AliinLondon (No show)

[Belgarion]

Background
Saw her photos on UKE and was quite keen on seeing her and we made arrangements using the site.

Comms
She's got a booking system in place using a website and also uses UKE. Easy to book.

Non Event
Booked to see AliinLondon on Monday after work. Which i hate doing. Initial booking was for 5pm but she pushed it back to 545 - 6pm.

Now, I hate being in London that late but stayed back in the office. Comms were fine and I confirmed by text at 4pm as agreed that I'll be there for 545ish. She didn't send the address and then sent me a message around 5 telling me she was stuck in meetings and doubted she could make it.

Eventually confirming she couldn't make it, I told her I was heading off home. Some activities in the office delayed her.

Now, I have no issues with a cancellation as shit happens but she has not been in touch to reschedule or offer a genuine apology.

Just appears to me that she was not bothered to be honest.

I do not appreciate my time being wasted and I especially hate being in London any longer than I have to and a savvy businesswoman should manage customers better.

So it's a negative for me for that.

Please note, I have not seen her and do not know anything about the venue or her photos or services and this is just about the non booking.

UKE profile
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[Brazilian Martian]

When last was she on UKE ?

[CoolTiger]

When last was she on UKE ?

44 Minutes ago, per her UKE profile.

[Brazilian Martian]

44 Minutes ago, per her UKE profile.

I'm sure a fanboy/white knight will inform her of the neg and she will begin her damage limitation campaign

[Belgarion]

I'm sure a fanboy/white knight will inform her of the neg and she will begin her damage limitation campaign

A bit too late for that. Monday was 4 days ago

[bediscrete]

Seriously bad form 
Negative definitely deserved - and noted.

[ukguysix]

Thanks for the review

After seeing her on uke I was tempted to make a booking, despite the website she wants you to do it through. I travel into London for punts so I wouldn't want to risk being let down 

[SamLP]

Sorry to hear you had your time wasted.
That's poor form.
I was thinking of booking her, but now I'm reluctant.

She should have apologised and offered an alternative date or solution.
I started a topic on this a while back: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=48641.0

The attitude of a wg isn't only during a booking. It extends to how she handles her comms and mishaps.

[Belgarion]

Sorry to hear you had your time wasted.
That's poor form.
I was thinking of booking her, but now I'm reluctant.

She should have apologised and offered an alternative date or solution.
I started a topic on this a while back: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=48641.0

The attitude of a wg isn't only during a booking. It extends to how she handles her comms and mishaps.

Exactly.

I had hoped she would come back with another date or something.

Even if someone is new to a job, that's not good enough I'm afraid.

[Belgarion]

Thanks for the review

After seeing her on uke I was tempted to make a booking, despite the website she wants you to do it through. I travel into London for punts so I wouldn't want to risk being let down 

I hate London but her location is convenient for me on the weekends as there's little talent in Essex and she's a short train ride away.

That's no longer an option now.

[Thepacifist]

Sorry to hear you had your time wasted Mr B, good on you for posting the neg 

[Belgarion]

Sorry to hear you had your time wasted Mr B, good on you for posting the neg 

No worries mate, these things happen. Someone else will benefit from it

[OutForJustice80]

I'm sure a fanboy/white knight will inform her of the neg and she will begin her damage limitation campaign

Will be interesting to see if it pans out like that. I doubt she’s been around long enough to have any serious fanboys. It’s pretty rare to have a negative review come out from and about active members of Uke so this might make for some good watching.

[bbwandy72]

Surprised about that. Based on her UKE posts, I would have expected better.

[vw]

Surprised about that. Based on her UKE posts, I would have expected better.

2nd negative already

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=172012.msg1828540#msg1828540

[Belgarion]

2nd negative already

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=172012.msg1828540#msg1828540

Exact same thing that was done to me. You just know when a serious SP screws up. She tries to make amends.

This one does not even bother which says a lot.

[AliInLondon]

Hey Bel, just wanted to apologise for all of the issues with comms, have sorted a lot of things out so this doesn't happen in future.

Again, really sorry and wouldn't want you to think negatively as a person, just life was a bit out of my hands x

[PleadInsanity]

Hey Bel, just wanted to apologise for all of the issues with comms, have sorted a lot of things out so this doesn't happen in future.

