtz

You guys seem to think prostitutes are aliens from another planet - we are just normal women with a slightly unconventional job.

You make it sound like you're a Homeopath or something.  :rolleyes:  Prozzies do an extraordinarily unconventional job.


From my limited experience, I have seen sex-industry relationships both succeed and fail. For it to succeed, it requires a lot from both partners.

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You make it sound like you're a Homeopath or something.  :rolleyes:  Prozzies do an extraordinarily unconventional job.


From my limited experience, I have seen sex-industry relationships both succeed and fail. For it to succeed, it requires a lot from both partners.

Correct. I've had relationships alongside my work and experienced 'love', but I'd never give up this line of work just for a man.

Generally I find I'm satisfied with the company and sex I get from my clients, so don't seek an outside relationship as such. Damaged?The way in which I work generally prevents me from becoming affected, and I've met much nicer clients through this than some of the men I went out with prior to this. If anything 'civilian' relationships caused me more harm than any(if any) from my Escorting years.

In fact my Escorting has regained my faith in men!
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Correct. I've had relationships alongside my work and experienced 'love', but I'd never give up this line of work just for a man.

Generally I find I'm satisfied with the company and sex I get from my clients, so don't seek an outside relationship as such. Damaged?The way in which I work generally prevents me from becoming affected, and I've met much nicer clients through this than some of the men I went out with prior to this. If anything 'civilian' relationships caused me more harm than any(if any) from my Escorting years.

Strawberry, you sound like ideal girlfriend material. Alas, I don't want a girlfriend ... well, not for more than an hour a month.  ;)

James's comment about 'damaged goods' is just a cheeky poke with a cattle prod, although to be fair to him, I have seen some girls harden over time. The Game isn't for every one.

Wasn't the famous relationship on auto-censored between Wolverine and Jade?  As I recall that didn't work out.

I think the problem is that many prozzies, instead of recognising what their job should teach them - that men want commitment free sex and are happy to pay to get it - still hanker after the monogamous perfect male while their partner worries about what she's up to when he's not around.

That may be unfair but it seems to me that the old exclusive relationship problem applies even to people who ought to know better.  Why don't they just join swingers clubs for goodness' sake?


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Didn't Belinda of another forum who worked as a private escort and at salon 24 find real love with a punter, she left another forum about 3 years ago and seemed to have found each other.

Dont know if the guy still punts, but he was a bit of an addict, did Belinda see to all of his needs, I think so... ;)

Offline RedAlertTourist

Sounds like a "diamond in the rough" fantasy a lot of guys have in regards to girls who use sex to make Money be it strippers, Escorts or Pornstars.

Tell you the truth, I think that most guys don't realise the girl doesn't want to be "rescued" nor do they factor in maybe she's "happy" with the work she does and feels empowered by it.
Lets face it most W/Gs make more in two hours £200 than they do working all week in a Warehouse, McDonalds, Starbucks that only pays minimum wage.
Women don't need to be happy- they just need to be alive and to be able to afford a fun lifestyle on their own merit- which means they can afford the rent, council tax, food bills, utility bills, car as well as the finer things in life such as Drugs, Nightclubbing and Holidays and travel abroad.

Also even if you turned up in the car (in your current profile pic) would the girl leave her lifestyle behind- or would she necessarily want to be a part of yours?
Tell you the truth- no; I've met plenty of W/Gs (who didn't realise I knew they were W/Gs) who only hang about with people from a similiar social background, ethnicity and who maybe are "characters" themselves.

On a seperate note I also wouldn't trust flashing that type of car around such characters as you may find it would go walkies after your badly beaten corpse had been removed from it.

interesting idea on the other site re relationships with working girls ,if they can work or not .
What do you all think ?

Well my limited experience is as follows.

Working girl gets swept off her feet by a regular who takes her away from the whole industry and they go and live happilly ever after.He hates the fact she was once working .
3 years down the line with 2 kids in tow he looses his very well paid job through no fault of his ,her part self employed job is not enough,
also she is bored with the fact that he resents her luxuries like a hairdo once a month etc .
She goes back to the job in secret (cant believe he hasnt realised) and suddenly her job is bringing in £600-£700 once a month from a hotel day plus a few outcalls a month so maybe as much as £2000 a month .
Well does he realise , does he care , and how long before it all ends in tears ?

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20+ years with the same man. My partners a natural born pervert, always has been, always will be.... What can I do?

Sarah x x

PS I did try working in a Fish & Chip shop once, but it was not for me

I think a relationship which recognises that ought to work.  Marriage doesn't have to be exclusive as long as both partners accept the limits to their freedom - which I would suggest is the woman shouldn't get pregnant by another man and the man shouldn't get another girl pregnant and neither of them should run off with someone else.

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Sounds like a "diamond in the rough" fantasy a lot of guys have in regards to girls who use sex to make Money be it strippers, Escorts or Pornstars.

Tell you the truth, I think that most guys don't realise the girl doesn't want to be "rescued" nor do they factor in maybe she's "happy" with the work she does and feels empowered by it.
Lets face it most W/Gs make more in two hours £200 than they do working all week in a Warehouse, McDonalds, Starbucks that only pays minimum wage.
Women don't need to be happy- they just need to be alive and to be able to afford a fun lifestyle on their own merit- which means they can afford the rent, council tax, food bills, utility bills, car as well as the finer things in life such as Drugs, Nightclubbing and Holidays and travel abroad.

