I got robbed. Never do my mistake.

[pandaeyes_17]

So had a 1hr session with this Thai lady. I'll admit it was great. It was in London. Profile didn't have a face picture so I went in blind. She wasn't bad but certainly looked older than the age on the profile, 27. She's actually 35.

Anyway, I thought it all went well. We messaged outside of the service as friends. She tells me that she's unwell and is in hospital, sent me pics. Apparently had a kidney infection so had an op. Spoke to her on the phone, blah blah blah and told me she needed money as she left it in London. She comes from Leeds by the way. My naivete got the better of me and so I asked her how much she needed. She said £150, I didn't think it was too much so I wanted to help her. Gave me her account, I did a bank transfer. We still chatted after a couple of days then suddenly, stopped reading my messages and no longer answer the phone. I kept ringing and sending messages, no luck. Her son apparently replied to my SMS's saying that she's sick and can't respond etc. English wasn't too great so I gave the benefit of the doubt that he's didn't particularly understand what I was saying.

Moral of this cool story is, don't ever EVER lend money to someone you literally just met no matter how nice they may seem or genuine. The trust isn't there and I certainly have no trust in anyone anymore, at least not for a while. This extends to the recent event where I lent money to an old colleague and I never got that back. I also lent someone who I thought was close friends to someone that I could trust money and have never gotten that back either.

I only have myself to blame.

Here is her profile, please avoid her, don't feed this cunt.
External Link/Members Only

[12 MONTHS IN A YEAR]

First post a negative on a girl with no rating?

[MLawro93]

Okay mate. 

[pandaeyes_17]

First post a negative on a girl with no rating?

Yep, I needed to vent! Sorry fella, this is my first post and only one account. I've had nothing special punts and decent punts. But this for me was unique.

[maxxblue]

I only have myself to blame.

The first time you lent the money you were a sucker, but it may be excusable.

The second time you lent the money you were a sucker - but not excusable.

The third time you lent the money you were a sucker - and yes, you are to blame.

 

[myothernameis]

Moral of this cool story is, don't ever EVER lend money to someone you literally just met no matter how nice they may seem or genuine.

Think everyone on this forum, knows this, but the only person who doesn't, is your self

I also lent someone who I thought was close friends to someone that I could trust money and have never gotten that back either..

Can you lend me £200, seeing you giving money away 

[PumpAction]

Well you didn't get robbed for starters. I mean you met her once and then you messaged outside of the service as friends. You lent money to a sick friend. I'm sure when she's fully healed she'll see you right.

[Herges Adventures]

'I got robbed' is a bit of a misnomer, seeing as you dish out cash to uncle Tom Cobbly n all no? 

[Tonyleung]

Hi OP. Could you do a review on her? As the WG is still working and looks really hot.
What's the phrase? any publicity is good publicity? I would give her a visit, but certainly would not give her any money outside of the agreed meet.

[Tonyleung]

Did you give her tne money? Or did you lend her the money? Did you ask her when she would pay it back? Sounds like one for judge  Rinder. ☺☺☺

[puntingpumping1920]

When lending money to someone make sure it's amount you are comfortable in not receiving a return.

If I lend money to a friend and he or she never pays back, it doesn't impact our relationship or how I feel about the person --- it's like water off a ducks back

[Brazilian Martian]

This is a troll plain and simple

[WHG]

Your first mistake was to get into an 'outside the booking' conversation. There was no real reason for you to think that your could have a relationship (even as friends) with her. She is there to provide a service, you are there to buy, if you want. Don't muddy the waters by trying to build something away from the transaction.

Also, are you type of person who, when handing over the money,  says something like:
 "Oh, don't worry about hurrying the money back, give it to me when you can."

One born every minute.....

[pandaeyes_17]

Hi OP. Could you do a review on her? As the WG is still working and looks really hot.
What's the phrase? any publicity is good publicity? I would give her a visit, but certainly would not give her any money outside of the agreed meet.

I have a face profile if you want it?
Well she has a good body, nice bust, certainly knows how to please. She's not that hot face wise, at least not to me, she looks her age at 35, for a Thai asian, that's not good, asians usually retain their youth till they're at retiring age!!
Didn't do OWO sadly. Sexy moans and compliments. She offered shower afterwards. Word of warning since learning to accept that I won't be getting my money back, I have a feeling that she may have tried to go through my wallet while I was in the shower, so never have extra cash when going for a punt.)

[pandaeyes_17]

This is a troll plain and simple

Are you referring to me or her?

[pandaeyes_17]

When lending money to someone make sure it's amount you are comfortable in not receiving a return.

If I lend money to a friend and he or she never pays back, it doesn't impact our relationship or how I feel about the person --- it's like water off a ducks back

This is good advice and it's usually how I feel when lending money, but it still doesn't mean I'm not at least really bummed by it all.

