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Offline Lz-129

I fail to see how it is possible for a WG to have a relationship / BF when they continue  work as a WG.

I know many do.

When I have got to know a WG very well which I have over the years all of which said they had
No BF , I have asked would you be happy to have a BF who could handle you continuing to work.

The answer has always been the same NO , how can someone Love me when I am getting
Fucked 5 times a day by other men.

Frankly I think that’s a fair point , but what would I know. :hi:

Like you what do I know but I get the feeling it may be a lot easier than you think, especially when the guys starts to see the money rolling in and also while she is actually a 'working girl' she can't really mind if he has a little dabble himself....obviously that's just a guess

Offline Tailpipe

Like you what do I know but I get the feeling it may be a lot easier than you think, especially when the guys starts to see the money rolling in and also while she is actually a 'working girl' she can't really mind if he has a little dabble himself....obviously that's just a guess

Lz its like having your cake and eating it , I have never met a Girl with any money , having one earning 5k month would be nice I surpose
but long term would you ever respect her and love her , or my be would be perfect you could spend her money on punting
whatever you liked.  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Offline Lz-129

Lz its like having your cake and eating it , I have never met a Girl with any money , having one earning 5k month would be nice I surpose
but long term would you ever respect her and love her , or my be would be perfect you could spend her money on punting
whatever you liked.  :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

I guess we will never find out but having a large amount of money roll in month after month would certainly sweeten the deal

Offline Daffodil

I guess we will never find out but having a large amount of money roll in month after month would certainly sweeten the deal

True, but it wouldn't be love. And you would have to fear for that relationship when she stopped 'earning'.

Offline Lz-129

True, but it wouldn't be love. And you would have to fear for that relationship when she stopped 'earning'.

Not sure there's a lot of true love anywhere anymore, like to think I am wrong but I think there's a lot of folk living with each other just because its convenient and easy rather than they love each other

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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But do you still fuck him?
Permanently gagging for it actually.

I did not intend to derail the thread, just chuckling away that us ladies are never cheap, even if we are the simple sort. So apologies if anyone thought I was turning this into the 'Holly Show'.

In answer to the other things raised... If another WG said they were getting involved I'd tell them they had lost the plot. I have no idea how he handles it now and how (if) he will going ahead, it is not something I could deal with myself in all honesty. It is just taken day by day. I'm now looking at stopping overnights, as falling asleep/waking up with someone else crosses a line for him, it is obvious. I do not do the GFE so maybe it is easier for him to handle? This job currently fits around him, not the other way. I'm not in love, though I care for him deeply. Should that happen, I'm not sure I would want to carry on myself. The money is GREAT and I get my kicks being a kinky wench, but as I'm not someone who falls easily (once in 36 years) I'd safely say that it would cause me to reevaluate how or if I carry on working. Maybe I can have my cake and eat it, but if I can't, I know money will not win, should I find myself lucky enough to be in a position to have to make a decision.

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Offline Tailpipe

Holly

Brave post. GFE does anyone do this is it not just smoke and mirrors its only a mindset.
Like everything esle surley no more real. Do you have to connect more to do GFE.
I am gussing he is suffering in private. If overnight cross the line then all crosses
The line and will in time. You do not love him ? Maybe until show the full commitment you never will.
Complex for sure. Thank you for been so open about it , few would post this.

"Money don,t by you love it buys sex"

I wish you well  :hi:

Offline Lz-129

Yeah sorry op, going of in the wrong direction!

Holly, but you fall in love with your man and quit earning good money, then I guess this/you stop him seeing other girls (presuming he does)
After 6 months the bills are still rolling in and your savings are dwindling, the arguments start, love will then be tested and the lure to earn the money will great
After you can't unlearn something,

All this is hypothetical of course, really do hope it works out for you :thumbsup:

Offline Tailpipe

Lz

That's why it's all so complex and if honest interesting , although very private.
Holly to her credit has been very open to us.

