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Offline akauya

The more I read this thread the more you lot are making me feel like cold hearted bastard. In a way I'm glad but perish the thought I succumbed to the "Emotional Attachment Syndrome", it would destroy my family. Maybe that's why I try to visit many girls as possible and hardly ever return to the same girl. The only time I had an  Emotional Attachment Syndrome was with a lover of mine (a civvie) who was single. I knew it was a mistake from day one but I lost control and inevitably the relationshit ended up badly. We both fell in love but as these things usually go my family won over "the other woman".

But  Emotional Attachment Syndrome with a prossie? No way.

Offline Tailpipe

The more I read this thread the more you lot are making me feel like cold hearted bastard. In a way I'm glad but perish the thought I succumbed to the "Emotional Attachment Syndrome", it would destroy my family. Maybe that's why I try to visit many girls as possible and hardly ever return to the same girl. The only time I had an  Emotional Attachment Syndrome was with a lover of mine (a civvie) who was single. I knew it was a mistake from day one but I lost control and inevitably the relationshit ended up badly. We both fell in love but as these things usually go my family won over "the other woman".

But  Emotional Attachment Syndrome with a prossie? No way.

 
You are cold hearted bastard , but your motives are 100% for having this outlook on punting.
Most would get in less trouble if we could see more clearly what it is all about
Instead of fluffing the whole thing up.  :thumbsup:



Offline Hyborean


You are cold hearted bastard , but your motives are 100% for having this outlook on punting.
Most would get in less trouble if we could see more clearly what it is all about
Instead of fluffing the whole thing up.  :thumbsup:

Agreed. Punting with a business-like, 'cold' heart is the best way to do it.
Some of us just struggle more than others doing it!  :unknown:

Offline lovelysofia92

It's not really evidence though. It even says it's just anecdotal (probably sap punter's believing what they're told  :rolleyes:).

I don't know how the study will be performed, but I doubt the information they gather will be reliable. Sex surveys are notorious for being nonsense.

One or two students may work as prossies, but they are rare and finding one is akin to finding a pube in an afro.

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

Offline punk

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

 was that a shock if you don't mind me asking?

Offline Tailpipe

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

Sofia if they are as Hot as you can we have the links please.  :cool:

Offline Hyborean

Sofia if they are as Hot as you can we have the links please.  :cool:

Another request for the links please Sofia!

(But again, only if they are as good looking as you!)

Offline smiths

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

You know a couple that doesnt prove there are a lot of students who are WGs though of course. There is a lot of hearsay on this subject in my experiences, as i said previously a smart WG knows some punters love the fantasy of shagging a student so say they are one. :hi:

Offline Tailpipe

Hyborean


I am leading you astray we could both get a bollocking for flirting  :drinks:

Adam not keen on it at all.

Offline smiths

Agreed. Punting with a business-like, 'cold' heart is the best way to do it.
Some of us just struggle more than others doing it!  :unknown:

Business like yes i agree, cold heart, not in my case, just realistic, and yes it can be a struggle on ocassion even after 30 years punting. :hi:

Offline lovelysofia92

Another request for the links please Sofia!

(But again, only if they are as good looking as you!)

One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.

Offline Hyborean

Hyborean


I am leading you astray we could both get a bollocking for flirting  :drinks:

Adam not keen on it at all.

Oops.

My apologies to everyone. I definitely do want to get banned from here! There is too much useful info and I love the banter!
 :blush:

Offline punk

Oops.

My apologies to everyone. I definitely do want to get banned from here! There is too much useful info and I love the banter!
 :blush:

  so you do want to get banned  :D

Offline Tailpipe

One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.


It was all fine until "Tiny and looks like jail bait"   as which point 100 members hit google  :D :D :D


Can not find on AW but I am not the best searcher  I got this hit on google http://www.ukadultzone.com/FemaleEscort/Westminster/Lola-Baby-London/26898.html

Offline Hyborean

  so you do want to get banned  :D

Shit shit shit! DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT!!  :scare:

Offline Hyborean

One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.

Hmmm. Lost me at jail bait..

Thanks anyway!

Offline lovelysofia92

was that a shock if you don't mind me asking?

To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.

Offline punk

To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.

thanks sofia, yes i have known many ambitious women, in many different walks of life.As long as you are safe and its all good, from what i know there are many pitfalls as well as rewards in this game.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2013, 03:20:27 PM by punk »

Offline LL

One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.
I found her...
https://www.adultwork.com/1979151 or https://www.adultwork.com/Lolababylondon
Yes she does look pretty.  Maybe a bit too young looking as you say.


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Offline LL

To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.
It's a shame that most don't offer in-calls (I assume the vast majority are either in University accommodation or sharing with friends) as these are exactly the type of WGs that I'd like to meet.  Someone that you could actually have a decent conversation with.

The more I read this thread the more you lot are making me feel like cold hearted bastard. In a way I'm glad but perish the thought I succumbed to the "Emotional Attachment Syndrome", it would destroy my family. Maybe that's why I try to visit many girls as possible and hardly ever return to the same girl. The only time I had an  Emotional Attachment Syndrome was with a lover of mine (a civvie) who was single. I knew it was a mistake from day one but I lost control and inevitably the relationshit ended up badly. We both fell in love but as these things usually go my family won over "the other woman".

But  Emotional Attachment Syndrome with a prossie? No way.

But don't you have to be a cold-hearted bastard, akauya; simply because you're a family man?  [I'm sure you know I'm not getting at you, akauya; simply making the point that, if any married/co-habiting punter doesn't want to risk his family falling apart, he's got to be a cold-hearted bastard when he goes for a punt.]

One of the things that I don't think has come out of this thread [I'm not trawling back through 8 pages!] is any differentiation between the marital, [or at least the family] status of those of us who are, or have been, vulnerable to Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

I for one am a widower with no kids, and I suppose that made me susceptible to an attractive young woman who, if I'd met her in Civvy Street, I'd have thought, "Wow; she's nice, but out of my league" and done nothing about it.   But, because I paid her to fuck her, that wasn't my starting-point.

Offline GrumpyoldGit

Rochdull Lad,
I do not think there is any difference whether the punter is "attached" or single.
It's all down to emotions running away with the punter for what ever reasons.
It shouldn't be blamed on any of the parties involved, it is just human nature.

Offline overhead

To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.

I was talking to a friend's wife a couple of weeks ago and this subject came up. She works at a particular UK university and has no idea I have punted. But she mentioned that the administrators where she works believe that around 50% of the female students have done it at some time whilst at college, and about 15% and probably more do it regularly. What made them check into it was because they were getting increasing drop-out rates of male students, but females didn't show the same trend anything like as much.

If it carries on like this with the student funding, the balance of graduates is going to be heavily weighted in favour of females in the future.

The best approach for punting is that you are getting a service and that's it.  During that hour or two, the world looks very different, as living a dream, having something that is impossible in normal life, a gfe and sex with a twenty yo, but as soon as you exit that door,  she wipes her cunt and throw the tissue in the toilet and slides the pounds she earned in her piggy bank. Period. Nevertheless, there are very rare occasions that a prossies have a relationship with one of their clients (usually very rich) but as I said that's an exception, and I dont think the relationship will be long-term.

Offline punk

The best approach for punting is that you are getting a service and that's it.  During that hour or two, the world looks very different, as living a dream, having something that is impossible in normal life, a gfe and sex with a twenty yo, but as soon as you exit that door,  she wipes her cunt and throw the tissue in the toilet and slides the pounds she earned in her piggy bank. Period. Nevertheless, there are very rare occasions that a prossies have a relationship with one of their clients (usually very rich) but as I said that's an exception, and I dont think the relationship will be long-term.

nicely put and accurate   :dance:


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