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Offline Sommer

In addition to the chronically shy, there are also those of us who are physically disabled in some way.  My disability is comparatively mild but I used to be so self-conscious about it that I was about 27 before a girl who lived in the same block of flats as me took pity on me [as I saw it at the time] one evening and popped my cherry.  In those days, I had so many hang-ups that, if she hadn't done that, I'm not sure when, if ever, it would have happened.

A film was released a couple of months ago [sorry; can't remember its title] about a British virgin bloke in his 20s or 30s who's in a wheelchair and who went [with his family!  :scare: ] to a brothel in, I think, Spain so that he could experience for the first time what we all take for granted.

Believe it or not I think there is actually a charity that caters for the sexual needs of disabled people, and I know that there are WG's on AW who can accomodate those with disabilities.

Offline smiths

Believe it or not I think there is actually a charity that caters for the sexual needs of disabled people, and I know that there are WG's on AW who can accomodate those with disabilities.

One organisation that disabled punters can get helpful information from is www.tlc-trust.org.uk

Offline Sommer

One organisation that disabled punters can get helpful information from is www.tlc-trust.org.uk

See I told you this guy knows everything, yes I think that's the one I'd heard of.

Offline Dani

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One organisation that disabled punters can get helpful information from is www.tlc-trust.org.uk

It is a great site but not many women put themselves on there or they don't get approved.  I tried to go on it when I first started but was rejected but I re did it last year and was accepted so I think we need to have been around for a while and built up good feedback to get accepted on there but it is just women who will happily see anyone with any impairment which means you know you will be seen by someone who is not going to be condescending or put off.  They also have to list what they know about impairments and what experience they have in dealing with them.  I do however wish more women would sign up for it as there is not enough on there for most areas

If only http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/ had existed 40 years ago, my life would have been SO different!  :rolleyes:

Offline skittish



Is it not a little sad to lose ones virginity to a w/g|? whats the big deal re being a virgin



You should see the girl who popped my cherry if you want Sad

Offline Sommer

You should see the girl who popped my cherry if you want Sad

Did she look something like this - :crazy: yeah that's the same one who did me.

Offline MisterA

From been shy to be disabled lol this topic has gone way of course, im not disabled or shy, well shy a little maybe, i am only a virgin becuse i was with someone who was also a virgin we broke up a year ago, hence my reason for been a virgin.

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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Hi,

Threads do that, especially if other posters are not aware of situations, nevertheless some good points were bought up . I suppose really it should get back to offering you a recommendation as requested.

But if a prossie thinks you should consider other options in regard to losing your virginity, it is possibly worth thinking about. Not for the aforementioned so called reason of being 'sad', but for 101 other reasons which should be obvious.

Good luck either way.

Offline Sommer

Reading about the wonderful work of the tic trust and Dani's fine example has inspired me to do my bit for the disabled, so if your a blind woman and your reading this thread, not absolutely sure how you do that, braille computer perhaps or a guide dog that can read and speak, great idea but unlikely, anyway if you are a blind woman and you think that your disability is preventing you from enjoying a healthy sex life then I'm your man. There would be no charge for the actual service but a small contribution towards travel costs would be appreciated, petrols not getting any cheaper is it. The blind thing really isn't a problem, in fact when it comes to having sex with me it's probably an advantage, most escorts I visit usually keep their eye's shut anyway.

Offline MisterA

Hi,

Threads do that, especially if other posters are not aware of situations, nevertheless some good points were bought up . I suppose really it should get back to offering you a recommendation as requested.

But if a prossie thinks you should consider other options in regard to losing your virginity, it is possibly worth thinking about. Not for the aforementioned so called reason of being 'sad', but for 101 other reasons which should be obvious.

Good luck either way.

U have nice advice, thank u

Offline Daffodil

If someone joined from Newcastle and said who to see in Newcastle, i'd at the moment say the two Kara's. If someone joined and said I am a virgin so who do I see from Newcastle, I'd say....the two Kara's.

Bang on, I like that advice.

A good prossie to lose your virginity to is a good prossie. There's no extra qualification they take to be 'virgin friendly'. They see awkward/nervous guys all the time.

Offline Daffodil

From been shy to be disabled lol this topic has gone way of course, im not disabled or shy, well shy a little maybe, i am only a virgin becuse i was with someone who was also a virgin we broke up a year ago, hence my reason for been a virgin.

No, I don't buy it. There must be something 'wrong' if you're a virgin at 27. If not, now you're out of a relationship, go fuck somebody.

That said, why not fuck a prossie? It's good fun (usually) and, despite what tazz says, often cheaper than a gf (I just spent a small fortune on a weekend away). Don't get hung up on being a virgin.

Offline ulander

I understand why some people think it's a bad idea to have first-time sex with a prostitute, rather than with someone you manage to pull at a pub or club.  But I wish my first experience had been with a really good professional.  As a virgin, you're going to be nervous as hell, regardless of whether you're with an amateur or a professional.  But if you choose the right professional, she will help you handle your nerves (rather than, possibly, add to them), and she will do everything possible to ensure that you enjoy your first experience and that you look back on it as a success and not a humiliating failure.  This will help you develop confidence and with luck, start you off on a long and happy sexual career!

The key to it is choosing the right professional and I can't help on this.  I punt in the south west and have no knowledge of the London scene.  But if you study AW carefully, you ought to be able to identify someone who will give you a great time.  General suggestions; choose someone older than you, perhaps mid to late 30s.  Choose someone who has been offering sexual services for at least three or four years.  Choose someone with plenty of good feedback/FRs from punters who themselves have plenty of favourable feedback.  Finally, choose someone you really find attractive.

Good luck, and enjoy!

I understand why some people think it's a bad idea to have first-time sex with a prostitute, rather than with someone you manage to pull at a pub or club.  But I wish my first experience had been with a really good professional.  As a virgin, you're going to be nervous as hell, regardless of whether you're with an amateur or a professional.  But if you choose the right professional, she will help you handle your nerves (rather than, possibly, add to them), and she will do everything possible to ensure that you enjoy your first experience and that you look back on it as a success and not a humiliating failure.  This will help you develop confidence and with luck, start you off on a long and happy sexual career!

The key to it is choosing the right professional and I can't help on this.  I punt in the south west and have no knowledge of the London scene.  But if you study AW carefully, you ought to be able to identify someone who will give you a great time.  General suggestions; choose someone older than you, perhaps mid to late 30s.  Choose someone who has been offering sexual services for at least three or four years.  Choose someone with plenty of good feedback/FRs from punters who themselves have plenty of favourable feedback.  Finally, choose someone you really find attractive.

Good luck, and enjoy!

Excellent post, imo.  I totally agree with ulander about how to find the best girl for the OP's "initiation".  Like him, I don't know the London scene but MisterA might want also to consider a Parlour reasonably local to him.

I only offer that suggestion because of my first-ever punt, which was at one of Sandy's Parlours in Manchester 9 years ago, when I was 58.  I was extremely nervous and might as well have been a full virgin, not just a "punting virgin".  I explained to the receptionist that it was my first punt [I probably didn't know our meaning of the word then!], that I was dead nervous [she could probably tell that!] and could she please sort my out the most appropriate of the girls working that afternoon to "initiate" me?  She did; I went back there 2 days later for my next punt and have been a happy punter ever since!  :yahoo:

I realise that there were almost no EE girls in Parlours in those days and that it might not be so easy for a Parlour receptionist to recommend one of the girls to meet a similar request these days, but if MisterA has any difficulty in going through the selection procedure ulander outlined above, it might be an alternative for him to consider.


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