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Offline akauya

Having read this thread and similar others I'm beginning to think Emotional Attachment Syndrome is a Sexually Transmitted Disease :)

Having read this thread and similar others I'm beginning to think Emotional Attachment Syndrome is a Sexually Transmitted Disease :)

 :lol: a very good pun !

Offline richie

I had a regular and for my sins became utterly smitten, the lines got a bit blurred and we had this odd slightly dis functional relationship going on.

It all went a bit south though when she asked to borrow some rent money to pay off the arrears she'd gotten into, I'd gone proper fluffy for her at this point and agreed without a second thought, it was just meant to be a payment in advance deal so what could go wrong?

Long story short she decided not to come through on her part of the deal, turned nasty, got her friends, mother, squaddie boyfriend involved so I ended up walking away all bitter and spent nearly two years plotting and planning how I could screw her over for it...

Bumped into her for the first time since about a month ago in a club, she saw me, pointed, smiled and gave me a hug. Now I'm pissed off with myself because now all I want is to start over  :dash:

What a fucking mug I am!  :scare:

I had a regular and for my sins became utterly smitten, the lines got a bit blurred and we had this odd slightly dis functional relationship going on.

It all went a bit south though when she asked to borrow some rent money to pay off the arrears she'd gotten into, I'd gone proper fluffy for her at this point and agreed without a second thought, it was just meant to be a payment in advance deal so what could go wrong?

Long story short she decided not to come through on her part of the deal, turned nasty, got her friends, mother, squaddie boyfriend involved so I ended up walking away all bitter and spent nearly two years plotting and planning how I could screw her over for it...

Bumped into her for the first time since about a month ago in a club, she saw me, pointed, smiled and gave me a hug. Now I'm pissed off with myself because now all I want is to start over :dash:

What a fucking mug I am!  :scare:

That's because our cock is conditioned to forgive!

That's because our cock is conditioned to forgive!

Fanny is less conditioned to forgive.

Offline purple_t

I had a regular and for my sins became utterly smitten, the lines got a bit blurred and we had this odd slightly dis functional relationship going on.

It all went a bit south though when she asked to borrow some rent money to pay off the arrears she'd gotten into, I'd gone proper fluffy for her at this point and agreed without a second thought, it was just meant to be a payment in advance deal so what could go wrong?

Long story short she decided not to come through on her part of the deal, turned nasty, got her friends, mother, squaddie boyfriend involved so I ended up walking away all bitter and spent nearly two years plotting and planning how I could screw her over for it...

Bumped into her for the first time since about a month ago in a club, she saw me, pointed, smiled and gave me a hug. Now I'm pissed off with myself because now all I want is to start over  :dash:

What a fucking mug I am!  :scare:

Hahaha oh dear :D

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I thought he was an OK guy - How wrong can we have been !!!

Tjkooker

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Re: Emotional Attachment Syndrome
« Reply #491 on: April 19, 2014, 09:05:33 pm »

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Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

can anyone share the story? would love to read some light humour on a Sunday night

 :hi:

I thought he was an OK guy - How wrong can we have been !!!

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Re: Emotional Attachment Syndrome
« Reply #491 on: April 19, 2014, 09:05:33 pm »

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Banning reason: Outing and trolling a punter because he posted a negative about his favourite prossie. White-knight fluffy that pretends otherwise.

can anyone share the story? would love to read some light humour on a Sunday night

 :hi:

amazing and trivia
the previous page of this thread has posts by no less than 3 banned former posters. Is this a record?
Renatus, Vorian and Tjkooker.
« Last Edit: June 07, 2015, 10:28:49 PM by Horizontal pleasures »

Offline Owwhatanight

amazing and trivia
the previous page of this thread has posts by no less than 3 banned former posters. Is this a record?
Renatus, Vorian and Tjkooker.

There are a total of 11+3 above banned that have posts on this thread
Lovelysofia92
Michael-Corleone
Dj3k
Cossack
Grumpyoldgit
Overhead
Devilman
Skipper-121
BristolIp
Brummielad83
Abdul

Offline socks

Now that brings back memories of the "fun" we had on this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19164.0

Only 43 posts yet 13 of them down to an appearance by an incredible 10 different, now banned, user names being:-

Tony Charles 69
Norwich Lad 69
mikeybarnes1984
Mad for Mammeries
Jezza81
aspire
Touche
vorian
TommyT1990
Peter Bartlett

Admittedly several were the same person and bear all the hallmarks of an obsessive stalker but still, what a great effort! It also contains the immortal and obviously doomed challenge to admin from the Tony Charles persona of "Who are you Sherlock Holmes?", when admin noticed that all was not what it seemed.

