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Author Topic: Punting vs girlfriend  (Read 3207 times)

Offline ambroz

I've been thinking for quitting punting for good but i'm not sure if this is a good idea .

I need to evaluate which is the best VFM of the two

Which do you think is the most expensive of the two?

Bare in mind i'm 23.

Offline GrumpyoldGit

Girlfriend will definitely be more expensive, but at least pussy will be on tap (to begin with anyway)

Offline overhead

This is so like a troll.... lol

Giving you the benefit of the doubt though.

Girlfriend is always better at your time of life. But probably more expensive too.

I'd dump punting if I had a GF at your age. You can always go back later.


Offline Daffodil

Do both  :hi:

You will spend more money with a girlfriend, but it's often on things you're both doing. Meals, drinks, holidays, etc.

As I say though, they're not mutually exclusive.


Offline skittish

I've been thinking for quitting punting for good but i'm not sure if this is a good idea .

I need to evaluate which is the best VFM of the two

Which do you think is the most expensive of the two?

Bare in mind i'm 23.

I'm twice your age and a relatively latecomer to punting. If having both isn't an option to you then I'd say get a girlfriend but don't be in a hurry to cohabit. Try and find one that only seeks attention for a  couple or three days a week.

Money shouldn't be the deciding factor a prossie is nothing like a girlfriend they are not comparable IMO.

Offline smiths

I've been thinking for quitting punting for good but i'm not sure if this is a good idea .

I need to evaluate which is the best VFM of the two

Which do you think is the most expensive of the two?

Bare in mind i'm 23.

As Daff said do both, find or have a girlfriend for love, punt for the sex and variety. For me love isnt about VFM though, its about feelings beyond thoughts of what its going to cost me, at least initially, until the honeymoon period ends.

However, if you only want to do one of the two having a girlfriend will probably be more expensive unless you are a cheapskate.
« Last Edit: September 03, 2013, 03:09:38 PM by smiths »

Offline ambroz

My main concern is the time investment, when i punt its like 1h once or twice a week and i'm done with it

 i do not have to call, send text or arrange a date afterwards.

Offline Ted Bear

23 is fairly young and at this phase of my life I was playing the field whilst at uni. But it boils down to what you want out of life and dont leave it to late in being undecided :hi:

Offline skittish

My main concern is the time investment, when i punt its like 1h once or twice a week and i'm done with it

 i do not have to call, send text or arrange a date afterwards.

If your life is full and don't have time for a girlfriend carry on punting, however if shagging is getting in the way of x-box hours then you need a life.

Offline ambroz

I have a quite busy life though but it has nothing to do with my gaming hobby.

I started punting when i was 18 because i had no other way of busting nuts, but since i've joined the gym and got in shape i don't have this problem anymore.

Now i have the choice but i am not sure if i should quit punting .

Offline skittish

I have a quite busy life though but it has nothing to do with my gaming hobby.

I started punting when i was 18 because i had no other way of busting nuts, but since i've joined the gym and got in shape i don't have this problem anymore.

Now i have the choice but i am not sure if i should quit punting .

Then it's a lifestyle choice. If you punt 1 to 2 hours a week that's got to be costing you in the region of £200, you should be able to maintain a girlfriend for the same or possibly less but get more than 2 hours a week from her, if you really want to do a vfm comparison.

Offline Urban_G

Depends what you want from a girlfriend, if it's primarily for sex then punting would be better option. If you desire the other things that come with a relationship, punting won't give you that.

Offline Riptor

Serious question OP.

How many civilian girls have actually shown any interest in you- by telling you they fancy the pants off you.

And by that I mean ask you out on a date- or you asking them on a date with them saying yes?  :rose:

I get the feeling you are being speculate about your ability with women- given the contradictory statements you've mentioned in this thread.
« Last Edit: September 03, 2013, 07:36:31 PM by Riptor »


Offline mystery7

Personally i'd get a girlfriend at our age. Girl's your age will take you for what you are, most are less worried about jobs and money between 18-25. Also there much hotter :cool:
Save punting for dry spells and later in life when the wells dry up :drinks:
Banning reason: Abusive + Obsessing over prossie

Offline Riptor

Gosh; hasn't it gone quiet? ;)

OP is a virgin.

