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Offline Daffodil

Everybody has their own definition of gfe, and it isn't really something I look for. For me the girlfriend experience involves being dragged shopping, having to was the dishes, buy flowers and then get maybe a bj a week  :scare:

I'm just after good sex.

That said, I think there are some services you would expect if gfe is advertised, like FK and RO. You also wouldn't expect your girlfriend to only suck you covered.....but the caveat to that is that you also wouldn't expect to have to fuck your girlfriend with a condom on.

Offline Jimmyredcab

My definition of GFE would be lots of deep french kissing plus you forget you are with a prostitute ----------- very rare.   :hi:

Offline Goofy85

My definition of GFE would be lots of deep french kissing plus you forget you are with a prostitute ----------- very rare.   :hi:

I HATE the term GFE, but this is spot on.

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Offline Jimmyredcab

I HATE the term GFE, but this is spot on.

Nothing wrong with the term, as long as you don't start to think she IS your girlfriend.    :sarcastic:

Offline Daffodil

Nothing wrong with the term, as long as you don't start to think she IS your girlfriend.    :sarcastic:

Indeed. Having the lines blurred can be very detrimental to some punters  :rolleyes:

Offline smiths

GFE is of course a marketing term, it brings punters interested in it to the WG.

However, i recall vividly the days when any kind of Kissing and OWO were rarely on offer, punting was generally a colder experience then, so now both these things are essential to me on a 121 punt. My early punting days were when AIDS was a really big deal in the media, it was going to be the end of humanity. The panic that caused filtered through into my punting.

Offline Jimmyredcab

GFE is of course a marketing term, it brings punters interested in it to the WG.


Yes, but some girls do provide a convincing GFE --------------- for example Chelsea of Watford.   :thumbsup:

Offline smiths

Yes, but some girls do provide a convincing GFE --------------- for example Chelsea of Watford.   :thumbsup:

Yep, she is certainly one that did as Alex at The Bunny Lounge.  :thumbsup:

Offline Goofy85

Why do you hate it?

There's nothing wrong with it as such, it's just very rare that a girl can make you forget even for a second that you're with an escort.

Also that some WGs seem to take GFE as a lead to spend most of their time chatting to you in an attempt to replicate friendship, when the reality is I paid for physical contact. One girl spent 30 mins chatting in an hour booking. I love to chat to girls, and she was very nice, but I don't pay £150 to have a chat. Maybe it's just because I am all too aware that as soon as I leave, they are in the shower clearing up, having forgotten me, and readying themselves for the next client (admittedly I don't expect them to fall in love with me or anything). Also, a lot of girls offering this won't even kiss. If you're going to advertise GFE, at least try to offer something resembling it.
« Last Edit: July 24, 2013, 04:21:03 PM by cupnoodle »

Offline CurvyKinkyVixen

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Punting wise it is simple. Do NOT get involved with a WG, you'd be NUTS. End of :)

I know of quite a few WGs who have got into long term relationships , or even marriage , with a guy who started out as their client. Getting involved with WGs/Clients isnt always  doomed to disaster. ...........providing both partys are single to begin with of course.

I made the mistake of getting too freindly with a smooth talking client. He had me believe he was young , single and fancy -free , also that he "hadnt done anything like this before" and was falling for me.  Im no idiot but I was sucked in by this guy who actually lived with his GF and toddler. He was also very well known at the local brothels and not "new to this" . I ended up quite upset  , I was quite new to this business myself then , so you live and learn.

However I do know of some very happy couples , so its not all doom n gloom . Some of the ladies gave up the work , some have not. It can work  :)

Offline Tailpipe


However I do know of some very happy couples , so its not all doom n gloom . Some of the ladies gave up the work , some have not. It can work  :)


I am surprised but you learn every Day.

Offline CurvyKinkyVixen

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I am surprised but you learn every Day.

Aye , obviously i cant name names , but there are more than a few of these cpls around in this neck of the woods.

Also a lot of the married couples i know where the lady works are Swinger cpls. A more open relationship , and the sexual freedoms and honesty that comes with it , seems to work out well for a long and happy relationship where one or both partners work. 

A lot of them get hubby on board for the guys who want MMF for example.

