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Author Topic: Which is the best way to make initial contact with a WG - email, text or phone?  (Read 3024 times)

Having a frustrating time trying to set up my next meeting with an escort.  After doing a bit of research and selecting a suitable girl I write them a polite email asking them if they are available on a certain day and if it would be okay to send them my background info. Of the five or six that I have contacted in this way, only one has replied swiftly and several have not responded at all.


Do you think calling them or sending a text would work better?

I would say a phone call works best for most, but getting ignored is an unavoidable occurrence in this game.

As AW is their shop window it surprises me so few WG's seem to keep their profiles updated on a regular basis.  One WG I spent ages composing an email to replied over a week later saying she had been away on holiday.

This proved majorly frustrating as a) She looked hot and I really wanted to bone her and b) I didn't have a back up plan in place and had to go without.

 It would only take a few seconds to type a short message at the top of their profile and it would save alot of time and unneccessary planning. 

As AW is their shop window it surprises me so few WG's seem to keep their profiles updated on a regular basis.  One WG I spent ages composing an email to replied over a week later saying she had been away on holiday.

This proved majorly frustrating as a) She looked hot and I really wanted to bone her and b) I didn't have a back up plan in place and had to go without.

 It would only take a few seconds to type a short message at the top of their profile and it would save alot of time and unneccessary planning.

Firstly, I wouldn't spend 'ages composing an email', most can only read 2 sentences in one go, but seriously, the initial enquiry needs to be fairly brief and to the point.

Secondly, if they are reasonably busy I think they might leave the enquiry until they are quieter and claim they were on holiday. It's frustrating and many have already been struck off my hotlist by the time they reply, if ever!

Offline k

I would say it was a good way of filtering out unsuitable punts - if they want the business then they should reply.  Occasionally a pimp may be in control of the email, but it's likely to be a curt "ring me" response.  Anyone who takes the trouble to read and properly reply to you is likely to be a good candidate for making an appointment with.

Offline smiths

Having a frustrating time trying to set up my next meeting with an escort.  After doing a bit of research and selecting a suitable girl I write them a polite email asking them if they are available on a certain day and if it would be okay to send them my background info. Of the five or six that I have contacted in this way, only one has replied swiftly and several have not responded at all.


Do you think calling them or sending a text would work better?

I ONLY phone WGs, no phone number no business off me. The only exception in recent years has been Shanelle of St Albans whose FRs i had read and a couple of punters i know had recommended to me.

In the main i am an on the day punter who doesnt know till i wake up whether i fancy a punt or not, so what i want is an immediate answer on the WGs availability. I have to speak to who i believe is the actual WG, on ocassion this has been her flatmate though, but that call makes or breaks whether i book a WG or not. ANY hint of negativity or a monotone reply and thats me off elsewhere. How i see it is a good WG if really  wanting my business will be seemingly friendly and enthusiastic. Works much more often than not, but isnt completely infallible sadly.

My way has served me well for 30 years so i wont be changing, but its whatever suits you best of course.
« Last Edit: June 25, 2013, 06:23:10 PM by smiths »

Offline rpg

Having a frustrating time trying to set up my next meeting with an escort.  After doing a bit of research and selecting a suitable girl I write them a polite email asking them if they are available on a certain day and if it would be okay to send them my background info. Of the five or six that I have contacted in this way, only one has replied swiftly and several have not responded at all.


Do you think calling them or sending a text would work better?

I always e-mail first to ask if they are interested in roleplay. This gives them three options, 1, they can ignore me. 2, they can answer in the affirmative. 3, they can decline. For me a phone call first isn't the best option because they have no time to think and usually say yes. That's proved to be a lie too many times.
For those who just want a simpler service, GFE or quickie for example I'd say a phone call is always the best option.
Just one more thing. I don't write off an enquiry until 48 hours have passed. Some read the e-mails but don't reply there and then. One girl told me she had checked me out first with a friend who I had seen previously.

Offline Dani

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Emails are great of they are short and to the point.  Long emails tend to get skimmed over and deleted.  After all we don't need to know anything about you at this point bar what day and time you are interested in.

If you tend to send long emails this will be why you did not get many replies.  I try to respond to all sensible emails within 24 hours at the latest but some people find this too long to wait but I don't spend all day online and although I read them on my phone I only log in and reply there and then if it is about a short notice booking.

Phone calls are normally the best way to find out if someone is free when you want as it is much quicker and easier

Offline Vortex77

I'm quite impatient so tend to call them straight as I can't wait for them to respond via email or text as sometimes they won't return your email until the next day and some won't even bother texting back. Over the phone I can get an idea of their personality and gauge how enthusiastic and how nice they are going to be upon meeting.

If they are rude or sound bored I don't bother going ahead with the punt.

