Craigslist experiences

[Kev40ish]

I have tried AW, WeChat, Backpages, massage parlours, SA
Decided I wanted to try something different, not sure why I get bored and need to try to find another way to find girls, maybe it’s the unknown that appeals to me.

I have had a quiet week at work so decided to investigate Craigslist. It is time consuming like SA, frustrating like Backpages but had a fun week.

First meet - Indian girl in Woodford for mutual massages - total waste of time radio silence when I got there 

Second Meet - Car Meet in Kensington. Really good 24 year old girl, sloppy BJ, liked it rough. Went back to hers afterwards for food and some more fun £140

Third Meet - Saw Irena from Backpages on there the cheeky girl was trying to charge more, but had to see her anyway.

Fourth Meet - Girl in Finchley, much bigger than expected, not a great time trying everything to avoid having to do anything. Wanted £120 but I left and she gave back half the money.

Fifth Meet - Escort I think promised Submissive who like everything, in actual fact Romanian who offered nothing

Latest meet - probably one of the best meets ever. Supposed to be a car meet BJ in Heathrow for £60. Picked her up she was Swedish 24 (looked younger) , blond, slim and sexy. Her first meet allegedly. I persuaded her to go to a hotel with me. Mercure Heathrow quickly booked £60. Got there at 9.30pm left at 2.30am. She wanted £120, I gave her £150.
She will be my Sugar Babe from now on.

Overall a mixed bag, takes a lot of time sifting through the time wasters, but there are some gems out there. But like SA too time consuming and can be addictive trying to find the good ones.

[LLPunting]

 

2 out of 5 ain't bad at all (not counting Irena 'cos that was a bit of a sure thing!).

How long do you think you spent to get this list of candidates into play?

[Kev40ish]

2 out of 5 ain't bad at all (not counting Irena 'cos that was a bit of a sure thing!).

How long do you think you spent to get this list of candidates into play?

The problem is that the ads don’t generally stay on for very long. So you need to check it quite regularly. They either get flagged or removed, so you can miss them if your not checking often.
I wouldn’t recommend it as a go to place really, but it’s been a bit of fun experimenting with it.

The number of timewasters you have to filter through is the frustrating thing and if you put in your own personal add you get lots of fake people contacting you, asking you to join various dating sites

[stampjones]

Cheers mate. Interesting - I thought i was pretty much all scams. Assume this is the personal/casual/w4m section? Any tips on how to spot the genuine ones?

[Kev40ish]

Cheers mate. Interesting - I thought i was pretty much all scams. Assume this is the personal/casual/w4m section? Any tips on how to spot the genuine ones?

Yes there are lots of scams on them. If you put a post looking for something, it will let you see what all the dating scams look like. After a while they become easier to spot.
The genuine girls, you can meet in W4M, will exchange numbers and you can talk on whatsapp. I avoid anyone who wants to talk on KIK as these aren’t genuine.

I suppose because I have used Backpages, WeChat, SA. I tend to pick up on the genuine ones easier now. I may miss out on some because I dont trust them, but there are plenty of others.

[iwobiwan]

What's SA?

[stampjones]

Thanks kev - will give it a try

[henrynorth]

Yes Craigslist is a mine field of scams, timewasters and wankers in general. But I can’t decry the site completely as I met a beautiful young lady through the resource and we still see each other now.....after two years.
Not a WG........ but a lady who simply enjoys meeting people she thinks she may get on with and enjoy sexual experiences with.
We have had quite a number of erotic encounters over those 24 months.

[nigel4498]

What's SA?

Seeking Arrangement

[Kev40ish]

Yes Craigslist is a mine field of scams, timewasters and wankers in general. But I can’t decry the site completely as I met a beautiful young lady through the resource and we still see each other now.....after two years.
Not a WG........ but a lady who simply enjoys meeting people she thinks she may get on with and enjoy sexual experiences with.
We have had quite a number of erotic encounters over those 24 months.

I must admit the shine has gone off it now. There are far too many timewasters. Men pretending to be women, scammers etc.

I have found a couple of girls had a fantastic time with, that I will now see regularly. One is probably one of the prettiest, sexiest girls I have been with.

I personally love the chase of the unknown, to find someone I like, until I get bored and need to find my next fix.

[BillGoldberg]

Latest meet - probably one of the best meets ever. Supposed to be a car meet BJ in Heathrow for £60. Picked her up she was Swedish 24 (looked younger) , blond, slim and sexy. Her first meet allegedly. I persuaded her to go to a hotel with me. Mercure Heathrow quickly booked £60. Got there at 9.30pm left at 2.30am. She wanted £120, I gave her £150.
She will be my Sugar Babe from now on.

