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Author Topic: You ever told a non punter that you punt and regretted it?  (Read 9684 times)

Offline Jimmyredcab

I tell everyone that I am a punter, friends of over 30 years, fellow cab drivers ----------- even some male passengers if the subject crops up, not told my 80 year old Aunt, she may not approve.   :sarcastic:

Offline Badpup

I was away on a boys weekend a couple of years ago just after I had come back from one of my Thai jaunts.
Of the four of us I was the only single one.
In the spirit of the weekend I opened up about some of my Thai exploits and showed a few photos on my phone.
It went down like a lead balloon and I spent the rest of the weekend on the receiving end of snide comments about having to pay for sex.
What really ticked me off though was that I had been sworn  to secrecy by two of the three married guys about their own exploits...one was a punter and the other was banging strangers from the internet!
I learnt my lesson and now only discuss my adventures with fellow punters.

Offline potato

The only person that knows that I punt are the girls that I meet and UKP and I will keep it that way.  I was thinking of wearing a bag over my head so even the girl couldn't recognise me - some would probably agree that would be a good idea anyway  :D.    I found out totally by accident that someone I know punts - but he doesn't know that I know and I am certainly not going to broach the subject, even though I would love to have a good chat about the various experiences with him.   

Offline Jimmyredcab


In the spirit of the weekend I opened up about some of my Thai exploits and showed a few photos on my phone.
It went down like a lead balloon and I spent the rest of the weekend on the receiving end of snide comments about having to pay for sex.

That says more about them than you ------------ they sound total dickheads.    :thumbsdown:

Offline Milky911

Never !

Don't every tell anyone you punt unless you go with your mate to spit roast a girl.

You never know who you could fall out with or if your mate gets caught he will say the the wife " WE ALL DO IT IT MEANS NOTHING! @@@ DOES IT ALL THE TIME" then his wife will call yours and your fucked. 


Offline Mystique46m

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Just shows how valuable a place UKP is, where punting can be discussed openly
and yet anonymously without fear of being judged or someone holding it against you.

Offline denneboom

I ONLY discuss my escapades on here. A friend introduced to me punting many years ago. I would never dream of discussing it with anyone, even if I fall out with him. It could destroy his marriage and affect his young children.

I had one so called friend who knows about a drunken meeting I had in Greece 10 years ago and likes to make a joke about it. I would not mind this if it were not for the fact he has gone to Amsterdam on a stag weekend and done the same thing. For other reasons as well as this I don't talk to him anymore. 

Offline DaveMugabe

was once out with a mate for work purposes in Sunderland and a pro$$ie I had seen a few days previously walked by with a bloke.  She did a double take and walked on.

My mate says something like "phoarr she looks like a pro$$ie".  I said "yeh, wouldnt mind giving her one"

She wasnt dressed in anything outrageous so I guess he too had been to see her and she probably did a double take seeing us together.  My mate doesnt know about my hobby though

Offline PuntingPete

A few years back I went on another jolly boys outing to Prague. Some of the guys wanted some 'time away to do their own thing' one night, so we all split up and arranged to meet up an hour later.

Unbeknown to any of my mates I had already done my homework, so went off and was first back. All my mates admitted they had got their legover whilst I said I had just gone for a walk and stopped for a couple of pints.
When we got home my closest mate in the group only felt guilty & confessed all to his Mrs  :dash: Of course there was panic in the group with all sorts of accusations being bandied about.

Because I kept my mouth shut, my name wasn't even mentioned. For this reason I NEVER discuss any of my punting with anyone who knows me.

Offline Tailpipe

PuntingPete

Could have got messy.

"WHAT GOES ON, ON TOUR STAYS ON TOUR"

Never tell the wife the truth as he will send the rest of his days on the witness protection program

Offline PuntingPete

PuntingPete

Could have got messy.

"WHAT GOES ON, ON TOUR STAYS ON TOUR"

Never tell the wife the truth as he will send the rest of his days on the witness protection program

Exactly, always been our motto. Some guys however think it doesn't apply to them  :unknown:

Offline wristjob

Never ever would.

The ex wife once found an email (on my alt email account) where I'd signed up to a escort site. I just said it was to see naked women, fantasy, porn etc.... She also told me that her current husband had seen prossies when she started going out with him - I'm just waiting for the moment to drop that one in conversation :)

A mate of mine possibly has a clue. i was once in an altercation with a girl in the street late at night outside our hotel. It was in a Muslim country and back then I didn't quite realise just how dumb being overly friendly in a public place (even with nobody around) was. Anyway all it would have taken would be for him to look out the window and he'd have known - but he never commented and I never will say.

Offline haystacks79

There are 3 groups of people that know I do this:
1. the girls I've seen
2. you lot on here
3. the staff at the GUM from when I've been for testing

and I've no intention of the knowledge going any further than that.

