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Offline akauya

Having read this thread and similar others I'm beginning to think Emotional Attachment Syndrome is a Sexually Transmitted Disease :)

cockneybstrd

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Having read this thread and similar others I'm beginning to think Emotional Attachment Syndrome is a Sexually Transmitted Disease :)

 :lol: a very good pun !

richie

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I had a regular and for my sins became utterly smitten, the lines got a bit blurred and we had this odd slightly dis functional relationship going on.

It all went a bit south though when she asked to borrow some rent money to pay off the arrears she'd gotten into, I'd gone proper fluffy for her at this point and agreed without a second thought, it was just meant to be a payment in advance deal so what could go wrong?

Long story short she decided not to come through on her part of the deal, turned nasty, got her friends, mother, squaddie boyfriend involved so I ended up walking away all bitter and spent nearly two years plotting and planning how I could screw her over for it...

Bumped into her for the first time since about a month ago in a club, she saw me, pointed, smiled and gave me a hug. Now I'm pissed off with myself because now all I want is to start over  :dash:

What a fucking mug I am!  :scare:

squeezebox

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I had a regular and for my sins became utterly smitten, the lines got a bit blurred and we had this odd slightly dis functional relationship going on.

It all went a bit south though when she asked to borrow some rent money to pay off the arrears she'd gotten into, I'd gone proper fluffy for her at this point and agreed without a second thought, it was just meant to be a payment in advance deal so what could go wrong?

Long story short she decided not to come through on her part of the deal, turned nasty, got her friends, mother, squaddie boyfriend involved so I ended up walking away all bitter and spent nearly two years plotting and planning how I could screw her over for it...

Bumped into her for the first time since about a month ago in a club, she saw me, pointed, smiled and gave me a hug. Now I'm pissed off with myself because now all I want is to start over :dash:

What a fucking mug I am!  :scare:

That's because our cock is conditioned to forgive!

cockneybstrd

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That's because our cock is conditioned to forgive!

Fanny is less conditioned to forgive.

Offline purple_t

I had a regular and for my sins became utterly smitten, the lines got a bit blurred and we had this odd slightly dis functional relationship going on.

It all went a bit south though when she asked to borrow some rent money to pay off the arrears she'd gotten into, I'd gone proper fluffy for her at this point and agreed without a second thought, it was just meant to be a payment in advance deal so what could go wrong?

Long story short she decided not to come through on her part of the deal, turned nasty, got her friends, mother, squaddie boyfriend involved so I ended up walking away all bitter and spent nearly two years plotting and planning how I could screw her over for it...

Bumped into her for the first time since about a month ago in a club, she saw me, pointed, smiled and gave me a hug. Now I'm pissed off with myself because now all I want is to start over  :dash:

What a fucking mug I am!  :scare:

Hahaha oh dear :D

password02

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I thought he was an OK guy - How wrong can we have been !!!

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Re: Emotional Attachment Syndrome
« Reply #491 on: April 19, 2014, 09:05:33 pm »

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Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

can anyone share the story? would love to read some light humour on a Sunday night

 :hi:

Offline Horizontal pleasures

I thought he was an OK guy - How wrong can we have been !!!

Tjkooker

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Re: Emotional Attachment Syndrome
« Reply #491 on: April 19, 2014, 09:05:33 pm »

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Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

can anyone share the story? would love to read some light humour on a Sunday night

 :hi:

amazing and trivia
the previous page of this thread has posts by no less than 3 banned former posters. Is this a record?
Renatus, Vorian and Tjkooker.
« Last Edit: June 07, 2015, 10:28:49 pm by Horizontal pleasures »

Offline Owwhatanight

amazing and trivia
the previous page of this thread has posts by no less than 3 banned former posters. Is this a record?
Renatus, Vorian and Tjkooker.

There are a total of 11+3 above banned that have posts on this thread
Lovelysofia92
Michael-Corleone
Dj3k
Cossack
Grumpyoldgit
Overhead
Devilman
Skipper-121
BristolIp
Brummielad83
Abdul

Offline socks

Now that brings back memories of the "fun" we had on this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19164.0

Only 43 posts yet 13 of them down to an appearance by an incredible 10 different, now banned, user names being:-

Tony Charles 69
Norwich Lad 69
mikeybarnes1984
Mad for Mammeries
Jezza81
aspire
Touche
vorian
TommyT1990
Peter Bartlett

Admittedly several were the same person and bear all the hallmarks of an obsessive stalker but still, what a great effort! It also contains the immortal and obviously doomed challenge to admin from the Tony Charles persona of "Who are you Sherlock Holmes?", when admin noticed that all was not what it seemed.

