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Author Topic: Thoughts on PlentyofFish for casual shags and more  (Read 6200 times)

Offline zephyr

There is at least one braggart here who constantly blows off about shagging birds on Plenty of Fish all the time for free, why he bothers to punt and report on his expensive escort exploits is beyond me? Maybe he's a millionaire punter?

I'm trying PoF one more time, if I get a shag out of it, great stuff, if a relationship, even better ... but I so need laid just now.

No worrys of me raping anyone, its cool

Looking over the usual AW adverts it seems a lot of escorts put at top (maybe easiest non sex option for them) Adult Baby Minding ... LOL

I guess the demand exists, but who here can honestly admit they want this service, nearly every other escort on AW offers this.

I reckon those that offer this service might be disinterested in the first place?

I was on POF for a while and I did get a one night no strings shag out of it. However as in most dating websites it is male heavy and the women can be as selective as they like.
Hiwever I did notice quite a few 'escorts' were on there under the guise of offering no strings fun..

As for Adult Baby Minding - who knows? Does nothing for me but one mans skeggy is another mans Las Vegas. Maybe it's because it begins with A and is less painful than Anal..

Offline hornylad

Keep us posted on how you get on and how much hard work it is.

I have often been tempted to try these sort of sites but always felt it might be too much effort for too little reward. Much quicker and easier to book a punt.

If it does work,  without lots of effort or at least is enjoyable effort I may try myself.

I doubt many punters want adult baby minding. Of those that offer it I doubt many do it or would even know how. Seems to me a simple case of putting ticks in boxes on  their likes list to attract more custom.

Offline Kram

I have varied success on pof but you have to be realistic in the girls you message ... If you are a fussy fucker and only want 25 year slim stunners and you're a 40 year falling apart the seams kinda guy ... Then it's defo worth it to stick to punting and not waste ya time on pof

But if you middling standards then you have half a chance

Or if you low standards (for civvie girls anyway) like myself then you can pretty much (using the right kinda words ..think what they wanna hear then tell em it you can and will laid off pof )


Offline zephyr

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I doubt many punters want adult baby minding. Of those that offer it I doubt many do it or would even know how. Seems to me a simple case of putting ticks in boxes on  their likes list to attract more custom.

In a Nutshell :)

Adult baby minding indeed :)

Offline skittish

I've had pretty much zero success on PoF did meet two but quickly discovered we weren't compatible and there was no chance of a shag. My experience was that the women on there do what women do best chat a lot of shit a lot. Made the mistake of exchanging phone numbers and got bombarded with texts from a bunny boiler.

One lady from Wickford offered me phone sex which I took her up on, apparently I'm shit at phone sex you're not supposed to keep laughing (who knew?)

All in all I found PoF hard work for no reward. I have mates that claim they get shagged from PoF but I've seen some of their conquests and 'anything with a pulse' springs to mind.

Maybe if you're in your 20's you might get lucky but if you're past the 40 mark it just seems to be washed up old hags with issues  :hi:

Offline talkso

Good place to meet fat chicks if you don't mind running the numbers game.

Offline zephyr

I have varied success on pof but you have to be realistic in the girls you message ... If you are a fussy fucker and only want 25 year slim stunners and you're a 40 year falling apart the seams kinda guy ... Then it's defo worth it to stick to punting and not waste ya time on pof

But if you middling standards then you have half a chance

Or if you low standards (for civvie girls anyway) like myself then you can pretty much (using the right kinda words ..think what they wanna hear then tell em it you can and will laid off pof )

Oh I agree, AW for escorts first, but PoF for relationships next, if you can get a good shag out of either then you are doing well :)

Offline pokenn

Discussed at length recently in this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=15652.0;all

To repeat myself - my view is

"I'd say there are two types of  people on dating websites:

1. Men looking for sex only

2. Men and women looking for long term relationships.

I know of several couples who have got together for a long term relationship. I also met a couple of women myself a few years back when I was looking for a partner. One of them I dated a few times, but she ended it it after getting back together with her ex. The other one, we conversed on-line for a month or two before meeting up for a weekend. Although it wasn't discussed openly it was obvious that we were going to sleep together. She was pretty hot in bed, and reasonable company, but I didn't taking it any further as  she didn't seem my type for long term.

I have tried looking for casual sex partners on dating sites, but with extremely limited success. My mate who is younger/fitter than me has also tried with only slightly better results. The number of attractive women who are genuinely looking for casual sex is very limited and they are massively outnumbered by the men. It is possible to meet women for sex if one or more of the following applies:

i. you are a young/attractive male
ii. you don't mind fucking  older or unattractive or fat women (preferably all three)
iii. you are rich and very generous
iv. you are willing to put in loads of work and are prepared for numerous rejections before hitting the jackpot.
v. you pretend you are interested in a long term relationship, just to get a woman into bed
"

Offline talkso

I'd say stick to nightclubs or AW.

