Author Topic: How to convince a straight masseuse to go sensual?  (Read 17122 times)

Offline Tempest

I have seen this Hungarian masseuse a few times over the last year External Link/Members Only

Based near Hendon Central Station (previously Golders Green) prices are good,  She is probs mid 30's-40, quite pretty in a milf type way. She provides an excellent massage. On my first visit I did not risk asking about any extras and was content with the quality of her massage. It was before my third visit that I simply text her before hand regarding extras on offer to which she replied yes to a HE for an extra £10.

She performed this towards the end of the massage lovely slow sensual technique. Over time I have convinced her to perfom topless and have also been able to get a good feel of both breasts and ass. :D
I cant get myself to pushing the limits to fingering or asking for oral.

I would highly recommend her regardless for a great quality massage.  :drinks:
I used to see her too around 2014/15.

First time I saw her she was working in a shop in Golders green, then she moved into her own apartment.

She always let me finger her and suck on her breast and she always seemed to enjoy it, while she gave me a handjob. Everytime i'd ask about sex, she was always like "next time". Of course, every next time was always a "next time". So maybe she'd be up for it if you could push the right buttons, but I doubt it tbh
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Hey Tempest,

Thanks for the info - I have been wanting to push the boundaries and see if she would allow fingering  :D

Can you give a little more detail -did you ask her first regarding fingering? does she get naked? did she indicate whether oral was on offer or how much for FS?

 :drinks:

Offline Sisterwinter

She was in her 40s, moderately attractive and worked from a therapy centre which I only realised when she gave the address after arranging an hour’s massage. It was a Saturday morning and she was the only therapist in the office. Promising. Even more promising when I asked how much I should take off and she replied as much as I feel comfortable with and thus I was promptly naked.

It was a warm oil, pleasant massage. She was chatty and when she said having been to her church in the morning, a decidedly detumescent subject, I began to think that maybe nothing else was on offer.

Indeed, it was a bit of a puzzle. I had a towel draped on my bottie and later on my front when I turned over. There were occasional (accidental?) brushes of the balls and cock, but nothing else. She massaged my legs to the tops of the thighs and in lifting me must have had a decent perspective on the squidgy bits presented for her delectation.

I didn’t feel comfortable about mentioning anything else on the menu, and as I was behaving myself ref  no raging hard-on, after the hour I scrambled off the table, and dressed. We continued to speak as I dressed and she could obviously see all that I had. And when I tried to remove some of the excess oil she promptly rubbed me down with a towel, which had the affect of engorging the cock. No comment was made.

Pleasantries exchanged and home I went! I haven’t tried to contact her again (although just the massage was worth it) and she no longer advertises on Gumtree.

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Yea, on my first visit there were no signs on extras on offer - but since the first HE I have worked it up to topless and a good grab/suck.

 :D

Online tatoo1

Yea, on my first visit there were no signs on extras on offer - but since the first HE I have worked it up to topless and a good grab/suck.

 :D

Thanks for the info. I recently went to see her for the first time and have to say it is a fantastic massage. On turn over i enquired about HE and she told me she doesn't offer any sensual massage and therefore no HE. Not sure if i should go back on the hope she changes her mind. Nice lady though, and told me she had been very busy recently. :unknown:
« Last Edit: February 04, 2018, 09:33:40 pm by tatoo1 »

Offline Tempest

Hey Tempest,

Thanks for the info - I have been wanting to push the boundaries and see if she would allow fingering  :D

Can you give a little more detail -did you ask her first regarding fingering? does she get naked? did she indicate whether oral was on offer or how much for FS?

 :drinks:
Never really asked her, I used to work in Golders Green on the weekends, so i'd always go see her during my break and hence became a regular. It just became a normal part of the massage, to the point when she starts giving me a HJ, she'd take her top off and place my hands on her breast while she went at it, I just went for touching her thighs, bum, pussy and she never complained. She would even start rubbing herself when I was sucking her titties, which was why i always tried to push it, just never got there in the end. It's been a few years so might try see her again and see if she remembers me

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Thanks Tempest - did she ever get naked or remove her bottoms?

Offline Tempest

Thanks Tempest - did she ever get naked or remove her bottoms?
She'd normally take her vest top & bra off and then just pull her shorts & knickers down to her ankles, but that's as far as I ever got tbh.

