from her website:
"I specialise in Erotic Play - sensual activities that are perfect for men not into hard BDSM or intense bondage. The focus of erotic play isn’t pain but sensuality. Yes I’ll tie you up so you are unable to move, unable to touch yourself, but the pain connected with other domination play is replaced here by the erotic. I tease. I touch. I edge"
Maybe it's more sensual than we think?