Is it just me, or my ‘Grumpy Old Man’ syndrome getting going?

[Corus Boy]

Is it just the Wales board, what I mostly read, or is the whole site getting more antagonistic?

I'm a self confessed fluffy and I'm not the least bit ashamed of it!

I come here, read posts and reviews.

I accept them for what they are, one punters version of what he experienced at one point in time.  If I visit and have a different experience I do not necessarily think the other punter lied.  I just reason that different people, with different attitudes, different style, different expectations and on different days may well get a different experience!

I know it is school holiday time and that may be behind what I perceive as a change of tone in the posts I read or is it that the undoubted success of UKP is causing resentment and jealousy, that leading to disruptive posting (as I see it).

[DevilD]

I concur.... and whilst not wishing to re-open the whole agency debate, there does seem to be a proliferation of reviews on agency girls recently - many many more than when I first found this site....

[Corus Boy]

I concur.... and whilst not wishing to re-open the whole agency debate, there does seem to be a proliferation of reviews on agency girls recently - many many more than when I first found this site....

Please don't go there!

[np500]

I could say the same thing about people starting thread after thread asking for the best massage, can there not be a massage thread like the Asian one  ?

[Devon Maverick]

I think your right corus boy and I think some may be more wary about posting reviews now and starting argumentative threads.
I admit I have been fluffy ..this is because to me in a meet I need intimacy and a lovely character and personality in the girl I meet and I have longer meets, so even more important I don't make mistakes.
I think in the future I will post less compliments about this side of the girls and keep it shorter and more concise if that helps stops issues on my own reviews. Maybe I'm sad needing affectionate meets but we all look for differing things.

Personally I welcome any reviews then decide who to pay attention to ..and quite often I will PM the poster to get further information rather than waste my money on the wrong escort .
My own personal view about Agencies is that if they have young attractive enthusiastic girls who are keen in their early days then that's great !! I have no doubt there are some great South Wales independents too who are as good but to an extent I take the safer option though I do have my own 'go to' independent who I have reviewed on hers before so won't mention here again . Yes they are more expensive but I would hope more reliable. Again there are no doubt some extremely reliable girls in South Wales too so no disrespect to them but also unreliability around as well ..


Again, with reviews we choose who to believe or have similar views in etc ..I find Steelworker and Husq and Red and a few others to be of good information for me along with a few others. And I have had some good meetings by 'listening 'to their views .

Likewise I hope I may help ocassionsally ..I think I was the first person to review Chloe who I thought was an absolute star and I know since then a few trusted regulars have seen her and been impressed. Again I won't post a link as enough has been said about her now.

We should all be able to post thoughts and reviews if after all ..this is a forum!! But yes of course touting and fake posts and fake accounts are despicable ...

[Hank Marvin]

Please don't go there!

Well I have never used an agency and it would be great if perhaps someone could suggest one in Wales for me to use.
(joke)

[Devon Maverick]

  yeah right !!!!

[slimboyo]

I think most of us are fairly well natured, and don't see much of a need to antagonise for the sake of it, which is what happened.  We all know reviews aren't given under oath and the majority of us can take them with a pinch of salt without resorting to crusading.  If you think a review is false or a poster is suspicious, report the post and move on.  Making a song and dance about it gets you nowhere.

[Devon Maverick]

I think most of us are fairly well natured, and don't see much of a need to antagonise for the sake of it, which is what happened.  We all know reviews aren't given under oath and the majority of us can take them with a pinch of salt without resorting to crusading.  If you think a review is false or a poster is suspicious, report the post and move on.  Making a song and dance about it gets you nowhere.

Well said !! .....And by the way I visited an escort partly on one of your reviews last year and she was like you said  !! 

[DevilD]

Quote from: slimboyo on Today at 01:50:55 PM

    I think most of us are fairly well natured, and don't see much of a need to antagonise for the sake of it, which is what happened.  We all know reviews aren't given under oath and the majority of us can take them with a pinch of salt without resorting to crusading.  If you think a review is false or a poster is suspicious, report the post and move on.  Making a song and dance about it gets you nowhere.