I'd say disregard Oral or Sex as it most likely will never happen, unless she directly initiates it. As you know she's a genuine masseuse so she's not really in it for the sexual stuff, but I think it really all depends if she likes you.

I used to see this Italian masseuse in Islington and after a few times seeing her and getting HE's she actually initiated sex with me lol was like one of those pornhub massage videos. It got weird after a while as I think she got clingy, started texting me at 12am for me to come over, had to block her in the end. Was a good run as i'd only ever pay for the massage and she'd still sex me up
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There was one in Holland Park, studying for a massage qualification at local college and worked from a council flat.  Half an hour massage, then on with the condom for oral and doing her on her living room floor.  Happy days.

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Cheers Tempest, do you have a link for the Italian masseuse?




Offline Tempest

Cheers Tempest, do you have a link for the Italian masseuse?
This is her website: External Link/Members Only

Not sure if the number still works

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Offline advent2016

I used to see a Latvian masseuse in West London who only did legit massage in around 2005 called Mazule  and I and many other asked for handjob which eventually she did. After a few sessions I offered and gave her oral, then some time later she was offering all services. She still gives an excellent proper massage but everything else as well and still good value . She is size 14-16.



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Tried the number for the Italian masseuse on that website and got a call and text from a guy taking the piss, so suggest you don't go down that route.

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This Latvian WG looks a few notches from 'straight', IMHO...

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Tried the number for the Italian masseuse on that website and got a call and text from a guy taking the piss, so suggest you don't go down that route.

Try one of these:

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These are her old ads:
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This Latvian WG looks a few notches from 'straight', IMHO...

Looks dog rough to me.

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Looks dog rough to me.

Personally I'd need to be paid vast sums of money, which would probably be spent on therapy.

Offline Wankingdead

I know I haven’t posted on this topic for a long time, but just to update re: my secret pleasure, the young blonde masseuse, For a while we have been giving each other massages, I would massage her in her pants only for an hour running my fingers all over her back buttocks and thighs, I would be fully erect and if she glanced she would see my trousers bulging, I would then ask her to turn over and massage her front, she will be braless and I would rub her tits from under the towel, the last time I removed the towel all together and massaged her breasts, she said she felt uncomfortable and I apologised. The struggle continues.

Offline winkywanky

This has been going on for nearly TWO YEARS now...

I have been going to this young genuine masseuse for some time now, I tried to give few respectable hints of what I want but no luck until now. Any suggestions?

Very interesting and useful comments guys. I think the grey area is a possible reason why she is scared to do anything and also I always do my best to act decent, so as soon as I start to get excited I think about other things to dampen down.
She works in her own place, at the start she insisted on me keeping my pants on but now is happy for me to go fully naked with a towel on, sometimes accidental touch to my sack but that is it.
I think it is the will she wont she thing that keeps me going back.

No obsession from me here, she is an excellent masseuse and I have an excellent relation with her,  but no possibility of asking her out, I like to keep things simple and pay a reasonable price to make me happy if you know what I mean. who knows maybe the anticipation of something developing is better than if she actually gives in.

...definitely no obsession on your part.

I think a lot of us are driven by the temptation that a masseuse will at one point ask the any extras question. The question is not of the soft variety but is one that most of us punters think about everytime we strip and lay on a massage table, hearing the experience of others is important. As for the 99% I can say this; out of over a hundred masseuses I can only remember two who didn't offer extras.

...you certainly are driven, I'll give you that.

So I changed my tactics. Told her I am looking for a very de stressing massage and that I will get in touch with one of my old contacts and wished her a good day, to my surprise she said come over, so I went thinking the day is my day. Massage progressed well. I was more exposed than normal few touches to the ball sac but that was it.  Wtf.
I give up.

...sounds to me like you're coming out more stressed than when you went in. Afterwards you must be rushing home to bang one out, surely?

I know I haven’t posted on this topic for a long time, but just to update re: my secret pleasure, the young blonde masseuse, For a while we have been giving each other massages, I would massage her in her pants only for an hour running my fingers all over her back buttocks and thighs, I would be fully erect and if she glanced she would see my trousers bulging, I would then ask her to turn over and massage her front, she will be braless and I would rub her tits from under the towel, the last time I removed the towel all together and massaged her breasts, she said she felt uncomfortable and I apologised. The struggle continues.

So, nearly two years down the line...how many bookings have you had with her?

