Apologies, my note was not aimed at you. You've done nothing wrong.
At the end of the day, it is her choice and we have to respect her decision.
Personally, am glad she is open about it. I'd rather have this than go through a punt where she sees
me but all along was uncomfortable in seeing me, but did not say it.
I Merely pointed out about this as it would save others having to look at her profile, make enquiries, etc before
realising that she would not see them.
(I am of Asian origin (Indian) so tend to check for this on profiles).