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Author Topic: Getting caught by your partner  (Read 3284 times)

Offline tazz

Id love to hear from any guys who have been caught with a hooker by their partner, what happened how did they react etc. Also how do you guys manage to keep your internet browsing history a secret from your wife or gf and account for all your bank withdrawls.
Ive never been in a long term relationship for reasons im not going to go into so cant imagine the lies and lengths guy with partners have to go to.

My dad used to go with hookers and im sure my mother knew as he used to love visiting Amsterdam in the 80's. I guess some women just accept that men will get bored of them after so many years.

Offline Dani

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My dad used to go with hookers and im sure my mother knew as he used to love visiting Amsterdam in the 80's. I guess some women just accept that men will get bored of them after so many years.

Really???  You don't know women very well then as most would happily rip your tender bits off if they even thought you were messing around on them.  Women tend to feel betrayed, angry, hurt, angry, upset, angry, feel worthless and did I mention angry?

Even if they say they will forgive you, you can bet your arse that it will be thrown in your face for at least a year and probably many more than that.  Women forgive but we don't forget.

As for taking funds out of the bank do you not have your own account?  If you don't then surely you have enough cash on you to put some away each week although I would suggest having your own account that the wife has no access to so would not know if you had taken funds or not especially if punting as if she finds out and decides to leave/throw you out, she would clear the account out faster than you could blink.

Offline tazz

Well just as many women cheat on their partners as men, lost count of how many married women ive had hit on me. So id imagine most women in very long term relations who hardly have sex with their man and who themselves want to fuck another guy would look preety dumb bitching about their man screwing another women.

My mother despite my father leaving her for another women and slagging her off big time still asked him to go back to her. Many women just cant bear to be on their own.

Offline Kriss

Well just as many women cheat on their partners as men, lost count of how many married women ive had hit on me. So id imagine most women in very long term relations who hardly have sex with their man and who themselves want to fuck another guy would look preety dumb bitching about their man screwing another women.


Yes, same here. Even married women you would bet the moretgage on beinf the faithful type.

Offline dilettante

Really???  You don't know women very well then as most would happily rip your tender bits off if they even thought you were messing around on them.  Women tend to feel betrayed, angry, hurt, angry, upset, angry, feel worthless and did I mention angry?

Even if they say they will forgive you, you can bet your arse that it will be thrown in your face for at least a year and probably many more than that.  Women forgive but we don't forget.

As for taking funds out of the bank do you not have your own account?  If you don't then surely you have enough cash on you to put some away each week although I would suggest having your own account that the wife has no access to so would not know if you had taken funds or not especially if punting as if she finds out and decides to leave/throw you out, she would clear the account out faster than you could blink.

So you are entirely scrupulous in only liaising with gentlemen of a verifiable single pedigree, I assume?

This is exactly what I meant by my post last night - people complain here that they are getting short-shrift from Romanian hookers while they are actively cheating on their partners, no doubt selfsame partners have a similar 'grievance' to justify their lack of sexual interest.

And as for me, punting was a last resort after assuring myself no woman would ever be interested in a LTR with me from now on, heh heh ...

Offline dilettante

Well just as many women cheat on their partners as men, lost count of how many married women ive had hit on me. So id imagine most women in very long term relations who hardly have sex with their man and who themselves want to fuck another guy would look preety dumb bitching about their man screwing another women.

My mother despite my father leaving her for another women and slagging her off big time still asked him to go back to her. Many women just cant bear to be on their own.

And did he accept the offer?  Has your Dad had children with his new partner?  If not, I hope your Mum saw the wood in spite of the trees and managed to forget him.

Offline bighands

Well I wouldn't exist if it wasn't for a bit of hanky panky, so I have no issues with it all.

Offline bighands

Well I wouldn't exist if it wasn't for a bit of hanky panky, so I have no issues with it all.

 :scare: Sorry - wrote the wrong sentence in the wrong tab (had 2 open at same time). Being found out would be a bloody nightmare on so many fronts. And I just proved (again) that I can't multitask.

Offline tazz

And did he accept the offer?  Has your Dad had children with his new partner?  If not, I hope your Mum saw the wood in spite of the trees and managed to forget him.

My parents got divorced, and they are both nuts. My father's new partner was too old to have kids.

if you get caught, just ask her to join in :)

Offline Kriss

if you get caught, just ask her to join in :)


Or if you catch her with another woman, just ask if you can watch  :lol:


Offline Dani

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So you are entirely scrupulous in only liaising with gentlemen of a verifiable single pedigree, I assume?


WTF!!  if you had read my post I stated MOST women. Not me.  Not every woman.  My job has no bearing on what a large majority of wives would do when finding out her husband had been screwing prossies behind her back.
I am not the one lying to her. 

Perhaps the much older women in their 60s etc would just put up with it as they may feel too old to start again and may feel it is better the devil they know but nearly all the civvie women I know would either make his life hell or would throw him out and take him to the cleaners in a divorce.  That is the reality now.  Instead of trying to find out what issues there are in the marriage that may have contributed to his punting women would sooner leave.  Divorce seems to be easier than working through issues nowadays

Personally it does not bother me at all if my partner sees escorts as long as I was aware of it and he was using his own money to do so. However if he lied to me and betrayed me by not being honest that would be a completely different issue.  What hurts most women more is the fact they are being lied to and betrayed.  The fact her partner can so easily and readily lie to her.  It is not the sex that is the problem so much as the lying as that is where trust is lost and becomes almost impossible for most women to get past.  Without trust there is no foundation for a relationship to continue


Offline Ali Katt

Yes, same here. Even married women you would bet the moretgage on beinf the faithful type.
There's plenty of married prossies - why do you think they hide their face? Discretion? ... and the fact many are butt ugly.
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Even if they say they will forgive you, you can bet your arse that it will be thrown in your face for at least a year and probably many more than that.  Women forgive but we don't forget.
It's the petty shit like that drives men to cheat. If a man talks to a woman and gets accused of flirting by his wife, he's more likely to react and fuck Mrs Goggins next door.
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This is exactly what I meant by my post last night - people complain here that they are getting short-shrift from Romanian hookers while they are actively cheating on their partners, no doubt selfsame partners have a similar 'grievance' to justify their lack of sexual interest.
Usually only fucking with the lights out and leaving their top on because they are a "fat blob" and embarrassed, watch a programme like how to look good naked to see examples of this behaviour.

Facetiousness aside, there are many reasons people cheat and they shouldn't be ashamed of their sexuality.
« Last Edit: September 25, 2013, 01:20:41 AM by Ali Katt »

Offline Kriss

Facetiousness aside, there are many reasons people cheat and they shouldn't be ashamed of their sexuality.

I have a theory that 'cheating', or fornication, is a basic element of human nature. If you’ve ever been married, how long did it take before you started to think about your wife’s best mate, sister or the woman next door while fucking your wife?


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