I never would intentionally but I can see that it's a large "hole" you've got to create to dump the punting into, ie you can't be spontaneous in conversations in case you give the game away. Eg at work someone who's just got a new flat jokingly said he didn't want the likes of me round for a house-warming, he wanted to pick up some birds, so I said matter-of-factly with grim realism "Why not just pay for them?", to which he gave me a very strange look. Last weekend at a family party I was telling my brother about a mate of mine in the area of London he lives in, but I was also thinking of a WG I want to visit in the same area; people aren't stupid esp those who know you well and once they get an idea they can weigh what you do or say against the idea, rather than just being 'psychic' with nothing to go on. And if you're unattached people will be wondering what you do to satisfy your sexual urges anyway, not least those at work!