Dark Mage

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I symphathize with your story Hyborean  ive had the exact same thing happen to me. For me I think it was just love sick because I found one person who had the attributes I like and I spent many hours with her and got on so well I even worried about the situations she would encounter in her job,but it is all a fantasy because I had to pay for her time.
now she is gone I feel she will be happy in her life External Link/Members Only
and I can enjoy different girls with no worry.

Offline Cuntminion

Not got time to steam through 21 pages will save for later in the week
I expect a weepy on par with the notebook

blackbeauty

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Grumpyoldgit  your a stupid old man zoe does this to all her punters.i saw her for years at her meir flat.shes moved now,does anyone no if shes still working and warabouts she is now?a contact number would be helpfull if shes still working as id like to see her again.

Offline punk

Your not a discredited Prossie yourself?

blackbeauty

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No I'm not. If anybody  no if zoe is still working in stoke area i would be grateful  of any information  as i would love to see her again .

texasjapan

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21 pages of data but very little information. Best part was to link of saafe and danii input. 

ramrodronnie

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Well I've read through most of this thread Emotional Attachment Syndrome. And all I've been reading is about some punters getting emotionally attached to escort girls, WGs (prossies) whatever we decide to term them.

My opinion for what it's worth is that whether we are talking about the punters, or the prossies. The bottom line is we are all human, as such we all have feelings.
 
I know full well that the WGs put on an act to please/pleasure the punters, as Dani rightly pointed out, it's their job to do just that, as that is what they do. they're only doing a job as a sex worker to earn money.

What I would like to know is, what if you turn the tables? And a WG falls for one of her clients/punters? As I say we are all human. That being the case, surely there must be instances where a WG gets emotionally attached to a punter? But an experienced punter knows, or should know where to draw the line.

I find from a punting point of view it's better to keep seeing different WGs. Move on if you feel that you are getting too emotionally involved with a WG. After a short period of time you get over it.

But just hypothetically speaking, what if the punter is happily married, and only punts for the kicks, a hobby,  his naughty little secret, and he see's a WG on a few occasions, and she gets emotionally attached to him? What then?
They may both have feelings for each other, and it could end up breaking up his marriage?

I've read about stuff like this before, where a punter has given up his marriage, his children to be with the WG before, only for the relationship between him and the WG not working out because they didn't trust each other for obvious reasons.
Relationships between a punter and a WG are 99.9% doomed to failure for this reason. Trust just cannot exist between a punter and a WG. So the sooner all punters and WGs become to realise that, the better.

The bottom line is, and always should be looked upon as a naughty but nice hobby, and to the WGs it is just their job. End of.

LL

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The bottom line is we are all human, as such we all have feelings.
The bottom line is, and always should be looked upon as a naughty but nice hobby, and to the WGs it is just their job. End of.
So which is it? :D

Offline Marmalade

It's difficult to advise without knowing all the circumstances but there's one remedy not many people think of ...

With any obsession, the first step is to recognise one is in a sick fuck state: credit to the OP for honestly recognising it.

The next step (other than things like suicide or chopping your balls off) is for you to see exactly what is wrong with it as if from outside, ie the way a sane (non cunt-struck) person would. So if she were a civvie ex-gf etc, you might listen to mates that pointed out she actually had a fat arse or an evil smile. If they're on your side they might start referring to her, at least in your company as "fat arse" and tell you horrible or ridiculous stuff that fat arse has been doing. Bit by bit, your brain, through repetition, engages with and adopts their point of view. She's anout as real as a fucking cartoon character. You respect them: they're not stupid.

With a whore that is slightly different. You might take a first step by posting a link so forum members can mybe rip her to shreds (not doing so maybe suggests you are protecting your disgusting obsession, although you will find all sorts of excuses not to do so; as your ego has absorbed the obsession it means you identify with it and denying it feels like denying who you are, and you are not really a sick idiot, you are an intelligent respectable individual who has somehow forgotten.)

