Anth - I sort of remember the other thread, and having read this one too, it's a shame that you've lost respect for WGs who are ultimately doing their job properly. You pay a WG for the abililty to walk away after leaving no ties or promises or relationship. You pay a WG for absolute discretion, which means if you see her anywhere outside her workplace she will (or should) blank you, ignore you, walk in the opposite direction, not catch your eye or gaze at you across the supermarket floor. You have to remember that this is why you are paying her. Even if she feels she has clicked with you or made an emotional connection with you, she would be breaking that unwritten rule of not approaching or acknowledging your existance on civvy street. The good WGs will adhere to this.
Obviously I know that, but you just get an inkling of a situation and mine was the girl was acting in contempt, and immense dislike towards me. As a result of that I have stopped going to a place I frequented as a customer in fear of causing annoyance to this girl who works there.
And plus to add to that above the sisterhood immediately before they banned me from totherplace made the specific emphasis to bring this back up to drive the nail in further (as I had previously asked them for advise on how to handle the above situation) and chose to say this girl was not doing this for any other reason than she couldn't stand me. And then they banned me. So obviously I appreciate also they are just vile individuals themselves but these are the same fears I was having myself too and they could have said anything before banning me but they chose to say this.
Sorry if I am taking the topic off track, I am just off work today and woke up feeling unwell too so am stuck inside feeling terrible and in a sombre mood all-round.