You do have a habit of asking for reviews tbf
Reviews aren't mandatory right?
So if "Its up to a member to post or not to post.", why does anyone need to ask?
Back on topic, I get the feeling messaging girls/pornstars who don't advertise escorting will be fruitless as they prob get a shit tonne of offers like that so it wouldn't matter how polite you were, she'd delete it straightaway.