Again, really sorry and wouldn't want you to think negatively as a person, just life was a bit out of my hands x

Unless of course it has been done via PM............. but that does not sound particularly sincere?
On the other negative thread you posted on you did'nt even have the courtesy to respond to the OP on his thread!

[AliInLondon]

Unless of course it has been done via PM............. but that does not sound particularly sincere?
On the other negative thread you posted on you did'nt even have the courtesy to respond to the OP on his thread!

Saw how that could been seen as insincere and have also messaged bel personally.

Thanks for all the input guys, it has helped light a fire under my rather large arse and will make sure these comms issues do not happen again!!

xx

[Belgarion]

Saw how that could been seen as insincere and have also messaged bel personally.

Thanks for all the input guys, it has helped light a fire under my rather large arse and will make sure these comms issues do not happen again!!

xx

I thought it was a late meeting in the office?

That's what you told me was responsible for it and not "comms issues."

You communicated clearly with me saying you were running late at work. The issue was the lack of a genuine apology or an attempt at rescheduling which I found odd.

Have you got me mixed up with someone else?

[AliInLondon]

I thought it was a late meeting in the office?

That's what you told me was responsible for it and not "comms issues."

You communicated clearly with me saying you were running late at work. The issue was the lack of a genuine apology or an attempt at rescheduling which I found odd.

Have you got me mixed up with someone else?

I meant comms issues as me not communicating effectively to you about the situation in genereal, I should have made that clearer! Absolutely didn't handle it properly and provide a solution, which won't happen again in future to yourself or any clients regarding communication or bookings.

Thanks for all being straight forward, and providing all your comments and thoughts I do appreciate them all and won't allow any further issues to arise. Being overwhelmed with other work and personal things shouldn't have impacted anyone so I have worked hard to sort those issues out to provide a fun and sexy service for you boys!

xx

[vw]

wouldn't want you to think negatively as a person, just life was a bit out of my hands x

don't behave like a flake then, and turn up when you make arrangements then and less with think bad of you.

Life lesson if you don't control your own life don't fuck with others.

[AliInLondon]

don't behave like a flake then, and turn up when you make arrangements then and less with think bad of you.

Life lesson if you don't control your own life don't fuck with others.

Exactly what I've worked on! Will make sure I don't disappoint anyone again! Been the kick up the arse I needed honestly! Thank you x

[WHG]

Something is off here. You put your bad comms down to normal work being “crazy” and being completely overwhelmed by it all but, at several times this week on uke, you’ve advertised available slots. You even had time to bump up your price a little and tell us that you had “loads of availability this weekend and upcoming week”.
So either you’re not being genuine with your reasons for the flakiness, or someone else on your side is advertising your availability without clearing it with you, or you simply need to sort your timetable out. If real work is so crazy, don’t dangle the carrot of an available slot at the same time.
Either one of those reasons will only have a negative effect on your reputation.

[AliInLondon]

Something is off here. You put your bad comms down to normal work being “crazy” and being completely overwhelmed by it all but, at several times this week on uke, you’ve advertised available slots. You even had time to bump up your price a little and tell us that you had “loads of availability this weekend and upcoming week”.
So either you’re not being genuine with your reasons for the flakiness, or someone else on your side is advertising your availability without clearing it with you, or you simply need to sort your timetable out. If real work is so crazy, don’t dangle the carrot of an available slot at the same time.
Either one of those reasons will only have a negative effect on your reputation.

It was literally my own timetabling issues as well as work messed into a horrible mix, like I've said. It's not going to happen again, would appreciate it if I could be allowed the time to prove myself xx

[Brazilian Martian]

Like i stated she's now on a damage limitation campaign. The thought of a dusty phone puts the fear of god into most prossies 

[AliInLondon]

Like i stated she's now on a damage limitation campaign. The thought of a dusty phone puts the fear of god into most prossies 

Was just genuine idiocy on my part with not dealing with communicating properly, feels like if I didn't apologise I would be in the wrong and because I apologised I'm in the wrong...
I understand the reviews may have affected some potential clients and I do genuinely care about them new and old so I felt it was important to openly engage with you guys, seemed the best approach because I wouldn't want anyone thinking I'm apathetic when it comes to my service, though I have demonstrated less than desirable communications recently - so engaging in the conversation and apologising felt like the right thing to do.

