I’ve just signed up on the back of this post.
Within 5 minutes I had a bloke send me a message offering to come suck me off.
I politely declined and explained I was looking for a female aquinatance but that didn’t stop him.
Apparently 9 out of 10 guys he meets with are straight.
From experience what’s the best way to reach out to the girls on the site, just a courteous message?
Or a full on one eyed snake assault ha
A lot of guys will try their luck. Just like they do with women.
I used to be on there but I am not anymore. I am a BBW so a bit of a niche taste and I still got between 20 and 60 messages a day, so your profile needs to stand out.
I would say you would do better with a face picture up and word your profile with attracting women in mind. Don't just put up pictures of your cock, most women seduction happens in the mind rather than visually. Sounds really pedantic but an ability to construct a well thought out message that shows your read the profile will give you a higher success rate, noone likes to think that they are only worth a copy and paste mass message. Think about what you are looking for, there are not loads of single women on there.
Go to a swinging event, say at Quest or the new one in Armley or maybe the club at Bury or Sheffield, talk to a few couples and seem friendly, add them as friends on fab even if you dont want to play and common courtesy usually will mean that they vouch for you and do you a verification.
Once you are a verifed member, people will take you more seriously. Another way to do it is go to the socials, its been a while since I have done any of this but I think the most well attended one is in York.
Hope this helps.