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Author Topic: I'm now officially a punter - or am I?  (Read 7331 times)

Offline skipper121

Point taken about the feedback then. You guys have a lot more experience than me

Offline jooldude

Chalk it to experience and keep an eye on your watch next time.

I started punting a couple of years ago and some WG's are complete rip-off's and others are sweet as candy. Sounds like this one was somewhere in between.

For what it's worth, she could have been a little flexible but maybe she gets loads of punters trying to take the piss, but common sense should have prevailed and she could have at least attempted to finish you off. Therefore, not one for the hot list! Move on - the next one will be better :)

Offline Marmalade

The thing is, you've provided an honest report in UKP, which is the prime place to leave honest reviews.

If its your first punt and you give her negative feedback on AW it may affect your profile if she says something unkind about you in return (and she sounds a bit mean, even if she did perform as advertised).

My own opinion, is it's not a punt I give a positive rating too unless I went away very happy - its expensive after all - and it was poor show not to give you a warning at least. I'd even argue it's her job to ensure you have a wonderful and satisfying experience in the time allotted, not your job to keep an eye on the time like it's a parking meter.

If you give positive feedback on AW then you risk your credibility with other punters that she leaves unsatisfied. Not a big deal if you have a different name in there to your UKP name, but it's good to start as you mean to go on. We are your fellow customers and honesty between punters is important (you expect it from us, after all).

Also, if it's your first punt, you don't have much to compare yet, so maybe good to hold off on saying positive or negative (positive / negative compared to what??)

So the other option is don't give feedback on AW on this occasion. She will either leave you good feedback or say nothing. You are the customer - you are not obliged, whether out of courtesy or otherwise.

Think of the hundreds of things you buy online or in shops every week - every seller would love you to write on their website and broadcast to everyone that you are a "satisfied customer." It's their free marketing after all. But it is time consuming and there's not much in it for you. If the service was truly remarkable or truly awful you light be tempted, but not for every tyre change or use of a garage . . .    .

« Last Edit: August 20, 2013, 04:51:39 PM by Marmalade »

Offline itk

Personally I think she's taking the piss. A 5-10 minute warning to let you know you've got to finish up would have been appropriate. You letting her know it was your first time might have made her believe she can take advantage.

Offline Ted Bear

Agree with most she should of finished you off even if 5min over or atleast gave you time warning - So you would of walked away as a happy punter and possibly securing a repeat business - Now her loss and many more, now that you have shared your experience and her poor customer service.

Happend to me once on a 2nd visit to a WG and I was proper pissed off for her calling time and not finishing me off - SO i told her on my way out that I will not be seeing her again and left all blue/purple/black balled all the way home :dash:. Fortunately she no longer on AW good riddance.

So technically you are 50% a punter for carrying out the act but not completing the deed :D
(just to lighten the mood as I can relate must be feeling slightly angered - good luck on your next punt)

It would have been nice if you were given more time but relating it to me, sometimes I just can't cum no matter how hard the girl tries, so for her to give me extra time to get me finished could be hours! Also, telling me I only have 5 mins left would also put to much pressure on me and I wouldn't be able to cum then either.

So if that was me and the girl had tried hard, was enthusiastic and I wasn't short-changed in time then it would be a positive.

The bottom line is, most punters book a pro$$ie to shoot their load.

You explained your newbie position and if she had been any way half decent, she would have made sure you were satisfied by asking you after 25 mins "let me  finish you off before time runs out". Simple.

She was the experienced one and should have taken you in hand, so to speak!

As someone else said, I wouldn't give her a negative on AW because it might rebound badly on you, but I would consider this a very unsatisfactory punt worthy of a big negative on UKP.

Unusual for me because I do clock-watch, but one pro$$ie asked "where do you want to cum?" one time that I was about to reach the end of time. It was done in a nice way that I did not mind or feel short-changed.

Offline k

So after half an hour of vigorous sucking and fucking I had to leave with no happy ending.
This is not satisfactory.  Maybe she thought that you were unable to cum, but as Dani implied, you should have been given the opportunity to do something about it, five minutes beforehand.

Some girls operate a cum-once policy.  This one seems to offer a zero-cum service.

Offline Ted Bear

in regards to FB - it would depend how you felt afterwards and would you return for a 2nd visit with her.


... telling me I only have 5 mins left would also put to much pressure on me and I wouldn't be able to cum then either...

I've never been given a 5 minute warning and I think it would turn me off if it was to happen. I really don't want to know that the girl is clockwatching. 

To the OP, it was hard nosed of her not to give a little over but you really need to keep an eye on the time yourself.

Offline skipper121

Thanks all.  Just to make it clear I wasn't intending to be hard on Alissa.  I did really enjoy my time with her - the OWO and the 69 in particular were fantastic.  She's a very experienced and talented lady, and nice to be with.  I was just curious as to the protocol in the circumstances I described.  I genuinely would happily recommend her to others and would visit her again myself, although I'll probably look elsewhere now.  Anyway, it's a lesson learned

Offline Daffodil

I think Marmalade's advice is probably just about spot on.

I, personally, would leave her a negative (or, at the most, neutral), but Marm's right. Just move on, pick a girl who has good reviews here, and have fun  :drinks:

I would rather have 20 minutes of having my balls emptied than an extra 10 minutes talking about a prossies' holiday/pimp/boyfriend/ LIFE


Offline Ted Bear

I think Marmalade's advice is probably just about spot on.

I, personally, would leave her a negative (or, at the most, neutral), but Marm's right. Just move on, pick a girl who has good reviews here, and have fun  :drinks:

Agree and then you can assess if it was a good or bad punt, since you have nothing to compare it to at this stage.

You say that you would reccommend her... BUT on the basis of her lack of completing customer SATISFACTION and getting paid £80hh for it - No thanks.

Offline overhead

Thanks all.  Just to make it clear I wasn't intending to be hard on Alissa.  I did really enjoy my time with her - the OWO and the 69 in particular were fantastic.  She's a very experienced and talented lady, and nice to be with.  I was just curious as to the protocol in the circumstances I described.  I genuinely would happily recommend her to others and would visit her again myself, although I'll probably look elsewhere now.  Anyway, it's a lesson learned

Jeez, I think you're about as fluffy as they come. Because she is experienced and talented, you should get better than that - much better. I think it's horrendous how little the regard is that some of these prossies have for their clients. 80 pounds in half an hour, that is more than £2.50 a minute. There is some reality checking needs to go on.

Okay, so not all clients are going to be engaging company, but that is no excuse at all. You've been treat abismally, and you don't even seem to be aware of it. I can't get my head around that at all.




Offline Daffodil

Jeez, I think you're about as fluffy as they come. Because she is experienced and talented, you should get better than that - much better. I think it's horrendous how little the regard is that some of these prossies have for their clients. 80 pounds in half an hour, that is more than £2.50 a minute. There is some reality checking needs to go on.

Okay, so not all clients are going to be engaging company, but that is no excuse at all. You've been treat abismally, and you don't even seem to be aware of it. I can't get my head around that at all.

Me neither.

That said, I think when you first start punting (especially when you haven't had sex for four years, like the op) just getting to fuck a girl seems truly miraculous. Give him a few more punts and he'll see the error of his ways.

Offline NightKid

Jeez, I think you're about as fluffy as they come. Because she is experienced and talented, you should get better than that - much better. I think it's horrendous how little the regard is that some of these prossies have for their clients. 80 pounds in half an hour, that is more than £2.50 a minute. There is some reality checking needs to go on.

Okay, so not all clients are going to be engaging company, but that is no excuse at all. You've been treat abismally, and you don't even seem to be aware of it. I can't get my head around that at all.

Go easy on the new guy, he's trying to ask for advice and he has at least been seemingly honest about his experiences. I don't think you were a seasoned, hardcore, badass punter when you first started either, were you?

Fur is shed over time, biologically and metaphorically.  :D

Offline fredpunter

Me neither.

That said, I think when you first start punting (especially when you haven't had sex for four years, like the op) just getting to fuck a girl seems truly miraculous. Give him a few more punts and he'll see the error of his ways.

+1

when I think of some of the things I put up with and was even grateful for when I first started ....

my first punt from AW ....
was an RB - £300 for 4 hours. All agreed and confirmed. Turned up at her place, rang the bell, no answer, called on phone, no answer, waited 10 mins, repeated, no answer etc for about 40 mins, found a plan b, left, couldn't find the plan b's flat, it was about 35 degrees C and 100% humidity and by this time I was coated in sweat and well pissed off, then got a call from the first girl. "sorry I fell asleep - can you come back" about 90 mins after the booked time, agreed 2 hours for £150 as we were now running late, went back, had a fun 2 hours to be fair, then she persuaded me to extend for another hour for another £100 - and during the extra hour she did nothing!!! and I still left her a positive. 

