KandiMoore, slim ebony, Oxford - timewaster

[tallfitmike]

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Kandi had been in my hotlist for ages - she was based in the Feltham area for ages but recently spotted her profile in Oxford, which is much easier to get to for me, so decided to make a booking.  I like slim black girls and she ticked all the boxes.  She seemed genuine from her profile and also from speaking to her on the phone, and she also explained her location very well and suggested the best place to park (free on street parking, a rarity in Oxford). 

Made a booking for 2.30pm and drove for 50 mins to get there, arrived at 2.15 pm and parked up, feeling good about finally getting the chance to see her - had high hopes to make her a regular if she was good.  But then had a text from her at 2.20pm asking if I could make 3.45pm instead - clearly had had a better offer or a regular had turned up.  I replied with a "no" and reminded her I'd driven to see her and was already parked nearby.  Then she replied with a "let's do it another time" text... grrrr... so I never got to see her.  Clearly a time waster who does not adhere to bookings. 

I made a schoolboy error in not having a Plan B, but such was my confidence after speaking to her that she would be reliable, I didn't think I'd need one.  I treat people with respect and would never dream of letting an escort down without good notice - indeed I never have, so it's not too much to ask for that respect to be returned. 

Anyway, she really pissed me off - no decent excuse (in fact no excuse at all), hence the negative.

[Cunning Punt]

Thanks for the warning.

As a matter of interest, how far did you book ahead and did you subsequently confirm the booking at all?

The days she has the green light on are sporadic. That put me off slightly, along with the untamed bush and no OWO.

Punters talk a lot about having a Plan B, but, like you, I wouldn't want to line up a reserve and then cancel if Plan A does go ahead - just as we don't like escorts cancelling on us.

I've got dozens of contacts as well as AW on my phone, so on the odd occasion that I've been blanked by an escort, I just get on the phone and start calling!
Though Plan B wouldn't be easy in the Oxford area anyway because there aren't that many options.

[tallfitmike]

Thanks CP.

I booked by phone on the same day, about 90mins before the scheduled booking time. She has subsequently sent me a long (poorly written) polite email via AW apologising - some crap about her house alarm was going off and someone was there repairing it.

The lack of owo and the unshaven aspect did slightly put me off too but, like you say, there isn't much choice in Oxford, and I thought £100 for an hour was ok.

[Cunning Punt]

No, with a booking at 90mins, I wouldn't confirm either because one would expect her to know her immediate plans.

One could say at least she emailed but as you've made contact via AW, it's probably more to do with trying to prevent you writing negative feedback - and I bet she didn't offer you a discount on a future booking for wasting 2hrs of your life and petrol?

If you really want to see her again, you may wish to suggest that to her, though given her timewasting previously it might be an idea to book it on a day when you're in the area anyway.
Though from your last post, I take it you're understandably not that fussed about trying to see her again.

Hope your next punt is successful.

[tallfitmike]

Cheers CP, good advice. I might yet soften my approach to her - if I do punt with her I'll do another review.

[tallfitmike]

Turns out (after a few exchanged messages on AW) that she meant to text me to wait until 2.45 pm, not 3.45pm - i.e. a 15 mins wait.  But if it was a typo or slip of the finger whilst texting, it lost her an hour's booking!  I'd have been fine with a 15min wait, but not a 75 min wait!  Oh well, I might try and see her again, but she returns to London at the end of the week sadly.

[DrConners]

Turns out (after a few exchanged messages on AW) that she meant to text me to wait until 2.45 pm, not 3.45pm - i.e. a 15 mins wait.  But if it was a typo or slip of the finger whilst texting, it lost her an hour's booking!  I'd have been fine with a 15min wait, but not a 75 min wait!  Oh well, I might try and see her again, but she returns to London at the end of the week sadly.

Fair play to you for giving her the benefit of the doubt, personally IMO for a WG to get her numbers wrong, when in this game it's all about reliable appointment times is unforgivable. Sounds like she's trying to appease you to make another booking. She didn't tell you the wrong time FFS! I'd say your original interpretation of the facts is more like it - but if you do get to meet her hope you have a great time