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charming_red

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+1 on that

Is is fun.  Seriously, you can be browsing AW at 10.00 and 'blowing your beans' into your choice of WG before lunch.

Come on it's the best kind of shopping there is :)

Amen brother.

Where else can you pick up a virtual catalogue, choose a girl, head over to her place, fuck her, jizz in her mouth and walk away without any commitment.

It caters to our natural needs. And its fuckin great  :yahoo:

Offline punk

Amen brother.

Where else can you pick up a virtual catalogue, choose a girl, head over to her place, fuck her, jizz in her mouth and walk away without any commitment.

It caters to our natural needs. And its fuckin great  :yahoo:

     :drinks:

Wiltsboy01

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Where else can you pick up a virtual catalogue, choose a girl, head over to her place, fuck her, jizz in her mouth and walk away without any commitment.

I think its interesting when you get stories about guys seeing 'escorts' or whatever the Daily Mail term of the day is.

If the wider UK ever found out how easy it is to do the fucking country would grind to a halt - and you would be able to hear the collective 'yeah baby, there, yeeaahhh' in Paris.

dj3k

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The whole punting thing has changed over the last 10 years.  More students are doing it simply to stay at Uni, pay bill etc and the younger ones I've seen said they enjoy sex and rather than have one night stands, prefer to be paid for having sex. 

Some I have talked to also take the piss about guys cheating on their wives and getting the dirty things that they can't get from GF/wives, as one put it.  A lot of the WG I've seen also have a life plan, punting to make money, then find a nice guy. 

It's a sign of the times, and I'm sure if the laws were changed, google would be with first to put up an AW style marketplace!

overhead

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Maybe for you.

But for many guys with good jobs and careers its just part of the thrill and fun.

I'm sure. But we have a mix of people on here and it's good to be honest and exchange views without bullshitting all the time. Some of us might learn something.

Offline punk

The whole punting thing has changed over the last 10 years.  More students are doing it simply to stay at Uni, pay bill etc and the younger ones I've seen said they enjoy sex and rather than have one night stands, prefer to be paid for having sex. 

Some I have talked to also take the piss about guys cheating on their wives and getting the dirty things that they can't get from GF/wives, as one put it.  A lot of the WG I've seen also have a life plan, punting to make money, then find a nice guy. 

It's a sign of the times, and I'm sure if the laws were changed, google would be with first to put up an AW style marketplace!

yep different generation different ideas the new god is money, and with all the fucking girls do now a days what nice bloke as they say is going to know.

Dog

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Why do some WG give you there own private number after becoming a regular?

Offline Daffodil

The whole punting thing has changed over the last 10 years.  More students are doing it simply to stay at Uni, pay bill etc and the younger ones I've seen said they enjoy sex and rather than have one night stands, prefer to be paid for having sex. 

Some I have talked to also take the piss about guys cheating on their wives and getting the dirty things that they can't get from GF/wives, as one put it.  A lot of the WG I've seen also have a life plan, punting to make money, then find a nice guy. 

It's a sign of the times, and I'm sure if the laws were changed, google would be with first to put up an AW style marketplace!

I've heard that sort of story many times.

The truth is they're often lying. I don't think you find many genuine university students, I never have.

They often talk about 'life plans', and they probably buy into it as well, but actually achieving it rarely occurs.

Offline punk

 
Why do some WG give you there own private number after becoming a regular?

          :unknown:

Offline Tailpipe

Why do some WG give you there own private number after becoming a regular?

So you can phone them up , when you are feeling sad  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Offline Daffodil

Why do some WG give you there own private number after becoming a regular?

Because they realise you're a cash cow and want you to be able to part with your hard earned whenever you want.

Don't mistake being a good regular for being anything more than that  :hi:

Offline punk

So you can phone them up , when you are feeling sad  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

  under cut the pimp   :thumbsup:

Offline itk

+1 on that

Is is fun.  Seriously, you can be browsing AW at 10.00 and 'blowing your beans' into your choice of WG before lunch.

