Cassandra4U - slagging off UKP member - mistake or revenge?

[Doombar]

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I got a strange email from English Rebecca t'other day asking if I'd seen what Cassandra had wrote about me.  I said no, where is it, she said read the blog on Cassandra's personal website. 

So I went to her AW page and found this link : External Link/Members Only
I noticed she had written a blog referring to me.  There was also a picture of some texts from a contact called "Doombar" that she alleges are from me.  THEY ARENT!!  I have seen her once, about 2 years ago, wasn't impressed, and never contacted her since.

So what is going on here?
1. Did Cassandra make a genuine mistake ie. confused me with someone on AW called "Doombar"?  My AW name has never been called Doombar.  She'd have to be pretty stupid to conclude that the Doombar on AW and UKP are one in the same person.  UKP members know its unwise to have the same name on UKP and AW.
or
2. Is this her way of getting revenge for me making a few unfavourable comments about her on here?  She could have easily sent fake texts to her phone and saved them to a contact called Doombar.  If so I'm surprised as I haven't exactly done her a lot of harm on here - is she that sensitive??  If so this exposure could seriously backfire on her.

I explained to ER it was probably #1 and gave her a chance to sort it out but she didn't.  So what is her motivation for telling me?? I know they used to do duos together.

Whatever the reason, posting copies of someone's texts is the height of indiscretion.

Thoughts?   

[EnglishRebecca121]

No motivation from me i pmed you privately to make you aware not sure why u need to bring that private pm  onto this public board...

[EnglishRebecca121]

and i wasnt aware you had made any comments about cassandra on here?

prehaps you upset her in someway ?

[switftjake]

Weird that she’s so overwhelmingly positively reviewed here but you didn’t think much of her

[houseboot]

She said, he said.

Who knows who said what and when or why.

Wouldn't be better to contact Cassandra direct rather than expect ER to do it.

And what are we supposed to do?

[EnglishRebecca121]

I explained to ER it was probably #1 and gave her a chance to sort it out but she didn't.  So what is her motivation for telling me?? I know they used to do duos together.

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You gave me an email 1 hour before u posted this and as i was working i didnt see it, its not up to me to contact cassandra ......

im pretty sure she just got you mixed with someone else hence why i pmed you to simply make you aware....

[rudolph hucker]

Indescretion, possibly, but just take a moment to think about how the mind of a whore works.
I have spent many an hour in the 32 years I have partaken in this most taboo of hobbies and realised long ago that trying to analyse their behaviour and idiosyncrasies will leave you stumped, still, yet older.
Ignore it, move on and don’t give it another thought.

[Cunning Punt]

No, the height of indiscretion would be revealing details that would lead to the identification/outing of a punter, which she hasn't. She's just published a couple of innocuous texts and the number isn't even showing (though punters should obviously have a punting phone anyway).

They're not your texts anyway and I really don't see what the issue is. It's on her website, which wouldn't be seen by many escorts who you want to see anyway.

It was interesting to read the silly post, though. Typical of an escort trying to blame the punter! Almost all the negative reviews on here are purely down to the SP providing a shit service, not because of some deficiency on the part of the punter.

Not sure what her beef is because she is generally well reviewed on here. Seems things have gone to her head a bit - if the price and attitude don't put you off, the face pictures may well do.

[HawkG]

Weird that she’s so overwhelmingly positively reviewed here but you didn’t think much of her

I wouldn't say _that_ bit is weird, we all have different tastes. But there's plenty of other weirdness here!

[vw]

I wouldn't say _that_ bit is weird, we all have different tastes. But there's plenty of other weirdness here!

all her good reviews are before the mutations.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=160726.msg1734375#msg1734375

[Doombar]

I explained to ER it was probably #1 and gave her a chance to sort it out but she didn't.  So what is her motivation for telling me?? I know they used to do duos together.

You gave me an email 1 hour before u posted this and as i was working i didnt see it, its not up to me to contact cassandra ......

im pretty sure she just got you mixed with someone else hence why i pmed you to simply make you aware....

You Duo with her!  You clearly care more about her than me a punter you don't see. 

Your PMs to me do not make it clear you thought she had made a mistake - the opposite infact!  You are a liar.

If you genuinely thought she had made a mistake then you could of told her and not PM'd me at all.  That would have avoided me exposing her indiscrete and over-sensitive behaviour which may put off UKP punters from seeing her.

[vw]

You Duo with her!  You clearly care more about her than me a punter you don't see. 