Any more details on this one ?
Link ?
Photos ?
Contact details ?
Review ?

[Micky Boy]

I've had a little success over the years, but lots of time wasted in the process. 1 was a lovely young thing, a nurse who wanted to supplement her income so an amateur to all intents and purposes, whom I saw weekly for a few months. Another a student that just didn't have the time or the urge to get with her own age group, and no money changed hands. I was always honest in the ad, that I just wanted a no-strings shag and no drama. Keep trying - you never know what might pop up 

[Kev40ish]

Any more details on this one ?
Link ?
Photos ?
Contact details ?
Review ?

The problem with links is they disappear really quickly, so it is difficult to share them. I haven’t seen her on there since, I have looked and searched her number on other sites but I am not sure if she does this regularly.
I don’t think it would be good to share her picture as it wasn’t on the site and shared privately with me.
I am just waiting for her now in a hotel for an overnight

[henrynorth]

The young lady I met through CL and I. Have managed to find someone else genuine. It’s only taken 18 months 

We are meeting a lovely oriental lady on Wednesday. Tea and cakes 🍰

[stampjones]

Posted an ad to see what would happen.
Loads of replies - strangely all gmail
Replied to a few.
Got replies asking me to “verify” on some site for “her own safety”
Scam - presumably requires cc details
Replies all came with pics which were quite nice
I basically ignored everything and got more and more replies. When it became obvioys I wasnt going to enter cc details they switched to another approach saying just go to these sites, email only. Right, you already have my (burner) email - what does that prove?
Eventually got one giving me “her” cc details which I could enter in order to cerify myself for her safery 
Scam X 1000000 stay away

[stampjones]

Finally hooked up with someone from CL. Id say it is even more hit and miss than SA. More work involved and more spam but over the last 3 days had a lot of hits that seemed genuine and one that definitely was. Same vibe as SA in the sense that u r paying for sex so they r prossies but they dont think they are so the service is different. I wouldnt say it is better in the sense of what u get but if u want gfe that is genuinely what it is. The girl I eventuslly saw was doing it for the first time (she said and I believe her) and it was a genuinely hot experience. Effort wise though I’d say it was more in total than you’d expend on a civvy shag - definitely more thsn on a real prossie so Zi’ll probs stick to that in future.

[sparkus]

My sole attempt was a waste of time when a) she asked to meet next to house (will teach me to search based on neighbourhood) and b) she hiked up price with every text. A shame as her (possibly) fake photos were superb.

[stampjones]

My sole attempt was a waste of time when a) she asked to meet next to house (will teach me to search based on neighbourhood) and b) she hiked up price with every text. A shame as her (possibly) fake photos were superb.

I’d say hit rate was about 5 per cent or so

[sparkus]

This was quality and I'm sure she'd have gone ahead, as I say, I wasn't willing to fork out that much.

[LLPunting]

This was quality and I'm sure she'd have gone ahead, as I say, I wasn't willing to fork out that much.

eh? whatcha talkin' 'bout Willis?

[sparkus]

eh? whatcha talkin' 'bout Willis?

The proposed meet and session with the woman advertising massage and wank on craigslist. 

[redveee]

My CL experiences have been poor with only one actual meet and a series of photos from a Chinese student. The girl met me in a park in Bristol and we had a chat and I got a feel of her wet shaven pussy and a couple of pics but that's as far as it went so gave her something for her time and we went our seperate ways. The Chinese student responded to another ad and said she's do whatever I asked so I pushed her for naked pictures which she happily provided.
My most recent ad produced a flurry of responses and one which stood out among all the other scam message was one which said reply to my g.m.a.il 88sexygirl with a signature at the bottom 'sent from my yahoo'. Needless to say none of them were replied to.

[sparkus]

My CL experiences have been poor with only one actual meet and a series of photos from a Chinese student. The girl met me in a park in Bristol and we had a chat and I got a feel of her wet shaven pussy and a couple of pics but that's as far as it went so gave her something for her time and we went our seperate ways. The Chinese student responded to another ad and said she's do whatever I asked so I pushed her for naked pictures which she happily provided.
My most recent ad produced a flurry of responses and one which stood out among all the other scam message was one which said reply to my g.m.a.il 88sexygirl with a signature at the bottom 'sent from my yahoo'. Needless to say none of them were replied to.

Shit, sounds terrible mate.

[henrynorth]

If you place an ad looking. You will get lots of responses very quickly...... usually asking you to respond to a gmail address for some reason and that address will nearly always have a number in it.

Scams.

Sadly the meeting between my CL partner and the oriental girl never went ahead through illness on our part. But the lady has been in touch and we chat regularly. Yes it’s a business arrangement but certainly not a SP deal.
I’m looking forward to it when we do re-arrange.