[pandaeyes_17]

Did you give her tne money? Or did you lend her the money? Did you ask her when she would pay it back? Sounds like one for judge  Rinder. ☺☺☺

She asked if I could lend her money until she gets back to London after the operation. So the intention of another visit and being paid back was their. Instead, no more responses after the next few days of lending it.

[pandaeyes_17]

Well you didn't get robbed for starters. I mean you met her once and then you messaged outside of the service as friends. You lent money to a sick friend. I'm sure when she's fully healed she'll see you right.

I like your optimism and positive attitude instead of gunning me down, thanks for that. I always give the benefit of the doubt however, this sadly I have to accept was not a good call on my end.

[pandaeyes_17]

The first time you lent the money you were a sucker, but it may be excusable.

The second time you lent the money you were a sucker - but not excusable.

The third time you lent the money you were a sucker - and yes, you are to blame.

 

Ah funny guy, well sir, you don't know the full situation 2nd time; 3rd time; anytime.

[pandaeyes_17]

Your first mistake was to get into an 'outside the booking' conversation. There was no real reason for you to think that your could have a relationship (even as friends) with her. She is there to provide a service, you are there to buy, if you want. Don't muddy the waters by trying to build something away from the transaction.

Also, are you type of person who, when handing over the money,  says something like:
 "Oh, don't worry about hurrying the money back, give it to me when you can."

One born every minute.....

Hard stern info and advice. I like this, thank you.

No, when someone says that they'll pay me back at the time they say, I expect it back. I will chase them for it. If it's chump change like a tenner or a score then I don't care. They get paid back on food and coffee's!

These 3 incidences are relatively recent as far as my age is concerned, the first mistake was the one who I thought was a close friend to someone I knew. I'm still holding on that when I chase him again, I might get something back at least. 2nd mistake was from the old colleague, none of us knew this guy would do this to me. So we all got caught off guard on that one, it wasn't really lending money, I paid something for him out of convenience, then he doesn't answer his phone.

This last one with this WG was outright theft, probably laughing about it too. Wonder how many people it has happened to? Perhaps I'm the only one or it might have happened to many but unreported?! If I weren't going to get my money back physically, I expected to at least get another punt out of her you know? As repayment, I wouldn't mind that then, but to not answer her phone over this.... that's what gets me boiled!

[Tonyleung]

Shes back in london and working again. Get a pay as you go sim. Book two hours and go along. She if you can get your money back in kind?

[Tonyleung]

Itd be like a grudge fuck with an ex ...

[PapaSmurf]

Sorry to hear mate. I know what it's like to get fixated and get fluffy with a WG. You live and learn. Feel free to vent.
I've had my own bad experience's. As a rule I don't meet any women without a pic, or a woman that hasn't been reviewed at least.

[BillGoldberg]

Thanks for the tip op 

I'm going to start a new thread entitled:

"I put my dick in a blender on the 'pulverise' setting. Never do my mistake"

I hope it will help others 

[DonDickDraper]

Wow.

How can someone be so stupid?
How do you make money? Because I asssume you have a job with responsibilites.
This is irresponsible.

[marndu]

Give the poor guy a break fellas.... But I do take my wallet with me when having a shower!! Haha!! Caution is the watchword!!

[Dax]

I make rule to never to talk to Escorts outside of wanting services.  Once did that and lady was a looney who kept text me all the time about about her life and what I was doing and personal questions 

[PatMacGroin]

OP was over a week ago. Still no review and AW profile has nil feedback.

I think this guy was right...

This is a troll plain and simple

But I am happy to admit when I'm wrong.

If I am wrong and you're genuine, this was definitely the best advice from the thread...

Shes back in london and working again. Get a pay as you go sim. Book two hours and go along. She if you can get your money back in kind?

You have nothing to loose. If she refuses the "freebie", fuck off and leave her to it knowing for definite she suckered you. If she agrees, you are even.

Do it and feedback on the results with a UKP Review!

[pandaeyes_17]

OP was over a week ago. Still no review and AW profile has nil feedback.

I think this guy was right...

But I am happy to admit when I'm wrong.

If I am wrong and you're genuine, this was definitely the best advice from the thread...

You have nothing to loose. If she refuses the "freebie", fuck off and leave her to it knowing for definite she suckered you. If she agrees, you are even.

Do it and feedback on the results with a UKP Review!

When she becomes "available" I might do that!
I didn't do a review here as I'm thinking any publicity is good publicity, though she was a good punt, she's still a cunt!

[Stortford]

Been to Thailand many times the old one pappa/mamma sick in hospital can you lend me 10 000bt Thais biggest bunch of liars ever.