Really sorry for creating such an issue with myself but it's not going to happen again. All I can do now I prove myself.

[unus669]

Was very interested in SP. Jury is still out for me, I’ll be watching closely, before my verdict.

[Hackneylad1]

It was literally my own timetabling issues as well as work messed into a horrible mix, like I've said. It's not going to happen again, would appreciate it if I could be allowed the time to prove myself xx

Maybe offer a discount to those whose time you wasted - that might show you mean what you say.

[smiths]

Background
Saw her photos on UKE and was quite keen on seeing her and we made arrangements using the site.

Comms
She's got a booking system in place using a website and also uses UKE. Easy to book.

Non Event
Booked to see AliinLondon on Monday after work. Which i hate doing. Initial booking was for 5pm but she pushed it back to 545 - 6pm.

Now, I hate being in London that late but stayed back in the office. Comms were fine and I confirmed by text at 4pm as agreed that I'll be there for 545ish. She didn't send the address and then sent me a message around 5 telling me she was stuck in meetings and doubted she could make it.

Eventually confirming she couldn't make it, I told her I was heading off home. Some activities in the office delayed her.

Now, I have no issues with a cancellation as shit happens but she has not been in touch to reschedule or offer a genuine apology.

Just appears to me that she was not bothered to be honest.

I do not appreciate my time being wasted and I especially hate being in London any longer than I have to and a savvy businesswoman should manage customers better.

So it's a negative for me for that.

Please note, I have not seen her and do not know anything about the venue or her photos or services and this is just about the non booking.

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Sounds like a right time waster, would of also been a negative review off me, like you I don't appreciate having my time wasted. Once a booking is agreed I never cancel a genuine WG, its set in stone.

[AliInLondon]

Sounds like a right time waster, would of also been a negative review off me, like you I don't appreciate having my time wasted. Once a booking is agreed I never cancel a genuine WG, its set in stone.

I can't just keep apologising, so if anyone wants to have a personal discussion about it thats fine, message me and we can chat but it's too much just reiterating the same points or having to grovel for something I've apologised for and have changed.

I really don't know what more I can say without just repeating myself.

[vw]

I can't just keep apologising, so if anyone wants to have a personal discussion about it thats fine, message me and we can chat but it's too much just reiterating the same points or having to grovel for something I've apologised for and have changed.

I really don't know what more I can say without just repeating myself.

this is s punter site why not just not reply?   

You fucked 2 punters over, and 1000's of members may wish to comment on that.

[AliInLondon]

this is s punter site why not just not reply?   

You fucked 2 punters over, and 1000's of members may wish to comment on that.

Because I have made sure to apologise and make the reasons why know and I've very open about that but it's just starting to feel like everyone wants a personal apology even though they weren't affected and wouldn't be affected by any of those issues in the future it just seems silly; we're adults. You can all clearly see I accepted I made a mistake and have said I will work to that never happening again as my standard.

I don't see how me apologising over and over without it having even been 24 hours to prove myself seems harsh? Maybe I'm just sensitive but I don't know how many times I can apologise before someone believes it just a genuine mistake; I am human after all.

[vw]

Because I have made sure to apologise and make the reasons why know and I've very open about that but it's just starting to feel like everyone wants a personal apology even though they weren't affected and wouldn't be affected by any of those issues in the future it just seems silly; we're adults. You can all clearly see I accepted I made a mistake and have said I will work to that never happening again as my standard.

I don't see how me apologising over and over without it having even been 24 hours to prove myself seems harsh? Maybe I'm just sensitive but I don't know how many times I can apologise before someone believes it just a genuine mistake; I am human after all.

sounds like touting then, think its in your head, and makes you seem very needy.

Why not focus on sorting your shit out for future punters rather than apologising to every person that chooses to comment?

