is it rude to walk

[clamlapper6969]

ok so I haven't realy done a lot of this (punting) and I have been to a couple of walk ups in soho but obveusly you cant see the girls before you go in, the first girl wasn't realy up to much (don't get me wrong it was cheep and im pretty ugly so I wasn't expecting much ) but would it be rude to say that your not that interested and then leave ?  I would die if they started causing a fuss.
         whats the etiquette?


also any recommendations for a walk up in soho on a Friday ?

[itk]

No it’s not rude to walk. It’s your money so the choice is yours

[Goldfinch]

I've walked many times at the Thai places when the lady in front of you is a dumpy unattractive 40 something,and they're the only one available.

On one occasion about 4 years ago at a Thai place on Portland street Manchester,the one you have to go down the stairs to get in-I walked when the lady available didn't do anything for me and as I was climbing the stairs to leave-she started screaming and banging the wall with something,made a right racket.

It's your money,your choice.

[Kingy28]

Walk if things are not what you expected or not what you want. It's your money. It's not your fault if she's got you there & doesn't deliver. Bye bye

[rafa]

Nope I have done it twice in the past. It’s a business transaction we are paying for services if not happy I see no reason to commit to it.

[hw189]

Not rude at all, I would even say that punters should have the courage and do it more often rather than think with their little brain and accept whatever crap has been thrown at them. This sort of attitude and practice can only improve standards and increase honesty in this industry, which is what is needed.

[Widescreen]

I agree, walk by all means.  I have done a couple of times.  One that I walked from was in a Motel, got room number, knocked, she shouted come in, went in, she was just shooting up.  I obviously walked.

[cueball]

Of course it's not rude to walk, were the paying customer. If she's not what you believe her to be when face to face then it's acceptable to walk imo.

My advice is to keep one foot outside the door during your decision making.... it can get a lot more messy once the door is closed behind you.

[clamlapper6969]

you don't always get to see the girl before your in the door at a walk up, its the older lady who lets you in and only then do you get shown into the girl. I agree your a paying customer so you should be able to walk but I don't like people to feel bad....  I guess im just being a bit soppy

[the fitter]

When you book a girl on the basis, of what she's telling you in her profile, how can it be rude to walk, when you get there, and it's something different. If you go ahead, when you come out, you have the feeling of being done, and wasted good money. After a punt I like to feel I have enjoyed myself, and have had good VFM, and that is sometimes hard to achieve.

[Mr Kent (Not AW)]

Best excuse I read on here some time ago was to say you left your wallet in the car.....then walk, hassell free.

[Newtothisstuff]

Being honest, does it matter if it''s rude?
When you made the booking you'll have looked at profile details and photos. You'll have agreed what services you want and what you have to pay.
The only reason you'd walk is if the WG didn't live up to her end of the bargain. I've walked a few times. Most memorably because in one case my time was going to be reduced but the fee wasn't. In another it was because the girl's photos were at least 10-15 years out of date and she hadn't stood the test of time very well at all over the years.
Does it matter if you're rude and walk away? You're obviously not going to see the girl again and it''s odds on that she is the reason why you decided to walk.

[Newtothisstuff]

Best attitude I've come across is a girl in Sheffield. Not seen her so not sure if it's true - but she says that as she doesn't post face pictures she offers a cooling off period at the start of every punt. If she's not your type, then you can leave. No payment and no hard feelings and no negative feedback.

If it''s true, then a lot of girls would be well advised to take note. Walk out on a girl because she's nothing like the photos and we'll get negative reviews on here in no time. A 5 minute cooling off period would make them more honest about their profile details.

[Rain_man]

If WGs can chose which race/size/age/attractiveness of punters they do/do not see, why shouldn’t punters have the same choice? Especially if her appearance doesn’t match your expectations or something else seems off within the first few minutes of meeting.

Walking isn’t necessarily rude. It’s all about the reason for doing so in the first place. Some dickheads might enjoy wasting WGs time as such, while others may have more legitimate reasons for walking.