But at the end of the day and in the long term if the love is real the only outcome
Is stop working.

The dream of dating a WG who earns 5k a month and you get to fuck her for free
Plus use some of her earnings to punt as well. Lz that's not going to happen is it.

Plus that would make that person a pimp  :hi:

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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Tailpipe - Of course GFE is smoke and mirrors. I do not do GFE as a)I am a crap actress b)It crosses a line for me also, even when not seeing someone c)I stick at what I am good at and enjoy.

"You do not love him ? Maybe until show the full commitment you never will." I'll show him the full commitment if/when I love him. I just hope that if/when that happens it is before him as he really would then suffer. I'm as near as you can get to it, hence changing the way I work to give him SOME of the respect he deserves. In the mean time I am working hard on my other business so that there are more options. Hats of to the many ladies that can whore when married or in long term relationships, but I'm a funny lass and can't get close after seeing a client, rubber permeates *shudders*


Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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Yeah sorry op, going of in the wrong direction!

Holly, but you fall in love with your man and quit earning good money, then I guess this/you stop him seeing other girls (presuming he does)
After 6 months the bills are still rolling in and your savings are dwindling, the arguments start, love will then be tested and the lure to earn the money will great
After you can't unlearn something,

All this is hypothetical of course, really do hope it works out for you :thumbsup:

No, he does not see others now. Yes, I believe him. He'd barely dipped his toe and had a love/hate thing going on with it as he found the girls clinical.


Hence having an exit plan :) Worst case scenario, he earns very well. Not my style to sponge though, far too independent.

I'm under no illusion that the path ahead is an easy one. Quite the opposite frankly :)




Offline Lz-129



I'm under no illusion that the path ahead is an easy one. Quite the opposite frankly :)

Well wish you the very best for that :thumbsup:

Offline Tailpipe

Holly

I gave up trying to understand how the female mind works years ago , I have
Many female friends that are just friends and often I ask them about why
Another female has done this and that and its seems that they do not known how
You guys are wired anyway.

But love in my view arrives in the form of a hammer blow to the head and legs
Will no longer support your weight.

Building respect and learning to live with someone else's  , is often just that , its not love.

I have been lucky or unlucky to have been involved with both.

Love fucking hurts and it hurts everyday and has its only rules and you can not control it
And it lives forever , even if you are no longer with that person.

News business smart girl , think you will do well , I hope you do .  :hi:

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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But love in my view arrives in the form of a hammer blow to the head and legs
Will no longer support your weight.
Love fucking hurts and it hurts everyday and has its only rules and you can not control it
And it lives forever , even if you are no longer with that person. 

I agree it does, the only person I have ever truly loved died and death has not stopped that love. Some who know me may argue I am already in love, I could even be hiding it myself as it is a LOT of money to give up, should I take that path. But to me there is another stage, that stage when you go deeper. That is the point when I reevaluate.

Right, no more chatting on this subject from me as it is no longer punting related.

Punting wise it is simple. Do NOT get involved with a WG, you'd be NUTS. End of :)

Offline Tailpipe



Punting wise it is simple. Do NOT get involved with a WG, you'd be NUTS. End of :)

hammer blows have no rules or interest in current profession.

Such relationships are at least based on so form of trust however strange that may seem.

Offline Daffodil

If monogamy is important to you in a relationship then you can never get into one with a prossie.

Do you really believe that even when 'retired', if they get an email/text from an old regular offering £150 for an hour's 'work' they would turn it down? Not a chance  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

If monogamy is important to you in a relationship then you can never get into one with a prossie.

Do you really believe that even when 'retired', if they get an email/text from an old regular offering £150 for an hour's 'work' they would turn it down? Not a chance   :hi:

Totally disagree.

Sometimes a pro$$ie will realise that there are other things in life apart from money.    :hi:

Offline Tailpipe

monogamy

Its never worked for me and never will, fuckup half my life before I execpted the facts .

Smiths words fit pefectlly. Thread was has a WG ever had feelings for you. 