[SamLP]

Because I have made sure to apologise and make the reasons why know and I've very open about that but it's just starting to feel like everyone wants a personal apology even though they weren't affected and wouldn't be affected by any of those issues in the future it just seems silly; we're adults. You can all clearly see I accepted I made a mistake and have said I will work to that never happening again as my standard.

I don't see how me apologising over and over without it having even been 24 hours to prove myself seems harsh? Maybe I'm just sensitive but I don't know how many times I can apologise before someone believes it just a genuine mistake; I am human after all.

Maybe you should step away from these reviews. It's a punting site so punters will of course be giving their opinion. I don't see anyone apart from the OP's who got messed around looking for an apology.
Regardless of whether you are genuinely sorry, the fact is it's still a negative and as long as punters want to discuss it, an apology won't shut them up.

[monstar]

Because I have made sure to apologise and make the reasons why know and I've very open about that but it's just starting to feel like everyone wants a personal apology even though they weren't affected and wouldn't be affected by any of those issues in the future it just seems silly; we're adults. You can all clearly see I accepted I made a mistake and have said I will work to that never happening again as my standard.

I don't see how me apologising over and over without it having even been 24 hours to prove myself seems harsh? Maybe I'm just sensitive but I don't know how many times I can apologise before someone believes it just a genuine mistake; I am human after all.

We're not wanting a personal apology, we're making comments and sharing our thoughts on a punter site. You have said your piece, some will give you a chance, others will not - posting more shite over and over won't help.

Show you have changed with your actions going forward, words are cheap. 

[smiths]

I can't just keep apologising, so if anyone wants to have a personal discussion about it thats fine, message me and we can chat but it's too much just reiterating the same points or having to grovel for something I've apologised for and have changed.

I really don't know what more I can say without just repeating myself.

I didn't ask you to apologise, they mean jack shit to me in punting, though they may mean something to the reviewer. I didn't even quote you, I quoted the OP, I am not interested in hearing your excuses or apologises. If I get fucked about its a negative review off me. If you fuck punters about you shouldn't be surprised if those punters post about it on here and others can then post as they wish.

[Belgarion]

Because I have made sure to apologise and make the reasons why know and I've very open about that but it's just starting to feel like everyone wants a personal apology even though they weren't affected and wouldn't be affected by any of those issues in the future it just seems silly; we're adults. You can all clearly see I accepted I made a mistake and have said I will work to that never happening again as my standard.

I don't see how me apologising over and over without it having even been 24 hours to prove myself seems harsh? Maybe I'm just sensitive but I don't know how many times I can apologise before someone believes it just a genuine mistake; I am human after all.

There's really no need to apologise many times and the more you do it, the more I doubt the sincerity of the apology.

There's still not been an attempt to reschedule another one (no longer interested) and I believe that if these reviews did not exist you would not apologise.

After all, you were online after messing people about, updated your profile and photos, sent a courtesy text increasing your prices and had ample time to offer an apology but you didn't.

Until the reviews turned up.

Not trying to be mean or harsh but people who feel they have done something wrong try to fix things immediately.

You didn't until the reviews appeared. No need to apologise any further or reschedule another booking with me as I'm no longer interested in seeing you.

Focus on your business and your customers and do not mess people about.

 

[unus669]

There's really no need to apologise many times and the more you do it, the more I doubt the sincerity of the apology.

There's still not been an attempt to reschedule another one (no longer interested) and I believe that if these reviews did not exist you would not apologise.

After all, you were online after messing people about, updated your profile and photos, sent a courtesy text increasing your prices and had ample time to offer an apology but you didn't.

Until the reviews turned up.

Not trying to be mean or harsh but people who feel they have done something wrong try to fix things immediately.

You didn't until the reviews appeared. No need to apologise any further or reschedule another booking with me as I'm no longer interested in seeing you.

Focus on your business and your customers and do not mess people about.

 

Certainly agree with that. It’s funny how she seems to be posting on UKE, her posts seem to imply, after all the criticism I’m busy. Could be  a smoke screen mind you. Time will tell

[Titi]

Shame about this SP, definitely one I was hoping to see at some point.

[Belgarion]

Shame about this SP, definitely one I was hoping to see at some point.