To be more specific- whilst the OP might have hired escorts- it won't meant he'll be any better with women in nightclubs afterwards.

Where do guys get the idea that sleeping with prostitutes is a transferable attraction skill that increases your pulling power.  :unknown:

Was it the same used car saleman from the pub?  :lol:

Offline Riptor

Personally i'd get a girlfriend at our age. Girl's your age will take you for what you are, most are less worried about jobs and money between 18-25.

When do you two go back to school?  :hi:

Women are very fussy about money and a man's job security in that age bracket- its when they go clubbing when their pussy is worth a premium.  :dash:

Offline Riptor

I started punting when i was 18 because i had no other way of busting nuts.

 :lol:

but since i've joined the gym and got in shape i don't have this problem anymore.

 :dash:

Now i have the choice but i am not sure if i should quit punting .

 :rolleyes:

Thread.

Offline baltar

I've been thinking for quitting punting for good but i'm not sure if this is a good idea .

I need to evaluate which is the best VFM of the two

Which do you think is the most expensive of the two?

Bare in mind i'm 23.

If you're serious... obviously a girlfriend will probably be far cheaper, sex wise, unless you have a real high maintenance one. Sex tends to drop off after a certain length of time even at the best of times, since the crazy passionate lust there at the start is not there anymore. So if that sucks for you, then find another one, if you can.

If you want a different girl every night, or different girls every week, then you have to be very good at pulling girls.... If you want super attractive ones, you better be very good ...and attractive yourself. On the other hand you can get any kind of girl you want with punting so long as you have the money for it, whenever you want. Some find that attractive, some find the whole game exciting and some dont want a girlfriend.

Usually always going to be cheaper. Marriage however is another matter entirely. I never advocate getting married.
« Last Edit: September 04, 2013, 07:09:29 PM by baltar »

Offline baltar

I started punting when i was 18 because i had no other way of busting nuts, but since i've joined the gym and got in shape i don't have this problem anymore.

Now i have the choice but i am not sure if i should quit punting .

Why arent you sure? What is it you think you would miss?

Offline baltar

When do you two go back to school?  :hi:

Women are very fussy about money and a man's job security in that age bracket- its when they go clubbing when their pussy is worth a premium.  :dash:

You might find this interesting... OK Cupid got some statistics on their users. Below is a particularly interesting chart on how many messages men got from women in terms of how much money they made.  While its says a lot about how much women clearly care about money, if you're still very early 20s you have more of a chance to get interest from women despite earning less. I suspect this is because when a man gets to a certain age a woman expects him to be earning a lot and see him more as a loser if he hasn't.

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/

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These bold colors contain a subtle message: if you're a young guy and don't make much money, cool. If you're 23 or older and don't make much money, go die in a fire. It's not hard to see where the incentive to exaggerate comes from.

 
« Last Edit: September 04, 2013, 07:20:32 PM by baltar »

Offline Riptor

That chart is a true representation of women's unrealistic demands- despite women flat out denying that money plays any part in attraction.  :dancegirl:

That said OP is 23 so unless he's a high flyer in London's capital earning 40k-50k- according to that chart he gets a big red mark due being 23+.

OP without kicking you whilst you're down- you're better off sticking to escorts until your pay packet increases significantly . :drinks:

You might find this interesting... OK Cupid got some statistics on their users. Below is a particularly interesting chart on how many messages men got from women in terms of how much money they made.  While its says a lot about how much women clearly care about money, if you're still very early 20s you have more of a chance to get interest from women despite earning less. I suspect this is because when a man gets to a certain age a woman expects him to be earning a lot and see him more as a loser if he hasn't.

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/

 


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