Come on it's the best kind of shopping there is :)
:thumbsup:

dj3k

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I've heard that sort of story many times.

The truth is they're often lying. I don't think you find many genuine university students, I never have.

They often talk about 'life plans', and they probably buy into it as well, but actually achieving it rarely occurs.

Would disagree as recently been a large uni-led study in to student sex work, and a lot of female students are working in massage parlours, indy etc.

Rochdull lad

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I'd be interested to read that survey, dj; have you got more details?

dj3k

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I'd be interested to read that survey, dj; have you got more details?
No report yet as 3 year study in to student prostitution.

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dilettante

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All very well pooh-poohing it, but there were definitely girls at my college who would have had that amount of sex UNPAID.

Rochdull lad

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Very interesting, dj; thanks.

Doubtless when the report is published, we'll get the usual load of Mrs Grundys wheeled out to denounce the fact that students are WGs.

Offline Daffodil

It's not really evidence though. It even says it's just anecdotal (probably sap punter's believing what they're told  :rolleyes:).

I don't know how the study will be performed, but I doubt the information they gather will be reliable. Sex surveys are notorious for being nonsense.

One or two students may work as prossies, but they are rare and finding one is akin to finding a pube in an afro.

Offline smiths

If posters really think most students that work as WGs would ever admit to it in anyway you need to get real in my view. Such a woman has a lot to potentially lose by admitting to being a WG. Just like with most punters most wouldnt tell anyone they didnt have to, anonymously or not, why would they.

In reality NO ONE knows how many WGs or punters there are as its a secret job and pastime for many people. I dont believe the so called facts and figures of any survey or studies about punting, i treat them as bollocks. Many are done by people with an agenda of some sort and its biased because of that.

Its a massive well known fantasy of some punters to punt with a student, WGs who are smart know this and advertise accordingly. Not saying there arent any students who work as WGs because there must be of course. As i dont ask to see proof of them being a student as i couldnt care less i take it with a huge pinch of salt when they say they are students. I also take EVERYTHING thats not provable with a huge pinch of salt, it might or might not be true is my view, again i couldnt care less as long as i get good service.

dj3k

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The study is being conducted by a former madam and a prof at the Uni.  They are contacting people advertising on swinging site, Adultwork, Uni's and parlours to see how many students are escorts, cam workers etc.

Google for more info but doubt the real story will be told. 

Offline itk

  under cut the pimp   :thumbsup:
I can relate to this. A few years back a regular I was seeing did this, so I could see her at hers, therefore she never had the pay 20 for the rent of a room she usually used. I also got it 10 cheaper and she lived just 5 miles away instead of the 40 I used to have to travel.

Offline UK_T

This happened to me, so I can totally relate...

Hyborean, she wasn't Czech and working in Cov/Birmingham by any chance, as the way I read your post made it sound chillingly similar... :vomit:

Hyborean

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This happened to me, so I can totally relate...

Hyborean, she wasn't Czech and working in Cov/Birmingham by any chance, as the way I read your post made it sound chillingly similar... :vomit:

UK-T:

Was Birmingham but she's not Czech..
 :hi:

Offline UK_T

UK-T:

Was Birmingham but she's not Czech..
 :hi:

Thanks mate, I hope your wiser now though and able to still enjoy the scene.

Offline akauya

The more I read this thread the more you lot are making me feel like cold hearted bastard. In a way I'm glad but perish the thought I succumbed to the "Emotional Attachment Syndrome", it would destroy my family. Maybe that's why I try to visit many girls as possible and hardly ever return to the same girl. The only time I had an  Emotional Attachment Syndrome was with a lover of mine (a civvie) who was single. I knew it was a mistake from day one but I lost control and inevitably the relationshit ended up badly. We both fell in love but as these things usually go my family won over "the other woman".

But  Emotional Attachment Syndrome with a prossie? No way.