They don't do duos anymore, ER has posted as such recently on another thread.  Doubt this would have been highlighted by ER though if they were still doing duos.

which may put off UKP punters from seeing her.

Her self mutilation into Pete Burns did that.   

[Horizontal pleasures]

ask Admin if you can change your ID name?

[EnglishRebecca121]

You Duo with her!  You clearly care more about her than me a punter you don't see. 

Your PMs to me do not make it clear you thought she had made a mistake - the opposite infact!  You are a liar.

If you genuinely thought she had made a mistake then you could of told her and not PM'd me at all.  That would have avoided me exposing her indiscrete and over-sensitive behaviour which may put off UKP punters from seeing her.

fuck me next time il just allow you to be "outed " then and wont bother with a polite pm

fuck sake

[finn5555]

fuck me next time il just allow you to be "outed " then and wont bother with a polite pm

fuck sake

What you getting your nylons in twist about 

[CornishLad78]

You Duo with her!  You clearly care more about her than me a punter you don't see. 

Your PMs to me do not make it clear you thought she had made a mistake - the opposite infact!  You are a liar.

If you genuinely thought she had made a mistake then you could of told her and not PM'd me at all.  That would have avoided me exposing her indiscrete and over-sensitive behaviour which may put off UKP punters from seeing her.

Seems to me like Rebecca is just shit stirring why else would she feel the need to drop her work colleague/friend in it with someone on here she doesn't even know 

[subzero]

They're not your texts anyway and I really don't see what the issue is. It's on her website, which wouldn't be seen by many escorts who you want to see anyway.

It was on Twitter also
A lot of girls follow each other on Twitter

Looks like simple mistaken identity

[SeekingtheTruth]

Didn't they stop duoing ages ago?

Shocking behaviour from Cassndra though. That whole blog is a mess.

[James999]

Seems to me like Rebecca is just shit stirring

 

[Doombar]

fuck me next time il just allow you to be "outed " then and wont bother with a polite pm

fuck sake

How is she going to "out" me?  And why would she?  She knows I'm called Doombar on here but that is all she knows.  She doesn't know my AW name or my phone number or anything else about me... 

[Doombar]

It was on Twitter also
A lot of girls follow each other on Twitter

Looks like simple mistaken identity

if its mistaken identity then the person who will suffer from her stupid blog is the Doombar on AW.

If she has any sense (and I doubt it) she will remove that blog/twitter.

[vw]

Seems to me like Rebecca is just shit stirring why else would she feel the need to drop her work colleague/friend in it with someone on here she doesn't even know 

ex colleague, if it was a current duo partner doombar would not have got told.

[Mcping]

Clearly shit stirring and putting other prossies down

[bristolqwerty]

Clearly shit stirring and putting other prossies down

She isn’t shy coming forward when talking about other escorts shortcomings is she  🥁 🥁 🥁
Regarding C4U’s blog    I’ve just read three new positive reviews from the Bristol region so  punters are not complaining all of the time 
To all the ‘apparently’ negative people out there , haters, doubters, sofa people, thoroughly miserable people who have nothing else to do but report back to their fellow punter enabling said person to choose more wisely, those that need to look deep into their souls, I say keep up the good work - Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
I liked the look of both these ladies, won’t bother now.   🛋

[MrMatrix]

Can't see ER ever trying to give someone the heads up again. Probably keep her own council now.

[James999]

She isn’t shy coming forward when talking about other escorts shortcomings is she 

Well she appears to have gone a bit shy now, despite logging on and reading this thread she hasn't answered Doombars questions, in particular how was Cassandra "trying to out him" 

[houseboot]

Well she appears to have gone a bit shy now, despite logging on and reading this thread she hasn't answered Doombars questions, in particular how was Cassandra "trying to out him" 

The more pertinent questions are:-

1) Why did Doombar start this thread in the first place?

2) Why does he expect ER to solve the "problem" for him especially when he later states that there isn't a problem.

3) Why doesn't he take responsibility for the fact it was his decision to start this thread ... no one made him?

4) If he feels there is a problem, which he says there isn't, why doesn't he contact Cassandra himself?

A bizarre thread and I really don't understand Doombar's motivation for starting it.

[vw]

The more pertinent questions are:-

1) Why did Doombar start this thread in the first place?

2) Why does he expect ER to solve the "problem" for him especially when he later states that there isn't a problem.

3) Why doesn't he take responsibility for the fact it was his decision to start this thread ... no one made him?

