Never used a punting phone and find having a secret phone far riskier than using my main one. I'm married and it hasn't been a problem in years of punting. My phone never leaves my sight and I am very protective of it. I delete everything after a meet, sometimes even block the girl's number if I know I don't want to visit her again. This has always worked fine, but recently a touring escort texted me weeks after our meets not once but twice. First "I returned your feedback on AW", while the phone was on the arm of the couch, my heart stopped and I deleted it instantly and put my phone on silent, then a few seconds later "It's ****, the black girl you met in ****". Deleted, blocked. No idea how I would have explained that, so lesson learned - TextMe app sounds great. I can't maintain and hide a secret phone from my wife. How do you explain that? A dodgy text - wrong number, prank... but a secret phone?