Offline CatBBW

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Looking over the usual AW adverts it seems a lot of escorts put at top (maybe easiest non sex option for them) Adult Baby Minding ... LOL

I guess the demand exists, but who here can honestly admit they want this service, nearly every other escort on AW offers this.

I reckon those that offer this service might be disinterested in the first place?

It's in alphabetical order, we don't have a say in what goes at the top of the "Likes" list.

AB Minding is just another age-play fetish, some ABs just like to be talked to like a baby while you stroke their hair and "breast feed" them, others want to be talked to like a baby while you stroke their willy. Can often be more hard work than a standard sex booking, as they can be quite needy, and if you REALLY want to do it properly you need the equipment, such as nappies and bum cream and bonnets.

Offline smiths

There is at least one braggart here who constantly blows off about shagging birds on Plenty of Fish all the time for free, why he bothers to punt and report on his expensive escort exploits is beyond me? Maybe he's a millionaire punter?

I'm trying PoF one more time, if I get a shag out of it, great stuff, if a relationship, even better ... but I so need laid just now.

No worrys of me raping anyone, its cool

Looking over the usual AW adverts it seems a lot of escorts put at top (maybe easiest non sex option for them) Adult Baby Minding ... LOL

I guess the demand exists, but who here can honestly admit they want this service, nearly every other escort on AW offers this.

I reckon those that offer this service might be disinterested in the first place?

Never used it but i have done net dating, singles club and spped dating pulling. The Singles Club pulling was the most successful for me, met and shagged a number of women.

When i did net dating i met a couple of right bunny boilers, the type that think its a relationship after five minutes and are talking about getting a place together and having kids within half hour. Sad desperate women, all i wanted was a shag. Never again as the hassle and efforts not worth it to me. Good luck when you try PoF again.

Some WGs or their pimps simply tick as many enjoys as possible, as has been said the list is in alphabetical order so thats why Adult Baby Minding is at the top. I dont imagine many WGs actually offer it or that many A/W punters seek it. Of zero interest to me.

Offline zephyr

I'd say stick to nightclubs or AW.

I'd say try your hand anyway, despite what these experts say.

Offline zephyr

Most of them are full of Shit

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Offline akauya

The subject of POF keeps popping up here.

We did it to death in a previous thread:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=13481.0

I'm still of the view that if you think POF is a way to get a quick shag you are looking in the wrong place. I will quote one of my posts on that thread:


"I think my approach has been completely different to some of you guys. Perhaps that counted for my positive experiences of POF.

You see I looked at POF to find relationships not sex. Ultimately I did get sex but it wasn’t my primary motivation. Like I said before I like dating women and when you find lovers sex is part of the relationship.

As I posted on the first page I was extremely selective as to whom I wrote. Never wrote to people looking for ‘intimate encounters’ because they are just nutters. The one woman I was lucky to find who was actually looking for intimate encounters had her profile as looking for friends. She said she originally had her profile as looking for intimate encounters and all she got was loads of emails from guys sending pictures of their cocks - she quickly changed it.

Also I always went for the very clever profiles (intelligent women turn me on). The way I saw it at POF it was like a battle of brains. Because in real life I’m an ugly fucker am I going to be clever enough to seduce this woman with words alone?

Dani and Holly have given great advice if you still want to try your had at POF. And yes it takes a lot of effort but I see that as part of the game. Also your profile is very important. Be different and funny, remember we are competing with hundreds of other guys - we have to stand out.

Don’t think that it was easy though, I had to sift through hundreds of profiles, write loads and loads of emails, I never sent a cut and paste, always wrote specific emails related to what women said on their profiles. It’s a lot of hard work but in the end it pays off. As I said I looked for lovers not a quick shag; for quick shags I always punted.

If things improve at home I will try my hand at POF again, right now my free time is tightly controlled by 'er indoors."




POF has worked for me - and if you really want an overweight, low IQ, council estate type - great. Go for it.
Throw in all the "dating" type ceremony and ritual - it is just so tedious.

Better to get what you want - you'll prob spend a similar amount of money anyway. Purple always wins over blue.

Offline pokenn

I'd say stick to nightclubs or AW.

Clubs are almost the worst place to meet girls. Almost anywhere is better: supermarket, cafe, work etc, etc


Offline zephyr

The subject of POF keeps popping up here.

We did it to death in a previous thread:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=13481.0

I'm still of the view that if you think POF is a way to get a quick shag you are looking in the wrong place. I will quote one of my posts on that thread:


"I think my approach has been completely different to some of you guys. Perhaps that counted for my positive experiences of POF.

You see I looked at POF to find relationships not sex. Ultimately I did get sex but it wasn’t my primary motivation. Like I said before I like dating women and when you find lovers sex is part of the relationship.

