Author Topic: More and more escorts not seeing coloured men  (Read 3737 times)

dough_boy

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Ever since the brexit vote i have noticed more escorts are refusing to see coloured guys i.e black asain middle eastern

In teesside theres not much british escorts already
But now when asked nearly all refuse to see coloured guys, leaving me with nothing but the romanian girls which i would never go and see anyway

I understand its they choice but .. but availability has dropped for me.. all just say had a bad experience ..etc etc

Which is just an excuse!!

Are escorts becoming racists

I can give u list of the ones who wont see coloured guys if people wanna know before contacting them as most dont put it on they pofiles as you will only find out its a NO when trying to book them.

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I've found that Eastern Europeans tend to be more racist, and some survey I saw confirmed it

Offline toon972

Might be a good idea to put this on ukescorting and see what response you receive. I am sure quite a few girls visit there with mixed outcomes.

dough_boy

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Might be a good idea to put this on ukescorting and see what response you receive. I am sure quite a few girls visit there with mixed outcomes.

Yes there will be the idiot coloured guy who messes around.. but arent there alot of white men who will do the same?

Cant wait to see an escort say "not seeing white men due a bad experience"

A few idiots mess it all up for every other coloured guys

I just think escorts need to see everyone indivually
Look at they feedback
I have good feedback but still get a no!!!

Can someone ask this question on ukescorting?

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Can someone ask this question on ukescorting?

Just go over and sign up, it would be better coming from someone directly affected. You could then respond to any comments or queries in a way others could not.     :hi:

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Just go over and sign up, it would be better coming from someone directly affected. You could then respond to any comments or queries in a way others could not.     :hi:

Done

Question asked on ukescorting

But would like more response on here as use ukpunting more

Has anyone else been affected??

Offline mwalston

i spoke to an escort about this and she said some of these asian / middle eastern guys that visit are disrespectful and insulting and they make degrading comments and treat them like pieces of meat etc and although not all are like that sometimes its easier to just refuse to see them as a whole, she also mentioned that even though they are aware of the rates when booking they try and haggle down the price when at the meeting.

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i spoke to an escort about this and she said some of these asian / middle eastern guys that visit are disrespectful and insulting and they make degrading comments and treat them like pieces of meat etc and although not all are like that sometimes its easier to just refuse to see them as a whole, she also mentioned that even though they are aware of the rates when booking they try and haggle down the price when at the meeting.

Again she said some of them
So i take it non of her white punters have never done this to her and asked for a discount!!!


Ill just see what others have to say

Offline dipset

This has happened to me a few times at first I was gutted because the girls I wanted to punt looked hot but now I just move on, there's too many brasses to gst hung up on ones "preferences"

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Why did none of the political parties mention it would affect the escort industry when campaigning on brexit? It may have swayed the vote the other way
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Why did none of the political parties mention it would affect the escort industry when campaigning on brexit? It may have swayed the vote the other way

Isn't "coloured" a racist expression theses days?

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Isn't "coloured" a racist expression theses days?

I thought that? 🤔
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Offline Brazilian Martian

Another stupid thread that has been covered so many times, if a prossie does not want to see you because of your skin colour then move on and find a next one that will simple  :hi:

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As far as I'm concerned if a girl doesn't want to see certain types of men be it colour, age or whatever it's up to them. They are limiting there profit margins but hey ho. When they change there 'principles' because the phones not ringing enough I still wouldn't see them  :unknown:

Offline everaad

Most escorts have their own preferences,
some have no choice they will see anyone, if they are making enough money they can be choosey.
its not only blacks or Asians,  some are ageist or sizeist.
One  currently in the region will only see punters below 45, and below 15 stone. Rules me out on both counts,
however if you are fit as fuck and above 15 stone she will see you.
She obviously doesn't realise most punters are married probably over 45, and most will be 15 st +



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Its just escorts discriminating against minorities basing their judgement on stereotypes.
 
If you punt in the Far East or Any African country you going to see discrimination against whites.
 
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Most escorts have their own preferences,
some have no choice they will see anyone, if they are making enough money they can be choosey.
its not only blacks or Asians,  some are ageist or sizeist.
One  currently in the region will only see punters below 45, and below 15 stone. Rules me out on both counts,
however if you are fit as fuck and above 15 stone she will see you.
She obviously doesn't realise most punters are married probably over 45, and most will be 15 st +
So after 3 years when are you going to do your first review?. We really need every one to contribute.  :hi:

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So after 3 years when are you going to do your first review?. We really need every one to contribute.  :hi:

+1  :thumbsup:

Offline everaad

It's been a while since I've seen any escort other than my most regular.
Still look, but only massage at the moment,
PM a couple of people on here about massage,
toftt but if they do extras not going to post it on here, too many been outed,
and been stated on here don't want to hear about legit  masseusse. 
Do go and have a lot of massage 3 in the last week, all 3 came away happy
2 supposedly legit, but only give info via PM to  people I trust.
so no not going to review.