Offline Tailpipe

The more I read this thread the more you lot are making me feel like cold hearted bastard. In a way I'm glad but perish the thought I succumbed to the "Emotional Attachment Syndrome", it would destroy my family. Maybe that's why I try to visit many girls as possible and hardly ever return to the same girl. The only time I had an  Emotional Attachment Syndrome was with a lover of mine (a civvie) who was single. I knew it was a mistake from day one but I lost control and inevitably the relationshit ended up badly. We both fell in love but as these things usually go my family won over "the other woman".

But  Emotional Attachment Syndrome with a prossie? No way.

 
You are cold hearted bastard , but your motives are 100% for having this outlook on punting.
Most would get in less trouble if we could see more clearly what it is all about
Instead of fluffing the whole thing up.  :thumbsup:



Hyborean

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You are cold hearted bastard , but your motives are 100% for having this outlook on punting.
Most would get in less trouble if we could see more clearly what it is all about
Instead of fluffing the whole thing up.  :thumbsup:

Agreed. Punting with a business-like, 'cold' heart is the best way to do it.
Some of us just struggle more than others doing it!  :unknown:

lovelysofia92

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It's not really evidence though. It even says it's just anecdotal (probably sap punter's believing what they're told  :rolleyes:).

I don't know how the study will be performed, but I doubt the information they gather will be reliable. Sex surveys are notorious for being nonsense.

One or two students may work as prossies, but they are rare and finding one is akin to finding a pube in an afro.

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

Offline punk

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

 was that a shock if you don't mind me asking?

Offline Tailpipe

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

Sofia if they are as Hot as you can we have the links please.  :cool:

Hyborean

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Sofia if they are as Hot as you can we have the links please.  :cool:

Another request for the links please Sofia!

(But again, only if they are as good looking as you!)

Offline smiths

You would be surprised by how many do it. Of course though, it's usually something students do once in a while, usually charge more than incall prossies that see 8 men a day and most of them can only provide outcalls hence why it is harder to find them.
I found 2 of my friends from Uni on AW by just browsing a bit through the profiles.

You know a couple that doesnt prove there are a lot of students who are WGs though of course. There is a lot of hearsay on this subject in my experiences, as i said previously a smart WG knows some punters love the fantasy of shagging a student so say they are one. :hi:

Offline Tailpipe

Hyborean


I am leading you astray we could both get a bollocking for flirting  :drinks:

Adam not keen on it at all.

Offline smiths

Agreed. Punting with a business-like, 'cold' heart is the best way to do it.
Some of us just struggle more than others doing it!  :unknown:

Business like yes i agree, cold heart, not in my case, just realistic, and yes it can be a struggle on ocassion even after 30 years punting. :hi:

lovelysofia92

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Another request for the links please Sofia!

(But again, only if they are as good looking as you!)

One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.

Hyborean

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Hyborean


I am leading you astray we could both get a bollocking for flirting  :drinks:

Adam not keen on it at all.

Oops.

My apologies to everyone. I definitely do want to get banned from here! There is too much useful info and I love the banter!
 :blush:

Offline punk

Oops.

My apologies to everyone. I definitely do want to get banned from here! There is too much useful info and I love the banter!
 :blush:

  so you do want to get banned  :D

Offline Tailpipe

One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.


It was all fine until "Tiny and looks like jail bait"   as which point 100 members hit google  :D :D :D


Can not find on AW but I am not the best searcher  I got this hit on google External Link/Members Only

Hyborean

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  so you do want to get banned  :D

Shit shit shit! DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT!!  :scare:

Hyborean

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One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.

Hmmm. Lost me at jail bait..

Thanks anyway!

lovelysofia92

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was that a shock if you don't mind me asking?

To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.