I guess the satisfaction you'd feel if you actually ever did get top fuck her (or even get a handjob off her) would be pretty good. Or perhaps actually, a bit of a let-down?

For all that effort and expense I can't help thinking that 3 weeks on Plenty of Fish would get you a shag without all this angst  :unknown:.

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...if I managed that, anyone can  ;)

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Sounds like she’s keeping you dangling to me. What a tease to allow mutual massage but to keep advances restricted.

Not sure if you should keep persevering or give up. Guess it depends on how much you like her and the size of your wallet. I suspect you’re finding the challenge quite titillating which keeps you going back

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...if I managed that, anyone can  ;)

I have had a few off there but I think it took me three weeks of swerving catfish hags first.

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Sounds like she’s keeping you dangling to me. What a tease to allow mutual massage but to keep advances restricted.

Not sure if you should keep persevering or give up. Guess it depends on how much you like her and the size of your wallet. I suspect you’re finding the challenge quite titillating which keeps you going back

I managed to get a similar situation.

Young English blond renting a room in a legit physiotherapist building. Asked her in advance if I could massage her too and she agreed.

She massaged me first (boxers on) which was ok, nothing overly sensual then she let me massage her. Initially was meant to be full body but she decided just legs as we started. Kept her tunic and little black panties on. Happy for me to massage all the way up to and including her little bum cheeks but any touches of the vag were politely declined.

It was a fun 20 minutes or so and I was stiff to full mast in just my boxers. I asked her at the end if she’d whack me off for some extra, but she said I could do it myself while she was out of the room. It was awkward. Haven’t been back  :lol:

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The stock response of "do it yourself" suggests thought out enough based on past experience ie she's been asked before and while unwilling doesn't want to deter any future legit custom.

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The stock response of "do it yourself" suggests thought out enough based on past experience ie she's been asked before and while unwilling doesn't want to deter any future legit custom.

Agreed but I think she figured out that I wasn’t really a massage “enthusiast” who wanted to exchange massages with her to perfect my repertoire  :wacko: :lol: :D

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The stock response of "do it yourself" suggests thought out enough based on past experience ie she's been asked before and while unwilling doesn't want to deter any future legit custom.

Agreed.

Girls not discouraging this have at least a little domme in them, they attain a position of psychological (and financial and emotional) power over their clients which they will exploit and it is wholly financially driven.  Sure you may score the one in a million where her sexual and emotional availability shifts but generally if a girl doesn't start giving up the goods after just a couple of overt visits then she isn't going to. 

Offline samson02

Wanking Dead - you have ti get some kind of an award for your dedication and perserverance.  Either that, or you're utterly bonkers.

But I hope it goes well for you.  I suspect most of us would have given up years ago...

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As I remember, two years ago UKP was full of threads about the chances of being able to persuade EE cleaners to perform sexual services.  World's dullest soap opera that was.

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As I remember, two years ago UKP was full of threads about the chances of being able to persuade EE cleaners to perform sexual services.  World's dullest soap opera that was.

I believe at least one naked cleaner crew was found that provided some sport for some here.

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I believe at least one naked cleaner crew was found that provided some sport for some here.

Zack is probably still trying.

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This has been going on for nearly TWO YEARS now...

...definitely no obsession on your part.

...you certainly are driven, I'll give you that.

...sounds to me like you're coming out more stressed than when you went in. Afterwards you must be rushing home to bang one out, surely?

So, nearly two years down the line...how many bookings have you had with her?

I guess the satisfaction you'd feel if you actually ever did get top fuck her (or even get a handjob off her) would be pretty good. Or perhaps actually, a bit of a let-down?

For all that effort and expense I can't help thinking that 3 weeks on Plenty of Fish would get you a shag without all this angst  :unknown:.

Totally agree - I started off thinking this guys patience was admirable - now I think he needs some serious help! Lol!.

Bizarre ramping up of the situation as well - I felt like an episode was missing in the soap opera. How did he go from zero results in his last massage to her suddenly agreeing to let him massage her? And even then he still gets nothing out of it... totally bonkers.

I think he needs to be honest and decide he likes her more than he's letting on and ask her out properly or just talk to her about what boundaries she'd be happy with for future visits if he's determined to keep it a paid arrangement. Either way I think this is about him making a decision - not her.

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Haha im fairly certain he has skipped a major detail, perhaps getting her to lay on her front, spunking all over her back and a night in a cell accompanied with a restraining order.