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Author Topic: generalising,do we all think working girls are the same?  (Read 21666 times)

Offline Tailpipe

Repeat custom is very important but many EE girls are only here for the short term which gives them very little incentive to build up regular clientele.   :thumbsdown:


Thats a good point when I see only here for a few more days , I would never book as the WG as no interest
or need to perform as she would be gone.

Offline Inna

Of course they are human and people , I think the nature of the work is what changes them .
My view is there work in many ways is an unnaturally act and against there core beliefs.

They have to find ways of dealing with it and create separation from there private
 World.

Think they have different ways of doing this.

A escort last week who was new to the job said she thinks there are three types of WGs
Ones that just like sex
Others enjoy meeting lots of different people
Or just do it for the money,

I found those answers to be to simplistic and basic.
Think if WG does it just for money that's when they are likely to damage there
Heads.

May be this needs WG to explain   

So we are really no different from most other working people, some enjoy their work, others just do it for the money.

Offline smiths

Repeat custom is very important but many EE girls are only here for the short term which gives them very little incentive to build up regular clientele.   :thumbsdown:

I agree that some EE WGs are only here for a short time, although they may return again as has happened many times in my experiences.

Even more important in such cases to have this site where punters you know, trust and/or respect review such WGs so at least you can make a booking if you so wish while she is still about. Personally i am ok with a one-off good punt, shame if she isnt about to become a regular though. ;)

Curious6705

I keep seeing this thread and find myself thinking it should say "Do we think all working girls are the same?" ...

Grammar fascism aside, to be completely honest, I'm afraid I think it's a bit of a daft question. What is true, IMO, is that what all WGs have in common is their job. We only get to see them because they all have the same job and, in general, that completely defines our relationship with them.

ah but would you want to if you had to suck cocks for it  :scare:

Then don't do a job that requires you to suck cocks if you don't enjoy it.

There's plenty of other jobs....






Offline brummielad83

I keep seeing this thread and find myself thinking it should say "Do we think all working girls are the same?" ...

Grammar fascism aside, to be completely honest, I'm afraid I think it's a bit of a daft question. What is true, IMO, is that what all WGs have in common is their job. We only get to see them because they all have the same job and, in general, that completely defines our relationship with them.
phrased it as i did because i wanted to see if i was in a minority of one,been a long time since my english gcse the reason i posted was that having lived with a wg for 18 months who i'd met through punting and thus knowing full well that they are as individual as any other person you happen to meet i was getting annoyed at some of the blanket assumptions being made i.e 1 they choose it as a lifestyle- not in my ex's case,emotionally blackmailed by twat of a boyfriend  2 they earn a  fortune not if they don't end up with the money and 3 worst of all they're incapable of real human interaction for example love and affection and though we're no longer together i can categorically deny that one as it was one of the most loving relationships i've been in,good to hear off some wgs on this post as i'm sure they get wound up about many of the assumptions too

Offline brummielad83

Then don't do a job that requires you to suck cocks if you don't enjoy it.

There's plenty of other jobs....
really where? you not been in the country for the last 5 years?

Offline Daffodil

really where? you not been in the country for the last 5 years?

Now this is nonsense, most women manage without having to suck old stranger's cocks  :hi:

Offline willbred

The only way they are " all the same" is that they all offer sex for cash. That apart, they are all different, some more different than others.
Banning reason: Multiple accounts (willbred, Diplomat65)

Offline brummielad83

Now this is nonsense, most women manage without having to suck old stranger's cocks  :hi:
ok i'll repeat not all wgs choose this life for themselves many do i admit but some don't and even the ones that do who are we to judge as we make use of their services?  :unknown:

Offline Daffodil

The only way they are " all the same" is that they all offer sex for cash. That apart, they are all different, some more different than others.

But you can generalise about the decision to sell sex for cash, only certain types of girls do it  :hi:

Offline Daffodil

ok i'll repeat not all wgs choose this life for themselves many do i admit but some don't and even the ones that do who are we to judge as we make use of their services?  :unknown:

This is also nonsense. Most of us make use of banks, but we're also free to judge bankers  :hi:


The only way they are " all the same" is that they all offer sex for cash. That apart, they are all different, some more different than others.

Agree, and they all have different stories how they got into this. Thats what makes it so interesting (to me at least) what led them to becoming a WG. The money is great and once it starts rolling in it probably becomes harder to resist. However I'm sure if most could have avoided it, they would have.

Offline Suzanna Newcastle

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I don't think its just the money they want, its the attention. I have yet to meet a prostitute who is not a major first class drama queen to be honest.

And by that before anyone gets offended, everything they do has to be a major event. Buying a pair of shoes would be chatted and blogged about none stop.

They take offence easier than most other people in the world and drama queen it up when taking this offence so the world knows they are offended but most likely it would be for an insignificant thing when you break it down you think was that it?

I think if a prostitute was offered a section on the show Jeremy Kyle they would jump at the chance as they'd think its their first footstep onto stardom.

This is also why almost every prostitute is on twitter and have hundreds and thousands of posts on there as they think every event of their life is a major event. They think when guys pay them £100 on the pretence of its for their time that their time is so important and hence think I will twitter my entire life up.

A prostitute is a girl who generally wants to be famous. Same how a porn star is most times someone who thinks its her first steps onto getting on a catwalk.

I think you've just described the exact opposite of my life.

I don't do drama, my twitter is to advise of the hours I work and a link to my site to drive traffic (I'm all about the SEO), I'm quite aware what my time is being paid for (mostly to suck blokes off) and the idea of fame (as in the TOWIE, Big Brother, X Factor) turns my stomach.

Oh, and I'm not offended that you've just generalised my life.  :D

We're not ALL the same Anth, just like not ALL punters aren't the same.

I think you've just described the exact opposite of my life.

I don't do drama, my twitter is to advise of the hours I work and a link to my site to drive traffic (I'm all about the SEO), I'm quite aware what my time is being paid for (mostly to suck blokes off) and the idea of fame (as in the TOWIE, Big Brother, X Factor) turns my stomach.

Oh, and I'm not offended that you've just generalised my life.  :D

We're not ALL the same Anth, just like not ALL punters aren't the same.

I must say, Anth, that I can't think of any of the MILFs who I see would tick the boxes you drew up.

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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But you can generalise about the decision to sell sex for cash, only certain types of girls do it  :hi:

Oh really? Please enlighten me.


Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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Don't be so naive  :hi:

Not at all, but you may however be blinkered. To generalise and say 'most' girls are a certain type...well I'd agree with you. To say 'all', is ignorant.

I certainly do not think punters fit in to 'types'.

Offline Daffodil

Not at all, but you may however be blinkered. To generalise and say 'most' girls are a certain type...well I'd agree with you. To say 'all', is ignorant.

I certainly do not think punters fit in to 'types'.

Where did I say 'all'?

Offline Conwy

I tend to try to see ladies of a particular type and return to those when I am successful in finding them

The type : ladies who give every impression of truly enjoying what they do.

Then I try to help them enjoy themselves as much as possible and derive enjoyment myself from so doing.

Offline pokenn

I'd say absolutely not all the same. I'm not as experienced a punter as some on here as I've only been punting 2-3 years. But in that time the girls I've seen have been a very varied bunch in terms of personality, background and outlook. Most have seemed quite bright and intelligent.

Although I don't know all about their lives, I would say that the WGs I have seen have chosen this as a lifestyle. They could do other things but prefer not to because of the money

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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I'd say absolutely not all the same. I'm not as experienced a punter as some on here as I've only been punting 2-3 years. But in that time the girls I've seen have been a very varied bunch in terms of personality, background and outlook. Most have seemed quite bright and intelligent.

Although I don't know all about their lives, I would say that the WGs I have seen have chosen this as a lifestyle. They could do other things but prefer not to because of the money

I completely agree,  I also agree with Daff you do need to be a certain type to last and not go mental. I have friends who know what I do but can't get their head round it and because of who and how they are as people and would never consider my line of work, but I also have male friends who are adamant they would never pay for sex so maybe you need to be a certain type on both sides.  :unknown: Most women who decide to sell sex don't make that decision lightly it's still classed as dirty in society just as I'm sure most of you thought long and hard about booking your first paid session and the stigma. All Ladies have their own reasons but they need to be able to justify that choice and reasoning to themselves honestly, if they can't then cracks will appear.

For most once the stockings go on so does the WG persona you get into character so to speak, or she should. You are no longer in the real world for an hour so you can be who you want and as close or as far from the real you as you choose to be. For some its an easy transformation for others not so easy. For the ones who find the transformation easy the job itself is easy. Good money, hours to suit, no boss etc .These are the ladies who tend to last, have their heads in the right place  and it shows so therefore get repeat visits a steady stream of regular clients which then in turn makes the job easier as you know who is coming and their likes and you know you are safe  so makes an even happier WG. :)

One of the long term concerns I do have though  is for me  It has changed my view of men and yes I am guilty of generalising  I know not all men are the same. But for me personally I am more than aware when I decide to seek a new relationship trust issues will be a major factor and I will find it very difficult.  :( I started in my 30's so who knows the effect that would of had if I had been in my early 20's or younger. But I suppose time will tell.

Offline Tailpipe

I completely agree,  I also agree with Daff you do need to be a certain type to last and not go mental. I have friends who know what I do but can't get their head round it and because of who and how they are as people and would never consider my line of work, but I also have male friends who are adamant they would never pay for sex so maybe you need to be a certain type on both sides.  :unknown: Most women who decide to sell sex don't make that decision lightly it's still classed as dirty in society just as I'm sure most of you thought long and hard about booking your first paid session and the stigma. All Ladies have their own reasons but they need to be able to justify that choice and reasoning to themselves honestly, if they can't then cracks will appear.

For most once the stockings go on so does the WG persona you get into character so to speak, or she should. You are no longer in the real world for an hour so you can be who you want and as close or as far from the real you as you choose to be. For some its an easy transformation for others not so easy. For the ones who find the transformation easy the job itself is easy. Good money, hours to suit, no boss etc .These are the ladies who tend to last, have their heads in the right place  and it shows so therefore get repeat visits a steady stream of regular clients which then in turn makes the job easier as you know who is coming and their likes and you know you are safe  so makes an even happier WG. :)

One of the long term concerns I do have though  is for me  It has changed my view of men and yes I am guilty of generalising  I know not all men are the same. But for me personally I am more than aware when I decide to seek a new relationship trust issues will be a major factor and I will find it very difficult.  :( I started in my 30's so who knows the effect that would of had if I had been in my early 20's or younger. But I suppose time will tell.

Like dani the other day this is a very honest post , for which you have my respect. I totally agree and confirms my worst fears for anyone trying to engage with a WG outside of bussness #
which is on another current thread.


profound statement for the fluffies to consider "WG persona you get into character so to speak"





Offline Louise 100% British

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I don't think its just the money they want, its the attention. I have yet to meet a prostitute who is not a major first class drama queen to be honest.

And by that before anyone gets offended, everything they do has to be a major event. Buying a pair of shoes would be chatted and blogged about none stop.

They take offence easier than most other people in the world and drama queen it up when taking this offence so the world knows they are offended but most likely it would be for an insignificant thing when you break it down you think was that it?

I think if a prostitute was offered a section on the show Jeremy Kyle they would jump at the chance as they'd think its their first footstep onto stardom.

This is also why almost every prostitute is on twitter and have hundreds and thousands of posts on there as they think every event of their life is a major event. They think when guys pay them £100 on the pretence of its for their time that their time is so important and hence think I will twitter my entire life up.

A prostitute is a girl who generally wants to be famous. Same how a porn star is most times someone who thinks its her first steps onto getting on a catwalk.

I've never heard anybody thinking that a prostitue is someone who wants to be famous?
A bit of an odd statement IMO. I can't think of anything worse than going on a tv show like Jeremy Kyle.
I don't do this for attention. I'm sure i get attention outside of work so wouldnt need this job for that. do it because it pays very well, I can work for myself with no one to answer and my work life and home life remains pretty much drama free.
As another girl posted above the complete opposite to how I behave or what i
want to acheive from this work.

Offline finn5555

I've never heard anybody thinking that a prostitue is someone who wants to be famous?
A bit of an odd statement IMO. I can't think of anything worse than going on a tv show like Jeremy Kyle.
I don't do this for attention. I'm sure i get attention outside of work so wouldnt need this job for that. do it because it pays very well, I can work for myself with no one to answer and my work life and home life remains pretty much drama free.
As another girl posted above the complete opposite to how I behave or what i
want to acheive from this work.

ALL pro$$ies lie so in that why they are the same  :D


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