Offline punk

To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.

thanks sofia, yes i have known many ambitious women, in many different walks of life.As long as you are safe and its all good, from what i know there are many pitfalls as well as rewards in this game.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2013, 03:20:27 pm by punk »

LL

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One of them is no longer active but she wasn't all that anyway and the other one is lolababylondon on AW, I'm from my ipad and can't seem to find her profile now. She's pretty I think, but not everyone's type. Tiny and looks like jail bait.
I found her...
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only
Yes she does look pretty.  Maybe a bit too young looking as you say.

LL

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To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.
It's a shame that most don't offer in-calls (I assume the vast majority are either in University accommodation or sharing with friends) as these are exactly the type of WGs that I'd like to meet.  Someone that you could actually have a decent conversation with.

Rochdull lad

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The more I read this thread the more you lot are making me feel like cold hearted bastard. In a way I'm glad but perish the thought I succumbed to the "Emotional Attachment Syndrome", it would destroy my family. Maybe that's why I try to visit many girls as possible and hardly ever return to the same girl. The only time I had an  Emotional Attachment Syndrome was with a lover of mine (a civvie) who was single. I knew it was a mistake from day one but I lost control and inevitably the relationshit ended up badly. We both fell in love but as these things usually go my family won over "the other woman".

But  Emotional Attachment Syndrome with a prossie? No way.

But don't you have to be a cold-hearted bastard, akauya; simply because you're a family man?  [I'm sure you know I'm not getting at you, akauya; simply making the point that, if any married/co-habiting punter doesn't want to risk his family falling apart, he's got to be a cold-hearted bastard when he goes for a punt.]

One of the things that I don't think has come out of this thread [I'm not trawling back through 8 pages!] is any differentiation between the marital, [or at least the family] status of those of us who are, or have been, vulnerable to Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

I for one am a widower with no kids, and I suppose that made me susceptible to an attractive young woman who, if I'd met her in Civvy Street, I'd have thought, "Wow; she's nice, but out of my league" and done nothing about it.   But, because I paid her to fuck her, that wasn't my starting-point.

GrumpyoldGit

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Rochdull Lad,
I do not think there is any difference whether the punter is "attached" or single.
It's all down to emotions running away with the punter for what ever reasons.
It shouldn't be blamed on any of the parties involved, it is just human nature.

overhead

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To be honest it wasn't that big of a shock; I know a LOT of escorts, sugar babies, dominatrixes, cam girls and any other kind of sex worker through an online community for sex workers from all over the world and have met up with many from London as well. The majority of them do it to pay for University and they are very ambitious women. And many of them are very young. So I know that lots of them do it. Obviously they are swallowed in a sea of professional prossies.

I was talking to a friend's wife a couple of weeks ago and this subject came up. She works at a particular UK university and has no idea I have punted. But she mentioned that the administrators where she works believe that around 50% of the female students have done it at some time whilst at college, and about 15% and probably more do it regularly. What made them check into it was because they were getting increasing drop-out rates of male students, but females didn't show the same trend anything like as much.

If it carries on like this with the student funding, the balance of graduates is going to be heavily weighted in favour of females in the future.

Martini10

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The best approach for punting is that you are getting a service and that's it.  During that hour or two, the world looks very different, as living a dream, having something that is impossible in normal life, a gfe and sex with a twenty yo, but as soon as you exit that door,  she wipes her cunt and throw the tissue in the toilet and slides the pounds she earned in her piggy bank. Period. Nevertheless, there are very rare occasions that a prossies have a relationship with one of their clients (usually very rich) but as I said that's an exception, and I dont think the relationship will be long-term.

Offline punk

The best approach for punting is that you are getting a service and that's it.  During that hour or two, the world looks very different, as living a dream, having something that is impossible in normal life, a gfe and sex with a twenty yo, but as soon as you exit that door,  she wipes her cunt and throw the tissue in the toilet and slides the pounds she earned in her piggy bank. Period. Nevertheless, there are very rare occasions that a prossies have a relationship with one of their clients (usually very rich) but as I said that's an exception, and I dont think the relationship will be long-term.

nicely put and accurate   :dance: