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Author Topic: I'm now officially a punter - or am I?  (Read 7311 times)

Offline skipper121

Hi all, I'd welcome some advice from experienced punters.  I had my first ever punt this morning.  This was the lady I saw - I know she may not be everyone's taste but she's quirky and different and I've always been attracted to quirky and different, and you have to go with what attracts you.

Link to this Profile Page using https://www.adultwork.com/1862185 or https://www.adultwork.com/Alissa88


Anyway, that's by the by so to cut to the chase, I was very nervous when I arrived and explained to her that I hadn't been with a woman for over four years.  She was understanding and went down for some very nice OWO.  This led to 69, cowgirl and doggy.  I was about to ask her to switch back to OWO to finish me off when she said "sorry dear, your time is up".  It was 30 minutes on the dot - I'd swear even to the second.

So after half an hour of vigorous sucking and fucking I had to leave with no happy ending.

What I'd like to know is should I have expected any different?  I mean I'd had the time I'd paid for, I can't complain about that.  If you'd been in the same situation would you have been satisfied or would you have expected her to over run a little bit just to finish you off?  Or would you have expected to offer her another £10 to do so (I didn't think to do so as I'd already paid £80 for the session).

Must admit it's left me feeling a bit down and disappointed and not sure whether I want to do it again.

Offline Daffodil

Whilst technically she's in the right, I would be pissed off if this happened to me. A little flexibility on time (she will definitely have punters who don't stay for the whole time) isn't much to ask, and would likely earn repeat business.

She clearly doesn't enjoy what she does and sounds pretty hard nosed about it. Especially as you'd told her it was your first time  :thumbsdown:

Offline rpg

Lot's of prossies will go over time, this one didn't. Unfortunately it was your first but don't let it put you off. Anyway congratulations, of course you're a punter.

Offline CatBBW

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A 5 minute warning would have been nice. I don't think she should have run over, after all you did book 30 minutes and that's what you got, but as I said, a 5 minute warning would have let you know that your time was running out.

Perhaps she makes sure 30 mins means 30 mins because of the amount of piss-takers she's had in the past? I know that many men will try to hang out the time and then walk away feeling pleased (or smug! lol) that they got almost an hour for the price of 30 mins.

Offline Michael-Corleone

Keep going! Sounds like you've got bedroom talents so don't give up just yet. We've all had our fair share of disasters big and small, it's all part of the game! Maybe next time book an hour.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Lot's of prossies will go over time, this one didn't.

Not in my experience.     :unknown:

Offline unclepokey

Hi Skipper.

I'm not a frequent contributor here but let me reassure you.

This was your first paid sex encounter, yes? Let me tell you - at the age of 53 or thereabouts my first paid for encounter was around the most nervous thing I ever have done. Muchly this was due to being a married bloke. Moreover I hadn't had a shag for around 15 years prior to that. So shaking was I that I spilled almost completely the glass of orange squash that the girl offered me. That girl was Diane of Bushey who some here will remember as being one of the most lovely and kind girls around at that time.
Fortunately Diane took command and steered me gently into the paths of fulfilling paid-for sex. I've never looked back. The lady you saw seems very pleasant. She will I think have made due allowance for your nervousness though I wonder whether you were open about your newness to the scene.

Whatever. I suggest you now look for other girls in your area and begin to explore this wonderful world of punting and relax, relax.

Good wishes

Uncle Pokey

Offline Dani

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Going over by a few minutes would not have made any difference to her as it all adds up in the end as many don't stay their full time.  I would never throw someone out without at least letting them know the time was up so they will have to get a move on as I will go over  a little on a 30 minute booking but only if they are not trying to take the piss.  Not letting you know your time was nearly up was out of order though especially as she knew it was your first time with an escort so would not know what to expect and I doubt she will get many return bookings.
Some women are clock watchers and others although keep an eye on the time are not quite so rigid.
Your best bet for your next booking either book someone who is used to seeing inexperienced punters or nervous punters as they will be a lot more understanding towards you and let you know when it is nearing time with a polite, Oh gosh look at the time I did not realise it had gone so fast, we best get Mr Happy sorted out now' rather than wait till exactly 30mins and throw you out regardless of if you have finished or not

Offline rpg

Not in my experience.     :unknown:

Well you're doing something wrong Jimmy.  I've never used parlours/agencies. Do these girls stick to the time maybe? Is that who you use?
I've only ever used Indies and apart from the times I've finished too soon I can honestly say I've never once been told to go as time's up. I wouldn't take the piss though.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Well you're doing something wrong Jimmy.  I've never used parlours/agencies. Do these girls stick to the time maybe? Is that who you use?
I've only ever used Indies and apart from the times I've finished too soon I can honestly say I've never once been told to go as time's up. I wouldn't take the piss though.

Some guys do take the piss big time, book for 30 minutes and try to drag it out to an hour ------------------ that is why some girls refuse 30 minute bookings.    :thumbsdown:

Online smiths

Hi all, I'd welcome some advice from experienced punters.  I had my first ever punt this morning.  This was the lady I saw - I know she may not be everyone's taste but she's quirky and different and I've always been attracted to quirky and different, and you have to go with what attracts you.

Link to this Profile Page using https://www.adultwork.com/1862185 or https://www.adultwork.com/Alissa88


Anyway, that's by the by so to cut to the chase, I was very nervous when I arrived and explained to her that I hadn't been with a woman for over four years.  She was understanding and went down for some very nice OWO.  This led to 69, cowgirl and doggy.  I was about to ask her to switch back to OWO to finish me off when she said "sorry dear, your time is up".  It was 30 minutes on the dot - I'd swear even to the second.

So after half an hour of vigorous sucking and fucking I had to leave with no happy ending.

What I'd like to know is should I have expected any different?  I mean I'd had the time I'd paid for, I can't complain about that.  If you'd been in the same situation would you have been satisfied or would you have expected her to over run a little bit just to finish you off?  Or would you have expected to offer her another £10 to do so (I didn't think to do so as I'd already paid £80 for the session).

Must admit it's left me feeling a bit down and disappointed and not sure whether I want to do it again.

A good WG would give you a reminder with say 5 minutes left but ultimately its your responsibility to time manage in my view. My advice is always have a watch with you which obviously helps with this but also is something to ensure the WG knows you know how long the punt has been. And of course it was a punt, you paid a WG money for sex.
« Last Edit: August 20, 2013, 02:13:38 PM by smiths »

Offline skipper121

Thanks all for the helpful replies.  I suppose a lot of guys do try it on so she was only fair in what she did - although five minute warning would have been great.  The irony is I was so nervous before hand I thought I'd be lucky to last two minutes so lasting the full 30 is something to be pleased about in an unsatisfying sort of way :)

Offline akauya

A good WG would give you a reminder with say 5 minutes left but ultimately its your responsibility to time manage in my view. My advice is always have a watch with you which obviously helps with this but also is something to ensure the WG knows you know how long the punt has been.

I agree with that. I don't think I've ever not time managed myself. I'm very strict with my time; of course to get the full time I paid for or in some occasions to leave early if I want to.

To the OP, of course you are a punter and now put the time management issue to experience. I'm sure next time you will be very conscious of your time. Welcome to the weird and wonderful world of punting.

Offline MikeBWales

Firstly congrats on becoming a punter, welcome to the club!

This is a funny old game and maybe part of the reason we all keep doing it.  She is of course right in saying your time is up when it is but certainly in my experience most of the women I've seen would have finished me off.  A little heads up would have been kind seeing as it was your first time and she knew that but at least you had a fun half an hour.

Live and learn and move on, you'll train yourself to pop more than once in the half an hour and you'll never get caught out again.

Offline overhead

What a horrible fucking cow!

She's on my black list without hesitation. Why wouldn't she be on everyone's after hearing that.

I hope you're going to write a negative review explaining exactly why it is negative.

I've got some I'd like to submit, but they have all left the business, so there's no point.

They do have their time limits, and you should respect them, but I also think they know very well it's also up to them to finish you off in good time before that runs out. So I don't buy this you've overrun the time nonsense.

Most of these women have a lot of experience and know very well what they are doing, and how to avoid this sort of situation. So I think as the provider the onus is on them as well to make reasonable efforts to complete what you have paid for. Especially in this case after you told her you haven't had any recent experience. I know it can be nerve racking and difficult at the best of times. That for me is what is particularly annoying. She has done nothing to encourage you to become a regular client and they should all be doing that as far as they can.

One of the problems is that a high percentage of WG's have utter contempt for clients and they exploit them and hurt them every which way they can. Milandrists I suppose (that's the equivalent of misogynist in case you don't know) and it's best to find ways to steer clear of them. Difficult to achieve because most really are like that, behind the smiling face and the patter. I've heard WG's laughing to each other about how they are ripping guys off and taking the piss, and it's horrible to listen to.