Offline CurvyKinkyVixen

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Also, a lot of girls offering this won't even kiss. If you're going to advertise GFE, at least try to offer something resembling it.

Agreed . . . . I think GFE has now become a standard term thats used willy -nilly , with some WG not knowing what a GFE should entail.

It seems to have become a code word for sex/full service

No kissing is not a GFE in my eyes

Offline Tailpipe

Aye , obviously i cant name names , but there are more than a few of these cpls around in this neck of the woods.

Also a lot of the married couples i know where the lady works are Swinger cpls. A more open relationship , and the sexual freedoms and honesty that comes with it , seems to work out well for a long and happy relationship where one or both partners work. 

A lot of them get hubby on board for the guys who want MMF for example.

It all sounds good but would not work for me , all sounds a bit out there. Lz will be interested in the MMF aspect he's into that  :D


However I do know of some very happy couples , so its not all doom n gloom . Some of the ladies gave up the work , some have not. It can work  :)


It's like stereotyping of WGs, or clients; or any stereotyping, in fact.  What matters is [are!] the individuals.

Offline baltar

Lz its like having your cake and eating it , I have never met a Girl with any money , having one earning 5k month would be nice I surpose
but long term would you ever respect her and love her , or my be would be perfect you could spend her money on punting
whatever you liked.  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Most women want a man who earns more than they do so an escort earning  that much a month would just not be interested or be hard to please
« Last Edit: July 24, 2013, 08:07:41 PM by baltar »

Online Lz-129

Most women want a man who earns more than they do so an escort warning that much a month would just not be interested or be hard to please

There's not too many men that earn that much!

Offline baltar

There's not too many men that earn that much!


Exactly :) and if they have to stop working then they are going to need even more given to them by their new partner. Hypergamy is a bitch.
« Last Edit: July 24, 2013, 08:11:32 PM by baltar »

I'm doubting most working girls even know what GFE means. The abbreviation is put on their profiles by their pimp. Saying to a punter 'undress' is hardly a GFE and fuckin infuriates me  :angry:

I've only been punting since June and am already having second thoughts about this, moreso because its just raw fucking with no emotions. Might just go back to having a gf  :rolleyes:

Offline sunny74

True gfe topic was done a while ago here https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=14121.0

A good post that sums it up for me was,

A true GF experience is when you do not have to pay for sex and silly extras and after having sex the GF gets you a drink & makes you something to eat while you lie in bed... - Good luck in finding that.:lol:

A WG/GFE should consist of DFK/OWO/CUM unlimited/Cuddling/massage all provided with affection and maybe pay on your way out (if you are a regular)
« Last Edit: July 24, 2013, 09:22:59 PM by sunny74 »

Online Lz-129

I've only been punting since June and am already having second thoughts about this,

Christ its only July! How many punts you been on? And your already having second thoughts!

I've only been punting since February and have had a great time, even the worse punt I went on was an ok shag (the rest was shite granted)
As long as I can ram my cock and tongue down a girls throat (obviously not at he same time) and come away feeling on top of the world then thats GFE for me :thumbsup:

Real GF means shopping and corrie and no sex whatsoever  :(

Give it a chance
« Last Edit: July 24, 2013, 10:49:55 PM by Lz-129 »

Offline Ted Bear

True gfe topic was done a while ago here https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=14121.0

A good post that sums it up for me was,

A true GF experience is when you do not have to pay for sex and silly extras and after having sex the GF gets you a drink & makes you something to eat while you lie in bed... - Good luck in finding that.:lol:

A WG/GFE should consist of DFK/OWO/CUM unlimited/Cuddling/massage all provided with affection and maybe pay on your way out (if you are a regular)

I thought I recognised this post - have you found true GFE yet?? :D

Offline sunny74

I thought I recognised this post - have you found true GFE yet?? :D

I thought you'd recognise it, ha ha.  Those words are the reality.
I am working on it  ;)

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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I sure Holly provides Sex , this whole question of GFE "the girl friend experience" smoke and mirrors to pretend that the punt is a naturally occurring date of which sex is a part.


I'm just no holds barred and will not put an act on. That said, it has been mentioned that I do unknowingly offer a GFE even if it is a kinky version.

Think every WG and punter has a different view of what a GFE is though. The term is not very clearly defined.


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