Offline k

There's a lot of talk about "thinking with your dick" on here, and I think that women are more likely to realize they can exploit that by giving the correct answers you want over the phone, but not so much in an email.

Offline rpg

There's a lot of talk about "thinking with your dick" on here, and I think that women are more likely to realize they can exploit that by giving the correct answers you want over the phone, but not so much in an email.

Yes I agree totally

A lot of these girls don't even use their AW accounts, its the pimps that do. If they haven't opened your mail or worse still, not replied, you're better off getting on the phone and calling them. Its how most of their business is done and you can't go wrong using that route.

A fair few girls can't even speak proper English so you're best keeping it simple such as a confirmation of a booking, rather than giving them a list of demands.

Offline Melb

Phone.
Got fed up with emails and AW bookings years ago.

Offline NightKid

Call - sincere, text - determined, and email - intelligent.
Whatever's best is completely subject to personal preference and circumstances, sometimes I only manage to make contact after doing all 3  :rolleyes:

Offline madmick

First ever punt i arranged by text,

hi are u working, asked where she was, she asked if i was booking , then called to arrange price,
then rang as i walked to her dingy flat

Offline philboi

I find it's good to send an email first to introduce myself but I only do this because I have good feedback and I've completed my profile..... so I may send something like this:

"Hi *******

Great profile and love the pictures..(or some sort of intro)

I'm very interested in meeting you and making a booking soon.
Please would you have a look at my profile, feedback and field reports, then if you would like to meet get back to me asap (with your phone number) and I'll give you a call :)

Cheers
Phil xxx"

If a girl doesn't answer a message like this I don't pursue a meeting with her.
It does filter out any suspect girls imo, plus the girl is able to find out about me... My age, what I like, who I've seen and what they thought.

One Note: I will never see a girl unless I've spoken to her on the phone first.
If you don't want to email, I can't see the point of a text as a call will need to be made anyway. So in answer to the question, a phone call is ultimately the best way of contact....

It's worked well for me over the years :)

Offline Riprock

Never understood why around half of my intial emails to WG's get deleted without reply.
What's that all about?

Then i just arrange the meet on the blower.

RR

Offline skittish

I've tried the email route, most WG's are so disorganised they don't know what they're doing 10 minutes from now. I've wasted hours trying to arrange meets in advance only to get no reply near the arranged time. So for me if there's no number listed I'm no longer going to bother.

Offline hollysbeenabadgirl

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I think this depends on what kind of service you want and how soon.

If you want specialist services, outcalls in a weeks time etc then it is best emailing first IMO as you will know by the response if you will get what you are looking for and it saves having to get graphic on the phone if needed to establish what you want and that the lady seems with it enough to stick to plans in a weeks time. Though of course you would NEED a follow up call!

If you want to bang and go, sod faffing with emails, just call and get it sorted, is only a time and checking of services are correct.






Offline potato

Girls work in different ways. If there is a telephone number on their profile then they probably work from their phone and are only interested in short term bookings on the day/next day - these will rarely respond to emails asking about next week.  These girls I personally avoid as I am not interested in "production line" services " I can fit you in at 3" type girls.

If there is no phone number on the profile then email contact is your only choice and you will probably get a response as these girls will be a little more organised  ( but not always). If they respond with a one sentence "ring me", I avoid those as well. If they respond with a short concise mail answering whatever queries I have raised (in my concise email to them) and they enclose their telephone number for contact then those are the ones that I will select.

Some girls have their email messages forwarded to their phones so you can not always tell whether they have read your mail by looking at the AW Email status - or when they last logged in as it is not essential for them to log in to pick up their mail.

For me,  no email response, I am out of there.....  Though I plan and book a week in advance as that works for me, doesn't mean it suits everyone's style of punting if you punt at short notice.

Offline lovingfacials

If its a girl I have seen I text/phone (never leave a voicemail but remind the girl who I am on AW)

If not seen her before short 2/3 line email pointing out when wabt to vist & higlighting my good f/b


I find it's good to send an email first to introduce myself but I only do this because I have good feedback and I've completed my profile..... so I may send something like this:
. . .

If a girl doesn't answer a message like this I don't pursue a meeting with her.
It does filter out any suspect girls imo, plus the girl is able to find out about me... My age, what I like, who I've seen and what they thought.

One Note: I will never see a girl unless I've spoken to her on the phone first.
If you don't want to email, I can't see the point of a text as a call will need to be made anyway. So in answer to the question, a phone call is ultimately the best way of contact....

It's worked well for me over the years :)

I tend to do it the other way round, Phil.  I book the WG, then send her an e-mail explaining that I'm a Senior Citizen with a mild physical disability.

If a client who ticks either of those boxes is someone she'd rather not see, then she has the opportunity to back out of the booking.  Fortunately, so far, none has!

Text first. If a wg didn't want ro be rung it's usually stated in their profile



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