"i put her off me by being honest with her, i would be continuing to punt and am a lying cheating bastard." :D :D

Just wish I had meet smiths 30 years ago he could have save me a lot of shit.

Offline Daffodil

Totally disagree.

Sometimes a pro$$ie will realise that there are other things in life apart from money.    :hi:

Ditto.

She may stay 'officially' off the game, but the day comes when she wants a new pair of shoes and an unsolicited email comes in from an old regular who she got on with. Is it really likely she'll turn it down?

Either way, as her partner, I would never trust that she would turn it down.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Ditto.

She may stay 'officially' off the game, but the day comes when she wants a new pair of shoes and an unsolicited email comes in from an old regular who she got on with. Is it really likely she'll turn it down?

Either way, as her partner, I would never trust that she would turn it down.

I expect it may depend on the financial status of her partner, if he is fairly well off she is not going to risk her future for £150.  :hi:

Offline Tailpipe

Ditto.

She may stay 'officially' off the game, but the day comes when she wants a new pair of shoes and an unsolicited email comes in from an old regular who she got on with. Is it really likely she'll turn it down?

Either way, as her partner, I would never trust that she would turn it down.


Its a good point I have no idea what a WG earns but I would guess 3k to 10 k amonth.

3k amonth is 75k basic Gross in the real world thats a big number.

Woman who are used to having money , are not good at not having any,  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab


Its a good point I have no idea what a WG earns but I would guess 3k to 10 k amonth.

3k amonth is 75k basic Gross in the real world thats a big number.

Woman who are used to having money , are not good at not having any,  :hi:

Absolutely correct --------------------- but being a prostitute for life is not such a wonderful prospect.  :thumbsdown:

What sort of life is it to be fucked hundreds of times by every Tom, Dick and Abdul.    :vomit:

Offline smiths

monogamy

Its never worked for me and never will, fuckup half my life before I execpted the facts .

Smiths words fit pefectlly. Thread was has a WG ever had feelings for you. 

"i put her off me by being honest with her, i would be continuing to punt and am a lying cheating bastard." :D :D

Just wish I had meet smiths 30 years ago he could have save me a lot of shit.

 :D :drinks:

Offline overhead

Tailpipe - Of course GFE is smoke and mirrors. I do not do GFE as a)I am a crap actress b)It crosses a line for me also, even when not seeing someone c)I stick at what I am good at and enjoy.

"You do not love him ? Maybe until show the full commitment you never will." I'll show him the full commitment if/when I love him. I just hope that if/when that happens it is before him as he really would then suffer. I'm as near as you can get to it, hence changing the way I work to give him SOME of the respect he deserves. In the mean time I am working hard on my other business so that there are more options. Hats of to the many ladies that can whore when married or in long term relationships, but I'm a funny lass and can't get close after seeing a client, rubber permeates *shudders*

I have to confess to being a bit puzzled now as to what GFE actually is.

Is the SP actually supposed to pretend to be your GF? If that's the case then none I have even met fit that bill. The nearest I have experienced is being chatty and civil to each other. If she provides a nice erotic and fulfilling time, I thought that would constitute a GFE, and is certainly what I look for. Plus a decent helping of mutual respect of course. So Holly doesn't do that. What on earth does she do then? Is there no sex involved or something?

Offline Tailpipe

I have to confess to being a bit puzzled now as to what GFE actually is.

Is the SP actually supposed to pretend to be your GF? If that's the case then none I have even met fit that bill. The nearest I have experienced is being chatty and civil to each other. If she provides a nice erotic and fulfilling time, I thought that would constitute a GFE, and is certainly what I look for. Plus a decent helping of mutual respect of course. So Holly doesn't do that. What on earth does she do then? Is there no sex involved or something?

I sure Holly provides Sex , this whole question of GFE "the girl friend experience" smoke and mirrors to pretend that the punt is a naturally occurring date of which sex is a part.

However others may have a differant view.


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