I personally would not waste my time but up to you mate

[Titi]

I personally would not waste my time but up to you mate

Yea I actually cancelled on her way in advance last November due to work. Think I’ve read enough on this thread to avoid now. Shame though, her body type is right up my street. As always thanks for sharing your experience, you’ve saved me some hard earned.

[DylanPerry]

Been AWOL for over a week now anyway. After posting last weekend on UKE more than once that she'd be available Tuesday onwards. Something not quite adding up with this WG.

Edit- Many things.

[Belgarion]

Been AWOL for over a week now anyway. After posting last weekend on UKE more than once that she'd be available Tuesday onwards. Something not quite adding up with this WG.

Edit- Many things.

She's definitely unreliable

[DylanPerry]

Has now reappeared alluding that she was ill (see UKE).
Something so off with her. For sakes of argument...she was ill...why not post a simple update (especially given as she posted numerous times that she would be available as mentioned)? No doubt if she starts with the damage control again she'll say she was near death and didn't have any access to the internet 

I'm not even that concerned with the unreliability itself Belgarion (it happens), just the context is always a bit odd. I genuinely think there's something more sinister at play here (see my comments on her last month for further speculation).

[SamLP]

Has now reappeared alluding that she was ill (see UKE).
Something so off with her. For sakes of argument...she was ill...why not post a simple update (especially given as she posted numerous times that she would be available as mentioned)? No doubt if she starts with the damage control again she'll say she was near death and didn't have any access to the internet 

I'm not even that concerned with the unreliability itself Belgarion (it happens), just the context is always a bit odd. I genuinely think there's something more sinister at play here (see my comments on her last month for further speculation).

She may be unreliable, or may have been if she's sorted her shit out, but your comments just make you look like you have an axe to grind. So what if someone disappears off a forum for a week? The sinister activity seems to be coming from you tbh.

[DylanPerry]

Would advise you to check other reviews and look at wider context and other issues before you make such a comment to another punter.
As I said:

I'm not even that concerned with the unreliability itself Belgarion (it happens)

so no need for your:

So what if someone disappears off a forum for a week?

The whole thing is just a bit of a (imo concerning) snowball effect, if you like.

[SamLP]

Would advise you to check other reviews and look at wider context and other issues before you make such a comment to another punter.
As I said:so no need for your:
The whole thing is just a bit of a (imo concerning) snowball effect, if you like.

I have read it, and you've made several unsubstantiated claims, and then proceeded to continue onto this thread over a trivial fact that she didn't post on a forum that she hardly ever posts on anyway except when she's advertising availability, and call it "concerning". I just find your behaviour odd, and the fact that you're a punter doesn't make you infallible to being called out for your obsessive behaviour.
I've been fucked about by wg's before, but I stick to the facts and call them out on what they've done, and it's not my place to start being worried or concerned because she's gone awol for a week and begin to claim there's something sinister brewing with her. I've read both reviews and deduced she's unreliable, and that's all IMO.

[DylanPerry]

Offered a boyfriend/pimp theory which wasn't exactly baseless. Everything else were indeed facts, I could try and get Rafa to list them, for effect: External Link/Members Only.
"Obsessive"...good one mate.

If you don't think there's something a bit odd with a WG effectively touting (nothing against the touting...obviously allowed on UKE) herself over the weekend and then going missing for the mentioned week...and then reappearing saying she had the sniffles...ok bud.

[SamLP]

Offered a boyfriend/pimp theory which wasn't exactly baseless. Everything else were indeed facts, I could try and get Rafa to list them, for effect: External Link/Members Only.
"Obsessive"...good one mate.

If you don't think there's something a bit odd with a WG effectively touting (nothing against the touting...obviously allowed on UKE) herself over the weekend and then going missing for the mentioned week...and then reappearing saying she had the sniffles...ok bud.

Exactly, all theories, based on no facts.
Funny how you laugh at being called obsessive, yet you're checking when she posts on UKE, and how long she disappears for, then come to another theory that something sinister is taking place. Do you know how many wg's pop in to post, then disappear? Many. Some people have a habit of logging on to the forum every day, while others only log on sporadically. I'll stick to the facts presented, and not wild theories. She's unreliable, but I won't be drawn into baseless theories wanting to paint a different picture.