Well said all. Having looked at comments from various other regions, I think Wales is the friendliest and best mannered of all. Long may it continue, friends!

[Mil 34]

All my reviews are definitely from my perspective and if others don't like what I like in an escort then that's life
I should have written a load of reviews from a negative point but choose not to as just because I didn't like the girl doesn't mean someone else wouldn't.
We are all different and enjoy different things in seeing these escorts.
I also think we all get one quite well on the Welsh board and long may it continue

[Bibbob]

Is it just the Wales board, what I mostly read, or is the whole site getting more antagonistic?

To be fair the internet and indeed society as a whole is becoming more antagonistic. There's a massive case of "Us vs them" that's being bandied around with people being unwilling to even consider anyone's opinion from "The enemy" as viable, far too many people are presenting their subjective opinions as objective facts and flipping their shit when someone disagrees, and there's a complete lack of willingness to back down or de-escalate arguments before they go too far.

[tantric talents]

To be fair the internet and indeed society as a whole is becoming more antagonistic. There's a massive case of "Us vs them" that's being bandied around with people being unwilling to even consider anyone's opinion from "The enemy" as viable, far too many people are presenting their subjective opinions as objective facts and flipping their shit when someone disagrees, and there's a complete lack of willingness to back down or de-escalate arguments before they go too far.

I think you have a point.
The "middle way " seems to have lost its way!
Everyone wants an answer to everything that's either black or white.
In reality life is mostly grey.

[Steelworker]

I enjoy the forum for the very useful information and the great humour from many. I think most of us who are on this quite a bit gain a feeling for what floats each others' boats and appreciate different styles.  I do hope we can return to a higher percentage of 'fun' information to ensure better chances of good experiences. CB, good thread.

[Hank Marvin]

I enjoy the forum for the very useful information and the great humour from many. I think most of us who are on this quite a bit gain a feeling for what floats each others' boats and appreciate different styles.  I do hope we can return to a higher percentage of 'fun' information to ensure better chances of good experiences. CB, good thread.

Totally agree. I am a naturally sarcastic nobber generally who is trying to integrate in with the team so suppressing the urge to make too many arsehole comments for now. And in fairness have found lots of useful information to help me in my punting life. I am not arriving at this forum with lots of experience in that arena (not necessarily with women - just the excitement and finding and fucking beautiful new people for money. The thrill of the chase etc etc)

Keep up the good work chaps and I shall do my best to contribute too.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

+7

Great post CB. And I do think this excellent board is "calming down", after a period of turbulence. Let's hope so anyway 

[iverthickone]

+7

Great post CB. And I do think this excellent board is "calming down", after a period of turbulence. Let's hope so anyway 

I think "calming down" may be another term for "killed dead".   With some deciding they are the judge, jury & executioner of all things truthful (or not) on the board, no one is contributing anything much now, in the knowledge that they will be told they are liars.

Hopefully it will blow over and we can go back to being the friendly Welsh board we were a few weeks back.

[vw]

I think "calming down" may be another term for "killed dead".   With some deciding they are the judge, jury & executioner of all things truthful (or not) on the board, no one is contributing anything much now, in the knowledge that they will be told they are liars.

Hopefully it will blow over and we can go back to being the friendly Welsh board we were a few weeks back.

There is only one judge, jury and executioner here admin and he has forum executed 7 welsh profiles since you lot started crying , also exposed the fake reviews by the agency which none of you knew/cared about.

[Hank Marvin]

I think most can sense that there was an increasing number of agency reviews. No need for me to shout what is obvious from the rooftops. As mentioned before, it is hardly a surprise and will get found out soon enough / or the agency will get negative reviews if real punters go there and the girls are shit.

Storm in a tea cup and wouldn't stop me posting or reviewing.

[ampersand]

I think most can sense that there was an increasing number of agency reviews. No need for me to shout what is obvious from the rooftops. As mentioned before, it is hardly a surprise and will get found out soon enough / or the agency will get negative reviews if real punters go there and the girls are shit.

Storm in a tea cup and wouldn't stop me posting or reviewing.

