I'd say absolutely not all the same. I'm not as experienced a punter as some on here as I've only been punting 2-3 years. But in that time the girls I've seen have been a very varied bunch in terms of personality, background and outlook. Most have seemed quite bright and intelligent.
Although I don't know all about their lives, I would say that the WGs I have seen have chosen this as a lifestyle. They could do other things but prefer not to because of the money
I completely agree, I also agree with Daff you do need to be a certain type to last and not go mental. I have friends who know what I do but can't get their head round it and because of who and how they are as people and would never consider my line of work, but I also have male friends who are adamant they would never pay for sex so maybe you need to be a certain type on both sides.
Most women who decide to sell sex don't make that decision lightly it's still classed as dirty in society just as I'm sure most of you thought long and hard about booking your first paid session and the stigma. All Ladies have their own reasons but they need to be able to justify that choice and reasoning to themselves honestly, if they can't then cracks will appear.
For most once the stockings go on so does the WG persona you get into character so to speak, or she should. You are no longer in the real world for an hour so you can be who you want and as close or as far from the real you as you choose to be. For some its an easy transformation for others not so easy. For the ones who find the transformation easy the job itself is easy. Good money, hours to suit, no boss etc .These are the ladies who tend to last, have their heads in the right place and it shows so therefore get repeat visits a steady stream of regular clients which then in turn makes the job easier as you know who is coming and their likes and you know you are safe so makes an even happier WG.
One of the long term concerns I do have though is for me It has changed my view of men and yes I am guilty of generalising I know not all men are the same. But for me personally I am more than aware when I decide to seek a new relationship trust issues will be a major factor and I will find it very difficult.
I started in my 30's so who knows the effect that would of had if I had been in my early 20's or younger. But I suppose time will tell.