What I suggest is the following. You can't go chatting to your mates for support without outing yourself as a punter: but what you can do is spend time with female friends. Take a genuine interest in them (shifts locus of attention), care about them as individuals. Think of their wualities. See yourself through their eyes. See what a lovely person your best female friend is and, without making passes at them or letting on, imagine what it would be like to be dating a lovely person like that. Then look at the whore that has been taking your money. She's a common prostitute. Not quite in the same class!

Of course, if you haven't got any female friends, that's another problem ...!

Offline MrMatrix

I've suffered once with EAS, its not something i want to go through again. Despite the age difference, for a moment you dream of the perfect sex life with a girl of your dreams, well that was me, stunning she was. It took me a long time a year or so to get over her, but she'd upped her price and I realised despite her platitudes she wanted to keep me, she was using me as an ATM. I too like the OP would have done any thing for her. I stopped seeing her and started seeing other WGs. But somehow couldn't quite shake her away from my thoughts, even now I occasionally think about her. Logically it would never have worked, could never have worked. What a fucking numpty I was and of course you become less discreet about your personal life , which I now realise is the real risk in this situation.

I guess as a punter it happens to many of us and we become toughened with the experience. Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love. A right fucking conundrum. A real shame as that's why I got married a life time ago.  :dash:

Being part of the UKP community its good that we can talk about these things. :hi:

Offline Nagilum

Remember - You are paying for the experience and she is doing her job very, very well if you feel EAS.  Just try to remember it's her job and you being the satisfied client, keep coming back for more of the same service - this is why they call it the GFE my friend.  You are not the one or the special one.  Sorry to be brutal with you OP, but its the stark reality of the job she does.  You have to respect that and keep yourself in check.

A quote from the PuntingWiki

If after your visit you feel that the prostitute has given you a wonderful cloud 9 service that's because that is her job and she is good at it. You mustn't confuse it with friendship or love. Remember, if she is that good, after you left she will give the same amazing service to the next punter.

Always remember that prostitutes sell sex as way of earning a living not to find relationships.

Offline cueball

I just see plenty of different ones, it works a treat for me.

For me, eas has never bitten, I think the money is the reminder of what it really is.

Take away the money and the podging goes with it. I'm fine with that  :thumbsup:

I'm there to have a blast, get my rocks off and step back into the real world at the end if it.

will-ow

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ive gotten along very well with the girls i get, but i see it like clients at work, its nice to see them but i think nothing more of it afterwards

texasjapan

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Well I've read through most of this thread Emotional Attachment Syndrome. And all I've been reading is about some punters getting emotionally attached to escort girls, WGs (prossies) whatever we decide to term them.

My opinion for what it's worth is that whether we are talking about the punters, or the prossies. The bottom line is we are all human, as such we all have feelings.
 
I know full well that the WGs put on an act to please/pleasure the punters, as Dani rightly pointed out, it's their job to do just that, as that is what they do. they're only doing a job as a sex worker to earn money.

What I would like to know is, what if you turn the tables? And a WG falls for one of her clients/punters? As I say we are all human. That being the case, surely there must be instances where a WG gets emotionally attached to a punter? But an experienced punter knows, or should know where to draw the line.

I find from a punting point of view it's better to keep seeing different WGs. Move on if you feel that you are getting too emotionally involved with a WG. After a short period of time you get over it.

But just hypothetically speaking, what if the punter is happily married, and only punts for the kicks, a hobby,  his naughty little secret, and he see's a WG on a few occasions, and she gets emotionally attached to him? What then?
They may both have feelings for each other, and it could end up breaking up his marriage?

I've read about stuff like this before, where a punter has given up his marriage, his children to be with the WG before, only for the relationship between him and the WG not working out because they didn't trust each other for obvious reasons.
Relationships between a punter and a WG are 99.9% doomed to failure for this reason. Trust just cannot exist between a punter and a WG. So the sooner all punters and WGs become to realise that, the better.

The bottom line is, and always should be looked upon as a naughty but nice hobby, and to the WGs it is just their job. End of.