Unfortunately, it has stopped some and inhibited others. But I hope that the board returns to its constructive normality soon - I go away and it seems that all hell has been let loose in my absence!!

While there may have been fake agency reviews, some reviews seem to have been from good, reliable contributors. We all know who those people are and which reviews to trust.

And before my motives/bona fides/reliability is questioned again  by anyone, please note that I have never seen, never mind reviewed anyone from an agency, I have been reviewing girls on here for the last 4-5 years or so and my reviews are a mixture of positive and negative - hardly in the fluffy category.

[Hank Marvin]

I agree Aardvark. Some agency review seem fair and reasonable but others from newbies with no history here are bound to be questioned (I include myself in the newbie category by the way).

The point is, it doesn't appear that the agency is trying to cover a load of shit reviews, so the rather clumsy way they have perhaps gone about things is even more pointless.

[jay07]

Not sure if the following exists, but a review template which forces us to answer basic essential questions about location cleanliness, attitude, communication, ect may help us newbies

If we already have something, please share

[vw]

Not sure if the following exists, but a review template which forces us to answer basic essential questions about location cleanliness, attitude, communication, ect may help us newbies

If we already have something, please share

No need, we review and comment as we see fit, not to suit agencies or the delicate flowers like those who threatened to leave.

[Grumpy Pumpy]

Perhaps I spoke a little too soon.

Anyway, now or in the very near future, I'm still looking forward to things settling down. Challenging the dodgy; piss taking, but not name calling; supporting and informing.

Hope that's a not making me appear fluffy about my forum brothers in arms 

[charlie-mott]

Not sure if the following exists, but a review template which forces us to answer basic essential questions about location cleanliness, attitude, communication, ect may help us newbies

If we already have something, please share

Write your own template and use it. If it's good others may use it if it helps them. If not they can write however they want, or even write their own template.

[Steelworker]

This is pretty helpful as a guide though. 

External Link/Members Only

[Mikeh38]

There is only one judge, jury and executioner here admin and he has forum executed 7 welsh profiles since you lot started crying , also exposed the fake reviews by the agency which none of you knew/cared about.

Couldn't agree more with this post, sometimes people are too fluffy 

[iverthickone]

Couldn't agree more with this post, sometimes people are too fluffy 

And some are just plain pointless, with lets say eg one review in nearly 300 posts

[vw]

And some are just plain pointless, with lets say eg one review in nearly 300 posts

and some are just abusive.   

forum wanker. 

Forum wanker, as I said.  If anyone's shit stirring waster, it's you.  Come over the bridge and review someone in Wales and maybe, just maybe people will take you seriously on this board, but until then you're the desperate foreigner sticking his nose in, and acting like a stupid cunt in the process.  Now go home, your village needs its idiot back.

Full of shit and assumptions.   

[Hank Marvin]

Haha I am sure your feelings weren't hurt too much VW!

[slimboyo]

and some are just abusive.   

Justly deserved.  Have to use a brick on the hard of thinking.

[vw]

Haha I am sure your feelings weren't hurt too much VW!

Not at all, just highlighting the abusive nature of some.

Justly deserved.  Have to use a brick on the hard of thinking.

You are just an abusive person with limited vocabulary so turn to old favorites.   

[slimboyo]

Not at all, just highlighting the abusive nature of some.

You are just an abusive person with limited vocabulary so turn to old favorites.   

Have you not read your own posts, all over this forum?  If you're looking for abuse look to those.  Wherever you post it's scornful or judgemental.  Please do the Welsh board a favour and go forth and multiply, we were fine until you stuck your keyboard in with no credence or informed knowledge to the subjects, but came along just to flame.

[vw]

Have you not read your own posts, all over this forum?  If you're looking for abuse look to those.  Wherever you post it's scornful or judgemental.  Please do the Welsh board a favour and go forth and multiply, we were fine until you stuck your keyboard in with no credence or informed knowledge to the subjects, but came along just to flame.

You are not in charge of the welsh board after 85 posts.      Not even the great aardvark is in charge.

Do you have short man syndrome or trying over hard to compensate for not being welsh and desperate for acceptance. 