[Analist]

Same applies to any service industry, is it rude to return bad food at a restaurant? For the sake of politeness, many people will grit their teeth and bear it.
Get over the embarrassment, if something is not to your liking you should walk. If you don't you're not going to enjoy it and part with your hard earned money.

[mrhappypants]

Perfect the art of arriving at a quick evaluation of the looks, services, attitude and cleanliness of the SP before you hand over the cash - you will dramatically increase your “hit” rate.

[scutty brown]

yeah its rude, but since when has that been a problem in business?
You're carrying out a commercial transaction, often rudeness is required. If one of my suppliers offers me crap they get told to bugger off.     Punting is just another commercial transaction

[Jimmyredcab]

I used to "punt blind" in East End brothels in the eighties and lost count of how many times I "walked" ------ but more often than not it was because of maids telling lies over the phone, they would say that today's girl is 18 and slim and she was really 30 and fat. 

[Malvolio]

It's rude to say 'fuck me you're an ugly munter; you should be paying blokes for a shag, not the other way round', but it's sensible to walk away if you don't like what you see or have doubts about the quality of the service you're going to get.

[Happiness]

Best excuse I read on here some time ago was to say you left your wallet in the car.....then walk, hassell free.

"Sorry I've realised I've left the money in the car. I won't be long" - quick calm exit

I am laughing inside at imagining doing this myself. I am glad in the few punts I've done/had I haven't had to do this.

[jamaicansanta]

I agree, walk by all means.  I have done a couple of times.  One that I walked from was in a Motel, got room number, knocked, she shouted come in, went in, she was just shooting up.  I obviously walked.

Seriously?? That's grim. Where was this?

[NigelF]

Some good advice has already been given but I have a feeling that the OP would also like some reassurance. In my experience of parlours (can't speak for any Soho walk-ups though) I've never had an issue with declining one or all of them. The girls are very used to it and will almost always be professional about (i.e. they won't get upset).

I've seen many girls in a number of different parlours and the only "bad" experience I've had with this kind of thing is once overhearing a girl moaning (rudely) about me rejecting her, if anything it made me even happier with my decision. It was a shit parlour as well. Nonetheless, that's very rare (even in crap parlours).

[livlad]

If your really worried about walking and looking like a cunt I heard another punter do this you can send yourself a message turn your phone off before it arrives then if it's a b&s turn phone back on look at the message you just sent yourself then make excuses and leave

[S.X. MacHine]

Walked once. Recently.
Girl advertised as 5'11'' and a size 14 on AW. She was, in fact, about 5'3'' and probably size 16. In other words, obese. Deeply unattractive.
Told her straight 'you're not what I'm looking for' and left. She made no protest and I didn't feel in the least bad. A bit annoyed that she had the cheek to misrepresent herself.

[Robinh191]

No. Can feel awkward in some circumstances but not when it's a B&S.

[The_Don]

is it rude to walk

Punting some times is about taking a chance.

If you don't like what you see, hear or feel. Walk away without handing over any money 

[nervous colin]

If your really worried about walking and looking like a cunt I heard another punter do this you can send yourself a message turn your phone off before it arrives then if it's a b&s turn phone back on look at the message you just sent yourself then make excuses and leave

I have a great feature on my phone called fake caller, I can press the down button on it 4 times whilst in my pocket, and it will ring within 5 seconds, so I can pretend its a major problem.
never had to use it to walk from a punt, but handy avoiding double glazing salesmen when exiting homebase

[Path to Zion]

I don't think it is rude at all if you choose to walk from a punt. You are the paying customer so it is your money and overrall decision whether to stay or walk. If an escort has lied about her services, like list, appearance or is trying to bait and switch you then by all means walk away. You don't owe them anything if they behaving this way and you should never feel pressured to stay either if your not comfortable with the situation.

[Yaffa]

No it’s not rude to walk. It’s your money so the choice is yours

Not rude to walk.
Your money your time!