+1
To be honest some times
Just for the fun of it if I've had An awesome time with  a wg
And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

Mayb not so much they fall in love with me but at least have a crush,  its only fair that they fucked in the a head a little bit considering they fucked my wallet(albeit providing a service that I requested) 

Offline cueball



And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

Mayb not so much they fall in love with me but at least have a crush,  its only fair that they fucked in the a head a little bit considering they fucked my wallet

 :lol:

What the fuck is that  :D

Yes, I'm sure they've all got a real crush on you :D well, they would if they were as fucked in the head as you require  :D

I'm still reading your post back to myself, I'm struggling to make sense of it to be honest

Offline Nagilum

+1
To be honest some times
Just for the fun of it if I've had An awesome time with  a wg
And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

Mayb not so much they fall in love with me but at least have a crush,  its only fair that they fucked in the a head a little bit considering they fucked my wallet(albeit providing a service that I requested)

You sound angry and deluded

bilbo

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+1
To be honest some times
Just for the fun of it if I've had An awesome time with  a wg
And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

Mayb not so much they fall in love with me but at least have a crush,  its only fair that they fucked in the a head a little bit considering they fucked my wallet(albeit providing a service that I requested)

The only thing their minds are on is your wallet and if your coming back with it full ready to be emptied again

Offline Marmalade

Have we got a link to his treasured fuckhole yet?  :)

Offline Silver Birch

And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

I somehow doubt that  :crazy:

texasjapan

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Sorry just re read my post let me restructure it using the mobile atm and it's quite difficult

Offline Marmalade

I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me

Sounds like a constipated dump.

texasjapan

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Ok first and foremost im not angry  :cool: why would I be i part with cash in exchange for pussy,  without all that other hassle.
Second no link to said girl as she doesn't have a profile and I met her on the street about two years ago. 
She says she use to be on website called bunnies of London or something.
Yes she uses me for her walking talking  wallet but im cool with her seeing me as that atm coz i just see her as some one I lust after.
Yes there was a point that I foolishly thought she cares about me, and as they would say in retail banking " go above and beyond" to help her out.  after seeing her regularly for nearly two years and reading posts here and safe.  I'm a lot more wiser to her shenanigans and thus play the game she plays with me.

Solid positive memories being,  I taught her how to ice skate, took her to few new  places blah blah blah (this was EAS mode)  wich I still think she fondly remembers.  she is a human after all. I am juts way more realistic of what I can get out of this relationship with this working girl.

And yes 99.9% of the wg and even civys that I have had short encounters with have forgotten me. No problem on my part coz only the good ones stay in memory lane for my wank bank   :diablo:

ramrodronnie

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So which is it? :D


Sorry if I didn't make it clear enough LL. To the punter it's a naughty, enjoyable hobby. To the WG it is a Job. I thought that I had made that clear enough in my last comment.

ramrodronnie

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I've suffered once with EAS, its not something i want to go through again. Despite the age difference, for a moment you dream of the perfect sex life with a girl of your dreams, well that was me, stunning she was. It took me a long time a year or so to get over her, but she'd upped her price and I realised despite her platitudes she wanted to keep me, she was using me as an ATM. I too like the OP would have done any thing for her. I stopped seeing her and started seeing other WGs. But somehow couldn't quite shake her away from my thoughts, even now I occasionally think about her. Logically it would never have worked, could never have worked. What a fucking numpty I was and of course you become less discreet about your personal life , which I now realise is the real risk in this situation.

I guess as a punter it happens to many of us and we become toughened with the experience. Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love. A right fucking conundrum. A real shame as that's why I got married a life time ago.  :dash:

Being part of the UKP community its good that we can talk about these things. :hi:


Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love.


MrMatrix you can't say that we all want to be with a girl that we want to be with, and love. Punting Is, and should only be looked upon as a hobby. If  punters are looking for love, they shouldn't be punting at all, as punters who are in that frame of mind are vulnerable to emotional attachment syndrome.
Punting shouldn't be used as a means to find a girl to fall in love. If a punter wants to be emotionally involved with a girl, he needs to be looking elsewhere amongst the civvy girls, not WGs.

Punters can never, and should never confuse having sex with a prostitute with having sex with a civvy. Prostitutes are doing what they do for money, that is the bottom line.



ramrodronnie

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:lol:

What the fuck is that  :D

Yes, I'm sure they've all got a real crush on you :D well, they would if they were as fucked in the head as you require  :D

I'm still reading your post back to myself, I'm struggling to make sense of it to be honest


It has been known for a WG too fall for a punter cueball. As I pointed out in my first comments. The bottom line is, we are all human, and we all have feelings, which includes WGs. Ok it's true that in most cases WGs are pretty good at not getting emotional with the punters. But being human, if one of them meets a punter who they particularly like, and the chemistry is there, they too can succumb to emotional attachment syndrome.

But as I pointed out earlier, it almost never works out for a WG and a punter to make a go of a relationship.  for obvious reasons.

Offline Marmalade


Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love.

Which is why I suggested what I did to the OP. Even if you can't find one, the idea can at least put the position of the pro$$ie fuckhole in perspective.  :hi:

LL

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Sorry if I didn't make it clear enough LL. To the punter it's a naughty, enjoyable hobby. To the WG it is a Job. I thought that I had made that clear enough in my last comment.
No need to apologise. Your two "bottom line" statements seemed to contradict each other that's all.  If we're all humans with feelings then that applies to WGs too (so whoring can never be just a job to her).

Offline Sonny Crockett

EAS has never happened to me.

Offline cueball


It has been known for a WG too fall for a punter cueball

I'll have to take your word for that ronster, I've yet to read or ear it actually from a wg that she's fallen for a punter.

Yes, I've read it many times from punters but never from the prossie herself.

Yes, we're all human and all have feelings but there is context here, we see them (WG's) occasionally, they see us (punters) regularly.

I think it more likely to see tits on a hen than see a working civvie relationship between punter and prossie.

I don't know if that makes sense (it did in my head but kind of don't now I look at the post :D)

texasjapan

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EAS has never happened to me.
I think it's some thing different that happened with you regarding, the pressie that messed you about

texasjapan

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It would be an interesting survey to see how many wgs fall for punters.
  I'm sure the numbers would be very low but I doubt they would own up to it even on an anonymous platform like a forum.

ramrodronnie

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No need to apologise. Your two "bottom line" statements seemed to contradict each other that's all.  If we're all humans with feelings then that applies to WGs too (so whoring can never be just a job to her).


Look at my other comments LL. There's no contradiction there at all. For the overwhelming majority of WGs it is just a means to earn a living. Very, very rarely do they allow themselves to become emotionally attached to a punter. Sure it does happen, but very rarely. WGs cannot afford to get emotionally attached to one punter, but that is a generalisation. On this subject you can only generalise.
Punters need to realise that they are only seeing WGs as a lustful hobby. Yes there are some WGs who are incredibly good at there job, and can be incredibly passionate during a booking, which can make the punter feel that he's the only one that she wants to be with. But we cannot be deluded enough to think that this is the case, because she will be giving lots of other punters the same passion as us.
Anyway, I've digressed. But I don't know how to make myself more clear on this point LL.

ramrodronnie

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I'll have to take your word for that ronster, I've yet to read or ear it actually from a wg that she's fallen for a punter.

Yes, I've read it many times from punters but never from the prossie herself.

Yes, we're all human and all have feelings but there is context here, we see them (WG's) occasionally, they see us (punters) regularly.

I think it more likely to see tits on a hen than see a working civvie relationship between punter and prossie.

I don't know if that makes sense (it did in my head but kind of don't now I look at the post :D)


We all meet with different WGs cueball. And some punters get to know the girls. (sometimes too well) Some WGs open up to the punter, when in the escort code they shouldn't. I know that some WGs have fallen in love with punters, as I've met some.
I think a lot of it is where the punter gets too really friendly with the WG, and although she shouldn't, she opens up to him.
Most punters don't let it cross their minds by getting emotionally attached, they just go see the girl, fill their boots, get their rocks off, and away. Which in most cases that's how it goes, and how it's supposed to go. But with some punters, and some WGs things don't always go according to plan, especially if the chemistry is there, as we are all human these things can, and do happen on occasions as we can see by some of the stories on this thread.

Offline Marmalade

It would be an interesting survey to see how many wgs fall for punters.
  I'm sure the numbers would be very low but I doubt they would own up to it even on an anonymous platform like a forum.
Well she hasn't fallen for him has she  :blush:  :rolleyes:

Offline MrMatrix


Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love.


MrMatrix you can't say that we all want to be with a girl that we want to be with, and love. Punting Is, and should only be looked upon as a hobby. If  punters are looking for love, they shouldn't be punting at all, as punters who are in that frame of mind are vulnerable to emotional attachment syndrome.
Punting shouldn't be used as a means to find a girl to fall in love. If a punter wants to be emotionally involved with a girl, he needs to be looking elsewhere amongst the civvy girls, not WGs.

Punters can never, and should never confuse having sex with a prostitute with having sex with a civvy. Prostitutes are doing what they do for money, that is the bottom line.

Ramrodronnie- I agree with you entirely 100%. My phrase "Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love". Doesn't really apply to a WG. If the majority of us had a regular sex life etc, a lot of us wouldn't bother punting is the point I was trying to make.
Trouble is sex in many cases is a bit of a bonding process and the punter can be seduced into feeling loved wanted what ever. I had this conversation with my WG and we both agreed its the wrong route. And it is the wrong route. An escort is there for the money end off. However my WG did have an affair with one of her punters, but he wasn't prepared to leave his family. End of affair. I also know of one WG whom I've met is now engaged to one of her clients and strangely enough I don't think shes stopped escorting, which is a bit odd. But that's their arrangement.

Many of the WG's also want to eventually have a regular life, house , husband, kids pet etc....after all they are human as well.  But in the mean time its just a hobby where they are only interested in our money and as stated earlier, they will supply the same service to the next punter through the door and the one after that.........................

ramrodronnie

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Ramrodronnie- I agree with you entirely 100%. My phrase "Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love". Doesn't really apply to a WG. If the majority of us had a regular sex life etc, a lot of us wouldn't bother punting is the point I was trying to make.
Trouble is sex in many cases is a bit of a bonding process and the punter can be seduced into feeling loved wanted what ever. I had this conversation with my WG and we both agreed its the wrong route. And it is the wrong route. An escort is there for the money end off. However my WG did have an affair with one of her punters, but he wasn't prepared to leave his family. End of affair. I also know of one WG whom I've met is now engaged to one of her clients and strangely enough I don't think shes stopped escorting, which is a bit odd. But that's their arrangement.

Many of the WG's also want to eventually have a regular life, house , husband, kids pet etc....after all they are human as well.  But in the mean time its just a hobby where they are only interested in our money and as stated earlier, they will supply the same service to the next punter through the door and the one after that.........................


Yes MrMatrix. That is exactly what I was meaning. We are obviously singing from the same song sheet.

Number15

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Yes MrMatrix. That is exactly what I was meaning. We are obviously singing from the same song sheet.

Amen

Offline Marmalade

You could re-title the thread 'emotional attack syndrome'.

It occurs when the punter, whether as a result of the prossie doing it intentionally or not (and as pointed out, usually not) allows himself to be sucked dry. It's a force almost external to the punter and over which he feels he has no control. Remedies include isolating himself completely from the (even unintentional) attacker, if she comes to mind instantly associating her undesirable qualities rewal or imaginary like a fat smelly arse, deleting her from hotlists and any other doors of communication, focussing on some ideals that are in tune with reality, the company of longterm friends, a solo trip abroad preferably without internet connection, and so on.

Offline Home Alone

You could re-title the thread 'emotional attack syndrome'.

It occurs when the punter, whether as a result of the prossie doing it intentionally or not (and as pointed out, usually not) allows himself to be sucked dry. It's a force almost external to the punter and over which he feels he has no control. Remedies include isolating himself completely from the (even unintentional) attacker, if she comes to mind instantly associating her undesirable qualities rewal or imaginary like a fat smelly arse, deleting her from hotlists and any other doors of communication, focussing on some ideals that are in tune with reality, the company of longterm friends, a solo trip abroad preferably without internet connection, and so on.

Spot on, Marmalade yet again!

Although as one who suffered from this some years ago and needed to take all the courses of action you recommend, I'd add that there are some WGs who can recognise the "symptoms" in vulnerable punters and make the most of the situation.

My 70th birthday present to me earlier this year was a holiday in the Caribbean and one of my friends who knew that I'd had EAS, and also that I send a lot of postcards when I'm on holiday, asked whether I was going to send a card to the WG for whom I'd had EAS.

"Don't be silly", I replied. "I'm avoiding her; what would I put on a postcard?!"

"See what you could have won!" :D :lol: :D :lol: :D

Offline Marmalade

Spot on, Marmalade yet again!

Although as one who suffered from this some years ago and needed to take all the courses of action you recommend, I'd add that there are some WGs who can recognise the "symptoms" in vulnerable punters and make the most of the situation.

My 70th birthday present to me earlier this year was a holiday in the Caribbean and one of my friends who knew that I'd had EAS, and also that I send a lot of postcards when I'm on holiday, asked whether I was going to send a card to the WG for whom I'd had EAS.

"Don't be silly", I replied. "I'm avoiding her; what would I put on a postcard?!"

"See what you could have won!" :D :lol: :D :lol: :D

Congratulations that man!