[slimboyo]

You are not in charge of the welsh board after 85 posts.      Not even the great aardvark is in charge.

Do you have short man syndrome or trying over hard to compensate for not being welsh and desperate for acceptance. 

Unlike you I don't feel the need to spew bollocks over every inch of the forum, which is why your post count is ridiculously high.  I have no height complex nor any need to compensate for anything.  And why the fuck would anyone crave acceptance on a website, let alone a punting site where anonymity is the name of the game.  Now piss off, old chap, you're boring the fuck out of me now.

[vw]

Unlike you I don't feel the need to spew bollocks over every inch of the forum, which is why your post count is ridiculously high.  I have no height complex nor any need to compensate for anything.  And why the fuck would anyone crave acceptance on a website, let alone a punting site where anonymity is the name of the game.  Now piss off, old chap, you're boring the fuck out of me now.

if i bore you ignore me, that is the only part of this site you control, much to your disappointment and all your dragon flag waving.   

[slimboyo]

if i bore you ignore me, that is the only part of this site you control, much to your disappointment and all your dragon flag waving.   

Unlike you a have a life (13,000 posts suggests all you do is sit in front of a screen and spout shit) and don't crave control, virtual or otherwise.

[vw]

Unlike you a have a life (13,000 posts suggests all you do is sit in front of a screen and spout shit) and don't crave control, virtual or otherwise.

Who says i crave control. you are the one losing control and being abusive.  It makes me wonder have you been here before you abusive types seem to come and go frequently.   As for my time, its my time I can do as i please thanks. 

[Grumpy Pumpy]

I'm sure, by now, everyone has formed views, one way or the other, on the topics and people involved in various recent disagreements.

So, as I typed earlier, on another thread, now would be a good time to accept these views and move on.

I'm sure the vast majority would be grateful for this 

[vw]

I'm sure, by now, everyone has formed views, one way or the other, on the topics and people involved in various recent disagreements.

So, as I typed earlier, on another thread, now would be a good time to accept these views and move on.

I'm sure the vast majority would be grateful for this 

26 out of his last 36 posts have been about me, what a sad stalker weirdo.

Seems obsessed with me.   

[slimboyo]

26 out of his last 36 posts have been about me, what a sad stalker weirdo.

Seems obsessed with me.   

Don't flatter yourself fuckstick.  The posts have been responses to your bollocks you keep spouting.  And given the amount of times you post, the odds are quite high.

[vw]

Don't flatter yourself fuckstick.  The posts have been responses to your bollocks you keep spouting.  And given the amount of times you post, the odds are quite high.

27 out of last 37 posts about me now.  72% is well past normal stalker levels.


Also 27 out of 50 posts since April 12th have been directly about me.  54%

I would get help.

[slimboyo]

27 out of last 37 posts about me now.  72% is well past normal stalker levels.


Also 27 out of 50 posts since April 12th have been directly about me.  54%

I would get help.

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[vw]

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28 out of last 38 posts about me now.  73% is well past normal stalker levels.


Also 28 out of 51 posts since April 12th have been directly about me.  54%

I would get help.

[wonky]

Calm down 

[scutty brown]

Justly deserved.  Have to use a brick on the hard of thinking.

Is that a threat of violence? "Using a brick" is usually interpreted that way

[slimboyo]

Is that a threat of violence? "Using a brick" is usually interpreted that way

Only to those that don't understand metaphors 

[vw]

Is that a threat of violence? "Using a brick" is usually interpreted that way

Would not shock me this this ones temperament, certainly quick to be abusive.

And most certainly obsessed. 

[slimboyo]

Would not shock me this this ones temperament, certainly quick to be abusive.

And most certainly obsessed.

Has the medication stopped working?  And I find it strange, being accused of obsession by one who has bothered to research and count my posts, as well as reviews.  You seem to be obsessed with having the last word.  I wonder how quickly you'll respond?

[vw]

Has the medication stopped working?  And I find it strange, being accused of obsession by one who has bothered to research and count my posts, as well as reviews.  You seem to be obsessed with having the last word.  I wonder how quickly you'll respond?

Another post about me.   

Has care in the community failed in Wales ?