Agree S T , there have been a few in the last few weeks not wishing to upset the apple cart so to speak and I get that, and I think lileth may be a bit too cautious at times, but she had problems a year or so back so maybe this goes back to that situation, so if , what she does, makes her feel safe, that's how it has to be, A H tried his best , didn't work, just has to move on before it gets out of hand, speaking from experience there.