They are not all like that, and I was quite shaken when I first read some of the strong comments and critical appraisal on here. But experience has taught me it is quite right. They are mostly as hard as nails and you have to dish it back to them in kind. We have to respect the good ones of course, but most of them don't earn any at all, and the sooner they get pushed out of the business the better.



Offline liquidman

I think you should chalk this up as being a mostly positive (it sounds like it was enjoyable even if a lack of reminder was bad form) learning experience for a first go.

I didn't cum at all on my first punt either and it was 2 hours! (I forgot I took a beta blocker earlier in the day to kill the nerves and they totally prevent me from cumming..  :dash:) I had a fun time though and it sounds like perhaps if you went for an hour with the next one, you'd have the time of your life :) Good luck!
« Last Edit: August 20, 2013, 02:21:53 PM by liquidman »

Offline Cossack

I would never book WG for 30 min,and for 80 quid you could get full hour with plenty of other girls!
I mean i do only girls between age of 30-50 but this girl would have to pay me to bang her she is not my cup of tea  :P
And yea yea i know we all have different tastes in women....
And let me say you this she could go extra mile and finish you off ....

Offline potato

Welcome to the world of punting!  Looking at the pro's :  you didn't get scammed, robbed or have your time wasted but on the cons side: she was rigid to the 30mins and didn't give you an indication that your time was coming to an end.  Its one to chalk up to experience but don't let it stop you getting back on the horse and having another go (with someone else).  You would have thought she would have put a bit of effort in knowing it was your first time for a long time. A bit of flexibility may have got herself a regular customer - maybe she had someone booked for immediately after you, who knows..That's one reason why I don't like booking a girl that has a telephone number on her profile - she could have taken another booking whilst you were on your way to her and there went her flexibility. On a different day she may have been less precise.  I wouldn't be prepared to find out though and would move on to the next adventure.

Offline skipper121

Thanks again all. I'll chalk it up to experience and on reflection I agree the time management is my responsibility. I shall leave the lady positive feedback because she did nothing wrong and I did enjoy myself (well as much as I could through the nerves!). I was paying for 30 minutes and I got 30 minutes, my fault if I couldn't finish the job! Mr Happy will just have to have a weary reunion with my right hand tonight

Offline overhead

I would never book WG for 30 min,and for 80 quid you could get full hour with plenty of other girls!

I missed that - very pricey too. Makes it even worse.

Maybe he was even a tricky client, but still no excuse. Just goes to show, expensive girls will treat you just as bad as cheap ones. Stay clear of high rates, they are for Yuppies only.

I'm always wary of women with aggressive looking tats too. That should have been a warning sign.



Offline overhead

I shall leave the lady positive feedback

Surely you have to be joking.

That doesn't help others understand what they could be in for.

Offline Marmalade

Not in my experience.     :unknown:
Probably cos they leave your meter running  :lol:
« Last Edit: August 20, 2013, 03:35:30 PM by Marmalade »

Offline Marmalade

Thanks again all. I'll chalk it up to experience and on reflection I agree the time management is my responsibility. I shall leave the lady positive feedback because she did nothing wrong and I did enjoy myself (well as much as I could through the nerves!). I was paying for 30 minutes and I got 30 minutes, my fault if I couldn't finish the job! Mr Happy will just have to have a weary reunion with my right hand tonight
My advice would be that, in your case, and on this occasion, that you should leave no feedback at all.

Offline skipper121

Surely you have to be joking.

That doesn't help others understand what they could be in for.

Because I couldn't fault her on the sexual services she provides. Her only "fault" would be not giving me a five minute warning. For other guys this would not be an issue as I'm pretty certain she could get them to pop within that time.  I couldn't but it wasn't due to lack of effort on her part. So I think other guys would probably be very satisfied with what they get. And as for the tattoos they're not problem for me. I actually found her very sexy  :)

Offline pokenn

I don't think positive feedback is right. You told her you were a new punter, so the least she could have done is to spend 5 mins at the end to bring you off with hand/mouth. Also, if she's going to be strict about time then she should have given you a 5 minute warning. Especially if she's charging £80 for 30 mins.

But, don't let this put you off. Sounds like you have a good punting attitude and future punts you will be a bit more aware of the time.   :hi:


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