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Plus if you look at the catweasle review of earth spa,
he gave a positive, but I gave it a negative with with a fairly extensive post,
could have posted it as a negative, but just added it as my experience to his review.

Offline everaad

Mrmatrix,
why are you bothered whether I review or not?
43 reviews, very good, but all in the south east, so why are you bothered about the north east.
and as I said I do pm people I trust if I have a good result with a masseuse.


Offline jarrovian

Isn't "coloured" a racist expression theses days?
Well there are some who believe it to be racist, and the actor Benedict Cumberbatch got a hammering for coming out with the phrase. However this was mainly from the pc brigade and he received a lot of backing from black Americans' who couldn't see the problem as they consider themselves "coloured"

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Mrmatrix,
why are you bothered whether I review or not?
43 reviews, very good, but all in the south east, so why are you bothered about the north east.
and as I said I do pm people I trust if I have a good result with a masseuse.
Many of the girls tour up and down the UK. Perhaps you'd like to address that comment to those who review in the North East as I suspect many woud agree with me. The reviews are the life blood of the forum.  :hi:

Offline teesmale

As an asian guy I think there are plenty of great escorts who dont have a problem seeing asian men. I can understand your frustrations Dough Boy if you have experienced this but tbh the escorts I have seen such as Jess1000, Sarah, Sasha both formerly of Graciegirls and recently Carmelle of Masquerade. I havent felt discriminated against because of my race or religion.
It seems to me that your only contribution to this  website is to complain about escorts not seeing asian men surely there must be some positive experiences you would like to share with us?

Offline James taylor

Fully agree dough boy. Having lived in Birmingham for a number of years I have a lot of black friends. A few months ago a good friend of mine from Birmingham came up to see me for the weekend, we arranged to a duo with a particular working girl, it was all booked and arranged, there was nothing on her page to suggest that she didn't see black guys.  We parked up and cross the cross to wards the flats they were working out of, she must have seen me and my friend approaching he apartments. We rang the buzzer, she answered the door and said is that a black guy, we replied yes and then she made up some excuse that her boyfriend is black and that he has forbid her to see black guys!!!! I mean can you flipping believe that bullshit. She said I could continue he booking as a solo but I then proceeded to tell her where to go.

I have seen a few girls say that they has bad experiences with some black guys but that ain't all of them, I'm sure they would have had not to pleasant meetings with some white guys, but what are the chances of banning every single white guy.

Not to worry guys, plenty more out there.

Offline happyguy48

I've heard a couple of girls say that and they now prefer british guys or some european guys but none from asian countries and it includes guys born in the uk who are coloured.It is the attitude of these guys and some do 'smell'. They are not racist.Nothing to do with Brexit either so they say.  :hi:

mcgee121

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If you punt in the Far East or Any African country you going to see discrimination against whites.

Prove it.  I highly doubt that.

mcgee121

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Yes there will be the idiot coloured guy who messes around.. but arent there alot of white men who will do the same?

Cant wait to see an escort say "not seeing white men due a bad experience"

A few idiots mess it all up for every other coloured guys

I just think escorts need to see everyone indivually
Look at they feedback
I have good feedback but still get a no!!!

Can someone ask this question on ukescorting?

Coloured is an outmoded term and does have racist overtones.  Aren't white people with a tan coloured too  :D?

Escorts (even some black ones  :thumbsdown:) refuse to see black men mostly.  I think for the following reasons:
1. Some people just don't swirl so escorts that only see men from their race are consistent with that dating preference. 
2. Then you have the big black dick stereotype so some escorts fear the dick (even Becca has it on her profile for some reason  :rolleyes:) so the workshy ones will not want to see black men. 
3. Everything else is racist and code language for racism because only a specific group is refused service.  These bad experiences that they all seem to have with black men could a lot of the time be some gossip and nothing but groupthink.

I'm fine with escorts selecting who they want to see because they must be comfortable to do their jobs to the best of their ability.  These attitudes reflect the wider society so it's not a surprise.  That's why, I always mention my race before seeing an escort.  The only thing that irks me is some of them claiming not to be racist even though they refuse to see a specific group.  That makes no sense at all.

Like BM mentioned earlier in the thread it doesn't matter who they choose to see.  Just move onto the next one.  Never beg or get down on yourself about an escort that refuses to see you for any reason let alone your race which you can't help or change.