Offline Dark Mage

I symphathize with your story Hyborean  ive had the exact same thing happen to me. For me I think it was just love sick because I found one person who had the attributes I like and I spent many hours with her and got on so well I even worried about the situations she would encounter in her job,but it is all a fantasy because I had to pay for her time.
now she is gone I feel she will be happy in her life http://zenhabits.net/blossom/
and I can enjoy different girls with no worry.
Banning reason: Abusive towards other members + Bullying them into censoring their views

Offline comaminion

Not got time to steam through 21 pages will save for later in the week
I expect a weepy on par with the notebook
Banning reason: White-knighting

Offline blackbeauty

Grumpyoldgit  your a stupid old man zoe does this to all her punters.i saw her for years at her meir flat.shes moved now,does anyone no if shes still working and warabouts she is now?a contact number would be helpfull if shes still working as id like to see her again.
Banning reason: Tout

Offline punk

Your not a discredited Prossie yourself?

Offline blackbeauty

No I'm not. If anybody  no if zoe is still working in stoke area i would be grateful  of any information  as i would love to see her again .
Banning reason: Tout

21 pages of data but very little information. Best part was to link of saafe and danii input. 

Offline ramrodronnie

Well I've read through most of this thread Emotional Attachment Syndrome. And all I've been reading is about some punters getting emotionally attached to escort girls, WGs (prossies) whatever we decide to term them.

My opinion for what it's worth is that whether we are talking about the punters, or the prossies. The bottom line is we are all human, as such we all have feelings.
 
I know full well that the WGs put on an act to please/pleasure the punters, as Dani rightly pointed out, it's their job to do just that, as that is what they do. they're only doing a job as a sex worker to earn money.

What I would like to know is, what if you turn the tables? And a WG falls for one of her clients/punters? As I say we are all human. That being the case, surely there must be instances where a WG gets emotionally attached to a punter? But an experienced punter knows, or should know where to draw the line.

I find from a punting point of view it's better to keep seeing different WGs. Move on if you feel that you are getting too emotionally involved with a WG. After a short period of time you get over it.

But just hypothetically speaking, what if the punter is happily married, and only punts for the kicks, a hobby,  his naughty little secret, and he see's a WG on a few occasions, and she gets emotionally attached to him? What then?
They may both have feelings for each other, and it could end up breaking up his marriage?

I've read about stuff like this before, where a punter has given up his marriage, his children to be with the WG before, only for the relationship between him and the WG not working out because they didn't trust each other for obvious reasons.
Relationships between a punter and a WG are 99.9% doomed to failure for this reason. Trust just cannot exist between a punter and a WG. So the sooner all punters and WGs become to realise that, the better.

The bottom line is, and always should be looked upon as a naughty but nice hobby, and to the WGs it is just their job. End of.
Banning reason: Undesirable

Offline LL

The bottom line is we are all human, as such we all have feelings.
The bottom line is, and always should be looked upon as a naughty but nice hobby, and to the WGs it is just their job. End of.
So which is it? :D

Offline Marmalade

It's difficult to advise without knowing all the circumstances but there's one remedy not many people think of ...

With any obsession, the first step is to recognise one is in a sick fuck state: credit to the OP for honestly recognising it.

The next step (other than things like suicide or chopping your balls off) is for you to see exactly what is wrong with it as if from outside, ie the way a sane (non cunt-struck) person would. So if she were a civvie ex-gf etc, you might listen to mates that pointed out she actually had a fat arse or an evil smile. If they're on your side they might start referring to her, at least in your company as "fat arse" and tell you horrible or ridiculous stuff that fat arse has been doing. Bit by bit, your brain, through repetition, engages with and adopts their point of view. She's anout as real as a fucking cartoon character. You respect them: they're not stupid.

With a whore that is slightly different. You might take a first step by posting a link so forum members can mybe rip her to shreds (not doing so maybe suggests you are protecting your disgusting obsession, although you will find all sorts of excuses not to do so; as your ego has absorbed the obsession it means you identify with it and denying it feels like denying who you are, and you are not really a sick idiot, you are an intelligent respectable individual who has somehow forgotten.)

What I suggest is the following. You can't go chatting to your mates for support without outing yourself as a punter: but what you can do is spend time with female friends. Take a genuine interest in them (shifts locus of attention), care about them as individuals. Think of their wualities. See yourself through their eyes. See what a lovely person your best female friend is and, without making passes at them or letting on, imagine what it would be like to be dating a lovely person like that. Then look at the whore that has been taking your money. She's a common prostitute. Not quite in the same class!