Offline dilettante

I never would intentionally but I can see that it's a large "hole" you've got to create to dump the punting into, ie you can't be spontaneous in conversations in case you give the game away.  Eg at work someone who's just got a new flat jokingly said he didn't want the likes of me round for a house-warming, he wanted to pick up some birds, so I said matter-of-factly with grim realism "Why not just pay for them?", to which he gave me a very strange look.  Last weekend at a family party I was telling my brother about a mate of mine in the area of London he lives in, but I was also thinking of a WG I want to visit in the same area; people aren't stupid esp those who know you well and once they get an idea they can weigh what you do or say against the idea, rather than just being 'psychic' with nothing to go on.  And if you're unattached people will be wondering what you do to satisfy your sexual urges anyway, not least those at work!

There are 3 groups of people that know I do this:
1. the girls I've seen
2. you lot on here
3. the staff at the GUM from when I've been for testing

and I've no intention of the knowledge going any further than that.

Agree and thats the way it should stay.

Considering how exciting this business can be theres a huge temptation to confide and talk about it to close friends, but you just have to realise opinion on the outside world to this is different to ours. Realise the consequences, bite the bullet and keep it online  :cool:

There are 3 groups of people that know I do this:
1. the girls I've seen
2. you lot on here
3. the staff at the GUM from when I've been for testing

and I've no intention of the knowledge going any further than that.

Same for me - and NONE of those groups know who I REALLY am  :drinks:



The ex wife once found an email (on my alt email account) where I'd signed up to a escort site. I just said it was to see naked women, fantasy, porn etc.... She also told me that her current husband had seen prossies when she started going out with him - I'm just waiting for the moment to drop that one in conversation :)


What a  :bomb: she's given you there , wristjob!!  I don't know I'd be able to resist exploding it if I were in your shoes !

Most of my mates know and a lot of them do it to as we've been on trips to Amsterdam together. But it's pissed me off when we've been out with their girlfriends after the trip and they're on about me punting because I was single! They were bloody with me doing it to but they make out it was just me!
Plus another time a mate who's married told a lass who fancied me that I shag prostitutes as he wanted to pull her! I didn't like her but it was still out of order.
And another mate told a lass I right fancied about me punting but I still pulled her, She asked me about it and I just denied it and luckily she knew he was a bull shitter so I got away with it as she thinks I'm sweet and innocent! lol

So be carefull who you tell as even your mates might use it against you.

Offline fenderswoop

The only person I've ever told was a female friend. One new years day we were the last two left in the local pub one night and as we lived fairly close to each other we walked home together. On the way back we started talking about random things and she mentioned that in all the years she'd known me I'd never had a girlfriend and wondered if it was because I was actually gay. If I hadn't been so drunk I'd have given her my usual answer to questions like that which is that I'm just shy and find it very difficult to talk to ladies that I find attractive. Instead I gave her the real answer which is that I just find it easier to pay for sex with women that are out of my league given that i don't really want to be in a relationship or just pick up random women in night clubs for casual sex. She didn't seem all that surprised by what I said. As far as I know she's never told anyone else about it.

Offline DaveMugabe

The only person I've ever told was a female friend. One new years day we were the last two left in the local pub one night and as we lived fairly close to each other we walked home together. On the way back we started talking about random things and she mentioned that in all the years she'd known me I'd never had a girlfriend and wondered if it was because I was actually gay. If I hadn't been so drunk I'd have given her my usual answer to questions like that which is that I'm just shy and find it very difficult to talk to ladies that I find attractive. Instead I gave her the real answer which is that I just find it easier to pay for sex with women that are out of my league given that i don't really want to be in a relationship or just pick up random women in night clubs for casual sex. She didn't seem all that surprised by what I said. As far as I know she's never told anyone else about it.
you realise you just passed up the opportunity for a shag?  Get back to her and be brave.

Offline potata72

I've never told anyone and I don't intend to.  I would say I have one or two friends at most who would probably not judge me for it and probably would be able to keep it to themselves but I'm not willing to take the risk.

Offline bebobdado

I have told 2 people, one is a very close friend, who has pretty much forgotten as it was years ago and at the time i had stopped punting and didn't plan to do it again.

she thought it was disgusting, so i haven't told her i started again

The other was someone i didn't know that well, who thought its fine. but again it was when i wasn't punting.

I have gone back to it in a big way and wouldn't tell anyone. I don't think they would be as understanding if they thought it was current and not something i had done in my youth and left behind.


Offline cunnyhunt

I stay with a friend when I come here to work, he punts.

Back home I could never tell anyone, a very small community and very old world.

I  like the 2 worlds although I have to take over the family business at some time so it will end.

But surely you'll be able to come back & visit?

Offline cunnyhunt

We do have very long cold winters, with not a lot to do.. :yahoo:


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