You live and learn.     
 

Come on Skipper. The idea behind punting is to fuck women who are well out of your league - not women who look as if they're about to go trick or treating.  ;)

Way I see this is the girl blew a golden opportunity.  First punting experience and she left you hanging.  Had she given you an extra 5 minutes and let you leave happy then the likelihood is she would have received repeat custom. 

Now, you're pretty much guaranteed to go elsewhere, find a fitter girl, blow your load, and never give your first punt a second thought.  :thumbsup:

Thanks all.  Just to make it clear I wasn't intending to be hard on Alissa.  I did really enjoy my time with her - the OWO and the 69 in particular were fantastic.  She's a very experienced and talented lady, and nice to be with.  I was just curious as to the protocol in the circumstances I described.  I genuinely would happily recommend her to others and would visit her again myself, although I'll probably look elsewhere now.  Anyway, it's a lesson learned

Which is surely the main thing.  There can't be many punters who haven't had a similar experience early [sometimes not so early] in their careers.

A "five-minute warning" is something, afaik, you only get in Parlours with a knock on the door [it certainly used to be when I visited Parlours in the North West]; as others have said, the onus really is on you to keep an eye on your watch.  Anyway; put it behind you and enjoy the rest of your punting career.

Hi all, I'd welcome some advice from experienced punters.  I had my first ever punt this morning.  This was the lady I saw - I know she may not be everyone's taste but she's quirky and different and I've always been attracted to quirky and different, and you have to go with what attracts you.

Link to this Profile Page using https://www.adultwork.com/1862185 or https://www.adultwork.com/Alissa88


Anyway, that's by the by so to cut to the chase, I was very nervous when I arrived and explained to her that I hadn't been with a woman for over four years.  She was understanding and went down for some very nice OWO.  This led to 69, cowgirl and doggy.  I was about to ask her to switch back to OWO to finish me off when she said "sorry dear, your time is up".  It was 30 minutes on the dot - I'd swear even to the second.

So after half an hour of vigorous sucking and fucking I had to leave with no happy ending.

What I'd like to know is should I have expected any different?  I mean I'd had the time I'd paid for, I can't complain about that.  If you'd been in the same situation would you have been satisfied or would you have expected her to over run a little bit just to finish you off?  Or would you have expected to offer her another £10 to do so (I didn't think to do so as I'd already paid £80 for the session).

Must admit it's left me feeling a bit down and disappointed and not sure whether I want to do it again.

Punting is about being politely assertive, you should've asked her to finish you off. Next time be more wary of the time.

Offline skipper121

Jeez, I think you're about as fluffy as they come

I'd appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions about my character.  You don't know me, you're judging me on the basis of a few short posts on this forum.  I am neither a fluffy, nor a saint, nor a white knight - I'm sure my ex-wife would be only too glad to back me up in those statements.   Neither am I naive or gullible.  I reflected on the situation, and on the advice received here and reached my own conclusions.  It's that simple  :hi:
« Last Edit: August 21, 2013, 12:38:35 PM by skipper121 »

Offline smiths

Which is surely the main thing.  There can't be many punters who haven't had a similar experience early [sometimes not so early] in their careers.

A "five-minute warning" is something, afaik, you only get in Parlours with a knock on the door [it certainly used to be when I visited Parlours in the North West]; as others have said, the onus really is on you to keep an eye on your watch.  Anyway; put it behind you and enjoy the rest of your punting career.

Not just at Parlours RL. Good party providers give a 5-10 minute warning as have many good WGs in my experiences, despite me already knowing how long i had left. They werent trying to hurry me, i knew that from their tone and i had punted with many a lot. :hi:

Offline skipper121

And by the way, just to mention that shortly after I'd opened this thread I received an email from Alissa through AW.  It was very reasonable and not insulting or abusive.  She said she'd just received an email from someone claiming to be a potential client but who said they had just seen my thread on UKP and this had now put him off booking her.  She could have been making it up of course and may have heard about the thread another way, or it could have been somebody shit-stirring.  Who knows


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