Of course, if you haven't got any female friends, that's another problem ...!

Offline MrMatrix

I've suffered once with EAS, its not something i want to go through again. Despite the age difference, for a moment you dream of the perfect sex life with a girl of your dreams, well that was me, stunning she was. It took me a long time a year or so to get over her, but she'd upped her price and I realised despite her platitudes she wanted to keep me, she was using me as an ATM. I too like the OP would have done any thing for her. I stopped seeing her and started seeing other WGs. But somehow couldn't quite shake her away from my thoughts, even now I occasionally think about her. Logically it would never have worked, could never have worked. What a fucking numpty I was and of course you become less discreet about your personal life , which I now realise is the real risk in this situation.

I guess as a punter it happens to many of us and we become toughened with the experience. Trouble we all just want a regular sex life with a girl we want to be with and love. A right fucking conundrum. A real shame as that's why I got married a life time ago.  :dash:

Being part of the UKP community its good that we can talk about these things. :hi:

Offline Nagilum

Remember - You are paying for the experience and she is doing her job very, very well if you feel EAS.  Just try to remember it's her job and you being the satisfied client, keep coming back for more of the same service - this is why they call it the GFE my friend.  You are not the one or the special one.  Sorry to be brutal with you OP, but its the stark reality of the job she does.  You have to respect that and keep yourself in check.

A quote from the PuntingWiki

If after your visit you feel that the prostitute has given you a wonderful cloud 9 service that's because that is her job and she is good at it. You mustn't confuse it with friendship or love. Remember, if she is that good, after you left she will give the same amazing service to the next punter.

Always remember that prostitutes sell sex as way of earning a living not to find relationships.

Online cueball

I just see plenty of different ones, it works a treat for me.

For me, eas has never bitten, I think the money is the reminder of what it really is.

Take away the money and the podging goes with it. I'm fine with that  :thumbsup:

I'm there to have a blast, get my rocks off and step back into the real world at the end if it.

Offline will-ow

ive gotten along very well with the girls i get, but i see it like clients at work, its nice to see them but i think nothing more of it afterwards

Well I've read through most of this thread Emotional Attachment Syndrome. And all I've been reading is about some punters getting emotionally attached to escort girls, WGs (prossies) whatever we decide to term them.

My opinion for what it's worth is that whether we are talking about the punters, or the prossies. The bottom line is we are all human, as such we all have feelings.
 
I know full well that the WGs put on an act to please/pleasure the punters, as Dani rightly pointed out, it's their job to do just that, as that is what they do. they're only doing a job as a sex worker to earn money.

What I would like to know is, what if you turn the tables? And a WG falls for one of her clients/punters? As I say we are all human. That being the case, surely there must be instances where a WG gets emotionally attached to a punter? But an experienced punter knows, or should know where to draw the line.

I find from a punting point of view it's better to keep seeing different WGs. Move on if you feel that you are getting too emotionally involved with a WG. After a short period of time you get over it.

But just hypothetically speaking, what if the punter is happily married, and only punts for the kicks, a hobby,  his naughty little secret, and he see's a WG on a few occasions, and she gets emotionally attached to him? What then?
They may both have feelings for each other, and it could end up breaking up his marriage?

I've read about stuff like this before, where a punter has given up his marriage, his children to be with the WG before, only for the relationship between him and the WG not working out because they didn't trust each other for obvious reasons.
Relationships between a punter and a WG are 99.9% doomed to failure for this reason. Trust just cannot exist between a punter and a WG. So the sooner all punters and WGs become to realise that, the better.

The bottom line is, and always should be looked upon as a naughty but nice hobby, and to the WGs it is just their job. End of.

+1
To be honest some times
Just for the fun of it if I've had An awesome time with  a wg
And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

Mayb not so much they fall in love with me but at least have a crush,  its only fair that they fucked in the a head a little bit considering they fucked my wallet(albeit providing a service that I requested) 

Online cueball



And am pretty regular I like to fuck with their heads and try to leave solid positive memories of me with them after we part ways.

Mayb not so much they fall in love with me but at least have a crush,  its only fair that they fucked in the a head a little bit considering they fucked my wallet

 :lol:

What the fuck is that  :D

Yes, I'm sure they've all got a real crush on you :D well, they would if they were as fucked in the head as you require  :D

I'm still reading your post back to myself, I'm struggling to make sense of it to be honest


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