4) If he feels there is a problem, which he says there isn't, why doesn't he contact Cassandra himself?

A bizarre thread and I really don't understand Doombar's motivation for starting it.

He started it as Rebecca mentioned he ex duo partners blog with him mentioned on it.  Probably shit stirring against her.

Its a good warning to avoids this lowlife cassandra as her pimp posts things like this and has capacity to make these things up about punters. 

[The_Don]

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[EnglishRebecca121]

I sent doombar a pm privatly to tell him what I had read why he needed to drag me into a thread I've no idea . I adore Cassandra but I would warn any client about any escort trying to  out them on the internet . Next time I won't bother

[finn5555]

Next time I won't bother

Good idea  you are, after all, a known bullshitter (no offence)

[vw]

I sent doombar a pm privatly to tell him what I had read why he needed to drag me into a thread I've no idea . I adore Cassandra but I would warn any client about any escort trying to  out them on the internet . Next time I won't bother

Out him ? 

Just a prossie having a moan and making her self look a dick.

[James999]

warn any client about any escort trying to  out them on the internet .

You said that the other day, and repeatedly you've been asked to explain what you mean, but you just repeat the same meaningless waffle, starting to look like you were just shit stirring and it's all backfired a bit 

And PLEASE... Don't Pm me to "explain"

[dubs]

Can't see ER ever trying to give someone the heads up again. Probably keep her own council now.

Can’t see anyone sending doombar a “private” message either.

[houseboot]

You said that the other day, and repeatedly you've been asked to explain what you mean, but you just repeat the same meaningless waffle, starting to look like you were just shit stirring and it's all backfired a bit 

And PLEASE... Don't Pm me to "explain"

Pot, kettle, black.

[vw]

Pot, kettle, black.

Has james999 pmed you?   

[James999]

Pot, kettle, black.

Fuck, you talking, about 

[vw]

Fuck, you talking, about 

think he thinks you are black.   

[James999]

Or perhaps he just wants to befriend ER but not sure how, so made that post, he'll probably PM her to explain, or she'll PM him to thank him / ask him what the fuck he's on about 

[finn5555]

Or perhaps he just wants to befriend ER but not sure how, so made that post, he'll probably PM her to explain, or she'll PM him to thank him / ask him what the fuck he's on about 

He only books a massage and a wank, maybe he wants ER to toss him off 

[houseboot]

you just repeat the same meaningless waffle,

 just shit stirring

And PLEASE... Don't Pm me to "explain"

Pot, kettle, black.

[vw]

Pot, kettle, black.

Pot, kettle, black.

do you have a stutter?   

[houseboot]

do you have a stutter?   

Just making things clearer for James as he didn't recognise himself.

[vw]

Just making things clearer for James as he didn't recognise himself.

so are you speaking in code then?   

[houseboot]

so are you speaking in code then?   

No.

"The pot calling the kettle black

The phrase "The pot calling the kettle black" is an idiom used to claim that a person is guilty of the very thing of which they accuse another. As generally understood, the person accusing (the "pot") is understood to share some quality with the target of their accusation (the "kettle"). The pot is mocking the kettle for a little soot when the pot itself is thoroughly covered with it."

[vw]

No.

"The pot calling the kettle black

The phrase "The pot calling the kettle black" is an idiom used to claim that a person is guilty of the very thing of which they accuse another. As generally understood, the person accusing (the "pot") is understood to share some quality with the target of their accusation (the "kettle"). The pot is mocking the kettle for a little soot when the pot itself is thoroughly covered with it."

so you are saying james pmed you then? 

[finn5555]

No.

"The pot calling the kettle black

The phrase "The pot calling the kettle black" is an idiom used to claim that a person is guilty of the very thing of which they accuse another. As generally understood, the person accusing (the "pot") is understood to share some quality with the target of their accusation (the "kettle"). The pot is mocking the kettle for a little soot when the pot itself is thoroughly covered with it."

So you are saying you are a cunt and James is a cunt 

[houseboot]

James has accused ER of repeating meaningless waffle and shit stirring.

However, James has made 12,331 posts continually repeating the same meaningless waffle and shit stirring.

[finn5555]

James has accused ER of repeating meaningless waffle and shit stirring.

However, James has made 12,331 posts continually repeating the same meaningless waffle and shit stirring.

Has ER made you her PR guru now 

[James999]

James has accused ER of repeating meaningless waffle and shit stirring.

However, James has made 12,331 posts continually repeating the same meaningless waffle and shit stirring.

Oh you're a white knight 

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