As I posted on the first page I was extremely selective as to whom I wrote. Never wrote to people looking for ‘intimate encounters’ because they are just nutters. The one woman I was lucky to find who was actually looking for intimate encounters had her profile as looking for friends. She said she originally had her profile as looking for intimate encounters and all she got was loads of emails from guys sending pictures of their cocks - she quickly changed it.

Also I always went for the very clever profiles (intelligent women turn me on). The way I saw it at POF it was like a battle of brains. Because in real life I’m an ugly fucker am I going to be clever enough to seduce this woman with words alone?

Dani and Holly have given great advice if you still want to try your had at POF. And yes it takes a lot of effort but I see that as part of the game. Also your profile is very important. Be different and funny, remember we are competing with hundreds of other guys - we have to stand out.

Don’t think that it was easy though, I had to sift through hundreds of profiles, write loads and loads of emails, I never sent a cut and paste, always wrote specific emails related to what women said on their profiles. It’s a lot of hard work but in the end it pays off. As I said I looked for lovers not a quick shag; for quick shags I always punted.

If things improve at home I will try my hand at POF again, right now my free time is tightly controlled by 'er indoors."


Best answer yet and my style too.

Thank you

Offline overhead

Clubs are almost the worst place to meet girls. Almost anywhere is better: supermarket, cafe, work etc, etc

Yes, I'll second that. I helped to manage a club for a couple of years and I can't think of anything positive to say. It was chaos and revenue management.

I've also tried pof, craigs list, crazyoz etc, and they are also essentially a complete waste of time, if you're looking for a civvy partner/friend to have sex with. There are prossies on there as fairly large percentage, and you soon find out about those within a couple of exchanges, and bizarrely there are lots of fakes of those too. You'd have to be female for it to be worth trying. For a start the ratio of males to females is about 100 to 1. On top of which a high percentage of the females are not actually female. i.e. just guys having a laff, or scams looking for airhead victims. If you're decent looking, the right age, loaded etc (in which case what are you doing there?), you might have a chance, and you'd still have to lie like hell and promise the earth. Otherwise no. On top of which women aren't looking for a shag in the first place, they are looking for someone interested in them, and are very much on their guard against guys who are.

The previous thread on POF was interesting, and worth reading, although it seems to be a dangerous subject judging by the number of posters that have been banned. Better leave it at that I guess.


Online Marmalade

Yes, I'll second that. I helped to manage a club for a couple of years and I can't think of anything positive to say. It was chaos and revenue management.

I've also tried pof, craigs list, crazyoz etc, and they are also essentially a complete waste of time, if you're looking for a civvy partner/friend to have sex with. There are prossies on there as fairly large percentage, and you soon find out about those within a couple of exchanges, and bizarrely there are lots of fakes of those too. You'd have to be female for it to be worth trying. For a start the ratio of males to females is about 100 to 1. On top of which a high percentage of the females are not actually female. i.e. just guys having a laff, or scams looking for airhead victims. If you're decent looking, the right age, loaded etc (in which case what are you doing there?), you might have a chance, and you'd still have to lie like hell and promise the earth. Otherwise no. On top of which women aren't looking for a shag in the first place, they are looking for someone interested in them, and are very much on their guard against guys who are.

The previous thread on POF was interesting, and worth reading, although it seems to be a dangerous subject judging by the number of posters that have been banned. Better leave it at that I guess.
You've really had shit luck everywhere haven't you. Maybe you just have a very large piece of spinach in your teeth.

But ... why is this thread still in the punting section?? As you said. Done to death.



 :rolleyes:

Offline overhead

You've really had shit luck everywhere haven't you. Maybe you just have a very large piece of spinach in your teeth.

But ... why is this thread still in the punting section?? As you said. Done to death.


Maybe you should PM the OP about it, if you HAVE  to read through every single post, and find it so intolerable that not every post suits you. I don't see what the problem is personally, and I notice you don't refrain from adding to the thread with inane comments with little or no punting content. I've been telling it how it is. If you haven't got anything constructive to say, and only here to take the piss, perhaps you should reacquaint yourself with the rules. In particular the fourth one.

Online Marmalade

Like several other people, I've posted plenty of constructive comments and experiences about pof the last time it same up as a thread.  :hi:

Offline zephyr

Marmalade is a well known self opinionated WANKER, Who loves to troll threads with his imaginary self importance as a worn out stud.
Ignore him and he'll go away, at best I take his egotisic reviews with a pinch of salt, at worst pure and utter lies as usual.

 But keeping thongs (deliberate pun) on topic, what about Craigs List?

Mark my words, its illiterate idiots like Marmalade that wrote the Timothy Lea Confessions books in the 70's except Marmalade has no hint of a sense of humour, he's one dour sour old bastard.


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