Also even if you turned up in the car (in your current profile pic) would the girl leave her lifestyle behind- or would she necessarily want to be a part of yours?
Tell you the truth- no; I've met plenty of W/Gs (who didn't realise I knew they were W/Gs) who only hang about with people from a similiar social background, ethnicity and who maybe are "characters" themselves.

On a seperate note I also wouldn't trust flashing that type of car around such characters as you may find it would go walkies after your badly beaten corpse had been removed from it.


Sounds ideal to me.  Do you swing as well?


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20+ years with the same man. My partners a natural born pervert, always has been, always will be.... What can I do?

Sarah x x

PS I did try working in a Fish & Chip shop once, but it was not for me

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Yes we do swing as well so I guess our situation is different in that we met and were swingers before I worked.

I have known 3 girls that have had relationships with punters after getting to know them, none as far as I am aware worked out. I guess it depends on what each person is looking for out of such a relationship.

Is she happy for him to carry on punting?
is he happy for her to carry on working?
Is he looking for free sex and an income?
Is she looking for a meal ticket / way out?
Is it lust or love?

Are there any hidden extras yet to be revealed from forming a relationship?

Meeting a person for an hour session once a week is not the same as living with them and their moods, hang ups and problems etc... However, as I said to somebody recently, what have you got to lose? If it is a home, relationship with another and tearing apart your family, then it needs lots of thought as do many things in life.


Sarah x x

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Meeting a person for an hour session once a week is not the same as living with them and their moods, hang ups and problems etc...


Yes, but if we chap's don't put up with all that, who else will do the cooking, cleaning and mow the lawn ?  :yahoo:

Offline Wayang

I know a MILF WG who worked from home which she shared with her boyfriend - whom she married four/five years back.  They seem very happy - but then she has an insatiable appetite for sex and needs more than he provides.  It can work but I suspect that that is because she is a mature MILF and not a JRC bimbo.

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I know a MILF WG who worked from home which she shared with her boyfriend - whom she married four/five years back.  They seem very happy - but then she has an insatiable appetite for sex and needs more than he provides.  It can work but I suspect that that is because she is a mature MILF and not a JRC bimbo.
Uhuh?  Just cos a girl is young does not mean she is a bimbo.  There are some extremely bright and attractive young working girls out there.

Offline Matium

It would take a remarkable man to tolerate a wife who gets paid to have sex with 10-15 men a week (or even more).

At some point, jealousy will kick in especially if he reads her Field Reports and gets to know what she does with other men.

Then there's the inequality in money, an average man in Britain earns about £2,000 a month. A prostitute can earn that in a week. A prostitute will earn far more than her husband or boyfriend.

Does he organise her "work" - in which case he's her pimp

Does he live off her money - in which case, he's a ponce.

And if he simply doesn't care what she does? Can a woman ever love a man who doesn't care enough to fight for her?

What about Love? Honour? Commitment? Fidelity? How do you have any of that when she's off seeing other men?


On a seperate note I also wouldn't trust flashing that type of car around such characters as you may find it would go walkies after your badly beaten corpse had been removed from it.

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er its a picture do you think softlad looks like his avatar or indeed own her ??

It would take a remarkable man to tolerate a wife who gets paid to have sex with 10-15 men a week (or even more).

At some point, jealousy will kick in especially if he reads her Field Reports and gets to know what she does with other men.
especialy if he thinks she may be falling in love.

Then there's the inequality in money, an average man in Britain earns about £2,000 a month. A prostitute can earn that in a week. A prostitute will earn far more than her husband or boyfriend.
yep its a man thing

Does he organise her "work" - in which case he's her pimp

Does he live off her money - in which case, he's a ponce.

And if he simply doesn't care what she does? Can a woman ever love a man who doesn't care enough to fight for her?
no

What about Love? Honour? Commitment? Fidelity? How do you have any of that when she's off seeing other men?

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What about Love? Honour? Commitment? Fidelity? How do you have any of that when she's off seeing other men?
You could say the same about married punters.  Or anyone having an affair.

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At some point, jealousy will kick in especially if he reads her Field Reports and gets to know what she does with other men.
especialy if he thinks she may be falling in love

Prostitutes crave affection and acceptance, and as sch it is not uncommon for them to fall in "Love" with a punter, and likewise a punter to fall in "Lust" with the prostitute.

She wants compassion and acceptance, and he wants his balls emptied on a regular basis free of charge  :)

Offline Lurtz

Prostitutes crave affection and acceptance, and as sch it is not uncommon for them to fall in "Love" with a punter, and likewise a punter to fall in "Lust" with the prostitute.



Blokes will fall in love with any woman who shows them some attention: nurse, dental hygienist, librarian, checkout girl, prozzie.

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It would take a remarkable man to tolerate a wife who gets paid to have sex with 10-15 men a week (or even more).

So in one session it could really freak him out..... Then he had to go down and fetch the other 10 waiting in the bar as there was not enough room for them all in the room at once!

Does he organise her "work" - in which case he's her pimp

Pimp has so many meanings depending on your point of view http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pimp and is often reference to a bad person. However, this is not always the case,

Anybody that works for somebody else can be seen to be working for a pimp, quite simply, they organise your work and profit from you, just because you do not actually have sex with somebody it is considered ok and not pimping. This then leads us to the point where a pimp who profits from a girl working is a pimp due to moral issues.


Does he live off her money - in which case, he's a ponce.


And is the man who 's wife earns more than he a ponce? Again it is a moral issue due to how she earns her living.



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